Does your mom ever wear a bikini?

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]Because his friends all want to sit next to his mom and probably fawn over her -- which isn't the mom's fault or her bikini. OP realizes his mom is sexually attractive and it bothers him and he needs to let his friends know (if they are true friends) that he feels disrespected when they do that in his presence. GTA_Fan360

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="markop2003"] must've missed that bit, seems fine to me... why can't he just move down the beach though? bobaban

LOL if he says stuff like that, he'll even have even more problems on his hands because his friends will be ragging on how gay he's acting. And I'm sure you'll spout back with the usual "their not true friends", but this is just how guys are - most of them anyway.

[QUOTE="GTA_Fan360"][QUOTE="Sajedene"]Because his friends all want to sit next to his mom and probably fawn over her -- which isn't the mom's fault or her bikini. OP realizes his mom is sexually attractive and it bothers him and he needs to let his friends know (if they are true friends) that he feels disrespected when they do that in his presence. Sajedene

All i'm saying is a bikini isn't necessary so if the mom knows that thier kid is going to have friends over then sun bathing in the back garden in a bikini ain't the best idea. If she just happens to be at the beach and her kid and friends turn up then she can't be blamed for doing anything wrong but she could easily move down the beach 100 yards just to give the kid an easyer time.

Think of it this way, if your dad was hot and was walking round the house topless knowing full well that you and your friends were there most people would find it weird that he wouldn't put a shirt on just to avoid the "Your dad's hot" and the awkward silence that would follow.

It's just courtesy, it's not that she can't walk round like that it would just be nice if she wouldn't infront of friends when it's not necessary.

markop2003

Hello there. :)

Although a bikini is not necessary, that doesn't mean she can't wear one if she wants to. There is nothing inappropriate about wearing swimwear by the pool. I'd think it's expected, even.

Also, men naturally go without shirts all the time, not even including near the pool. Why does a father have to wear a shirt around his daughter's friends, if he doesn't feel like it? He's probably not even thinking that teenage girls would be checking him out anyway. It's not like sexual arousal is a bad thing either, and if you think teenagers aren't into that kind of thing, or aren't getting satisfaction some other way, you're only fooling yourself. Our society is just a tad uptight when it comes to these kinds of things. Skin is no sin. Viewing another human's body parts is harmless. You know, in most European countries, things like this aren't a problem at all. In Germany, Belgium, France, and others, you'll see entire families on the beaches together, fully nude. Everybody naked, and nobody making a big scene about it. It's a matter of America's maturity, when you pull back all the layers and see the problem at it's root.

But you probably already knew that. :)

 

Hello there. :)

Although a bikini is not necessary, that doesn't mean she can't wear one if she wants to. There is nothing inappropriate about wearing swimwear by the pool. I'd think it's expected, even.

Also, men naturally go without shirts all the time, not even including near the pool. Why does a father have to wear a shirt around his daughter's friends, if he doesn't feel like it? He's probably not even thinking that teenage girls would be checking him out anyway. It's not like sexual arousal is a bad thing either, and if you think teenagers aren't into that kind of thing, or aren't getting satisfaction some other way, you're only fooling yourself. Our society is just a tad uptight when it comes to these kinds of things. Skin is no sin. Viewing another human's body parts is harmless. You know, in most European countries, things like this aren't a problem at all. In Germany, Belgium, France, and others, you'll see entire families on the beaches together, fully nude. Everybody naked, and nobody making a big scene about it. It's a matter of America's maturity, when you pull back all the layers and see the problem at it's root.

 

But you probably already knew that. :)

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My mom is in her 40s and she occasionally wears a bikini to the beach/pool. I hate it when I am with my friends at the beach/pool and my mom is there wearing a bikini, they always try to sit next to her and stuff to piss me off. Screw them, some of their mom's wear bikinis also but not many. Luckily now she doesn't come to the beach with us so it's only when they come over to swim in our pool, but not if my dad is there.GTA_Fan360

 You need to talk to your Mom about how it makes you uncomfortable. I'm sure just knowing that it bothers you will make her more aware of when your friends are around.

[QUOTE="GTA_Fan360"]My mom is in her 40s and she occasionally wears a bikini to the beach/pool. I hate it when I am with my friends at the beach/pool and my mom is there wearing a bikini, they always try to sit next to her and stuff to piss me off. Screw them, some of their mom's wear bikinis also but not many. Luckily now she doesn't come to the beach with us so it's only when they come over to swim in our pool, but not if my dad is there.DDRMom

You need to talk to your Mom about how it makes you uncomfortable. I'm sure just knowing that it bothers you will make her more aware of when your friends are around.

Ok, first off -- we get it. You got a hot mom. Thanks for sharing. Pics or it didnt happen. Second -- if I ever have kids, I hope they're not as uptight as you. Can't wear belly piercings, and now you have a problem with her wearing a bikini? Sajedene

Ok, first off -- we get it. You got a hot mom. Thanks for sharing. Pics or it didnt happen. Second -- if I ever have kids, I hope they're not as uptight as you. Can't wear belly piercings, and now you have a problem with her wearing a bikini? Sajedene

What makes you think she's hot ? :/

My mom is in her 40s and she occasionally wears a bikini to the beach/pool. I hate it when I am with my friends at the beach/pool and my mom is there wearing a bikini, they always try to sit next to her and stuff to piss me off. Screw them, some of their mom's wear bikinis also but not many. Luckily now she doesn't come to the beach with us so it's only when they come over to swim in our pool, but not if my dad is there.GTA_Fan360

Yes my mom does and I don't think much of it. It is a very typical swim suit anyway so I don't see what the big deal is.

Uh, no.

But my neighbor, who's got to be pushing 70, waters her lawn in a bikini. It's pretty disgusting.

Uh, no.