I think people should wait until they're married until they have sex. If they did the world's population would probably be a lot less than what it is now and there wouldn't be so many abortions. What's your opinion?
I don't care what people do regarding their sex life, honestly. It's none of my business.krazykillaz
So you have no opinion whatsoever on this? Also your guess is as good as mine about the song in your sig. If you ever find out the full song let me know.
Yes, all it does is create strugle when the woman is pregnet and abortion would be very low. Its not right to have sex before beeing married because thats what some the things of beeing married is.
No I think people should have sex before marriage becuase if you don't know yourself and your partner sexually you could end up with someone you are sexually incompatiable wit and end in a failed marriage ofcourse I also beleive if one has sex before marriage they should use contraception so as not to end up with accident children that run rampent over the world.
No. 1) It's just sex. Once you finally do it you realise how trivial and normal it is, and how ridiculous it is that our culture builds it up so much into something it's not. 2) Sex is a big part of a relationship. You can really like somebody's personality but if you're not compatible in THAT way very few people will manage to make the relationship work. If you find out that your partner is completely different from yourself in that regard, and you've just gotten married, that's not a great situation to be in.
[QUOTE="Neon-Tiger"]No, because I don't believe in marriage. I think people should have sex when they feel ready for it.megagene
Why do you not believe in marriage? I've never heard of someone that doesn't believe in marriage.
Lots of people don't believe in marriage.
yeah that's true I mean I wouldn't get married if it were not for the tax breaks and stuff and waiting for a civil union in oregon is 7 years living together and tha's to long ot wait to get those good things that come with it and then there are some good things that don't come with it as well so marriage is the easiest way. I hate marriage just because I beleive in basic rights for all and it's hard for me to get married knowing people in the world still can't marry the one they love.
Sex is a big part of a relationship. You can really like somebody's personality but if you're not compatible in THAT way very few people will manage to make the relationship work. If you find out that your partner is completely different from yourself in that regard, and you've just gotten married, that's not a great situation to be in.Ninja-Hippo
lol, Reminds me of the few sex scenes in The Heartbreak Kid....defiantly not a situation I would want to be in AFTER I got married to the girl..... Who wants to be huddled up in the corner in the dark crying inside a motel room because you just cant take the sex
Being realistic I would say that it really should be when they're ready, both on a standpoint of where the relationship is, and how prepared the couple is to take care of the consequences, if any should arise. For some people, it should be marriage - others, simply when their relationship has reached that point naturally.
Nah, what if you marry someone, and find out you're not sexually compatible with them for whatever reason. Then you'll end up divorcing them, and no one will be happy except the attourney.
Yeah, I agree. Although if we do run into some kind of population crisis somewhere along the line, where there are too many people in the world, then yeah maybe people should wait. And they should just stop abortion all together for that matter. I can understand why people do it, but at least just allow the baby a chance at life with a different family.
Why do you not believe in marriage? I've never heard of someone that doesn't believe in marriage.
observer77
Lots of people don't believe in marriage.
yeah that's true I mean I wouldn't get married if it were not for the tax breaks and stuff and waiting for a civil union in oregon is 7 years living together and tha's to long ot wait to get those good things that come with it and then there are some good things that don't come with it as well so marriage is the easiest way. I hate marriage just because I beleive in basic rights for all and it's hard for me to get married knowing people in the world still can't marry the one they love.
I'm shocked at how so many people here don't believe in marriage. It's a beautiful thing that a two people in love can share. It's also a financial thing. But if thats how it is then thats how it is. Also, sex is a big deal. Sex brings life into our universe and is not something to be taken lightly all the time.
Nah, what if you marry someone, and find out you're not sexually compatible with them for whatever reason. Then you'll end up divorcing them, and no one will be happy except the attourney.Guppy507
Or if the wedding night comes, she drops her panties, and BAM! Tranny.
[QUOTE="krazykillaz"]I don't care what people do regarding their sex life, honestly. It's none of my business.Hungry_Jello
So you have no opinion whatsoever on this? Also your guess is as good as mine about the song in your sig. If you ever find out the full song let me know.
Yeah, I'd say I don't have much of an opinion on the matter. If I were in a serious relationship that could lead to marriage, I don't think I'd mind much if we had sex before or after. And I definitely don't think my opinion should matter at all when it comes to other people's sex lives. EDIT: As long as we're talking about consenting adults of course.
[QUOTE="observer77"][QUOTE="megagene"] Lots of people don't believe in marriage. Hungry_Jello
yeah that's true I mean I wouldn't get married if it were not for the tax breaks and stuff and waiting for a civil union in oregon is 7 years living together and tha's to long ot wait to get those good things that come with it and then there are some good things that don't come with it as well so marriage is the easiest way. I hate marriage just because I beleive in basic rights for all and it's hard for me to get married knowing people in the world still can't marry the one they love.
I'm shocked at how so many people here don't believe in marriage. It's a beautiful thing that a two people in love can share. It's also a financial thing. But if thats how it is then thats how it is. Also, sex is a big deal. Sex brings life into our universe and is not something to be taken lightly all the time.
Yes I agree sex shouldn't be taken lightly but realistically one can not wait till marriage to know what they enjoy sexually you don't want to get married an find out your partner enjoys BDSM and you don't and your with someone legally bound ot that person and have ot go through the giant cost of a divorce sex is an important part of a relationship. So after saying that I alos feel that if people do have sex before marriage that you should use some form of birth control and a condom to help with STD management as well.
[QUOTE="observer77"][QUOTE="megagene"] Lots of people don't believe in marriage. Hungry_Jello
yeah that's true I mean I wouldn't get married if it were not for the tax breaks and stuff and waiting for a civil union in oregon is 7 years living together and tha's to long ot wait to get those good things that come with it and then there are some good things that don't come with it as well so marriage is the easiest way. I hate marriage just because I beleive in basic rights for all and it's hard for me to get married knowing people in the world still can't marry the one they love.
I'm shocked at how so many people here don't believe in marriage. It's a beautiful thing that a two people in love can share. It's also a financial thing. But if thats how it is then thats how it is. Also, sex is a big deal. Sex brings life into our universe and is not something to be taken lightly all the time.
You don't have to be married to share your life with someone. My friend's parents have been together for 18 years, and they're still not married.
yeah that's true I mean I wouldn't get married if it were not for the tax breaks and stuff and waiting for a civil union in oregon is 7 years living together and tha's to long ot wait to get those good things that come with it and then there are some good things that don't come with it as well so marriage is the easiest way. I hate marriage just because I beleive in basic rights for all and it's hard for me to get married knowing people in the world still can't marry the one they love.
observer77
I'm shocked at how so many people here don't believe in marriage. It's a beautiful thing that a two people in love can share. It's also a financial thing. But if thats how it is then thats how it is. Also, sex is a big deal. Sex brings life into our universe and is not something to be taken lightly all the time.
Yes I agree sex shouldn't be taken lightly but realistically one can not wait till marriage to know what they enjoy sexually you don't want to get married an find out your partner enjoys BDSM and you don't and your with someone legally bound ot that person and have ot go through the giant cost of a divorce sex is an important part of a relationship. So after saying that I alos feel that if people do have sex before marriage that you should use some form of birth control and a condom to help with STD management as well.
But shouldn't you love your partner even if they aren't good in the bed? I mean, there are ways to teach em. Sex should never be the main reason people get married even though most of the time it is.
I wanna say yes, as that would solve quite a few problems, but realistically, no. Whenever the person is ready for it and ready to accept the consequences that could arise as a result is probably the best time I guess.
I'm shocked at how so many people here don't believe in marriage. It's a beautiful thing that a two people in love can share. It's also a financial thing. But if thats how it is then thats how it is. Also, sex is a big deal. Sex brings life into our universe and is not something to be taken lightly all the time.
Hungry_Jello
Yes I agree sex shouldn't be taken lightly but realistically one can not wait till marriage to know what they enjoy sexually you don't want to get married an find out your partner enjoys BDSM and you don't and your with someone legally bound ot that person and have ot go through the giant cost of a divorce sex is an important part of a relationship. So after saying that I alos feel that if people do have sex before marriage that you should use some form of birth control and a condom to help with STD management as well.
But shouldn't you love your partner even if they aren't good in the bed? I mean, there are ways to teach em. Sex should never be the main reason people get married even though most of the time it is.
I am not saying just because your partner is not good at sex I'm talkin gabout totaly different sexual preferences you can not force someone to enjoy the same type of sexaul activities as you that is just wrong. Also I am not saying sex is why one should get married but it is a BIG factor in why a partner is right for you you can love somone as much as possible but if you both enjoy different sexual activities and your sexaul preferences are different enough that is causes one partner to go without just because the other doesn't want then the relationship is in trouble because they will not be able to comunicate about hings because one partner will feel that what they want is wrong and it will become a doomed relationship.
No, but people should show some restraint, too many guys and gals throw it around like its a football. More often than not I see girls realizing how little dignity they have left after a year or so of thinking being a party girl is acceptable.
Yes I agree sex shouldn't be taken lightly but realistically one can not wait till marriage to know what they enjoy sexually you don't want to get married an find out your partner enjoys BDSM and you don't and your with someone legally bound ot that person and have ot go through the giant cost of a divorce sex is an important part of a relationship. So after saying that I alos feel that if people do have sex before marriage that you should use some form of birth control and a condom to help with STD management as well.
observer77
But shouldn't you love your partner even if they aren't good in the bed? I mean, there are ways to teach em. Sex should never be the main reason people get married even though most of the time it is.
I am not saying just because your partner is not good at sex I'm talkin gabout totaly different sexual preferences you can not force someone to enjoy the same type of sexaul activities as you that is just wrong. Also I am not saying sex is why one should get married but it is a BIG factor in why a partner is right for you you can love somone as much as possible but if you both enjoy different sexual activities and your sexaul preferences are different enough that is causes one partner to go without just because the other doesn't want then the relationship is in trouble because they will not be able to comunicate about hings because one partner will feel that what they want is wrong and it will become a doomed relationship.
Sadly you are right about sex being a huge factor in marriage even though it shouldn't. Couples should love each other for who they are not what they can do in bed or else people should go marry some ****ing prostitute.
But shouldn't you love your partner even if they aren't good in the bed? I mean, there are ways to teach em. Sex should never be the main reason people get married even though most of the time it is.
Hungry_Jello
I am not saying just because your partner is not good at sex I'm talkin gabout totaly different sexual preferences you can not force someone to enjoy the same type of sexaul activities as you that is just wrong. Also I am not saying sex is why one should get married but it is a BIG factor in why a partner is right for you you can love somone as much as possible but if you both enjoy different sexual activities and your sexaul preferences are different enough that is causes one partner to go without just because the other doesn't want then the relationship is in trouble because they will not be able to comunicate about hings because one partner will feel that what they want is wrong and it will become a doomed relationship.
Sadly you are right about sex being a huge factor in marriage even though it shouldn't. Couples should love each other for who they are not what they can do in bed or else people should go marry some ****ing prostitute.
well it matters just because it causes other problems in a relationship to arise but yeah true if we only cared about sex over all then we could all just marry sex monster prostitutes. Yet we wont because love is still also a major factor it is just one of a couple of fators that make us need a partner in life sadly...
No, not if they are mature enough to handle the responsibilities of having sex. I had sex before I got married, some good, some bad. I'm glad I figured out what I wanted, and found someone I loved who had the same ideas about sex. That would be scary as hell to have a wedding night not knowing if the two of you were compatible or not. And two people who dearly love each other can be lousy in bed together.
No, not if they are mature enough to handle the responsibilities of having sex. I had sex before I got married, some good, some bad. I'm glad I figured out what I wanted, and found someone I loved who had the same ideas about sex. That would be scary as hell to have a wedding night not knowing if the two of you were compatible or not. And two people who dearly love each other can be lousy in bed together.btaylor2404
Another great post from Mr. Taylor. Your wisdom never ceases to amaze me. I should right this down. :P
[QUOTE="btaylor2404"]No, not if they are mature enough to handle the responsibilities of having sex. I had sex before I got married, some good, some bad. I'm glad I figured out what I wanted, and found someone I loved who had the same ideas about sex. That would be scary as hell to have a wedding night not knowing if the two of you were compatible or not. And two people who dearly love each other can be lousy in bed together.LikeHaterade
Another great post from Mr. Taylor. Your wisdom never ceases to amaze me. I should right this down. :P
Well thank you sir. Drop the Mr. you know it's Bryan :). Honest story, the best looking girl I ever dated was a cheerleader at the Univ. of Arkansas. Knew each other for years, she was stunningly beautiful and it was bar none the worst sex I've ever had. After that I realized I wanted someone who wanted what I did and who I had chemistry with. Took a bit but I found her.
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