Does your mom ever wear a bikini?

I hate it when people go, "Dude your sister is really hot" or "Your mother is a MILF". xTheExploited

If someone ever told my my mom was a MILF I'd probably hit them, and I'm not even a violent person.

Yes, I have to say I agree with you. The young man has a problem with his friends looking at his mother with lust in their eyes because he understands the emotions of lusting after a woman, being a male himself, of course. The problem starts when the young man realizes that his natural territorial instincts are clashing with his natural tendencies of being loyal to his friends, and not causing them any undue stress. The young man is at a crossroads because he does not know whether to alienate those whom he has befriended, in the interest of honoring his mother, or to simply ignore the energy directed towards his mother by his male friends, in the interest of maintaining their friendship, which he obviously deems valuable.

If I was the one to make the decision, I would say that the young man should try and understand that his friends are also verile young men much like himself, and try to understand his friends attraction towards his mother. It should make sense to him that they would be attracted to a beautiful female whom they have no genetic bond to. At the same time, allowing his mother the freedom to allow her beautiful form to dance through the breeze, unobstructed by the restrictive nature of clothing, if she wishes to do so, as a woman who has undertaken the time and effort to maintain her natural beauty, deserves to show what she's earned to the rest of the world, if she pleases.

But you probably knew that already. :)

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Your use of the line 'But you probably knew that already' coupled with your manner of speech (text-speech that is) reminds me of a fictional character who I cannot quite place... I'm inclined to think it is a character from Final Fantasy 10 though I could be wrong.. How about I just ask you if you model your forum-self after some character or other.. or am I just completely wrong?Salvy41

Hello there. :)

No, I have not modeled myself after any video game characters, or anyone else either. This is me. I was never much of a fan of the Final Fantasy games. I always prefered the Zelda series, or even Dragon Warrior. I don't even go for RPGs that much though, because the game of life is a much more interesting RPG. :)

I'm starting to think you're trying to match your mom with someone on OT. You keep on making threads about her getting piercings, bikinis, etc.greatmax1

lol someone's struggling with the Oedipus Complex :Pclembo1990

:lol:

I felt bad for Oedipus, even if he was a twit.

What else are mothers going to wear when they go to the beach, tan, or swim in a pool?CommanderShiro

[QUOTE="CommanderShiro"]What else are mothers going to wear when they go to the beach, tan, or swim in a pool?GTA_Fan360

[QUOTE="GTA_Fan360"][QUOTE="CommanderShiro"]What else are mothers going to wear when they go to the beach, tan, or swim in a pool?Sajedene

[QUOTE="Salvy41"] Your use of the line 'But you probably knew that already' coupled with your manner of speech (text-speech that is) reminds me of a fictional character who I cannot quite place... I'm inclined to think it is a character from Final Fantasy 10 though I could be wrong.. How about I just ask you if you model your forum-self after some character or other.. or am I just completely wrong?_______1_______

Hello there. :)

No, I have not modeled myself after any video game characters, or anyone else either. This is me. I was never much of a fan of the Final Fantasy games. I always prefered the Zelda series, or even Dragon Warrior. I don't even go for RPGs that much though, because the game of life is a much more interesting RPG. :)

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="GTA_Fan360"]there are other swimsuits for women besides bikinis.GTA_Fan360

[QUOTE="GTA_Fan360"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] This? I know mom's can wear things like one piece suits or whatever -- but thats not going to stop you from feeling uncomfortable if your friends find her hot in a one piece too. Sajedene

[QUOTE="GTA_Fan360"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] This? I know mom's can wear things like one piece suits or whatever -- but thats not going to stop you from feeling uncomfortable if your friends find her hot in a one piece too. Sajedene

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="GTA_Fan360"]A one piece would at least cover her up.GTA_Fan360

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="GTA_Fan360"]A one piece would at least cover her up.swizz-the-gamer

So if a child is truly, genuinely embarassed to be dropped off by a parent at school -- should a parent relent and let the child walk? Take the bus? If a child is truly embarassed to be seen walking around the mall with their mom and dad -- even though mom and dad are their to put up the cash for the shopping spree of the child -- the parent should relent and walk 10 paces behind the child? Again, the issue is not with the parent but the immaturity of the child's friends and the internal issues the child has when he gets to the age of realizing their parents are sexual beings. If that said child surrounds themselves with more mature friends (or at least man up and tell them straight up -- hey dude, as my friend if you respect me - please show some respect to the mom that birthed me) and if that said child is comfortable enough to know -- okay my parents are sexual beings and other people will find them attractive -- then we suddenly realize - its not the bikini that is the issue here. Sajedene

[QUOTE="swizz-the-gamer"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] Something like this yeah? Sajedene

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="swizz-the-gamer"] Hahah I was thinking that, but it's not really the issue. For a childs sake a mother should dress modestly infront of their friends. If not, it's no crime and it's not too big of a deal but if it's a serious problem for the child they should swallow their pride. markop2003

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]So if a child is truly, genuinely embarassed to be dropped off by a parent at school -- should a parent relent and let the child walk? Take the bus? If a child is truly embarassed to be seen walking around the mall with their mom and dad -- even though mom and dad are their to put up the cash for the shopping spree of the child -- the parent should relent and walk 10 paces behind the child? Again, the issue is not with the parent but the immaturity of the child's friends and the internal issues the child has when he gets to the age of realizing their parents are sexual beings. If that said child surrounds themselves with more mature friends (or at least man up and tell them straight up -- hey dude, as my friend if you respect me - please show some respect to the mom that birthed me) and if that said child is comfortable enough to know -- okay my parents are sexual beings and other people will find them attractive -- then we suddenly realize - its not the bikini that is the issue here. GTA_Fan360

Okay lets go with more superficial examples -- you are truly embarassed with your parents haircut, weight, clothes -- none of those benefit you -- but as a parent, they should just lose their self worth, confidence, feeling good about themselves because you are embarassed?

.... what parent drops off thier child to school in a bikini? I don't mind my mom wearing a bikini but if my mom was of the MILF body then i could see it being a problem if she paraded around my friends in a bikini at early pubesent age. Wearing one is fine but parading infront of your kid's friends is just unnessary and will just cause problems at those ages.markop2003

Examples... thanks for taking me very literally there. If the mom is a MILF and wants to wear a bikini to go to the beach or the pool and the kids friends are there -- she should be able to. If she was at home and she wore a nice dress or a tight sweater and the friends are still drooling -- would she not be allowed to wear those too?

My point, as I keep on repeating, you are all blaming the hotness of the mom and the outfits she wears when the true issue here is the maturity of the boys around her and you as someone who is realizing that your mom is a sexual being -- sorry you dont find that comfortable -- but thats how you were made.

[QUOTE="GTA_Fan360"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]but in your examples the parents are doing something to benefit the child where as a bikini does not.Sajedene

Okay lets go with more superficial examples -- you are truly embarassed with your parents haircut, weight, clothes -- none of those benefit you -- but as a parent, they should just lose their self worth, confidence, feeling good about themselves because you are embarassed?

.... what parent drops off thier child to school in a bikini? I don't mind my mom wearing a bikini but if my mom was of the MILF body then i could see it being a problem if she paraded around my friends in a bikini at early pubesent age. Wearing one is fine but parading infront of your kid's friends is just unnessary and will just cause problems at those ages.markop2003

Examples... thanks for taking me very literally there. If the mom is a MILF and wants to wear a bikini to go to the beach or the pool and the kids friends are there -- she should be able to. If she was at home and she wore a nice dress or a tight sweater and the friends are still drooling -- would she not be allowed to wear those too?

My point, as I keep on repeating, you are all blaming the hotness of the mom and the outfits she wears when the true issue here is the maturity of the boys around her and you as someone who is realizing that your mom is a sexual being -- sorry you dont find that comfortable -- but thats how you were made.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]

Examples... thanks for taking me very literally there. If the mom is a MILF and wants to wear a bikini to go to the beach or the pool and the kids friends are there -- she should be able to. If she was at home and she wore a nice dress or a tight sweater and the friends are still drooling -- would she not be allowed to wear those too?

My point, as I keep on repeating, you are all blaming the hotness of the mom and the outfits she wears when the true issue here is the maturity of the boys around her and you as someone who is realizing that your mom is a sexual being -- sorry you dont find that comfortable -- but thats how you were made.

swizz-the-gamer

It only gets controlling when people start saying a mom should not wear a bikini or get a piercing or a tattoo and the only reason they can give is "because she is a mom." And there are people like that out there.

[QUOTE="swizz-the-gamer"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]

Examples... thanks for taking me very literally there. If the mom is a MILF and wants to wear a bikini to go to the beach or the pool and the kids friends are there -- she should be able to. If she was at home and she wore a nice dress or a tight sweater and the friends are still drooling -- would she not be allowed to wear those too?

My point, as I keep on repeating, you are all blaming the hotness of the mom and the outfits she wears when the true issue here is the maturity of the boys around her and you as someone who is realizing that your mom is a sexual being -- sorry you dont find that comfortable -- but thats how you were made.

Sajedene

It only gets controlling when people start saying a mom should not wear a bikini or get a piercing or a tattoo and the only reason they can give is "because she is a mom." And there are people like that out there.

Women wear bikinis because they want men to look at them. I think that's unnecessary when they're around a bunch of 16 year olds.Bloodbath_87

[QUOTE="swizz-the-gamer"]

It only gets controlling when people start saying a mom should not wear a bikini or get a piercing or a tattoo and the only reason they can give is "because she is a mom." And there are people like that out there.

Sajedene

It was the other thread this kid made about his mom getting a belly piercing.

Women wear bikinis because they want men to look at them. I think that's unnecessary when they're around a bunch of 16 year olds.Bloodbath_87

[QUOTE="markop2003"].... what parent drops off thier child to school in a bikini? I don't mind my mom wearing a bikini but if my mom was of the MILF body then i could see it being a problem if she paraded around my friends in a bikini at early pubescent age. Wearing one is fine but parading infront of your kid's friends is just unnessary and will just cause problems at those ages.Sajedene

Examples... thanks for taking me very literally there. If the mom is a MILF and wants to wear a bikini to go to the beach or the pool and the kids friends are there -- she should be able to. If she was at home and she wore a nice dress or a tight sweater and the friends are still drooling -- would she not be allowed to wear those too?

My point, as I keep on repeating, you are all blaming the hotness of the mom and the outfits she wears when the true issue here is the maturity of the boys around her and you as someone who is realizing that your mom is a sexual being -- sorry you don't find that comfortable -- but thats how you were made.

All i'm saying is a bikini isn't necessary so if the mom knows that thier kid is going to have friends over then sun bathing in the back garden in a bikini ain't the best idea. If she just happens to be at the beach and her kid and friends turn up then she can't be blamed for doing anything wrong but she could easily move down the beach 100 yards just to give the kid an easyer time.

Think of it this way, if your dad was hot and was walking round the house topless knowing full well that you and your friends were there most people would find it weird that he wouldn't put a shirt on just to avoid the "Your dad's hot" and the awkward silence that would follow.

It's just courtesy, it's not that she can't walk round like that it would just be nice if she wouldn't infront of friends when it's not necessary.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="swizz-the-gamer"] I don't really get the piercing or tattoo thing, someone explain this. Sajedene

It was the other thread this kid made about his mom getting a belly piercing.

Women wear bikinis because they want men to look at them. I think that's unnecessary when they're around a bunch of 16 year olds.Bloodbath_87

Have you tried swimming in full clothes? Have you tried getting a tan in something other than a bikini? If all women who tan could and if they didnt feel embarassed -- everyone would tan naked.

Sajedene

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]

Have you tried swimming in full clothes? Have you tried getting a tan in something other than a bikini? If all women who tan could and if they didnt feel embarassed -- everyone would tan naked.

GTA_Fan360

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="swizz-the-gamer"] I'm not denying this. In a way I agree with you, but it's obvious why a lad would be bothered by this! There's no need to make him out to be some controlling pig. A lad not wanting his mates drooling over his mum is really quite fair and understandable. swizz-the-gamer

It only gets controlling when people start saying a mom should not wear a bikini or get a piercing or a tattoo and the only reason they can give is "because she is a mom." And there are people like that out there.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]

Have you tried swimming in full clothes? Have you tried getting a tan in something other than a bikini? If all women who tan could and if they didnt feel embarassed -- everyone would tan naked.

GTA_Fan360

[QUOTE="GTA_Fan360"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]

Have you tried swimming in full clothes? Have you tried getting a tan in something other than a bikini? If all women who tan could and if they didnt feel embarassed -- everyone would tan naked.

W1ckedGo0se

[QUOTE="W1ckedGo0se"][QUOTE="GTA_Fan360"]She could still tan in a one piece swimsuit.GTA_Fan360

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="markop2003"].... what parent drops off thier child to school in a bikini? I don't mind my mom wearing a bikini but if my mom was of the MILF body then i could see it being a problem if she paraded around my friends in a bikini at early pubescent age. Wearing one is fine but parading infront of your kid's friends is just unnessary and will just cause problems at those ages.markop2003

Examples... thanks for taking me very literally there. If the mom is a MILF and wants to wear a bikini to go to the beach or the pool and the kids friends are there -- she should be able to. If she was at home and she wore a nice dress or a tight sweater and the friends are still drooling -- would she not be allowed to wear those too?

My point, as I keep on repeating, you are all blaming the hotness of the mom and the outfits she wears when the true issue here is the maturity of the boys around her and you as someone who is realizing that your mom is a sexual being -- sorry you don't find that comfortable -- but thats how you were made.

All i'm saying is a bikini isn't necessary so if the mom knows that thier kid is going to have friends over then sun bathing in the back garden in a bikini ain't the best idea. If she just happens to be at the beach and her kid and friends turn up then she can't be blamed for doing anything wrong but she could easily move down the beach 100 yards just to give the kid an easyer time.

Think of it this way, if your dad was hot and was walking round the house topless knowing full well that you and your friends were there most people would find it weird that he wouldn't put a shirt on just to avoid the "Your dad's hot" and the awkward silence that would follow.

It's just courtesy, it's not that she can't walk round like that it would just be nice if she wouldn't infront of friends when it's not necessary.

I get that but thats not the issue here -- he clearly posted that its when shes at the beach or pool. Anyone -- parent or not who does something just to draw attention is doing just that -- but to wear a bikini to go to the beach or pool as the OP said doesn't warrant people saying "mom shouldn't wear bikini's".

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]

It was the other thread this kid made about his mom getting a belly piercing.

[QUOTE="Bloodbath_87"]Women wear bikinis because they want men to look at them. I think that's unnecessary when they're around a bunch of 16 year olds.swizz-the-gamer

They are similar that they are done for the benefit of the person wearing them and not the person who finds it uncomfortable -- both do not have any direct correlation or impact on how ones parenting skills are as well.

*And gamespot wont let me multi quote -- this sucks.

I get that but thats not the issue here -- he clearly posted that its when shes at the beach or pool. Anyone -- parent or not who does something just to draw attention is doing just that -- but to wear a bikini to go to the beach or pool as the OP said doesn't warrant people saying "mom shouldn't wear bikini's".

Sajedene

I get that but thats not the issue here -- he clearly posted that its when shes at the beach or pool. Anyone -- parent or not who does something just to draw attention is doing just that -- but to wear a bikini to go to the beach or pool as the OP said doesn't warrant people saying "mom shouldn't wear bikini's".

Because his friends all want to sit next to his mom and probably fawn over her -- which isn't the mom's fault or her bikini. OP realizes his mom is sexually attractive and it bothers him and he needs to let his friends know (if they are true friends) that he feels disrespected when they do that in his presence. Sajedene

[QUOTE="markop2003"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]

I get that but thats not the issue here -- he clearly posted that its when shes at the beach or pool. Anyone -- parent or not who does something just to draw attention is doing just that -- but to wear a bikini to go to the beach or pool as the OP said doesn't warrant people saying "mom shouldn't wear bikini's".

Sajedene

LOL if he says stuff like that, he'll even have even more problems on his hands because his friends will be ragging on how gay he's acting. And I'm sure you'll spout back with the usual "their not true friends", but this is just how guys are - most of them anyway.