Don't we already have equal marriage rights?

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#401 Funky_Llama
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[QUOTE="GabuEx"][QUOTE="mysterylobster"]Marriage is defined as the union of a man and a woman, not a man and whomever that man desires.Stevo_the_gamer
Well 40 years ago it was defined in many states as the union of a white man and a white woman or a black man and a black woman, so by that metric we've already redefined marriage.

Do not compare this to racial segregation and any other black and civil rights movements -- they're incomparable. African-Americans and women are a protected class, homosexuals are not.

That they aren't doesn't mean that they shouldn't be. In the case of the black and civil rights movements, at the time they weren't a protected class.
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#402 Stevo_the_gamer  Moderator
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[QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"] How are they incomparable? They're all human beings.

I already explained why they're different -- homosexuals are "not" a protected class. Also, we're talking about only marriage here and the legal benefits which come with it (which can be attained through other means, though it's difficult; it is possible); African-Americans had to endure monumental amounts of hatred, and racism which resulted in many cases, destruction of fundamental human rights -- right to life, freedom of thought, ect. Marriage has never been a genuine right.
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Why do you guys care so much about gay marriage? It baffles me. Is it so you can just argue? Anyway marriage is a sacred bond between only a man and a woman, as God intended and commanded. Gays don't have the right to have that privilege. Surprising how many atheists there are on this forum...Solid_Snake325
Damn, didn't know we were still living in the stone age. :lol:
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[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"][QUOTE="LikeHaterade"] No it would not and this is the last time I will say it. A gay person that had a previous attraction to the opposite sex this is now gay means they lost that previous attraction due to experience with the same sex. You can't change the fact that they WERE attracted to the opposite sex. LikeHaterade
Many people believe that they are straight when they are in fact gay because everyone else around them is straight, so they feel comfortable being "straight", and they marry the opposite sex, they have kids and they raise a family. But a man marrying a woman doesn't make him straight. There is an overwhelming amount of people who question their sexuality every day. There is no clear cut line between heterosexuality and homosexuality. These people who seemed to have "converted" are just realizing that they never were really straight. And there is absolutely no proof that a child being taught to respect the gay community will suddenly go from being straight to gay

Just stop. Seriously. You're fighting a losing battle. There are gay people that have HAD HAD HAD See what I'm doing there? They weren't dellusional by their surroundings or any other effect. They HAD an attraction to the opposite sex, and then they lost it due to experience with the same sex. Get over it. There isn't proof but it's obvious it would have an effect. That's called common sense.

Ok, so I'm going to use your logic for a second...

These "converted" gay people were not influenced at all by their surroundings, or any other effect. The only reason they "converted" was because they had an experience with the same sex.

Ok, so using that logic, wouldn't the same apply to a child being taught to respect the gay community? If their surroundings have no influence on their orientation, then how would teaching a kid it's alright to be gay turn the kid gay if teaching a kid it's ok to be straight doesn't make them "deullusionally" staight.

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#405 Stevo_the_gamer  Moderator
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That they aren't doesn't mean that they shouldn't be. In the case of the black and civil rights movements, at the time they weren't a protected class.Funky_Llama
The consitution protected them, and they were a protected class; however, the people failed to protect them and the government failed to step up to it until the great MLK Jr. and all of his followers opened their eyes. Homosexuals cannot be a protected class because they are the product of a conscious action; I believe Vandalvideo has gone into this before.
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[QUOTE="LikeHaterade"][QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"] Many people believe that they are straight when they are in fact gay because everyone else around them is straight, so they feel comfortable being "straight", and they marry the opposite sex, they have kids and they raise a family. But a man marrying a woman doesn't make him straight. There is an overwhelming amount of people who question their sexuality every day. There is no clear cut line between heterosexuality and homosexuality. These people who seemed to have "converted" are just realizing that they never were really straight. And there is absolutely no proof that a child being taught to respect the gay community will suddenly go from being straight to gay -Sun_Tzu-
Just stop. Seriously. You're fighting a losing battle. There are gay people that have HAD HAD HAD See what I'm doing there? They weren't dellusional by their surroundings or any other effect. They HAD an attraction to the opposite sex, and then they lost it due to experience with the same sex. Get over it. There isn't proof but it's obvious it would have an effect. That's called common sense.

Ok, so I'm going to use your logic for a second... These "converted" gay people were not influenced at all by their surroundings, or any other effect. The only reason they "converted" was because they had an experience with the same sex. Ok, so using that logic, wouldn't the same apply to a child being taught to respect the gay community? If their surroundings have no influence on their orientation, then how would teaching a kid it's alright to be gay turn the kid gay if teaching a kid it's ok to be straight doesn't turn them "deullusional" into thinking they're straight?

Ah so now you're putting words in my mouth? Did I say I was referring to every single gay person that I was using for my example? No I didn't. The fact that those gay people that support my argument do exist disproves yours.

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Felt like postin'. 

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Felt like postin'.Nude_Dude
Clever graph, "nude dude". Though I am sure a few disasters are missing on there. Ha.
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Ah so now you're putting words in my mouth? Did I say I was referring to every single gay person that I was using for my example? No I didn't. The fact that those gay people that support my argument do exist disproves yours.

 

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What word's did I put in your mouth? Did you not say that the "fact" that people turn from straight to gay has nothing to do with their surrounding? Did you not say that teaching kids to respect the gay community would have an effect on them implying that because they are being taught tolerance that they might turn gay
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Felt like postin'. 

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I'm going to have to use that :lol:
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#411 LikeHaterade
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[QUOTE="LikeHaterade"]Ah so now you're putting words in my mouth? Did I say I was referring to every single gay person that I was using for my example? No I didn't. The fact that those gay people that support my argument do exist disproves yours.

 

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What word's did I put in your mouth? Did you not say that the "fact" that people turn from straight to gay has nothing to do with their surrounding? Did you not say that teaching kids to respect the gay community would have an effect on them implying that because they are being taught tolerance that they might turn gay

I said that pertaining to the gay people that I was referring to. You know? Since that is what I have BEEN talking about at least the past 5 posts.
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[QUOTE="Funky_Llama"]That they aren't doesn't mean that they shouldn't be. In the case of the black and civil rights movements, at the time they weren't a protected class.Stevo_the_gamer
The consitution protected them, and they were a protected class; however, the people failed to protect them and the government failed to step up to it until the great MLK Jr. and all of his followers opened their eyes. Homosexuals cannot be a protected class because they are the product of a conscious action; I believe Vandalvideo has gone into this before.

They aren't the product of a conscious action. Vandelvideo's argument was pathetic, mixing up a likely indicator of homosexuality with homosexulity itself. Homosexuality is attraction to others of the same gender. That is not voluntary.
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[QUOTE="ithilgore2006"][QUOTE="LikeHaterade"] Stop avoiding the fact that there are gay people today that were originally attracted to the opposite sex. I'm not talking about gays that were "in the closet."LikeHaterade
And how is it you know that to be a fact?

If people know that someone is gay what would be the point of that person to lie about having a previous attraction to the opposite sex?

What? You're making no sense. You said it's a "fact" that people aren't always gay they "turn" gay I asked you why that's a "fact". I'm not even sure what it is you said, a gay person is always gay whether they accept it or not, and many of them don't for a long time, then, even when they do, they hide it, and pretend to be heterosexual, simply because they're afraid of being shunned by society.
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[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"][QUOTE="LikeHaterade"]Ah so now you're putting words in my mouth? Did I say I was referring to every single gay person that I was using for my example? No I didn't. The fact that those gay people that support my argument do exist disproves yours.

 

LikeHaterade
What word's did I put in your mouth? Did you not say that the "fact" that people turn from straight to gay has nothing to do with their surrounding? Did you not say that teaching kids to respect the gay community would have an effect on them implying that because they are being taught tolerance that they might turn gay

I said that pertaining to the gay people that I was referring to. You know? Since that is what I have BEEN talking about at least the past 5 posts.

Who do you think I was referring to? The exact same gay people that you were.
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[QUOTE="LikeHaterade"][QUOTE="ithilgore2006"] And how is it you know that to be a fact?ithilgore2006
If people know that someone is gay what would be the point of that person to lie about having a previous attraction to the opposite sex?

What? You're making no sense. You said it's a "fact" that people aren't always gay they "turn" gay I asked you why that's a "fact". I'm not even sure what it is you said, a gay person is always gay whether they accept it or not, and many of them don't for a long time, then, even when they do, they hide it, and pretend to be heterosexual, simply because they're afraid of being shunned by society.

I said that it's FACT that there ARE people that turn gay to disprove what's his face's post earlier. I did not say EVERY gay person. You're spinning what I said and I don't appreciate it.
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[QUOTE="LikeHaterade"][QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"] What word's did I put in your mouth? Did you not say that the "fact" that people turn from straight to gay has nothing to do with their surrounding? Did you not say that teaching kids to respect the gay community would have an effect on them implying that because they are being taught tolerance that they might turn gay-Sun_Tzu-
I said that pertaining to the gay people that I was referring to. You know? Since that is what I have BEEN talking about at least the past 5 posts.

Who do you think I was referring to? The exact same gay people that you were.

Lol then you're wrong. Unless you're calling those gay people liars.
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Lol then you're wrong. Unless you're calling those gay people liars.LikeHaterade

...what are you talking about? Re-read my post's please. I was just pointing out a massive hole in your logic. I wasn't calling anybody liars.

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They aren't the product of a conscious action. Vandelvideo's argument was pathetic, mixing up a likely indicator of homosexuality with homosexulity itself. Homosexuality is attraction to others of the same gender. That is not voluntary.Funky_Llama
Vandel's argument set you in place and was very strong, and had very good retorts each time you responded -- I even pitied you considering how persistent you were, yet failed each time. I even have the link to the very thread if you want further proof, lad. Don't worry though, it's human nature to believe as though you're correct even when you're proved wrong.
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Vandel's argument set you in place and was very strong, and had very good retorts each time you responded -- I even pitied you considering how persistent you were, yet failed each time. I even have the link to the very thread if you want further proof, lad. Don't worry though, it's human nature to believe as though you're correct even when you're proved wrong.Stevo_the_gamer
No it wasn't. He argued, basically, that homosexality was screwing men. He was downright wrong. It was a ridiculous argument that anyone thinking straight could see was wrong. As for the last sentence of your post... irony :lol:
[QUOTE="Nude_Dude"]Felt like postin'.Stevo_the_gamer
Clever graph, "nude dude". Though I am sure a few disasters are missing on there. Ha.

Enlighten me.
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[QUOTE="LikeHaterade"]Lol then you're wrong. Unless you're calling those gay people liars.-Sun_Tzu-

...what are you talking about? Re-read my post's please. I was just pointing out a massive hole in your logic. I wasn't calling anybody liars.

You really need to get a clue. What would be the point of a gay person lying about how he/she was gay when everyone already knew that person was gay All you were doing was pointing out OTHER aspects to avoid the fact that there are a lot of gay people that have had previous attraction to the opposite sex before they became gay which shuts down your entire argument. Anyone with a brain stem that has been reading our posts will see how disjointed your argument is right now.
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[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"][QUOTE="LikeHaterade"] No it would not and this is the last time I will say it. A gay person that had a previous attraction to the opposite sex this is now gay means they lost that previous attraction due to experience with the same sex. You can't change the fact that they WERE attracted to the opposite sex. LikeHaterade
Many people believe that they are straight when they are in fact gay because everyone else around them is straight, so they feel comfortable being "straight", and they marry the opposite sex, they have kids and they raise a family. But a man marrying a woman doesn't make him straight. There is an overwhelming amount of people who question their sexuality every day. There is no clear cut line between heterosexuality and homosexuality. These people who seemed to have "converted" are just realizing that they never were really straight. And there is absolutely no proof that a child being taught to respect the gay community will suddenly go from being straight to gay

Just stop. Seriously. You're fighting a losing battle. There are gay people that have HAD HAD HAD See what I'm doing there? They weren't dellusional by their surroundings or any other effect. They HAD an attraction to the opposite sex, and then they lost it due to experience with the same sex. Get over it. There isn't proof but it's obvious it would have an effect. That's called common sense.

Yes, technically there are those who have lost attraction for the opposite sex. Sadly, these cases are rare, and the overwhelming majority involve a traumatic experience with a member of the opposite sex, such as molestation, rape, etc. They don't necessarily permanently lose their attraction for the opposite sex, but much like in cases of amnesia, it's mentally blocked out as a defense mechanism by the brain to avoid the trauma. Science points in the direction that homosexuality is very likely biological(or genetic). Sure, some things can happen after the fact to heterosexuals to slide their sexuality across the border a bit, but it's rare(and incredibly unfortunate).
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No it wasn't. He argued, basically, that homosexality was screwing men. He was downright wrong. It was a ridiculous argument that anyone thinking straight could see was wrong. As for the last sentence of your post... irony :lol:

Enlighten me.Funky_Llama

*yawn*

Believe as you want -- you're more than well entitled to your views, for I cannot change beliefs nor can anyone else -- opinions can change, beliefs cannot. If he was so wrong, you failed to prove why to him and he set you in place with the final reply... a reply which went ... well, unreplied. :P

I'm sorry, lad -- just give it up. And further, I'm no Vandel puppet here, I'm merely expressing how homosexuals are not a protected class.

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[QUOTE="Lockedge"][QUOTE="LikeHaterade"][QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"] Many people believe that they are straight when they are in fact gay because everyone else around them is straight, so they feel comfortable being "straight", and they marry the opposite sex, they have kids and they raise a family. But a man marrying a woman doesn't make him straight. There is an overwhelming amount of people who question their sexuality every day. There is no clear cut line between heterosexuality and homosexuality. These people who seemed to have "converted" are just realizing that they never were really straight. And there is absolutely no proof that a child being taught to respect the gay community will suddenly go from being straight to gay

Just stop. Seriously. You're fighting a losing battle. There are gay people that have HAD HAD HAD See what I'm doing there? They weren't dellusional by their surroundings or any other effect. They HAD an attraction to the opposite sex, and then they lost it due to experience with the same sex. Get over it. There isn't proof but it's obvious it would have an effect. That's called common sense.

Yes, technically there are those who have lost attraction for the opposite sex. Sadly, these cases are rare, and the overwhelming majority involve a traumatic experience with a member of the opposite sex, such as molestation, rape, etc. They don't necessarily permanently lose their attraction for the opposite sex, but much like in cases of amnesia, it's mentally blocked out as a defense mechanism by the brain to avoid the trauma. Science points in the direction that homosexuality is very likely biological(or genetic). Sure, some things can happen after the fact to heterosexuals to slide their sexuality across the border a bit, but it's rare(and incredibly unfortunate).

That's odd because the majority of people that I have heard of that are gay became gay through the way that I have been explaining.
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[QUOTE="Funky_Llama"]No it wasn't. He argued, basically, that homosexality was screwing men. He was downright wrong. It was a ridiculous argument that anyone thinking straight could see was wrong. As for the last sentence of your post... irony :lol:

Enlighten me.Stevo_the_gamer

*yawn*

Believe as you want -- you're more than well entitled to your views, for I cannot change beliefs nor can anyone else -- opinions can change, beliefs cannot. If he was so wrong, you failed to prove why to him and he set you in place with the final reply... a reply which went ... well, unreplied. :P

I'm sorry, lad -- just give it up. And further, I'm no Vandel puppet here, I'm merely expressing how homosexuals are not a protected class.

*sigh* That they are not a protected class doesn't mean they shouldn't be. Also... I don't suppose I couldn't have a link to the thread in question, could I...?
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[QUOTE="Stevo_the_gamer"]Clever graph, "nude dude". Though I am sure a few disasters are missing on there. Ha.Funky_Llama
Enlighten me.

Still waiting for the 'disasters' that gay marriage would cause...
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too lazy to check if this has been said but civil marriage or basically a government recognized marriage alone should be aloud however a lot of contraversy is over them wanting to be aloud to marry in a church but that is only up to the church alone other than that i say let them go for it
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[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"]

[QUOTE="LikeHaterade"]Lol then you're wrong. Unless you're calling those gay people liars.LikeHaterade

...what are you talking about? Re-read my post's please. I was just pointing out a massive hole in your logic. I wasn't calling anybody liars.

You really need to get a clue. What would be the point of a gay person lying about how he/she was gay when everyone already knew that person was gay All you were doing was pointing out OTHER aspects to avoid the fact that there are a lot of gay people that have had previous attraction to the opposite sex before they became gay which shuts down your entire argument. Anyone with a brain stem that has been reading our posts will see how disjointed your argument is right now.

You said that the only reason these once heterosexuals turned homosexual was because they had a sexual encounter with the same sex. You said that the "conversion" of these people had nothing to do with their surroundings. Please explain then, how teaching a straight child respect for the gay community could possibly turn them gay if their surroundings have nothing to do with their orientation. Just tell me that.
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Are they? No. Can they? No. Should they? No, for homosexuality does not fall within the state's definition of minorities. Can that definition change? Possibly. Of course! Link

[QUOTE="Funky_Llama"][QUOTE="Stevo_the_gamer"]Clever graph, "nude dude". Though I am sure a few disasters are missing on there. Ha.Funky_Llama
Enlighten me.

Still waiting for the 'disasters' that gay marriage would cause...

You didn't actually think I was serious... did you? :o

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[QUOTE="Stevo_the_gamer"][QUOTE="Funky_Llama"]*sigh* That they are not a protected class doesn't mean they shouldn't be. Also... I don't suppose I couldn't have a link to the thread in question, could I...?

Are they? No. Can they? No. Should they? No, for homosexuality does not fall within the state's definition of minorities. Can that definition change? Possibly. Of course! Link

What is the state's definition of minorities?
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You didn't actually think I was serious... did you? :o

 

So... what negative effects does it actually have?
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[QUOTE="LikeHaterade"][QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"]

 

...what are you talking about? Re-read my post's please. I was just pointing out a massive hole in your logic. I wasn't calling anybody liars.

-Sun_Tzu-
You really need to get a clue. What would be the point of a gay person lying about how he/she was gay when everyone already knew that person was gay All you were doing was pointing out OTHER aspects to avoid the fact that there are a lot of gay people that have had previous attraction to the opposite sex before they became gay which shuts down your entire argument. Anyone with a brain stem that has been reading our posts will see how disjointed your argument is right now.

You said that the only reason these once heterosexuals turned homosexual was because they had a sexual encounter with the same sex. You said that the "conversion" of these people had nothing to do with their surrounding. Please explain to, how teaching a straight child respect for the gay community could possibly turn them gay if their surrounding have nothing to do with their orientation. Just tell me that.

I said that there ARE people that turn gay due to this reason and not surrounding aspects, thus disproving your original argument. Because most kids in junior high are curious about a lot of things, and teaching them it puts the idea of it in their head about being with someone of the same sex, which the majority of parents are against, making it wrong for schools to do that.
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[QUOTE="ithilgore2006"][QUOTE="LikeHaterade"] If people know that someone is gay what would be the point of that person to lie about having a previous attraction to the opposite sex?LikeHaterade
What? You're making no sense. You said it's a "fact" that people aren't always gay they "turn" gay I asked you why that's a "fact". I'm not even sure what it is you said, a gay person is always gay whether they accept it or not, and many of them don't for a long time, then, even when they do, they hide it, and pretend to be heterosexual, simply because they're afraid of being shunned by society.

I said that it's FACT that there ARE people that turn gay to disprove what's his face's post earlier. I did not say EVERY gay person. You're spinning what I said and I don't appreciate it.

And I asked how you knew that to be a "fact"?
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What is the state's definition of minorities?Funky_Llama
To put it in simplest terms ( I believe you have heard this before as well ;)), the states do not protect those that are not custom to immutable characteristics.

Edit: Forgot to add something. The Consitution also protects minorites as well, and defines minoritys as being the well... not majority opinion. However, the federal government cannot give homosexuals marriage because... well, they're not a protected class. Always keeps going back to that I see.

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[QUOTE="Funky_Llama"][QUOTE="Stevo_the_gamer"][QUOTE="Funky_Llama"]*sigh* That they are not a protected class doesn't mean they shouldn't be. Also... I don't suppose I couldn't have a link to the thread in question, could I...?

Are they? No. Can they? No. Should they? No, for homosexuality does not fall within the state's definition of minorities. Can that definition change? Possibly. Of course! Link

What is the state's definition of minorities?

Also, I found his last comment... it was irrelevant, because observable characteristics do not define sexuality.
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#435 LikeHaterade
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[QUOTE="LikeHaterade"][QUOTE="ithilgore2006"]What? You're making no sense. You said it's a "fact" that people aren't always gay they "turn" gay I asked you why that's a "fact". I'm not even sure what it is you said, a gay person is always gay whether they accept it or not, and many of them don't for a long time, then, even when they do, they hide it, and pretend to be heterosexual, simply because they're afraid of being shunned by society.ithilgore2006
I said that it's FACT that there ARE people that turn gay to disprove what's his face's post earlier. I did not say EVERY gay person. You're spinning what I said and I don't appreciate it.

And I asked how you knew that to be a "fact"?

Because gay people have said so. Now tell me the logic for a gay person to lie about how he/she turned gay when everyone already knows that he/she is gay
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#436 Funky_Llama
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[QUOTE="Funky_Llama"]What is the state's definition of minorities?Stevo_the_gamer
To put it in simplest terms ( I believe you have heard this before as well ;)), the states do not protect those that are not custom to immutable characteristics.

Sexual attraction is not a conscious choice contrary to what VandalVideo claimed. Also... why should a group have to be a minority to be protected? Plus... just checking... a source for that definition, please.
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[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"][QUOTE="LikeHaterade"] You really need to get a clue. What would be the point of a gay person lying about how he/she was gay when everyone already knew that person was gay All you were doing was pointing out OTHER aspects to avoid the fact that there are a lot of gay people that have had previous attraction to the opposite sex before they became gay which shuts down your entire argument. Anyone with a brain stem that has been reading our posts will see how disjointed your argument is right now.LikeHaterade
You said that the only reason these once heterosexuals turned homosexual was because they had a sexual encounter with the same sex. You said that the "conversion" of these people had nothing to do with their surrounding. Please explain to, how teaching a straight child respect for the gay community could possibly turn them gay if their surrounding have nothing to do with their orientation. Just tell me that.

I said that there ARE people that turn gay due to this reason and not surrounding aspects, thus disproving your original argument. Because most kids in junior high are curious about a lot of things, and teaching them it puts the idea of it in their head about being with someone of the same sex, which the majority of parents are against, making it wrong for schools to do that.

 

But see now, you're saying two different things.

On one hand you're saying that the environment and the surroundings people are born into has nothing to do with their orientation. Only the physical act of having a sexual encounter with the same sex turned those people gay

But on the other hand you're saying that if we teach children to respect the gay community (basically, if we were to integrate this into their environment and surroundings) some previously straight individuals will suddenly turn gay because they are being taught that being gay is ok. 

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#438 LikeHaterade
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[QUOTE="LikeHaterade"][QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"] You said that the only reason these once heterosexuals turned homosexual was because they had a sexual encounter with the same sex. You said that the "conversion" of these people had nothing to do with their surrounding. Please explain to, how teaching a straight child respect for the gay community could possibly turn them gay if their surrounding have nothing to do with their orientation. Just tell me that. -Sun_Tzu-
I said that there ARE people that turn gay due to this reason and not surrounding aspects, thus disproving your original argument. Because most kids in junior high are curious about a lot of things, and teaching them it puts the idea of it in their head about being with someone of the same sex, which the majority of parents are against, making it wrong for schools to do that.

 

But see now, you're saying two different things.

On one hand you're saying that the environment and the surroundings people are born into has nothing to do with their orientation. Only the physical act of having a sexual encounter with the same sex turned those people gay

But on the other hand you're saying that if we teach children to respect the gay community (basically, if we were to integrate this into their environment and surroundings) some previously straight individuals will suddenly turn gay because they are being taught that being gay is ok. 

No.....I.....Did.....Not.....Keep putting words in my mouth. I said that there are particular gays that I CHOSE and that EXIST that turn gay not due to surroundings, which disproved your original argument. I WAS NOT REFERRING TO EVERY SINGLE GAY PERSON! Do I have to put it in all caps for you??
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#439 -Sun_Tzu-
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[QUOTE="LikeHaterade"][QUOTE="ithilgore2006"][QUOTE="LikeHaterade"] I said that it's FACT that there ARE people that turn gay to disprove what's his face's post earlier. I did not say EVERY gay person. You're spinning what I said and I don't appreciate it.

And I asked how you knew that to be a "fact"?

Because gay people have said so. Now tell me the logic for a gay person to lie about how he/she turned gay when everyone already knows that he/she is gay

The logic is that they want to appease the gay community, the same way they tried to appease the straight community by pretending to be straight. These are individuals who require a sense of belonging. Saying that you were once straight but then "saw the light" and turned gay may seem to sound a lot better to these individuals than saying you were afraid of being who you actually are.
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#440 LikeHaterade
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[QUOTE="LikeHaterade"][QUOTE="ithilgore2006"]And I asked how you knew that to be a "fact"?-Sun_Tzu-
Because gay people have said so. Now tell me the logic for a gay person to lie about how he/she turned gay when everyone already knows that he/she is gay

The logic is that they want to appease the gay community, the same way they tried to appease the straight community by pretending to be straight. These are individuals who require a sense of belonging. Saying that you were once straight but then "saw the light" and turned gay may seem to sound a lot better to these individuals than saying you were afraid of being who you actually are.

That would in no way appease the gay community. As far as the gay community is concerned, the reason being someone is gay is irrelevant. Equal rights are relevant.
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[QUOTE="LikeHaterade"][QUOTE="Lockedge"][QUOTE="LikeHaterade"] Just stop. Seriously. You're fighting a losing battle. There are gay people that have HAD HAD HAD See what I'm doing there? They weren't dellusional by their surroundings or any other effect. They HAD an attraction to the opposite sex, and then they lost it due to experience with the same sex. Get over it. There isn't proof but it's obvious it would have an effect. That's called common sense.

Yes, technically there are those who have lost attraction for the opposite sex. Sadly, these cases are rare, and the overwhelming majority involve a traumatic experience with a member of the opposite sex, such as molestation, rape, etc. They don't necessarily permanently lose their attraction for the opposite sex, but much like in cases of amnesia, it's mentally blocked out as a defense mechanism by the brain to avoid the trauma. Science points in the direction that homosexuality is very likely biological(or genetic). Sure, some things can happen after the fact to heterosexuals to slide their sexuality across the border a bit, but it's rare(and incredibly unfortunate).

That's odd because the majority of people that I have heard of that are gay became gay through the way that I have been explaining.

According to the APA, "most people experience little or no sense of choice about their sexual orientation." Most environment based influences on sexual orientation link back to biological/hormonal influences or pre-birth environment influences.
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I'm going shopping so we can continue this discussion later Mr. Lockedge. :)
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#443 -Sun_Tzu-
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[QUOTE="LikeHaterade"][QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"][QUOTE="LikeHaterade"] Because gay people have said so. Now tell me the logic for a gay person to lie about how he/she turned gay when everyone already knows that he/she is gay

The logic is that they want to appease the gay community, the same way they tried to appease the straight community by pretending to be straight. These are individuals who require a sense of belonging. Saying that you were once straight but then "saw the light" and turned gay may seem to sound a lot better to these individuals than saying you were afraid of being who you actually are.

That would in no way appease the gay community. As far as the gay community is concerned, the reason being someone is gay is irrelevant. Equal rights are relevant.

I'm not saying that it will actually appease the gay community, I'm saying that these individuals who have "changed" think it would, because by saying they were once straight and then became gay because it does not imply cowardice the same way it would if you were to say that you were afraid of being who you actually were.
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I'm going shopping so we can continue this discussion later Mr. Lockedge. :)LikeHaterade
No worries :D I take it tthere are those black friday sales going on, so I hope you pick up some sweet bargains.
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#445 Lockedge
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[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"][QUOTE="LikeHaterade"][QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"] The logic is that they want to appease the gay community, the same way they tried to appease the straight community by pretending to be straight. These are individuals who require a sense of belonging. Saying that you were once straight but then "saw the light" and turned gay may seem to sound a lot better to these individuals than saying you were afraid of being who you actually are.

That would in no way appease the gay community. As far as the gay community is concerned, the reason being someone is gay is irrelevant. Equal rights are relevant.

I'm not saying that it will actually appease the gay community, I'm saying that these individuals who have "changed" think it would, because by saying they were once straight and then became gay because it does not imply cowardice the same way it would if you were to say that you were afraid of being who you actually were.

I have one or two friends who thought that way. They came clean later on, but only after what...5 years of close friendship? :P I mean, it's somewhat like a MtF transsexual coming out to her male best friend...the "I'm not attracted to guys" card is thrown a lot, just to eliminate any potential thought on the best friend's part that might insinuate the MtF is attracted to him. Whether it's true or not that the MtF is attracted to guys, it's put out there a lot as a defense mechanism.
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#446 links136
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All you need to know is that gay men think like straight women and vice versa. If gays can't get anything, then people with learning disability's can't get anything either.
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#447 scoots9
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wow.... you've actually got a point... I never thought of it like that...
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[QUOTE="GabuEx"][QUOTE="Devour2Survive"] Nobody will have a problem with gays not being allowed to get married. What are you talking about majority of the population? Is that why it's against the law in almost every state.Devour2Survive
I don't really know what you're saying here.

I'm saying, same sex marriage shouldn't be allowed and most people agree with me.

No. Most people dont actually