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#201 tofu-lion91
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Yes, yes I am. Mostly because I'm bipolar so it's very difficult to maintain any type of relationship whatsoever, as any that I form when I'm feeling good is eventually destroyed when I hit my low. I'm sure people think I'm a bit psychotic, and girls don't seem to dig on this.MirkoS77
You just have to find the right girl :) I went out with a lad for 2 years who was bipolar and I just learnt to deal with it, take the good when it came and left him alone when he shut himself away from the world. Don't lose all hope for the future!
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#202 Chevolutionary
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I take beer with me when I go for a sh*t, take a guess.

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#203 immortality20
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I'm single, because of the world zombie war.

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#204 mindstorm
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[QUOTE="mindstorm"][QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

Isn't that like a Jedi losing their lightsaber?

LikeHaterade

At this point in my life I was a lot more self-righteous, had little understanding of my need for God's grace, and despite the fact that I was in school studying to become a pastor, I am not sure I was what is to be called a "born-again Christian." I accepted Christianity as true before this time. However, the gospel had not changed me until after the break up.

I understand your motive in ending your relationship because you felt you loved her more than you loved Jesus, but how can you ultimately determine it won't happen again in future, and potentially, while you're in a more serious relationship? You cannot help the way you feel, and if it were to occur again, would you make the same decision if you were in a more long-term relationship with a woman or if you had children? Hypothetical of coarse. :P

The level of commitment very much determines the way in which I would address the issue. For example, I dated one girl for about a week. Within this rather short relationship I made my priorities, intentions, and boundaries explicitly clear. One such boundary was but unless we were in approximately the same place spiritually then I could not make the relationship but so serious. My priority within the relationship was for her to grow to become more faithful to Christ. She claimed the same beliefs as me, she just did not have her life line up with those beliefs, and she claimed that was happy to have me help her. However, despite the fact that she professed her love for me not 4 days after our first date, she quickly left. Despite the fact that she was a bit loopy, I remained faithful to both her and to Jesus during this time (despite her quite aggressively desiring other things). If, however, I was in a more committed relationship such as marriage, my being faithful to God first and foremost would express itself in my faithfulness to my wife. Regardless of where she ended up being spiritually, it would be my explicit duty as a husband to be faithful to her and love her even when she was not being lovely. This would be me being faithful to Jesus. Then in the case of marriage, how was my relationship then different to how I desire it to be within marriage? Honestly, a lot of it deals with my intentions at the time. In the past the loved I professed for this girl was a selfish love - a loved based upon what I myself received from it. Because of how she made me feel emotionally, I put forth the action of being lovely to her. Basically, if I made her happy, I would be happy. As this was my priority I compromised over God's law, over my own standards, and over what future I believed God was calling me into. I was not honoring God nor was I truly honoring her. If I had sought to please God more than me seeking to please myself or her, I never would have compromised morally and never would I have been so willing to give up godly things (I considered giving up the ministry altogether). I'm not sure what the outcome would have been. It might be that she would grow in Christ. We might have ended up together to this day. Perhaps she would have just run away sooner. Regardless of what could have been, I did not honor God, I did not honor her, nor did I even honor myself.
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#205 Adversary16
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Seeing lots of people here having said Yes. Now, I don't know if you're lying or what... I'm single too. Would have thought more would have been in a relationship. Also, I'm ugly. :|
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#206 MrPraline
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Seeing lots of people here having said Yes. Now, I don't know if you're lying or what... I'm single too. Would have thought more would have been in a relationship. Also, I'm ugly. :|Adversary16
Most people here are in their early 20s, good time to be single.
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#207 -Water-Wings-
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No. Its good almost up to our one year aniversary. We plan to go camping trip because its what we were doing when we started dating.

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#208 michael_1234576
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Yeah I'm not very good at relationships
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#209 shadowkiller11
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[QUOTE="Adversary16"]Seeing lots of people here having said Yes. Now, I don't know if you're lying or what... I'm single too. Would have thought more would have been in a relationship. Also, I'm ugly. :|MrPraline
Most people here are in their early 20s, good time to be single.

Most people I know play the field, one night stands, short relationship sort of mentality. I'm not really like that. I'm single at the moment and it's getting quite boring but at the same time I know I should just try harder which is why I don't constantly moan or be depressing about it.
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#210 kingkong0124
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Most people I know play the field, one night stands, short relationship sort of mentality. I'm not really like that.shadowkiller11
good man.
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#211 deactivated-5d1cb98d088e5
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Yes I'm single, for how long I do not know. Let's just say that ever since I started going to college and getting out more I'm finding that I'm a lot more attractive and desired then I used to think I was.

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#212 MirkoS77
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[QUOTE="MirkoS77"]Yes, yes I am. Mostly because I'm bipolar so it's very difficult to maintain any type of relationship whatsoever, as any that I form when I'm feeling good is eventually destroyed when I hit my low. I'm sure people think I'm a bit psychotic, and girls don't seem to dig on this.tofu-lion91
You just have to find the right girl :) I went out with a lad for 2 years who was bipolar and I just learnt to deal with it, take the good when it came and left him alone when he shut himself away from the world. Don't lose all hope for the future!

Thanks :)

I think I scare girls honestly. :? There ARE some that are interested, y'know....the caretaker types who want to make everything better which have tried to be there when I'm down, but as you seem to know....I shut myself out completely from everyone. The problem's not on their end, and I can't blame them for leaving. I try to be up when down but it's impossible and my behavior is completely unpredictable.

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#213 Lord_Omikron666
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Been single all my life and have no interest changing it.

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#214 kriggy
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Nope, and she's awesome.

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#215 Miroku32
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Yes. Why?; because I'm not interested in girlfriends yet.
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#216 BiancaDK
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Yes. Why?; because I'm not interested in girlfriends yet. Miroku32
and here i was thinking it was because of your horrible personal hygiene
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#217 Zensword
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Yes, beacase I can't find a gf. No girls like me :(
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#218 champion837
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[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"][QUOTE="soulless4now"][QUOTE="ghoklebutter"] Kringle

Jingle.

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#219 MrPraline
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yes
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#220 sethman410
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Yes, because the world is full of whores. 80% of men cheat on their spouse and 70% of women cheat on their spouse. I'm really nitpicking in the sea. Gotta be careful, been single for 7 years now.
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#221 chrisrooR
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I'm not in a relationship, per say. But I am seeing this girl...and it's pretty much a relationship minus the label. It's going great! She's one of the nicer, more interesting/attractive girls I've been with. I was single for the majority of my life though, and was happy then too!
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#222 Wilfred_Owen
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[QUOTE="chrisrooR"]I'm not in a relationship, per say. But I am seeing this girl...and it's pretty much a relationship minus the label. It's going great! She's one of the nicer, more interesting/attractive girls I've been with. I was single for the majority of my life though, and was happy then too!

An immediately after reading this I decided to do this.
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#223 lo_Pine
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Yes, because I can't afford a relationship right now. I have already spent my credit on myself, for what its worth.

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#224 Ilovegames1992
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Yes. A wedding reception is not a place you want to be when you're single.

I watched their first dance and i wanted to get married straight away. :)

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#225 mccoyca112
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No, I have been dating my hand for almost six months strong now.

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#226 ratchet200
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Yes and it kinda sucks. Everyone at my work (except one guy) has a girlfriend/wife so it's crap feeling like the only one without a girlfriend.

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#227 ratchet200
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Yes and it kinda sucks. Everyone at my work (except one guy) has a girlfriend/wife so it's crap feeling like the only one without a girlfriend.

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#228 Chris_Williams
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nope

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#229 Dogswithguns
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I am now...
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#231 deactivated-58061ea11c905
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Yes and I will probably be single till the day that I will be dead because I don't see my condition changing. I just suck at communicating with girls and I just can't get the kind of girls I want to show interest in me and honestly, I don't see that condition changing.

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#232 CHOASXIII
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Yes and I will probably be single till the day that I will be dead because I don't see my condition changing. I just suck at communicating with girls and I just can't get the kind of girls I want to show interest in me and honestly, I don't see that condition changing.

pariah3

Yeah I get what you mean. I never ever meet girls for the most part that I would ever want to ask out and if I ever do they are always taken or something. I kind of doubt that I will ever find a girlfriend.

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#233 Sunsha
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I rarely stop by here and I find it funny that every time this topic has been rehashed yet again. No, I am not single.
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#234 mitu123
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Yes and I will probably be single till the day that I will be dead because I don't see my condition changing. I just suck at communicating with girls and I just can't get the kind of girls I want to show interest in me and honestly, I don't see that condition changing.

pariah3

But they aren't impossible to talk to!

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#235 mlbslugger86
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I've been single for about month and a half , now all I got is lots of liquor and my iPad to fill in
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#236 mlbslugger86
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I've been single for about month and a half , now all I got is lots of liquor and my iPad to fill in
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#237 RadecSupreme
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Yes I am. Although i've been talking a lot with a friend of mine and we connect. Not sure if i'll go for it though. Perhaps if there is a strong mutual interest.

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#238 askjhgsdilakhg
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Nope, been with my girl for three years now. Living together for 1.5 years. Not going to lie, there have been some ups and downs, but i would honestly not trade it for anything. I have my best friend always there and can get sexy times whenever i want. We went to the same college, with me graduating last semester and her graduating next semester. Things are looking good.
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#239 askjhgsdilakhg
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Nope, been with my girl for three years now. Living together for 1.5 years. Not going to lie, there have been some ups and downs, but i would honestly not trade it for anything. I have my best friend always there and can get sexy times whenever i want. We went to the same college, with me graduating last semester and her graduating next semester. Things are looking good.
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#240 ThisIsTwoFace
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[QUOTE="pariah3"]

Yes and I will probably be single till the day that I will be dead because I don't see my condition changing. I just suck at communicating with girls and I just can't get the kind of girls I want to show interest in me and honestly, I don't see that condition changing.

CHOASXIII

Yeah I get what you mean. I never ever meet girls for the most part that I would ever want to ask out and if I ever do they are always taken or something. I kind of doubt that I will ever find a girlfriend.

This type of talk is so boring to see. Theres no point in doubting yourself.

If you don't meet girls then put yourself out there, you will never know until you try. Alot of men nowadays seem to have this mentality that every single time Females will come to them. Since when has the womb ever made the first move to the Sperm? NEVER.

Whats the worst that a female can do to you if you approach her? The worst she can do is say no. Stay away from Porn as that will do nothing but change your mentality and view on females.

Now ima just say the cliche stuff : CONFIDENCE. Also make yourself a person that people just generally want to be around, be positive all the time, be happy. Noone likes being around someone whos always negative. If you make a girl happy she will always be around you.

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#241 CHOASXIII
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[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="pariah3"]

Yes and I will probably be single till the day that I will be dead because I don't see my condition changing. I just suck at communicating with girls and I just can't get the kind of girls I want to show interest in me and honestly, I don't see that condition changing.

ThisIsTwoFace

Yeah I get what you mean. I never ever meet girls for the most part that I would ever want to ask out and if I ever do they are always taken or something. I kind of doubt that I will ever find a girlfriend.

This type of talk is so boring to see. Theres no point in doubting yourself.

If you don't meet girls then put yourself out there, you will never know until you try. Alot of men nowadays seem to have this mentality that every single time Females will come to them. Since when has the womb ever made the first move to the Sperm? NEVER.

Whats the worst that a female can do to you if you approach her? The worst she can do is say no. Stay away from Porn as that will do nothing but change your mentality and view on females.

Now ima just say the cliche stuff : CONFIDENCE. Also make yourself a person that people just generally want to be around, be positive all the time, be happy. Noone likes being around someone whos always negative. If you make a girl happy she will always be around you.

I don't get what I am supposed to do. Am I supposed to walk up to some girl looking in a store and just go, "Hey, will you go out with me?". I just really have no idea where I am supposed to meet these girls to approach.

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#242 ThisIsTwoFace
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[QUOTE="ThisIsTwoFace"]

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

Yeah I get what you mean. I never ever meet girls for the most part that I would ever want to ask out and if I ever do they are always taken or something. I kind of doubt that I will ever find a girlfriend.

CHOASXIII

This type of talk is so boring to see. Theres no point in doubting yourself.

If you don't meet girls then put yourself out there, you will never know until you try. Alot of men nowadays seem to have this mentality that every single time Females will come to them. Since when has the womb ever made the first move to the Sperm? NEVER.

Whats the worst that a female can do to you if you approach her? The worst she can do is say no. Stay away from Porn as that will do nothing but change your mentality and view on females.

Now ima just say the cliche stuff : CONFIDENCE. Also make yourself a person that people just generally want to be around, be positive all the time, be happy. Noone likes being around someone whos always negative. If you make a girl happy she will always be around you.

I don't get what I am supposed to do. Am I supposed to walk up to some girl looking in a store and just go, "Hey, will you go out with me?". I just really have no idea where I am supposed to meet these girls to approach.

Well if you're still in university then talk to a girl that you know.. get her interest. Getting a girl to like you could take a month at the shortest. Be sure that she likes you. Be confident.

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#243 CHOASXIII
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[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="ThisIsTwoFace"]

This type of talk is so boring to see. Theres no point in doubting yourself.

If you don't meet girls then put yourself out there, you will never know until you try. Alot of men nowadays seem to have this mentality that every single time Females will come to them. Since when has the womb ever made the first move to the Sperm? NEVER.

Whats the worst that a female can do to you if you approach her? The worst she can do is say no. Stay away from Porn as that will do nothing but change your mentality and view on females.

Now ima just say the cliche stuff : CONFIDENCE. Also make yourself a person that people just generally want to be around, be positive all the time, be happy. Noone likes being around someone whos always negative. If you make a girl happy she will always be around you.

ThisIsTwoFace

I don't get what I am supposed to do. Am I supposed to walk up to some girl looking in a store and just go, "Hey, will you go out with me?". I just really have no idea where I am supposed to meet these girls to approach.

Well if you're still in university then talk to a girl that you know.. get her interest. Getting a girl to like you could take a month at the shortest. Be sure that she likes you. Be confident.

I haven't been in college for 2 years so that's not gonna work lol.

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#244 destinhpark
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I am single. It's weird because my mind is debating on whether I want something serious or just to mess around with girls for a while. I keep thinking yeah, casual hook ups are fun but I kind of really want to meet a true love too. Blah. It sucks.

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#245 aaronmullan
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Yes and it's mediocre.
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#247 ThisIsTwoFace
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[QUOTE="ThisIsTwoFace"]

[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

I don't get what I am supposed to do. Am I supposed to walk up to some girl looking in a store and just go, "Hey, will you go out with me?". I just really have no idea where I am supposed to meet these girls to approach.

CHOASXIII

Well if you're still in university then talk to a girl that you know.. get her interest. Getting a girl to like you could take a month at the shortest. Be sure that she likes you. Be confident.

I haven't been in college for 2 years so that's not gonna work lol.

Well how do most men get hooked with another girl? You put yourself out there. Meet some females that work or meet a lady somewhere, they wont come to you.

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#248 CHOASXIII
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[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="ThisIsTwoFace"]

Well if you're still in university then talk to a girl that you know.. get her interest. Getting a girl to like you could take a month at the shortest. Be sure that she likes you. Be confident.

ThisIsTwoFace

I haven't been in college for 2 years so that's not gonna work lol.

Well how do most men get hooked with another girl? You put yourself out there. Meet some females that work or meet a lady somewhere, they wont come to you.

I just really don't know where or how to meet women or anything.

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#249 Bucked20
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Im single as a dollar bill,I hate when females say that
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#250 BiancaDK
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Be confident.

ThisIsTwoFace
your advice strikes me as, well, ridiculous "be confident"? that's a real pearl right there i terms of personal development issues