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Don't take it all so seriously. Like you say, it's not a big deal whether he does or doesn't, and if you're sure he doesn't, then great. It's just surprising and a lot of guys do lie about it, that's all.It's hard not to take it seriously when Paladin is offending me. It's ok btw, I can understand why you doubt what I say but nobody but me here has the right to say what my bf does and doesn't.Sorry if I offended you :?jimmyjammer69
And how do you know when the mood strikes? Do you have hidden cameras? Do you have hard evidence that he doesn't? Already you're contradicting yourself. "He's not the type of lad who's into porn" and then you say that he did "watch it...once every so often when the mood struck." So he's a guy who's not into porn....but watches porn occasionally anyway? Huh? What'd I miss here? The problem is that you have no way of knowing what he does, nor should you. The other thing is that you are counting on YOUR boyfriend being the rare exception to what is the absolute norm. Counting against the odds is rarely correct, especially when your boyfriend, by your own admission, is no stranger to "adult entertainment." That said, you're probably better off not knowing. It ain't being patronizing, it's facing reality over idealistic naivety. The odds are hugely against what you believe being true. Notice i said "the odds," which means I'm not saying with 100% certitude that he's doing it, which also means i don't have to "know" you two personally. Paladin_King
So basically you're calling me naive and plain wrong because it's 'against the norm'. How about I know him a **** load more than you do so I think I know whether he watches porn or not. TJ even said he doesn't watch porn. He MUST be BS'ing too! Grow up and face the fact: not all men are into porn.
to people who say all guys watch porn is false. Take me as an example, i dont watch porn, and I notice that woman, not girls, respect you more that you dont. Most "woman" feel better when their man isnt turned on by something else but them. Im basing this on my experience...Tjeremiah1988Lol. That's BS. Just because you don't act on it doesn't mean it doesn't turn you on :?
It's hard not to take it seriously when Paladin is offending me. It's ok btw, I can understand why you doubt what I say but nobody but me here has the right to say what my bf does and doesn't. Except me. I have that right. Mostly due to my being awesome. Consider that the old olive branch tofu-lion. I'm not meaning to make it personal :P. From my experience and perspective, I just find that relationships are usually better off when neither side, boyfriend or girlfriend, harbour these sorts of beliefs or expectations of each other, that's all. To me, maybe he does, maybe he doesn't, but while he may be the exception, the chances aren't in his favour. And frankly, as you've suggested, who cares? That's the healthiest view i think: he does, or he doesn't: who cares? Don't live under the expectation of something that cannot be proven and is unfortunately unlikely, but on the other hand, don't bother putting stock into the alternative either. It just doesn't matter, and if you keep fervently believing that he doesn't engage in these activities, some little, tiny, bitty part of you is making it matter. Anyway, again, I realize I'm being a bit of a dick, but experience-wise and such, I'm not trying to flame you or anything.[QUOTE="jimmyjammer69"]Don't take it all so seriously. Like you say, it's not a big deal whether he does or doesn't, and if you're sure he doesn't, then great. It's just surprising and a lot of guys do lie about it, that's all.
Sorry if I offended you :?tofu-lion91
I can understand if she'd be uncomfortable at the idea of me watching porn but it's a whole 'nother thing to flip out and try to control me. If she's going to try and rule with such an iron fist she knows where the door is.
you seem to have forgotten that P.O.R.N stands for Pallus Organ Removal Nanobots, trust me you don't want those near youWhat the hell do we need protecting from exactly?
blazinpuertoroc
Porn doesn't get jealous if you look at others.CptJSparrowNot true. I went upstairs to my bedroom one night after a hot, sweaty night of action with my sleak new XPS laptop in the basement. I found the light off, my old, trusty desktop computer sleeping in the middle of the bed, and a note on the door telling me to move my things out the next morning, and to take my "cheap, overpriced, portable whore" with me. It sucked :( .
[QUOTE="CptJSparrow"]Porn doesn't get jealous if you look at others.Paladin_KingNot true. I went upstairs to my bedroom one night after a hot, sweaty night of action with my sleak new XPS laptop in the basement. I found the light off, my old, trusty desktop computer sleeping in the middle of the bed, and a note on the door telling me to move my things out the next morning, and to take my "cheap, overpriced, portable whore" with me. It sucked :( .
Genius. :lol:
Watch pr0n together FTW! WestSideAznYou're going to whip out an American Pie quote......oh screw it "Need a hand?"
Not true. I went upstairs to my bedroom one night after a hot, sweaty night of action with my sleak new XPS laptop in the basement. I found the light off, my old, trusty desktop computer sleeping in the middle of the bed, and a note on the door telling me to move my things out the next morning, and to take my "cheap, overpriced, portable whore" with me. It sucked :( .[QUOTE="Paladin_King"][QUOTE="CptJSparrow"]Porn doesn't get jealous if you look at others.TM_Darkside
Genius. :lol:
I'm a bit surprised she didn't see it coming to be honest. She was always worried about her size, and I seriously could hardly take her out anywhere.I got friends that are having sex with their gf, but they still beat it. And if you weren't in sexual relationship would your girl i'm pretty sure most dude would keep doing it. So I think this is a no for most dudes.
If she ask do you watch porn just laugh and hug/kiss her, that what one of my friends did and it worked.
[QUOTE="2mrw"][QUOTE="tofu-lion91"]Oh and I voted that I don't have a gf btw for obvious reasons. I don't think TC has realised there are actually girls on this site :Ptofu-lion91i should have added another option for girls, my bad Haha I don't think girls watch porn or I certainly don't so another option isn't needed dw :P I watch porn :|
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[QUOTE="Paladin_King"] And how do you know when the mood strikes? Do you have hidden cameras? Do you have hard evidence that he doesn't? Already you're contradicting yourself. "He's not the type of lad who's into porn" and then you say that he did "watch it...once every so often when the mood struck." So he's a guy who's not into porn....but watches porn occasionally anyway? Huh? What'd I miss here? The problem is that you have no way of knowing what he does, nor should you. The other thing is that you are counting on YOUR boyfriend being the rare exception to what is the absolute norm. Counting against the odds is rarely correct, especially when your boyfriend, by your own admission, is no stranger to "adult entertainment." That said, you're probably better off not knowing. It ain't being patronizing, it's facing reality over idealistic naivety. The odds are hugely against what you believe being true. Notice i said "the odds," which means I'm not saying with 100% certitude that he's doing it, which also means i don't have to "know" you two personally. dreamdude
So basically you're calling me naive and plain wrong because it's 'against the norm'. How about I know him a **** load more than you do so I think I know whether he watches porn or not. TJ even said he doesn't watch porn. He MUST be BS'ing too! Grow up and face the fact: not all men are into porn.
I know plenty of guys who arn't into porn.
Its a terrible generalization to believe that its the norm for guys to watch porn.
I think it is the norm, most dudes i've talked to admit it. One of my friends doesn't though cause he believes it break his abstinence vow.
who said this again:
"95% of men admit to watching porn
5% Don't watch porn
that 5 percent lied"
How can a girlfriend protect one from getting porn? While I don't look at porn as much when I have a steady girlfriend it doesn't stop me from looking at any. In fact, most of the women I've been with will watch it with me or if I am looking at it they don't mind as long as I'm not all sneaky beahind her back about it. And I can definitely say that women like their porn as much as men.
[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="2mrw"]i should have added another option for girls, my badSajedeneHaha I don't think girls watch porn or I certainly don't so another option isn't needed dw :P I watch porn :| And so do plenty of other girls.
"cheat on" and "find attractive" are two entirely different things. The male libido doesn't entirely die off when I'm in a relationship. I am incredibly (even notoriously) loyal when in a relationship, but if I see an attractive woman walking down the street, I will notice her as being attractive. I'm not dead and while emotionally, I'm a very monogamous guy, biologically, I'm not sure if anyone is.Paladin_KingThat wasn't my point - my point was different people are turned on to different things. You can find someone attractive and not feel sexually aroused and vice versa. Darkside proclaimed that it's inevitable to be attracted to more than one woman, and that simply isn't true. What is deemed to be "attractive" and "sexual" is just far too subjective. You might be attracted to the random girl walking down the street, but I won't. I personally love a good conversation with a girl, imagine trying to put that into Page 3 or Nuts magazine.
[QUOTE="Paladin_King"]"cheat on" and "find attractive" are two entirely different things. The male libido doesn't entirely die off when I'm in a relationship. I am incredibly (even notoriously) loyal when in a relationship, but if I see an attractive woman walking down the street, I will notice her as being attractive. I'm not dead and while emotionally, I'm a very monogamous guy, biologically, I'm not sure if anyone is.AirGuitarist87That wasn't my point - my point was different people are turned on to different things. You can find someone attractive and not feel sexually aroused and vice versa. Darkside proclaimed that it's inevitable to be attracted to more than one woman, and that simply isn't true. What is deemed to be "attractive" and "sexual" is just far too subjective. You might be attracted to the random girl walking down the street, but I won't. I personally love a good conversation with a girl, imagine trying to put that into Page 3 or Nuts magazine. How would you know? How can you say it is not true that you can be attracted to two or more women at once. it is more than normal and more than possible.
[QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"][QUOTE="Paladin_King"]"cheat on" and "find attractive" are two entirely different things. The male libido doesn't entirely die off when I'm in a relationship. I am incredibly (even notoriously) loyal when in a relationship, but if I see an attractive woman walking down the street, I will notice her as being attractive. I'm not dead and while emotionally, I'm a very monogamous guy, biologically, I'm not sure if anyone is.SajedeneThat wasn't my point - my point was different people are turned on to different things. You can find someone attractive and not feel sexually aroused and vice versa. Darkside proclaimed that it's inevitable to be attracted to more than one woman, and that simply isn't true. What is deemed to be "attractive" and "sexual" is just far too subjective. You might be attracted to the random girl walking down the street, but I won't. I personally love a good conversation with a girl, imagine trying to put that into Page 3 or Nuts magazine. How would you know? How can you say it is not true that you can be attracted to two or more women at once. it is more than normal and more than possible.
Got me in trouble more than once. :lol:
[QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"][QUOTE="Paladin_King"]"cheat on" and "find attractive" are two entirely different things. The male libido doesn't entirely die off when I'm in a relationship. I am incredibly (even notoriously) loyal when in a relationship, but if I see an attractive woman walking down the street, I will notice her as being attractive. I'm not dead and while emotionally, I'm a very monogamous guy, biologically, I'm not sure if anyone is.SajedeneThat wasn't my point - my point was different people are turned on to different things. You can find someone attractive and not feel sexually aroused and vice versa. Darkside proclaimed that it's inevitable to be attracted to more than one woman, and that simply isn't true. What is deemed to be "attractive" and "sexual" is just far too subjective. You might be attracted to the random girl walking down the street, but I won't. I personally love a good conversation with a girl, imagine trying to put that into Page 3 or Nuts magazine. How would you know? How can you say it is not true that you can be attracted to two or more women at once. it is more than normal and more than possible. The keyword there was "possible". Just because I disagreed with Darkside's superlative statement doesn't mean I advocate the exact opposite of it. As I said before, being attracted to more than one person is more than natural to be attracted to just one person.
so u are saying ur GFs didn't fill ur space so u headed 2 porn??How can a girlfriend protect one from getting porn? While I don't look at porn as much when I have a steady girlfriend it doesn't stop me from looking at any. In fact, most of the women I've been with will watch it with me or if I am looking at it they don't mind as long as I'm not all sneaky beahind her back about it. And I can definitely say that women like their porn as much as men.
Buck_Hotep
[QUOTE="Buck_Hotep"]so u are saying ur GFs didn't fill ur space so u headed 2 porn??How can a girlfriend protect one from getting porn? While I don't look at porn as much when I have a steady girlfriend it doesn't stop me from looking at any. In fact, most of the women I've been with will watch it with me or if I am looking at it they don't mind as long as I'm not all sneaky beahind her back about it. And I can definitely say that women like their porn as much as men.
2mrw
That maybe it. She didn't mind but then it's not like I watched it while she was in the room or just in the house.
Hell yes. Girlfriends do everything that happens in porn. That just pretend they don't.gunswordfistIt's not that they pretend they don't. It's that they pretend that they don't WANT to.
lolz for the 'no' guys - u pervs......
for the 'don't know" guys - mee tooo i didn't know there were soo many of us...... :shock: :lol:
Protect? What is wrong with porn? I want whomever I meet to be not only into watching porn together with me but enjoy the same kinds as I do.
iv been with my girlfriend for over 3 years, and everyday i look at porn.
even if she increased her payload, i would still need to make time for precious precious freaky porn
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