girlfriends VS porn

3rd option is the most common in a forum.

I'd hope that my bf wouldn't need to watch porn when I'm his gf. If he still does I'd call him sad :Ptofu-lion91

Well, I can almost guarantee you that the dude watches porn. You don't know the fun you're missing if you haven't watched porn with your significant other.

[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="2mrw"]i should have added another option for girls, my badTjeremiah1988

I don't know of many people that "worship" porn. It's just visual aid for hand parties. No one disputes that a real girlfriend is better than porn, but I don't know what the point of choosing one or the other is.

[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"]I'd hope that my bf wouldn't need to watch porn when I'm his gf. If he still does I'd call him sad :PTM_Darkside

Well, I can almost guarantee you that the dude watches porn. You don't know the fun you're missing if you haven't watched porn with your significant other.

[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"][QUOTE="tofu-lion91"] Haha I don't think girls watch porn or I certainly don't so another option isn't needed dw :PTM_Darkside

It's just visual aid for hand parties.

"hand parties" :? :question:

also, i think porn does damage a relationship in some way. Most of my friends who watch porn in their teenage years complained that when it came down to "business", the "solider" wouldnt "solute". Only when porn was presented ,everything was "ok'd". Tjeremiah1988

I believe it's only damaging to a relationship if the otheris heavily opposed to watching porn. Also, your "soldier saluting" theory sounds like some people that went over the edge with porn. :P

Well, a girl that doesn't let me watch porn isn't the right girl for me.

Tip to all naive women

1. Don't bother your boyfriend about watching porn, or even ask him if he does. If he doesn't do it in front of you, doesn't talk about it, and keeps it separate and away from you, trust me, you don't want to know.

2. If your boyfriend says that he doesn't watch porn, especially because he has you, chances are that he's lying. And he's not wrong for lying: there's no possible way he could've answered truthfully, and chances are, your question basically forced him to give you the answer you were looking for.

3. 99% of guys wouldn't give a crap if you ladies watched porn, whatever sort that gets you off. It's a two-way street

4. Attacking your boyfriend for watching porn, particularly if he's never talked about it and you've never witnessed it, is unattractive, as it makes you seem horrendously possessive. It has nothing to do with you or how much your boyfriend loves you, it's not an act of infidelity or disloyalty, so don't make it into one.

Tip to all naive women 1. Don't bother your boyfriend about watching porn, or even ask him if he does. If he doesn't do it in front of you, doesn't talk about it, and keeps it separate and away from you, trust me, you don't want to know. 2. If your boyfriend says that he doesn't watch porn, especially because he has you, chances are that he's lying. And he's not wrong for lying: there's no possible way he could've answered truthfully, and chances are, your question basically forced him to give you the answer he was looking for. 3. 99% of guys wouldn't give a crap if you ladies watched porn, whatever sort that gets you off. It's a two-way street 4. Attacking your boyfriend for watching porn, particularly if he's never talked about it and you've never witnessed it, is unattractive, as it makes you seem horrendously possessive. It has nothing to do with you or how much your boyfriend loves you, it's not an act of infidelity or disloyalty, so don't make it into one.Paladin_King

[QUOTE="matthayter700"] ... you suggest girls don't watch porn based on you as an individual claiming not to do so? Since when did anyone speak for half of the human species?tofu-lion91

You indirectly implied it when you said that you don't think girls look at porn because you don't...matthayter700

And then I went on to explain why.

[QUOTE="Paladin_King"]Tip to all naive women tofu-lion91

Lies! Disgusting, horrendous, flat-out lies! :x But seriously, I've never met a guy who doesn't. :P

[QUOTE="Paladin_King"]Tip to all naive women tofu-lion91

Yes, there are men that don't watch porn. However, that is a famous topic to lie to your girlfriend about. I'm not calling him a liar, but there are many, many guys that lie to their girlfriend about not watching porn.

for the people who are complaining about the Q, the Q is : if u have a GF, do u watch porn, and why if u already have ur GF? doesn't she suppose contain ur desire, and i dun mean physically, i mean communication and the desire to know about the other sex?????

since most porn watchers are males, i am asking them mainly, girls of course are welcomed to say their opinions,and iagree that watching porn is not always an addiction,one more thing, i dun get theppl who watch porn wz theirGF,how do u feel at such a situation? horny, happy, bad, nothing? i can't imagine the situation at all....

[QUOTE="Paladin_King"]Tip to all naive women tofu-lion91

[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="Paladin_King"]Tip to all naive women jimmyjammer69

to people who say all guys watch porn is false. Take me as an example, i dont watch porn, and I notice that woman, not girls, respect you more that you dont. Most "woman" feel better when their man isnt turned on by something else but them. Im basing this on my experience...Tjeremiah1988

I would rather have respect from porn-watching women, anyway. They're more fun. :twisted:

to people who say all guys watch porn is false. Take me as an example, i dont watch porn, and I notice that woman, not girls, respect you more that you dont. Most "woman" feel better when their man isnt turned on by something else but them. Im basing this on my experience...Tjeremiah1988

Yes, there are men that don't watch porn. However, that is a famous topic to lie to your girlfriend about. I'm not calling him a liar, but there are many, many guys that lie to their girlfriend about not watching porn.TM_Darkside

to people who say all guys watch porn is false. Take me as an example, i dont watch porn, and I notice that woman, not girls, respect you more that you dont. Most "woman" feel better when their man isnt turned on by something else but them. Im basing this on my experience...Tjeremiah1988

[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"]to people who say all guys watch porn is false. Take me as an example, i dont watch porn, and I notice that woman, not girls, respect you more that you dont. Most "woman" feel better when their man isnt turned on by something else but them. Im basing this on my experience...jimmyjammer69

[QUOTE="jimmyjammer69"][QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"]to people who say all guys watch porn is false. Take me as an example, i dont watch porn, and I notice that woman, not girls, respect you more that you dont. Most "woman" feel better when their man isnt turned on by something else but them. Im basing this on my experience...Tjeremiah1988

Gimme a break. So because you're deeply in love with her you can't be turned on by other women? It's human nature to find more than one woman attractive.

for the people who are complaining about the Q, the Q is : if u have a GF, do u watch porn, and why if u already have ur GF? doesn't she suppose contain ur desire, and i dun mean physically, i mean communication and the desire to know about the other sex?????

since most porn watchers are males, i am asking them mainly, girls of course are welcomed to say their opinions,and iagree that watching porn is not always an addiction,one more thing, i dun get theppl who watch porn wz theirGF,how do u feel at such a situation? horny, happy, bad, nothing? i can't imagine the situation at all....

2mrw

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[QUOTE="jimmyjammer69"] Oh come on... what girl would believe she was the only one capable of turning a guy on? It's not like as soon as you announce you're in a relatioinship other women cease to exist. If any guy finds he is no longer attracted to other women, then he's either wearing blinkers or too sexually exhausted to dredge up the hormones. Still, I'm sure plenty of women find self control comforting.TM_Darkside

Gimme a break. So because you're deeply in love with her you can't be turned on by other women? It's human nature to find more than one woman attractive.

or could it be hes deeply in love with the WOMAN hes with and respects her more to not watch porn?

Tjeremiah1988

No... [spoiler] I'm not going to say no. But I think it's a conscious decision. Like I say - self control, or as you say - respect. [/spoiler]

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[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"] or could it be hes deeply in love with the WOMAN hes with and respects her more to not watch porn?

Tjeremiah1988

Gimme a break. So because you're deeply in love with her you can't be turned on by other women? It's human nature to find more than one woman attractive.

It's only possible if you're sexually exhausted and have been mentally castrated by your girl. Are you really telling me that you couldn't possibly be turned on by any other woman?

Just being attracted to someone else doesn't mean you're cheating.

[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"][QUOTE="TM_Darkside"]

Gimme a break. So because you're deeply in love with her you can't be turned on by other women? It's human nature to find more than one woman attractive.

TM_Darkside

It's only possible if you're sexually exhausted and have been mentally castrated by your girl. Are you really telling me that you couldn't possibly be turned on by any other woman?

you make it sound as if it isnt possible. Tjeremiah1988

It's only possible if you're sexually exhausted and have been mentally castrated by your girl. Are you really telling me that you couldn't possibly be turned on by any other woman?

[QUOTE="TM_Darkside"]

[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"] you make it sound as if it isnt possible. Tjeremiah1988

It's only possible if you're sexually exhausted and have been mentally castrated by your girl. Are you really telling me that you couldn't possibly be turned on by any other woman?

Most men have no emotional feelings for pixels on a computer screen. It's all stimulative, and I don't see how there's anything wrong with it.

[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"][QUOTE="TM_Darkside"]

Gimme a break. So because you're deeply in love with her you can't be turned on by other women? It's human nature to find more than one woman attractive.

TM_Darkside

It's only possible if you're sexually exhausted and have been mentally castrated by your girl. Are you really telling me that you couldn't possibly be turned on by any other woman?

Just being attracted to someone else doesn't mean you're cheating.

Gimme a break. So because you're deeply in love with her you can't be turned on by other women? It's human nature to find more than one woman attractive.TM_Darkside

[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"][QUOTE="TM_Darkside"]

It's only possible if you're sexually exhausted and have been mentally castrated by your girl. Are you really telling me that you couldn't possibly be turned on by any other woman?

TM_Darkside

Most men have no emotional feelings for pixels on a computer screen. It's all stimulative, and I don't see how there's anything wrong with it.

[QUOTE="TM_Darkside"]Gimme a break. So because you're deeply in love with her you can't be turned on by other women? It's human nature to find more than one woman attractive.AirGuitarist87

you make it sound as if it isnt possible. Tjeremiah1988

It's only possible if you're sexually exhausted and have been mentally castrated by your girl. Are you really telling me that you couldn't possibly be turned on by any other woman?

[QUOTE="TM_Darkside"]Gimme a break. So because you're deeply in love with her you can't be turned on by other women? It's human nature to find more than one woman attractive.AirGuitarist87

[QUOTE="TM_Darkside"]Gimme a break. So because you're deeply in love with her you can't be turned on by other women? It's human nature to find more than one woman attractive.AirGuitarist87

[QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"][QUOTE="TM_Darkside"]Gimme a break. So because you're deeply in love with her you can't be turned on by other women? It's human nature to find more than one woman attractive.Tjeremiah1988

Among cheaters, it's all about getting the sexual thrill. I'm not into it, but cheaters get their jollies from the secretive stuff. Sure it's selfish, but they're trying to achieve a sort of sexual high.

[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"][QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"] Not really. It isn't so much that someone can only be turned on by "the one" but they're turned on by the deep relationship they hold between them; just like some can only be turned on by having a shallow relationship. The stereotypical playboy nightmare is to hear a woman tell him she "loves him". The same can be applied vice versa. From a personal viewpoint, I could never cheat on my girlfriend. I just don't have the emotional capacity (or lack of) to break the trust I hold with her. However I have met people who actively cheat on boyfriends/girlfriends because it's the thrill that turns them on - the thrill of being caught, the thrill of the knowledge that what they are doing is wrong and the thrill that one or both parties is ignorant of the situation. I don't get turned on by that thrill. It's not human nature, it's personal preference.TM_Darkside

Among cheaters, it's all about getting the sexual thrill. I'm not into it, but cheaters get their jollies from the secretive stuff. Sure it's selfish, but they're trying to achieve a sort of sexual high.

No, it won't. :P

[QUOTE="Paladin_King"] Re-read my post. Nowhere did i say that EVERY guy watches porn. But i did say the majority. Oh, and chances are, that at least a few of the guys who've told you they don't watch porn were lying. In fact, if i could, i would bet money on it. Honestly, as yourself, if your boyfriend at the time watched porn, do you really think he'd tell you, let alone when you ASKED him? Nothing good would come of his telling you he did, if he did. The bottom-line is that you have absolutely no proof whatsoever that anyone who said "no, i don't watch porn" were telling the truth. I will guaran-damn-tee you that a substantial portion were not. I won't go hunting for statistics, but i'll tell you something: I spent 13 years in an all-boys school and another 5 years in college where the majority of my friends were male. More or less every man I have ever gotten to know watches porn or at least gets stimulation from viewing pictures of pretty ladies at least now and then. It's not question of "does he" or "doesn't he" it's merely a question of "how much?" Are there men who don't masturbate/watch porn? I'm sure there are. But they sure as hell are the minority. Oh, one other thing. Even if your boyfriend doesn't watch porn or look at pictures of other girls, the chances are even worse for his never masturbating and if he masturbates, chances are that he's not thinking of you every single time. Also, there are many women out there, including feminist groups, who would quite rightfully despise the very suggestion that girls don't look at porn.tofu-lion91

Sorry if I offended you :?

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[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"] one of my friends LOVES to cheat on woman, he gets excited when he cheats and hardly gets caught. I see what your saying. chester706

Among cheaters, it's all about getting the sexual thrill. I'm not into it, but cheaters get their jollies from the secretive stuff. Sure it's selfish, but they're trying to achieve a sort of sexual high.

That's what my mind first jumps to as well, but then I start to believe that maybe I just don't function the same way they do. Who am I to judge?