Are you single??

Nice GF, she fills a lot of holes in my life. You single losers need to get with someone.......Kevlar101

[QUOTE="Kevlar101"]Nice GF, she fills a lot of holes in my life. You single losers need to get with someone.......Allicrombie

No. I like the relationship I'm in.

I don't know what to think to be honest....GazaAli

I've seen you in a suit with a cigarette. I think you have a lot of suitors.

Yes and the reason why is really social anxiety and having no idea how to approach the idea of going out with people. I really would rather not get into the whole thing on OT but if by the somehow chance you care to hear the whole thing I would be more than willing to type it out in a PM.

Yes and the reason why is really social anxiety and having no idea how to approach the idea of going out with people. I really would rather not get into the whole thing on OT but if by the somehow chance you care to hear the whole thing I would be more than willing to type it out in a PM.

CHOASXIII

I care.....

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

Yes and the reason why is really social anxiety and having no idea how to approach the idea of going out with people. I really would rather not get into the whole thing on OT but if by the somehow chance you care to hear the whole thing I would be more than willing to type it out in a PM.

jerk-o-tron2000

I care.....

Response time may vary from 24 to 48 hours but in reality may be between 5 minutes and 6 hours.

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

Yes and the reason why is really social anxiety and having no idea how to approach the idea of going out with people. I really would rather not get into the whole thing on OT but if by the somehow chance you care to hear the whole thing I would be more than willing to type it out in a PM.

jerk-o-tron2000

I care.....

[QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

Yes and the reason why is really social anxiety and having no idea how to approach the idea of going out with people. I really would rather not get into the whole thing on OT but if by the somehow chance you care to hear the whole thing I would be more than willing to type it out in a PM.

Kevlar101

I care.....

Well like I said it's not something I'm gonna discuss right out on the forums mostly because I don't want to flood the forums with overwhelming stupidity and sadness.

[QUOTE="Kevlar101"][QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]

I care.....

CHOASXIII

Well like I said it's not something I'm gonna discuss right out on the forums mostly because I don't want to flood the forums with overwhelming stupidity and sadness.

Meh, sadness and stupidity is the foundation of the internet....But your decision's respected.

[QUOTE="Kevlar101"][QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]

I care.....

CHOASXIII

Well like I said it's not something I'm gonna discuss right out on the forums mostly because I don't want to flood the forums with overwhelming stupidity and sadness.

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="Kevlar101"] I care too, I lime to help people with their problems.Allicrombie

Well like I said it's not something I'm gonna discuss right out on the forums mostly because I don't want to flood the forums with overwhelming stupidity and sadness.

Well if people really want to discuss it then ask away.

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="Kevlar101"] I care too, I lime to help people with their problems.jerk-o-tron2000

Well like I said it's not something I'm gonna discuss right out on the forums mostly because I don't want to flood the forums with overwhelming stupidity and sadness.

Meh, sadness and stupidity is the foundation of the internet....But your decision's respected.

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="Kevlar101"] I care too, I lime to help people with their problems.jerk-o-tron2000

Well like I said it's not something I'm gonna discuss right out on the forums mostly because I don't want to flood the forums with overwhelming stupidity and sadness.

Meh, sadness and stupidity is the foundation of the internet....But your decision's respected.

If you really care you can ask whatever you want I guess.

Just didn't want to bore people.

Not to be a Hannibal Lector here, but, what made you type this question out essentially in public as if you were expecting an intelligent answer?

Why did you ask this question in the first place?

[QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

Well like I said it's not something I'm gonna discuss right out on the forums mostly because I don't want to flood the forums with overwhelming stupidity and sadness.

CHOASXIII

Meh, sadness and stupidity is the foundation of the internet....But your decision's respected.

If you really care you can ask whatever you want I guess.

Just didn't want to bore people.

You won't bore me.....Care to start?

Not to be a Hannibal Lector here, but, what made you type this question out essentially in public as if you were expecting an intelligent answer?

Why did you ask this question in the first place?

lo_Pine

Oh lawd you already bit my face off with that question.

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]

Meh, sadness and stupidity is the foundation of the internet....But your decision's respected.

jerk-o-tron2000

If you really care you can ask whatever you want I guess.

Just didn't want to bore people.

You won't bore me.....Care to start?

Alright. Basically most of the problem I have stems from social anxiety which I have had for years which keeps me from really making friends with that many people. So in turn with the lack of experience with being that good with making friends I also have zero idea how to approach someone to ask them out and I completely do not understand how to get into a relationship with someone. Because of that I mostly stay to myself even if (by some chance) which rarely happens that I see a girl that I would want to ask out because I have zero idea how to do it. Also there is the fact that I currently don't have a job and I can't seem to get one that lasts more than 3 months so that doesn't help much for morale with the little bit of confidence I try to muster up so that I can at least talk to people I don't know sometimes but yeah...time to take a breath so you can read.

[QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

Well like I said it's not something I'm gonna discuss right out on the forums mostly because I don't want to flood the forums with overwhelming stupidity and sadness.

CHOASXIII

Meh, sadness and stupidity is the foundation of the internet....But your decision's respected.

If you really care you can ask whatever you want I guess.

Just didn't want to bore people.

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]

Meh, sadness and stupidity is the foundation of the internet....But your decision's respected.

Kevlar101

If you really care you can ask whatever you want I guess.

Just didn't want to bore people.

Sadly most of the people that I meet that really are accepting are online and sadly won't get to meet most of them.

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]

Meh, sadness and stupidity is the foundation of the internet....But your decision's respected.

Kevlar101

If you really care you can ask whatever you want I guess.

Just didn't want to bore people.

[QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

If you really care you can ask whatever you want I guess.

Just didn't want to bore people.

CHOASXIII

You won't bore me.....Care to start?

Alright. Basically most of the problem I have stems from social anxiety which I have had for years which keeps me from really making friends with that many people. So in turn with the lack of experience with being that good with making friends I also have zero idea how to approach someone to ask them out and I completely do not understand how to get into a relationship with someone. Because of that I mostly stay to myself even if (by some chance) which rarely happens that I see a girl that I would want to ask out because I have zero idea how to do it. Also there is the fact that I currently don't have a job and I can't seem to get one that lasts more than 3 months so that doesn't help much for morale with the little bit of confidence I try to muster up so that I can at least talk to people I don't know sometimes but yeah...time to take a breath so you can read.

Go on.

[QUOTE="Kevlar101"][QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

If you really care you can ask whatever you want I guess.

Just didn't want to bore people.

CHOASXIII

Sadly most of the people that I meet that really are accepting are online and sadly won't get to meet most of them.

[QUOTE="Kevlar101"][QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

If you really care you can ask whatever you want I guess.

Just didn't want to bore people.

Kevlar101

I'm 22. :/

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]

You won't bore me.....Care to start?

jerk-o-tron2000

Alright. Basically most of the problem I have stems from social anxiety which I have had for years which keeps me from really making friends with that many people. So in turn with the lack of experience with being that good with making friends I also have zero idea how to approach someone to ask them out and I completely do not understand how to get into a relationship with someone. Because of that I mostly stay to myself even if (by some chance) which rarely happens that I see a girl that I would want to ask out because I have zero idea how to do it. Also there is the fact that I currently don't have a job and I can't seem to get one that lasts more than 3 months so that doesn't help much for morale with the little bit of confidence I try to muster up so that I can at least talk to people I don't know sometimes but yeah...time to take a breath so you can read.

Go on.

Well there isn't much more to go on about but I will finish. Basically I have no real social skills and I constantly almost lose my composure when going places if I have to be around people for long periods of time or start talking to people. When I talk to people I feel stupid the whole time I talk to them because I am wondering how stupid what I am saying sounds so I just want to go walk away and just sit somewhere quiet. Meh anyways, question time.

[QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

If you really care you can ask whatever you want I guess.

Just didn't want to bore people.

CHOASXIII

You won't bore me.....Care to start?

Alright. Basically most of the problem I have stems from social anxiety which I have had for years which keeps me from really making friends with that many people. So in turn with the lack of experience with being that good with making friends I also have zero idea how to approach someone to ask them out and I completely do not understand how to get into a relationship with someone. Because of that I mostly stay to myself even if (by some chance) which rarely happens that I see a girl that I would want to ask out because I have zero idea how to do it. Also there is the fact that I currently don't have a job and I can't seem to get one that lasts more than 3 months so that doesn't help much for morale with the little bit of confidence I try to muster up so that I can at least talk to people I don't know sometimes but yeah...time to take a breath so you can read.

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="Kevlar101"] Look, I used to be anti-social. It was hard. it was rough. But, you eventually learn to get rid of that social anxiety by interacting with a person who does not dislike you for being a bit anti-social. Thats the main reason Anti-social people stay anti-social, because no one accepts them. For me, the person who helped me was my GF, she helped me to get rid of all that social anxiety I had. I am a more social person as a result. Look, find a sweet, caring girl who is not like the rest, who will not shoot you down like a b!tch and treat you like dirt for saying the wrong thing up front, who loves for personality, not because of money......... if you are a girl (sorry if im making any gender mistakes), then find a sweet, caring guy, and you can go from there and become more social and overcome your social anxiety.Kevlar101

Sadly most of the people that I meet that really are accepting are online and sadly won't get to meet most of them.

Why not.

[QUOTE="Kevlar101"][QUOTE="Kevlar101"] Look, I used to be anti-social. It was hard. it was rough. But, you eventually learn to get rid of that social anxiety by interacting with a person who does not dislike you for being a bit anti-social. Thats the main reason Anti-social people stay anti-social, because no one accepts them. For me, the person who helped me was my GF, she helped me to get rid of all that social anxiety I had. I am a more social person as a result. Look, find a sweet, caring girl who is not like the rest, who will not shoot you down like a b!tch and treat you like dirt for saying the wrong thing up front, who loves for personality, not because of money......... if you are a girl (sorry if im making any gender mistakes), then find a sweet, caring guy, and you can go from there and become more social and overcome your social anxiety.CHOASXIII

I'm 22. :/

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]

You won't bore me.....Care to start?

ghoklebutter

Alright. Basically most of the problem I have stems from social anxiety which I have had for years which keeps me from really making friends with that many people. So in turn with the lack of experience with being that good with making friends I also have zero idea how to approach someone to ask them out and I completely do not understand how to get into a relationship with someone. Because of that I mostly stay to myself even if (by some chance) which rarely happens that I see a girl that I would want to ask out because I have zero idea how to do it. Also there is the fact that I currently don't have a job and I can't seem to get one that lasts more than 3 months so that doesn't help much for morale with the little bit of confidence I try to muster up so that I can at least talk to people I don't know sometimes but yeah...time to take a breath so you can read.

I have been getting a bit of help from a friend that has the same problem and I have been trying to help that person some also.

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="Kevlar101"] It will be hard finding the right person for that, but if you are lucky, like me and others like me, it will work. How old are you anyway?Kevlar101

I'm 22. :/

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="Kevlar101"] It will be hard finding the right person for that, but if you are lucky, like me and others like me, it will work. How old are you anyway?Kevlar101

I'm 22. :/

I take advice serious from people at any age but I wasn't really stating anything either way about a long distance relationship.

I have been getting a bit of help from a friend that has the same problem and I have been trying to help that person some also.

CHOASXIII

[QUOTE="Kevlar101"][QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

I'm 22. :/

ghoklebutter

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

I have been getting a bit of help from a friend that has the same problem and I have been trying to help that person some also.

ghoklebutter

Well I discuss a problem I have and the person tries to explain what they think might help and I try it and it might or might not work but the advice is always good. I do the same for that person back.

[QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

Alright. Basically most of the problem I have stems from social anxiety which I have had for years which keeps me from really making friends with that many people. So in turn with the lack of experience with being that good with making friends I also have zero idea how to approach someone to ask them out and I completely do not understand how to get into a relationship with someone. Because of that I mostly stay to myself even if (by some chance) which rarely happens that I see a girl that I would want to ask out because I have zero idea how to do it. Also there is the fact that I currently don't have a job and I can't seem to get one that lasts more than 3 months so that doesn't help much for morale with the little bit of confidence I try to muster up so that I can at least talk to people I don't know sometimes but yeah...time to take a breath so you can read.

CHOASXIII

Go on.

Well there isn't much more to go on about but I will finish. Basically I have no real social skills and I constantly almost lose my composure when going places if I have to be around people for long periods of time or start talking to people. When I talk to people I feel stupid the whole time I talk to them because I am wondering how stupid what I am saying sounds so I just want to go walk away and just sit somewhere quiet. Meh anyways, question time.

Sorry...Just wanted to see if there was any more so I could organize my thoughts.

[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"][QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

Alright. Basically most of the problem I have stems from social anxiety which I have had for years which keeps me from really making friends with that many people. So in turn with the lack of experience with being that good with making friends I also have zero idea how to approach someone to ask them out and I completely do not understand how to get into a relationship with someone. Because of that I mostly stay to myself even if (by some chance) which rarely happens that I see a girl that I would want to ask out because I have zero idea how to do it. Also there is the fact that I currently don't have a job and I can't seem to get one that lasts more than 3 months so that doesn't help much for morale with the little bit of confidence I try to muster up so that I can at least talk to people I don't know sometimes but yeah...time to take a breath so you can read.

CHOASXIII

I have been getting a bit of help from a friend that has the same problem and I have been trying to help that person some also.

[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"][QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

I have been getting a bit of help from a friend that has the same problem and I have been trying to help that person some also.

CHOASXIII

Well I discuss a problem I have and the person tries to explain what they think might help and I try it and it might or might not work but the advice is always good. I do the same for that person back.

Yes

It's not bad.

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"] How has this person tried to help you? I'm curious.Kevlar101

Well I discuss a problem I have and the person tries to explain what they think might help and I try it and it might or might not work but the advice is always good. I do the same for that person back.

Alright then. G'night

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]

Go on.

jerk-o-tron2000

Well there isn't much more to go on about but I will finish. Basically I have no real social skills and I constantly almost lose my composure when going places if I have to be around people for long periods of time or start talking to people. When I talk to people I feel stupid the whole time I talk to them because I am wondering how stupid what I am saying sounds so I just want to go walk away and just sit somewhere quiet. Meh anyways, question time.

Sorry...Just wanted to see if there was any more so I could organize my thoughts.

That's all I swear.

[QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

If you really care you can ask whatever you want I guess.

Just didn't want to bore people.

CHOASXIII

You won't bore me.....Care to start?

Alright. Basically most of the problem I have stems from social anxiety which I have had for years which keeps me from really making friends with that many people. So in turn with the lack of experience with being that good with making friends I also have zero idea how to approach someone to ask them out and I completely do not understand how to get into a relationship with someone. Because of that I mostly stay to myself even if (by some chance) which rarely happens that I see a girl that I would want to ask out because I have zero idea how to do it. Also there is the fact that I currently don't have a job and I can't seem to get one that lasts more than 3 months so that doesn't help much for morale with the little bit of confidence I try to muster up so that I can at least talk to people I don't know sometimes but yeah...time to take a breath so you can read.

Lets see..... I Apologize if I took long....I nodded off for a second. I also apologize if it seems like I'm rambling, still kinda dazed.

Social Anxiety's a b!tch to deal with... But you did say you were receiving help from a friend who had a similar problem.....That's a good start.

I would suggest that you start on familiar ground and attempt to hold long conversations with people you know well (Family members whose company you actually enjoy, Close friends) Then move on up to acquaintances. Try to bring up conversations that you would with your close relatives. Communication is a key factor in building relationships. So it's kinda vital to learn how to talk to people.

I'm gonna piss off and sleep on this. I'll be able to think more clearly after I gets gome sleep. If you want to, we can continue this via PM....

Just one question......Are you currently attending college?

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="jerk-o-tron2000"]

You won't bore me.....Care to start?

jerk-o-tron2000

Alright. Basically most of the problem I have stems from social anxiety which I have had for years which keeps me from really making friends with that many people. So in turn with the lack of experience with being that good with making friends I also have zero idea how to approach someone to ask them out and I completely do not understand how to get into a relationship with someone. Because of that I mostly stay to myself even if (by some chance) which rarely happens that I see a girl that I would want to ask out because I have zero idea how to do it. Also there is the fact that I currently don't have a job and I can't seem to get one that lasts more than 3 months so that doesn't help much for morale with the little bit of confidence I try to muster up so that I can at least talk to people I don't know sometimes but yeah...time to take a breath so you can read.

Lets see..... I Apologize if I took long....I nodded off for a second. I also apologize if it seems like I'm rambling, still kinda dazed.

Social Anxiety's a b!tch to deal with... But you did say you were receiving help from a friend who had a similar problem.....That's a good start.

I would suggest that you start on familiar ground and attempt to hold long conversations with people you know well (Family members whose company you actually enjoy, Close friends) Then move on up to acquaintances. Try to bring up conversations that you would with your close relatives. Communication is a key factor in building relationships. So it's kinda vital to learn how to talk to people.

I'm gonna piss off and sleep on this. I'll be able to think more clearly after I gets gome sleep. If you want to, we can continue this via PM....

Just one question......Are you currently attending college?

No, I haven't been in college since 2010. Yeah we can continue in PM, just message me whenever you get a chance and I'll reply when I get on cause I'm gonna go to bed myself in a few minutes.

Yes. Now isn't the time for srs bznz