Does your mom ever wear a bikini?

[QUOTE="DeathScape666"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] What exactly is it you are saying? That there are rules to society -- how a mom can be hot BUT she CANT wear a bikini? Kind of contradictory there are we now... You keep saying that I put words into your mouth but you keep contradicting what I am saying and this is exactly what I am saying. So if you contradict it, that is what you are agreeing to! If anything -- what is it exactly do you think then that you are so against what I am saying?Sajedene

First off, Wasn't lying about anything. I go with what I have gotten on this thread.

Second, stripping doesn't equate to hotness -- as there are A LOT of ugly strippers out there and no one forbids them from stripping. A bikini will NOT stop anyone from lusting over someone they want to lust over. So putting the blame on the bikini is silly. What? Should you not allow them to wear skirts, tight sweaters, etc?

You say you've seen plenty of attractive out there -- in what setting? Go to the beach and then come talk to me.

If the Mom walked around in a bikini ALL DAY LONG with no other reason than to flaunt herself then its a problem. But if she wears it poolside or to get a tan -- then let her. If the friends are being immature about it -- then he should talk to his friends.

Dont want anyone to apologize. But if you guys are truly in a bubble of sexism then let me be the one to enlighten you :roll:Sajedene

You already tried and that fell flat on its face. That was the reason for my initial sarcastic comment. How dare I say that you are not right. How sexist of me.

[QUOTE="DeathScape666"][QUOTE="_______1_______"] Hello there. :) I sure you know this already, but the only people who look down upon something such as a beautiful human female figure left free to be gazed upon by the eyes of others, and to be gently kissed by the sunlight, are the men who wish they could enjoy the company of such a woman, or a woman who wishes she could exhibit the same grace and confidence. :)W1ckedGo0se

[QUOTE="W1ckedGo0se"][QUOTE="DeathScape666"] ...You're weird...DeathScape666

[QUOTE="DeathScape666"][QUOTE="_______1_______"] Hello there. :) I sure you know this already, but the only people who look down upon something such as a beautiful human female figure left free to be gazed upon by the eyes of others, and to be gently kissed by the sunlight, are the men who wish they could enjoy the company of such a woman, or a woman who wishes she could exhibit the same grace and confidence. :)_______1_______

[QUOTE="DeathScape666"][QUOTE="W1ckedGo0se"] ...You're Sad... Its kinda sad that your uncomftorable with someone wearing a Bikini... You can kinda grow up/ be mature?W1ckedGo0se

[QUOTE="W1ckedGo0se"][QUOTE="DeathScape666"] ...You're weird...DeathScape666

[QUOTE="W1ckedGo0se"][QUOTE="DeathScape666"] ...You're weird...DeathScape666

Okay, this same society that created the word MILF? I'm pretty sure if you go buy some magazines, go turn on your tv, or go to the beach -- you will see that this society you speak off has probably the population of GS males. Funny enough -- these same gamespot males who if shown say the picture of Heidi Klum in a bikini would be like OMFG MILF.

dracula_16: I got your sarcastic comment, but I guess you failed to get mine.

[QUOTE="_______1_______"][QUOTE="DeathScape666"] ...You're weird...DeathScape666

[QUOTE="W1ckedGo0se"][QUOTE="DeathScape666"] I personally don't care if they wear a bikini or not. But society does. Just letting you know how the majority of people feel, and how I can understand that.DeathScape666

Our society likes to try to hide it, but We are addicted to Porn...W1ckedGo0se

[QUOTE="W1ckedGo0se"]Our society likes to try to hide it, but We are addicted to Porn..._______1_______

You are a very insightful person. I like the way you word things. Sajedene

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]You are a very insightful person. I like the way you word things. _______1_______

[QUOTE="_______1_______"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]You are a very insightful person. I like the way you word things. W1ckedGo0se

[QUOTE="W1ckedGo0se"][QUOTE="_______1_______"] Hi again. :) Thank you. I do appreciate your kind words, however I only hope that you realize the reason you've noticed this about me, is because you are insightful and intelligent yourself. :)_______1_______

[QUOTE="_______1_______"][QUOTE="W1ckedGo0se"] LMAO... Your a Creeper... I wish some day to be as cool as you... Sajedene

Hi again. :) There is no need to look up to me, as everything you need to succeed in life, you already have. I only feel the need to offer friendly reminders from time to time, when people have temporarily lost sight of what's immediately before them. There is no need to be scared of me, as I am an extension of you, as you are of me. We are all one and the same, part of the same network of energy. The game I am here to play with you all, is the game of life itself._______1_______

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="_______1_______"] Hi again. :) You already are as cool as me. :)_______1_______

[QUOTE="_______1_______"] Hi again. :) There is no need to look up to me, as everything you need to succeed in life, you already have. I only feel the need to offer friendly reminders from time to time, when people have temporarily lost sight of what's immediately before them. There is no need to be scared of me, as I am an extension of you, as you are of me. We are all one and the same, part of the same network of energy. The game I am here to play with you all, is the game of life itself.FalcoLX

[QUOTE="_______1_______"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] Lol. I can't tell if I should look up to you or be scared of you. I feel like your sig is speaking the truth -- or warning me. Haha. You are most definitely someone to watch.Sajedene

Funny. I was thinking the same thing!

[QUOTE="_______1_______"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] Lol. I can't tell if I should look up to you or be scared of you. I feel like your sig is speaking the truth -- or warning me. Haha. You are most definitely someone to watch.Sajedene

Maybe this will sum up many of our opinions.

A mother (and father's) first responsibility is to their children, not themselves. This topic is not a "should my mom wear a bikini?" thread, this is a topic discussing the kid's uncomfortable situation because his mom is being selfish by not taking into account her child's feelings.

I'll leave it at that. 

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="_______1_______"] Hi again. :) There is no need to look up to me, as everything you need to succeed in life, you already have. I only feel the need to offer friendly reminders from time to time, when people have temporarily lost sight of what's immediately before them. There is no need to be scared of me, as I am an extension of you, as you are of me. We are all one and the same, part of the same network of energy. The game I am here to play with you all, is the game of life itself._______1_______

I knew I was right. 

Welcome ________1________ . GS needs you.

Maybe this will sum up many of our opinions.

A mother (and father's) first responsibility is to their children, not themselves. This topic is not a "should my mom wear a bikini?" thread, this is a topic discussing the kid's uncomfortable situation because his mom is being selfish by not taking into account her child's feelings.

I'll leave it at that. 

Maybe this will sum up many of our opinions.

A mother (and father's) first responsibility is to their children, not themselves. This topic is not a "should my mom wear a bikini?" thread, this is a topic discussing the kid's uncomfortable situation because his mom is being selfish by not taking into account her child's feelings.

I'll leave it at that. 

[QUOTE="_______1_______"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] Its like talking to buddah ahaha. 7guns

I knew I was right. 

Welcome ________1________ . GS needs you.

[QUOTE="_______1_______"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] Its like talking to buddah ahaha. 7guns

I knew I was right.

Welcome ________1________ . GS needs you.

Dude, he's like Off Topic Jesus.

Anyway, this thread seriously needs somes pics.

Maybe this will sum up many of our opinions.

A mother (and father's) first responsibility is to their children, not themselves. This topic is not a "should my mom wear a bikini?" thread, this is a topic discussing the kid's uncomfortable situation because his mom is being selfish by not taking into account her child's feelings.

I'll leave it at that. 

My mom is in her 40s and she occasionally wears a bikini to the beach/pool. I hate it when I am with my friends at the beach/pool and my mom is there wearing a bikini, they always try to sit next to her and stuff to piss me off. Screw them, some of their mom's wear bikinis also but not many. Luckily now she doesn't come to the beach with us so it's only when they come over to swim in our pool, but not if my dad is there.GTA_Fan360

[QUOTE="sonic_spark"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] And you wrote the book on how mom's should act? How does a bikini affect someone's parenting skills? And I guess you missed his other thread on his mom getting a belly piercing. And OMG that affects a mom's parenting skills too! What exactly is a mom role? Are you a mom? A mom can't be sexy? So should they be fat? Or god forbid they're not allowed to let go of themselves either.Sajedene

1.) I never said it affected her parenting skills.

2.) I didn't miss the belly piercing, nor do I think that affects their parenting skills.

3.) No, I'm not a mom.

4.) Yes, a mom can be sexy or fat, whatever she prefers.

Don't get me wrong, just because a man and woman have children does not "end their life". But there is a fine line to what is acceptable. For example, I'm 22. If my mom went to the same night clubs I went to and got smashed, that would be unacceptable.

Any person in a an authoritative, or leadership role need to walk a fine line. A mom gains something when they have a child, but sacrifices something as well, and that is the freedom they observed as a single adult. This goes the same for fathers as well.

But this in this particular circumstance, the bikini and the belly button piercing sounds a bit excessive and is evidently bothering the child. The mother (like any other authoritative, parental, etc. role) needs to be mindful of her actions.

That's all I'm saying.

What the hell are you talking about? I predict this thread is soon to be about religion or something. It has derailed. Moms shouldn't behave as sluts because they are ****** mothers and if they give such an example to their children then we're doomed. Let alone the awkwardness a son would feel if his mother behaved like a prostitute in front of him and in front of his friends.

And I'm not talking about the bikini thing. Any mother have the "right" to wear a bikini etc. Of course some mothers shouldn't because that could be a disgusting thing to look at.(aka self respect) Having said that, even fat or way-too-old-for-bikini mothers have the freedom to wear a bikini. It's not about laws or anything like that. How complicated is this for you to understand? :|

Your mother and you have drunk at bars? That's cool. She's a cool mother. Did you get wasted and got high with your mother? No that's not cool. (I'm not talking about you particularly.) A 40 yo mature woman shouldn't act like a 20 yo woman. If you can't understand why ask your mother.

[QUOTE="Dark_Knight6"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]Ok, first off -- we get it. You got a hot mom. Thanks for sharing. Pics or it didnt happen. Second -- if I ever have kids, I hope they're not as uptight as you. Can't wear belly piercings, and now you have a problem with her wearing a bikini? Sajedene

Belly-button piercings aren't something a mom should wear.

Try to look at the situation from more than one point of view. I'm sure a young boy wouldn't be thrilled by his mom walking around his friends half naked and with a belly button piercing.

[QUOTE="dracula_16"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]Actually this is like part 2 of the whole situation -- this started in his piercings thread. I just find it hilarious that a bunch of boys doesnt think its acceptable for a mom to wear a bikini or get a piercing-- because they speak for "majority" of society. Well guess what -- here is one dissenter, a girl, and she is telling you all -- they can, they should if they could, and they will. Sajedene

It was an opinion based thread and you twisted it into something it wasn't. Seems like you want most to apologize for having an opinion because we're just little boys who can't think outside of our bubble of sexism. Forgive us for not being enlightened :roll:

d where is that thread located. I wanna see how she looks likedemonslayer986

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="dracula_16"]

It was an opinion based thread and you twisted it into something it wasn't. Seems like you want most to apologize for having an opinion because we're just little boys who can't think outside of our bubble of sexism. Forgive us for not being enlightened :roll:

swizz-the-gamer

Only using what was originally posted.

But thank you to you and Dark Sithious and xTheExploited. That is the HONEST answer -- not the whole ew mom in a bikini society frowns on it crap. Which is exactly what I already said and ___1___ said as well -- its not an issue with the mom wearing a bikini -- but your own individual issue with your self and how you perceive the females in your family. So telling them NOT to wear a bikini is just projecting and targeting the wrong issue.