JUST became single after 1 year and 8 month of being in a relationship :?But as much as i know it sucks, i've been in this position before and i still acknowledge that im only 21, so i'm coping pretty well. so far that is.
I broke it off with my gf of 2 years a month or so ago. About a year back I realized that I was going to have to do it because she's CRAZY and very clingy. I feel like a POS admitting this but the only reason I stayed with her for so long was she bought me stuff.
It's all for the best though. I'm moving to another state in October to start mortuary college. It's an associate degree compressed into a single year, so I will be very busy. I miss the sex sometimes but that's about it.
Alright. Basically most of the problem I have stems from social anxiety which I have had for years which keeps me from really making friends with that many people. So in turn with the lack of experience with being that good with making friends I also have zero idea how to approach someone to ask them out and I completely do not understand how to get into a relationship with someone. Because of that I mostly stay to myself even if (by some chance) which rarely happens that I see a girl that I would want to ask out because I have zero idea how to do it. Also there is the fact that I currently don't have a job and I can't seem to get one that lasts more than 3 months so that doesn't help much for morale with the little bit of confidence I try to muster up so that I can at least talk to people I don't know sometimes but yeah...time to take a breath so you can read.
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Well there isn't much more to go on about but I will finish. Basically I have no real social skills and I constantly almost lose my composure when going places if I have to be around people for long periods of time or start talking to people. When I talk to people I feel stupid the whole time I talk to them because I am wondering how stupid what I am saying sounds so I just want to go walk away and just sit somewhere quiet. Meh anyways, question time.
I'd say I'm in a similar boat your on, only my social issues come from my experience during my entire time in HS. If I must go through the same hell of trying to find and make friends (I got burned plenty of times during my school years...), maintain a relationship with a girl (Nag nag nag and more nagging and never agreeing with each other half the time. After my last relationship, if I'd known how much of a waste of time it all would have been in the first place, I would have stayed single all those years since I hate seeing time go to waste in this only life of mine.. fvcking hate to hear that saying "Better to have tried than to have never tried at all". from people) and other mundane crap that comes along with trying to be social, I'd rather stay anti-social if I can avoid the unnecessary arguing and fighting that I've always hate so much..... I can talk if I need to without getting nervous, I just haven't really been a fan of small talk. Pretty much as quiet as a church mouse around strangers or people I barely know in the same room as me....
[QUOTE="codymcclain14"][QUOTE="Michael0134567"][QUOTE="codymcclain14"] ;) Go away :P. Okay, I have a girlfriend to go to. :P That's not what I meant :P.But yeah,go ahead lol.
[QUOTE="Michael0134567"][QUOTE="codymcclain14"][QUOTE="Michael0134567"] Go away :P. Okay, I have a girlfriend to go to. :P That's not what I meant :P.But yeah,go ahead lol. I just thought I'd remind you one last time. :P
[QUOTE="codymcclain14"][QUOTE="Michael0134567"][QUOTE="codymcclain14"] Okay, I have a girlfriend to go to. :P That's not what I meant :P.But yeah,go ahead lol. I just thought I'd remind you one last time. :P Grrr....:x
[QUOTE="kingkong0124"][QUOTE="Sedin44"] I feel sad listening to your political views looks like you're quite sheltered then No I get fox news. I just choose not to believe everything I hear and follow the teachings of the prophet O'Reilly.
[QUOTE="Sedin44"][QUOTE="kingkong0124"][QUOTE="Sedin44"] I feel sad listening to your political views looks like you're quite sheltered then No I get fox news. I just choose not to believe everything I hear and follow the teachings of the prophet O'Reilly. it's best to look at a wide variety of sources, and then come to your conclusion, rather than limiting yourself to your self-perceived "balanced" media outlets.
[QUOTE="SteverXIII"][QUOTE="Sedin44"] No I get fox news. I just choose not to believe everything I hear and follow the teachings of the prophet O'Reilly. ROMNEY 2012 This election is like having the choice of either stephen hawking or terri shiavo in a game of football.
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