[QUOTE="tagyhag"]If you're gonna have sex with 4 guys at the same time, don't do it at a damn party.OyVayIn a just world, you would be banned for this comment. Victim blaming is unacceptable.
She isn't innocent you cretin.
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The Apathetic replies i'm seeing are somewhat disturbing. She should have had thicker skin? Yea real f#cking insightful, I'll be sure to let her know that the solution was as simple as ignoring everything. It's a bit F#cking late for such advice, If such shallow comments could be considered advice. Is sleeping with guys considered a crime now? Last i checked it was a basic human right but i guess OT is just full of judgmental pricks who think she did something wrong and deserved what she got. Suicide is the point you reach not by caring too much but by no longer caring, About anything, Not even about living.
It's easy to say High School doesn't matter when you are no longer in High School but don't pretend like you didn't yourself care when you were.
mattisgod01
So? By that logic talking is a basic human right aswell. That's all those guys did to her.
In a just world, you would be banned for this comment. Victim blaming is unacceptable.[QUOTE="OyVay"][QUOTE="tagyhag"]If you're gonna have sex with 4 guys at the same time, don't do it at a damn party.N30F3N1X
She isn't innocent you cretin.
What is she guilty of?
Trust me dude, I thought I was a sociopath years ago back in high school. The verdict? Anxiety with a pinch of Misanthropia. Other than that I am completely healthy in the mind and body and I can assure you I don't want to kill people, I only want to write books and make music. I'm sorry if the fact people I don't know kill themselves doesn't bother me but guess what, the majority of people don't care. Majority rules doesn't it?
Why do you want to state what you think about me? Do you like me? I know I can be pretty alluring with my casual forum posting but contain yourself! In all seriousness I just find it kind of uncomfortable. Why are you so judgmental about me? Did I offend you in the past?
[QUOTE="mattisgod01"]
The Apathetic replies i'm seeing are somewhat disturbing. She should have had thicker skin? Yea real f#cking insightful, I'll be sure to let her know that the solution was as simple as ignoring everything. It's a bit F#cking late for such advice, If such shallow comments could be considered advice. Is sleeping with guys considered a crime now? Last i checked it was a basic human right but i guess OT is just full of judgmental pricks who think she did something wrong and deserved what she got. Suicide is the point you reach not by caring too much but by no longer caring, About anything, Not even about living.
It's easy to say High School doesn't matter when you are no longer in High School but don't pretend like you didn't yourself care when you were.
N30F3N1X
So? By that logic talking is a basic human right aswell. That's all those guys did to her.
Yes, talking is, But you can abuse your rights. when it becomes harassment and bullying then people need to know the limits of what is acceptable without bordering on the harmful. Bullying is harmful and society should not tolerate it.
In what way did she do anything wrong? Do you believe it is wrong for a girl to sleep with multiple guys?
Explain to me why it is ok for guys to sleep with many girls but when women do the opposite they are victimized? Do you believe it is fair for such a double standard?
Yes, talking is, But you can abuse your rights. when it becomes harassment and bullying then people need to know the limits of what is acceptable without bordering on the harmful. Bullying is harmful and society should not tolerate it.
In what way did she do anything wrong? Do you believe it is wrong for a girl to sleep with multiple guys?
Explain to me why it is ok for guys to sleep with many girls but when women do the opposite they are victimized? Do you believe it is fair for such a double standard?
mattisgod01
It's not a double standard. You must be a ridiculously short sighted person to consider it a double standard. Ever heard of women bullying men to the point of suicide and because of sex? Yeah, didn't think so.
Wrong? No. Nothing is "wrong". But everything has consequences. If you want to act like a slut, then you should expect others to treat you as such.
And lol @ you, you just talked about "abusing your rights" and jump to a conclusion that is completely incoherent with that.
Trust me dude, I thought I was a sociopath years ago back in high school. The verdict? Anxiety with a pinch of Misanthropia. Other than that I am completely healthy in the mind and body and I can assure you I don't want to kill people, I only want to write books and make music. I'm sorry if the fact people I don't know kill themselves doesn't bother me but guess what, the majority of people don't care. Majority rules doesn't it?
Why do you want to state what you think about me? Do you like me? I know I can be pretty alluring with my casual forum posting but contain yourself! In all seriousness I just find it kind of uncomfortable. Why are you so judgmental about me? Did I offend you in the past?
PsychoRedFox666
Majority rule is dangerous, That is why most Democratic nations have Constitutional protection for the minority.
I'm simply responding to your comments as i see them.
[QUOTE="PsychoRedFox666"]
Trust me dude, I thought I was a sociopath years ago back in high school. The verdict? Anxiety with a pinch of Misanthropia. Other than that I am completely healthy in the mind and body and I can assure you I don't want to kill people, I only want to write books and make music. I'm sorry if the fact people I don't know kill themselves doesn't bother me but guess what, the majority of people don't care. Majority rules doesn't it?
Why do you want to state what you think about me? Do you like me? I know I can be pretty alluring with my casual forum posting but contain yourself! In all seriousness I just find it kind of uncomfortable. Why are you so judgmental about me? Did I offend you in the past?
mattisgod01
Majority rule is dangerous, That is why most Democratic nations have Constitutional protection for the minority.
I'm simply responding to your comments as i see them.
Fair enough. Its just a little unfair to pass judgement on random comments I made. If you got to know me then maybe you wouldn't have to paint such an awful picture of me, but your profile is private so I can't PM you. I know I seem crass on here but in real life I really make an effort to be polite and caring to almost everyone I meet.[QUOTE="mattisgod01"]
What is she guilty of?
N30F3N1X
Are you kidding me?
You think f*cking 4 guys at the same time, at a party, without even being halfway through puberty, is something that will simply go unnoticed?
You think Women wearing short skirts in Saudi Arabia will simply go unnoticed? Again, What crime did she commit, What justification and by what basis do you accuse her of doing anything wrong?
You think Women wearing short skirts in Saudi Arabia will simply go unnoticed? Again, What crime did she commit, What justification and by what basis do you accuse her of doing anything wrong?
mattisgod01
Why should I bother answering you if you're not going to read it anyway?
[QUOTE="mattisgod01"]
What is she guilty of?
N30F3N1X
Are you kidding me?
You think f*cking 4 guys at the same time, at a party, without even being halfway through puberty, is something that will simply go unnoticed?
Well yes I would expect it to go unnoticed as it's no ones business.[QUOTE="mattisgod01"]
Yes, talking is, But you can abuse your rights. when it becomes harassment and bullying then people need to know the limits of what is acceptable without bordering on the harmful. Bullying is harmful and society should not tolerate it.
In what way did she do anything wrong? Do you believe it is wrong for a girl to sleep with multiple guys?
Explain to me why it is ok for guys to sleep with many girls but when women do the opposite they are victimized? Do you believe it is fair for such a double standard?
N30F3N1X
It's not a double standard. You must be a ridiculously short sighted person to consider it a double standard. Ever heard of women bullying men to the point of suicide and because of sex? Yeah, didn't think so.
Wrong? No. Nothing is "wrong". But everything has consequences. If you want to act like a slut, then you should expect others to treat you as such.
And lol @ you, you just talked about "abusing your rights" and jump to a conclusion that is completely incoherent with that.
Your first paragraph is confusing me, Are you not highlighting the double standard i refer to?
Why should a girl's sex life have such consequences? Why is it anyone elses business? "Slut" is a derogatory term used to describe women who fail to meet Christian standards of sexual morality. You yourself say she did nothing wrong and yet the very next sentence is a judgmental insult based on her actions.
Lastly, My point was completely coherent. People have the right to say what they want but with rights comes responsibility. I don't agree with the Westboro Babtist Church but i believe they have a right to say what they think. I don't believe we have to like it. We should express our disgust and try to steer people away from similar action and take them and people like them to task when they express such views. I'm not condoning criminalizing the actions of those who verbally abuse others but i do condone the public stigmatization of such things.
[QUOTE="mattisgod01"]
You think Women wearing short skirts in Saudi Arabia will simply go unnoticed? Again, What crime did she commit, What justification and by what basis do you accuse her of doing anything wrong?
N30F3N1X
Why should I bother answering you if you're not going to read it anyway?
I've read everything you've posted, Care to highlight anything i may be neglecting to respond to?
Killing yourself makes you a selfish coward and anyone who cries in your abscence is a fool. Absolutely ZERO sympathy AT ALL.
Also, not impressed with the "look at me about to kill myself" attention whoring tweet. Just do it and STFU.
And, way to go media! Lets make it front page news every time one of these tweens offs themselves! That totally won't make them more interested in doing it!
This part is classic :
"She wouldnt have done it if she wasnt bullied, Alissa Compitello wrote on Twitter. All this girl wanted was to be left alone. And nobody could do that for her.
[QUOTE="mattisgod01"][QUOTE="PsychoRedFox666"]
Trust me dude, I thought I was a sociopath years ago back in high school. The verdict? Anxiety with a pinch of Misanthropia. Other than that I am completely healthy in the mind and body and I can assure you I don't want to kill people, I only want to write books and make music. I'm sorry if the fact people I don't know kill themselves doesn't bother me but guess what, the majority of people don't care. Majority rules doesn't it?
Why do you want to state what you think about me? Do you like me? I know I can be pretty alluring with my casual forum posting but contain yourself! In all seriousness I just find it kind of uncomfortable. Why are you so judgmental about me? Did I offend you in the past?
PsychoRedFox666
Majority rule is dangerous, That is why most Democratic nations have Constitutional protection for the minority.
I'm simply responding to your comments as i see them.
Fair enough. Its just a little unfair to pass judgement on random comments I made. If you got to know me then maybe you wouldn't have to paint such an awful picture of me, but your profile is private so I can't PM you. I know I seem crass on here but in real life I really make an effort to be polite and caring to almost everyone I meet.I'm sure you are, My comments are only in response you your comments as i interpret them. Of course they would not be an accurate basis for an absolute character judgement, Even though i'll accept some of my comments came across as that. I know next to nothing about anyone on this site even though i've been posting here for going on 6 years. All i have to respond to is the comments they post and i am only able to reply to such comments. I usually contain my judgment of a certain user to the specific topic i was talking with them in. Any other topic i see their past comments and views as irrelevant. There is a few users here that i have had enough discussion with over the years to know exactly what to expect from them (I'm sure we all know who they are) But for the most part i find the average person here can come across totally different in different topics.
Killing yourself makes you a selfish coward and anyone who cries in your abscence is a fool. Absolutely ZERO sympathy AT ALL.
Also, not impressed with the "look at me about to kill myself" attention whoring tweet. Just do it and STFU.
Alter_Echo
I'd take you to task but i'm getting tired of this topic, I hope someone else with show you the error of your ways.
Sad to hear a loss of a life of course, but if you're going to have sex with 4 different guys at the same time and expect to get off clean without any harassements or name calling.
Well, lets just say you better have a good set of armor on or at least the patience of a God, because you're gonna get hell in return.
Especially from the jealous women.
[QUOTE="Alter_Echo"]
Killing yourself makes you a selfish coward and anyone who cries in your absence is a fool. Absolutely ZERO sympathy AT ALL.
Also, not impressed with the "look at me about to kill myself" attention whoring tweet. Just do it and STFU.
mattisgod01
I'd take you to task but i'm getting tired of this topic, I hope someone else with show you the error of your ways.
If you have a terminal illness that is going to kill you anyway then maybe. Outside of that, killing yourself makes you a douche imo.
Honestly, plenty of teens kill themselves over things that are no fault of their own, but I I guess some scrawny nerd helium bagging himself after being beaten to a pulp doesn't make a headline like an attractive social networker.Overlord93i'm sure the non-publicised-suiciders are bitter due to this fact as well
[QUOTE="Overlord93"]Honestly, plenty of teens kill themselves over things that are no fault of their own, but I I guess some scrawny nerd helium bagging himself after being beaten to a pulp doesn't make a headline like an attractive social networker.BiancaDKi'm sure the non-publicised-suiciders are bitter due to this fact as well You're right, they don't kill themselves for attention so they probably couldn't care less.
[QUOTE="SteverXIII"]I have a hard time feeling sorry for this girlFMAB_GTOim also with this. i was bullied in my life a LOT,and it was by grown ups,i can say i thought about the idea of suicide....countless times,but never dared to do it,it is just not worth it imo. its not just the fact that she did it (I can understand in some circumstances) but the reason why she did it. She acts like a slag and gets upset when people berate her because of it? What did she expect? And the last tweet she sent was just a final cry for attention.
[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="SteverXIII"]I have a hard time feeling sorry for this girlSteverXIIIim also with this. i was bullied in my life a LOT,and it was by grown ups,i can say i thought about the idea of suicide....countless times,but never dared to do it,it is just not worth it imo. its not just the fact that she did it (I can understand in some circumstances) but the reason why she did it. She acts like a slag and gets upset when people berate her because of it? What did she expect? And the last tweet she sent was just a final cry for attention. so true.... I hope this doesn't become a trend now X_X
Your first paragraph is confusing me, Are you not highlighting the double standard i refer to?
Why should a girl's sex life have such consequences? Why is it anyone elses business? "Slut" is a derogatory term used to describe women who fail to meet Christian standards of sexual morality. You yourself say she did nothing wrong and yet the very next sentence is a judgmental insult based on her actions.
Lastly, My point was completely coherent. People have the right to say what they want but with rights comes responsibility. I don't agree with the Westboro Babtist Church but i believe they have a right to say what they think. I don't believe we have to like it. We should express our disgust and try to steer people away from similar action and take them and people like them to task when they express such views. I'm not condoning criminalizing the actions of those who verbally abuse others but i do condone the public stigmatization of such things.
mattisgod01
I'm highlighting what you're saying and explained why it isn't a double standard. Males and females don't act the same way.
She freaking asked for them. It's "anyone elses business" because word goes around. What she did sent a huge statement about her. Others expected her to do the same.
And don't pull words out of my mouth.
No, your point was coherent as sh!t. Sleeping with whoever you want as in doing 4 guys at a time at a party is definitely pushing your "rights" to the limit of abuse. You said it yourself, you have to know the limits of what is acceptable.
[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="SteverXIII"]I have a hard time feeling sorry for this girlSteverXIIIim also with this. i was bullied in my life a LOT,and it was by grown ups,i can say i thought about the idea of suicide....countless times,but never dared to do it,it is just not worth it imo. its not just the fact that she did it (I can understand in some circumstances) but the reason why she did it. She acts like a slag and gets upset when people berate her because of it? What did she expect? And the last tweet she sent was just a final cry for attention.
Is it ok to bully a nerd for acting like a nerd? Or a gay person for acting gay?
Why is who she sleeps with anyone but her own business? Why does she deserve to be bullied for it?
[QUOTE="toast_burner"]Well yes I would expect it to go unnoticed as it's no ones business.
N30F3N1X
*facepalm*
So who someone sleeps with is your business? What are you getting at?
its not just the fact that she did it (I can understand in some circumstances) but the reason why she did it. She acts like a slag and gets upset when people berate her because of it? What did she expect? And the last tweet she sent was just a final cry for attention.[QUOTE="SteverXIII"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"] im also with this. i was bullied in my life a LOT,and it was by grown ups,i can say i thought about the idea of suicide....countless times,but never dared to do it,it is just not worth it imo.toast_burner
Is it ok to bully a nerd for acting like a nerd? Or a gay person for acting gay?
Why is who she sleeps with anyone but her own business? Why does she deserve to be bullied for it?
everyone is responsible for their actions. i am not saying it is alright to be bullied,but for example if you are so proud to be a gay man in a society that rejects gay people,expect to have problem out of it. again,im not saying it is okay to act like that.[QUOTE="toast_burner"][QUOTE="SteverXIII"] its not just the fact that she did it (I can understand in some circumstances) but the reason why she did it. She acts like a slag and gets upset when people berate her because of it? What did she expect? And the last tweet she sent was just a final cry for attention.FMAB_GTO
Is it ok to bully a nerd for acting like a nerd? Or a gay person for acting gay?
Why is who she sleeps with anyone but her own business? Why does she deserve to be bullied for it?
everyone is responsible for their actions. i am not saying it is alright to be bullied,but for example if you are so proud to be a gay man in a society that rejects gay people,expect to have problem out of it. again,im not saying it is okay to act like that.Then the problem is with society, not her.
everyone is responsible for their actions. i am not saying it is alright to be bullied,but for example if you are so proud to be a gay man in a society that rejects gay people,expect to have problem out of it. again,im not saying it is okay to act like that.[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="toast_burner"]
Is it ok to bully a nerd for acting like a nerd? Or a gay person for acting gay?
Why is who she sleeps with anyone but her own business? Why does she deserve to be bullied for it?
toast_burner
Then the problem is with society, not her.
yes but there is definitely a problem with her,that is not a reason to commit suicide.[QUOTE="toast_burner"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"] everyone is responsible for their actions. i am not saying it is alright to be bullied,but for example if you are so proud to be a gay man in a society that rejects gay people,expect to have problem out of it. again,im not saying it is okay to act like that.FMAB_GTO
Then the problem is with society, not her.
yes but there is definitely a problem with her,that is not a reason to commit suicide.So? People with problems are supposed to get help, not get bullied.yes but there is definitely a problem with her,that is not a reason to commit suicide.So? People with problems are supposed to get help, not get bullied. yes but also people with problems should face and endure (and try to solve) and not commit suicide.[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="toast_burner"]
Then the problem is with society, not her.
toast_burner
[QUOTE="toast_burner"]So? People with problems are supposed to get help, not get bullied. yes but also people with problems should face and endure (and try to solve) and not commit suicide.Being suicidal is the problem. Depression isn't something you can just turn off.[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"] yes but there is definitely a problem with her,that is not a reason to commit suicide.FMAB_GTO
yes but also people with problems should face and endure (and try to solve) and not commit suicide.Being suicidal is the problem. Depression isn't something you can just turn off. indeed.[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="toast_burner"]So? People with problems are supposed to get help, not get bullied.
toast_burner
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