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#101 Paladin_King
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[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"] I'm sorry but who's boyfriend is this? You haven't ever met the guy and you never will so don't go telling me what he does and does not. I've explained on more than one occasion why I believe him. He's not the type of lad who's into porn and when he did used to watch it, it was once every so often when the mood struck. I don't really give a crap whether he thinks about me or not whilst doing it - I'm not that type of person to get angry about it. Which is another reason why I believe him. Something that does make me angry is people who judge and patronize other people when they know absolutely nothing about that person.

And how do you know when the mood strikes? Do you have hidden cameras? Do you have hard evidence that he doesn't? Already you're contradicting yourself. "He's not the type of lad who's into porn" and then you say that he did "watch it...once every so often when the mood struck." So he's a guy who's not into porn....but watches porn occasionally anyway? Huh? What'd I miss here? The problem is that you have no way of knowing what he does, nor should you. The other thing is that you are counting on YOUR boyfriend being the rare exception to what is the absolute norm. Counting against the odds is rarely correct, especially when your boyfriend, by your own admission, is no stranger to "adult entertainment." That said, you're probably better off not knowing. It ain't being patronizing, it's facing reality over idealistic naivety. The odds are hugely against what you believe being true. Notice i said "the odds," which means I'm not saying with 100% certitude that he's doing it, which also means i don't have to "know" you two personally.
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#102 MagusAugury
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My wife enjoys porn more than I do. How about them apples?

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You are a very lucky man! :D

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#103 tofu-lion91
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Don't take it all so seriously. Like you say, it's not a big deal whether he does or doesn't, and if you're sure he doesn't, then great. It's just surprising and a lot of guys do lie about it, that's all.

Sorry if I offended you :?jimmyjammer69

It's hard not to take it seriously when Paladin is offending me. It's ok btw, I can understand why you doubt what I say but nobody but me here has the right to say what my bf does and doesn't.

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#104 tofu-lion91
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And how do you know when the mood strikes? Do you have hidden cameras? Do you have hard evidence that he doesn't? Already you're contradicting yourself. "He's not the type of lad who's into porn" and then you say that he did "watch it...once every so often when the mood struck." So he's a guy who's not into porn....but watches porn occasionally anyway? Huh? What'd I miss here? The problem is that you have no way of knowing what he does, nor should you. The other thing is that you are counting on YOUR boyfriend being the rare exception to what is the absolute norm. Counting against the odds is rarely correct, especially when your boyfriend, by your own admission, is no stranger to "adult entertainment." That said, you're probably better off not knowing. It ain't being patronizing, it's facing reality over idealistic naivety. The odds are hugely against what you believe being true. Notice i said "the odds," which means I'm not saying with 100% certitude that he's doing it, which also means i don't have to "know" you two personally. Paladin_King

So basically you're calling me naive and plain wrong because it's 'against the norm'. How about I know him a **** load more than you do so I think I know whether he watches porn or not. TJ even said he doesn't watch porn. He MUST be BS'ing too! Grow up and face the fact: not all men are into porn.

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#105 YellowPop
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My take on Porn, thanks to this topic? P.O.R.N. stalk the streets as if it were a pack of wolves. Our last line of defense, G.I.R.L.F.R.I.E.N.D. is fighting a losing battle. It began on a warm and sunny Tuesday, a man like any other sat down to complete a horrific ritual when he found he needed aid to complete it. Five minutes later at his computer and he was naught but a shell of the man he once was. P.O.R.N. took like a lover's embrace, with many a promise of 'FREE XXX HARDCORE'. 'Twas only the beginning of an assault on man, nay, the world! To it's sick mind, not even animals are safe... Years later a hero by the name of George Zimmer would attempt to lasso the entity, but would be struck down; Indeed, P.O.R.N.'s victory was to be absolute. Weep, for it is just the beginning. Mourn, for none are safe.
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#106 blazinpuertoroc
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What the hell do we need protecting from exactly?

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#108 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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to people who say all guys watch porn is false. Take me as an example, i dont watch porn, and I notice that woman, not girls, respect you more that you dont. Most "woman" feel better when their man isnt turned on by something else but them. Im basing this on my experience...Tjeremiah1988
Lol. That's BS. Just because you don't act on it doesn't mean it doesn't turn you on :?

Any guy that says he *only* gets turned on by his own woman is hiding something, in my book.
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#109 Paladin_King
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[QUOTE="jimmyjammer69"]Don't take it all so seriously. Like you say, it's not a big deal whether he does or doesn't, and if you're sure he doesn't, then great. It's just surprising and a lot of guys do lie about it, that's all.

Sorry if I offended you :?tofu-lion91

It's hard not to take it seriously when Paladin is offending me. It's ok btw, I can understand why you doubt what I say but nobody but me here has the right to say what my bf does and doesn't.

Except me. I have that right. Mostly due to my being awesome. Consider that the old olive branch tofu-lion. I'm not meaning to make it personal :P. From my experience and perspective, I just find that relationships are usually better off when neither side, boyfriend or girlfriend, harbour these sorts of beliefs or expectations of each other, that's all. To me, maybe he does, maybe he doesn't, but while he may be the exception, the chances aren't in his favour. And frankly, as you've suggested, who cares? That's the healthiest view i think: he does, or he doesn't: who cares? Don't live under the expectation of something that cannot be proven and is unfortunately unlikely, but on the other hand, don't bother putting stock into the alternative either. It just doesn't matter, and if you keep fervently believing that he doesn't engage in these activities, some little, tiny, bitty part of you is making it matter. Anyway, again, I realize I'm being a bit of a dick, but experience-wise and such, I'm not trying to flame you or anything.
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#110 CptJSparrow
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Porn doesn't get jealous if you look at others.
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#112 dracula_16
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I can understand if she'd be uncomfortable at the idea of me watching porn but it's a whole 'nother thing to flip out and try to control me. If she's going to try and rule with such an iron fist she knows where the door is.

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#113 markop2003
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What the hell do we need protecting from exactly?

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you seem to have forgotten that P.O.R.N stands for Pallus Organ Removal Nanobots, trust me you don't want those near you
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#114 chessmaster1989
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Oh my... the "i dun have a GF" category is winning :P. I'm in that category.... :(
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#115 tofu-lion91
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[QUOTE="Paladin_King"] Except me. I have that right. Mostly due to my being awesome. Consider that the old olive branch tofu-lion. I'm not meaning to make it personal :P. From my experience and perspective, I just find that relationships are usually better off when neither side, boyfriend or girlfriend, harbour these sorts of beliefs or expectations of each other, that's all. To me, maybe he does, maybe he doesn't, but while he may be the exception, the chances aren't in his favour. And frankly, as you've suggested, who cares? That's the healthiest view i think: he does, or he doesn't: who cares? Don't live under the expectation of something that cannot be proven and is unfortunately unlikely, but on the other hand, don't bother putting stock into the alternative either. It just doesn't matter, and if you keep fervently believing that he doesn't engage in these activities, some little, tiny, bitty part of you is making it matter. Anyway, again, I realize I'm being a bit of a dick, but experience-wise and such, I'm not trying to flame you or anything.

I don't have these expectations of him and you're right: I don't care. But you were making things quite personal and I had to step up to meet that mark which made it seem like I had these expectations of him. I just take judgements about me and my partners v.offensively and if you haven't noticed I have a lot of pride :) Let's leave it at that shall we? :P
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#116 Paladin_King
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Porn doesn't get jealous if you look at others.CptJSparrow
Not true. I went upstairs to my bedroom one night after a hot, sweaty night of action with my sleak new XPS laptop in the basement. I found the light off, my old, trusty desktop computer sleeping in the middle of the bed, and a note on the door telling me to move my things out the next morning, and to take my "cheap, overpriced, portable whore" with me. It sucked :( .
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Watch pr0n together FTW!
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#118 Paladin_King
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[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="Paladin_King"] Except me. I have that right. Mostly due to my being awesome. Consider that the old olive branch tofu-lion. I'm not meaning to make it personal :P. From my experience and perspective, I just find that relationships are usually better off when neither side, boyfriend or girlfriend, harbour these sorts of beliefs or expectations of each other, that's all. To me, maybe he does, maybe he doesn't, but while he may be the exception, the chances aren't in his favour. And frankly, as you've suggested, who cares? That's the healthiest view i think: he does, or he doesn't: who cares? Don't live under the expectation of something that cannot be proven and is unfortunately unlikely, but on the other hand, don't bother putting stock into the alternative either. It just doesn't matter, and if you keep fervently believing that he doesn't engage in these activities, some little, tiny, bitty part of you is making it matter. Anyway, again, I realize I'm being a bit of a dick, but experience-wise and such, I'm not trying to flame you or anything.

I don't have these expectations of him and you're right: I don't care. But you were making things quite personal and I had to step up to meet that mark which made it seem like I had these expectations of him. I just take judgements about me and my partners v.offensively and if you haven't noticed I have a lot of pride :) Let's leave it at that shall we? :P

No worries. Different people take things different ways, and in your earlier post, I realized "heated, impassioned argument" was turning into personal offence. Sorry about that. My God, it's remarkably refreshing when things like this over the freaking internet actually end in a friendly manner
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[QUOTE="CptJSparrow"]Porn doesn't get jealous if you look at others.Paladin_King
Not true. I went upstairs to my bedroom one night after a hot, sweaty night of action with my sleak new XPS laptop in the basement. I found the light off, my old, trusty desktop computer sleeping in the middle of the bed, and a note on the door telling me to move my things out the next morning, and to take my "cheap, overpriced, portable whore" with me. It sucked :( .

Genius. :lol:

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Watch pr0n together FTW! WestSideAzn
You're going to whip out an American Pie quote......oh screw it "Need a hand?"
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#121 tofu-lion91
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[QUOTE="Paladin_King"] No worries. Different people take things different ways, and in your earlier post, I realized "heated, impassioned argument" was turning into personal offence. Sorry about that. My God, it's remarkably refreshing when things like this over the freaking internet actually end in a friendly manner

It's ok :) I agree - I hate it when things turn nasty on the internet because I don't like having bad feelings with anybody. And your post above made me chuckle :P
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#122 Paladin_King
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[QUOTE="Paladin_King"][QUOTE="CptJSparrow"]Porn doesn't get jealous if you look at others.TM_Darkside

Not true. I went upstairs to my bedroom one night after a hot, sweaty night of action with my sleak new XPS laptop in the basement. I found the light off, my old, trusty desktop computer sleeping in the middle of the bed, and a note on the door telling me to move my things out the next morning, and to take my "cheap, overpriced, portable whore" with me. It sucked :( .

Genius. :lol:

I'm a bit surprised she didn't see it coming to be honest. She was always worried about her size, and I seriously could hardly take her out anywhere.
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I got friends that are having sex with their gf, but they still beat it. And if you weren't in sexual relationship would your girl i'm pretty sure most dude would keep doing it. So I think this is a no for most dudes.

If she ask do you watch porn just laugh and hug/kiss her, that what one of my friends did and it worked.

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#124 Paladin_King
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[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="Paladin_King"] No worries. Different people take things different ways, and in your earlier post, I realized "heated, impassioned argument" was turning into personal offence. Sorry about that. My God, it's remarkably refreshing when things like this over the freaking internet actually end in a friendly manner

It's ok :) I agree - I hate it when things turn nasty on the internet because I don't like having bad feelings with anybody. And your post above made me chuckle :P

It's why I usually avoid political/religious threads. Ugh.
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#126 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="2mrw"][QUOTE="tofu-lion91"]Oh and I voted that I don't have a gf btw for obvious reasons. I don't think TC has realised there are actually girls on this site :Ptofu-lion91
i should have added another option for girls, my bad

Haha I don't think girls watch porn or I certainly don't so another option isn't needed dw :P

I watch porn :|
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[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"]

[QUOTE="Paladin_King"] And how do you know when the mood strikes? Do you have hidden cameras? Do you have hard evidence that he doesn't? Already you're contradicting yourself. "He's not the type of lad who's into porn" and then you say that he did "watch it...once every so often when the mood struck." So he's a guy who's not into porn....but watches porn occasionally anyway? Huh? What'd I miss here? The problem is that you have no way of knowing what he does, nor should you. The other thing is that you are counting on YOUR boyfriend being the rare exception to what is the absolute norm. Counting against the odds is rarely correct, especially when your boyfriend, by your own admission, is no stranger to "adult entertainment." That said, you're probably better off not knowing. It ain't being patronizing, it's facing reality over idealistic naivety. The odds are hugely against what you believe being true. Notice i said "the odds," which means I'm not saying with 100% certitude that he's doing it, which also means i don't have to "know" you two personally. dreamdude

So basically you're calling me naive and plain wrong because it's 'against the norm'. How about I know him a **** load more than you do so I think I know whether he watches porn or not. TJ even said he doesn't watch porn. He MUST be BS'ing too! Grow up and face the fact: not all men are into porn.

I know plenty of guys who arn't into porn.

Its a terrible generalization to believe that its the norm for guys to watch porn.

I think it is the norm, most dudes i've talked to admit it. One of my friends doesn't though cause he believes it break his abstinence vow.

who said this again:

"95% of men admit to watching porn

5% Don't watch porn

that 5 percent lied"

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#128 Buck_Hotep
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How can a girlfriend protect one from getting porn? While I don't look at porn as much when I have a steady girlfriend it doesn't stop me from looking at any. In fact, most of the women I've been with will watch it with me or if I am looking at it they don't mind as long as I'm not all sneaky beahind her back about it. And I can definitely say that women like their porn as much as men.

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#129 darksword1123
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[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="2mrw"]i should have added another option for girls, my badSajedene
Haha I don't think girls watch porn or I certainly don't so another option isn't needed dw :P

I watch porn :|

And so do plenty of other girls.
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"cheat on" and "find attractive" are two entirely different things. The male libido doesn't entirely die off when I'm in a relationship. I am incredibly (even notoriously) loyal when in a relationship, but if I see an attractive woman walking down the street, I will notice her as being attractive. I'm not dead and while emotionally, I'm a very monogamous guy, biologically, I'm not sure if anyone is.Paladin_King
That wasn't my point - my point was different people are turned on to different things. You can find someone attractive and not feel sexually aroused and vice versa. Darkside proclaimed that it's inevitable to be attracted to more than one woman, and that simply isn't true. What is deemed to be "attractive" and "sexual" is just far too subjective. You might be attracted to the random girl walking down the street, but I won't. I personally love a good conversation with a girl, imagine trying to put that into Page 3 or Nuts magazine.
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#131 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Paladin_King"]"cheat on" and "find attractive" are two entirely different things. The male libido doesn't entirely die off when I'm in a relationship. I am incredibly (even notoriously) loyal when in a relationship, but if I see an attractive woman walking down the street, I will notice her as being attractive. I'm not dead and while emotionally, I'm a very monogamous guy, biologically, I'm not sure if anyone is.AirGuitarist87
That wasn't my point - my point was different people are turned on to different things. You can find someone attractive and not feel sexually aroused and vice versa. Darkside proclaimed that it's inevitable to be attracted to more than one woman, and that simply isn't true. What is deemed to be "attractive" and "sexual" is just far too subjective. You might be attracted to the random girl walking down the street, but I won't. I personally love a good conversation with a girl, imagine trying to put that into Page 3 or Nuts magazine.

How would you know? How can you say it is not true that you can be attracted to two or more women at once. it is more than normal and more than possible.
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#132 Buck_Hotep
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[QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"][QUOTE="Paladin_King"]"cheat on" and "find attractive" are two entirely different things. The male libido doesn't entirely die off when I'm in a relationship. I am incredibly (even notoriously) loyal when in a relationship, but if I see an attractive woman walking down the street, I will notice her as being attractive. I'm not dead and while emotionally, I'm a very monogamous guy, biologically, I'm not sure if anyone is.Sajedene
That wasn't my point - my point was different people are turned on to different things. You can find someone attractive and not feel sexually aroused and vice versa. Darkside proclaimed that it's inevitable to be attracted to more than one woman, and that simply isn't true. What is deemed to be "attractive" and "sexual" is just far too subjective. You might be attracted to the random girl walking down the street, but I won't. I personally love a good conversation with a girl, imagine trying to put that into Page 3 or Nuts magazine.

How would you know? How can you say it is not true that you can be attracted to two or more women at once. it is more than normal and more than possible.

Got me in trouble more than once. :lol:

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#133 2mrw
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What the hell do we need protecting from exactly?

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porn is filthy as i remember, i can forgive u if u dun have a GF, but watching porn while u have one is like stealing money when u are the richest man on earth
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#134 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="darksword1123"][QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="tofu-lion91"] Haha I don't think girls watch porn or I certainly don't so another option isn't needed dw :P

I watch porn :|

And so do plenty of other girls.

I know!
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#135 AirGuitarist87
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[QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"][QUOTE="Paladin_King"]"cheat on" and "find attractive" are two entirely different things. The male libido doesn't entirely die off when I'm in a relationship. I am incredibly (even notoriously) loyal when in a relationship, but if I see an attractive woman walking down the street, I will notice her as being attractive. I'm not dead and while emotionally, I'm a very monogamous guy, biologically, I'm not sure if anyone is.Sajedene
That wasn't my point - my point was different people are turned on to different things. You can find someone attractive and not feel sexually aroused and vice versa. Darkside proclaimed that it's inevitable to be attracted to more than one woman, and that simply isn't true. What is deemed to be "attractive" and "sexual" is just far too subjective. You might be attracted to the random girl walking down the street, but I won't. I personally love a good conversation with a girl, imagine trying to put that into Page 3 or Nuts magazine.

How would you know? How can you say it is not true that you can be attracted to two or more women at once. it is more than normal and more than possible.

The keyword there was "possible". Just because I disagreed with Darkside's superlative statement doesn't mean I advocate the exact opposite of it. As I said before, being attracted to more than one person is more than natural to be attracted to just one person.
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#136 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"][QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"] That wasn't my point - my point was different people are turned on to different things. You can find someone attractive and not feel sexually aroused and vice versa. Darkside proclaimed that it's inevitable to be attracted to more than one woman, and that simply isn't true. What is deemed to be "attractive" and "sexual" is just far too subjective. You might be attracted to the random girl walking down the street, but I won't. I personally love a good conversation with a girl, imagine trying to put that into Page 3 or Nuts magazine.

How would you know? How can you say it is not true that you can be attracted to two or more women at once. it is more than normal and more than possible.

The keyword there was "possible". Just because I disagreed with Darkside's superlative statement doesn't mean I advocate the exact opposite of it. As I said before, being attracted to more than one person is more than natural to be attracted to just one person.

But it is inevitable to be attracted to more than one woman/man. I don't see how you can say that is not true -- which you are trying to say now. So I'm confused.
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#137 2mrw
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How can a girlfriend protect one from getting porn? While I don't look at porn as much when I have a steady girlfriend it doesn't stop me from looking at any. In fact, most of the women I've been with will watch it with me or if I am looking at it they don't mind as long as I'm not all sneaky beahind her back about it. And I can definitely say that women like their porn as much as men.

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so u are saying ur GFs didn't fill ur space so u headed 2 porn??
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#138 Buck_Hotep
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[QUOTE="Buck_Hotep"]

How can a girlfriend protect one from getting porn? While I don't look at porn as much when I have a steady girlfriend it doesn't stop me from looking at any. In fact, most of the women I've been with will watch it with me or if I am looking at it they don't mind as long as I'm not all sneaky beahind her back about it. And I can definitely say that women like their porn as much as men.

2mrw

so u are saying ur GFs didn't fill ur space so u headed 2 porn??

That maybe it. She didn't mind but then it's not like I watched it while she was in the room or just in the house.

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#139 AirGuitarist87
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] How would you know? How can you say it is not true that you can be attracted to two or more women at once. it is more than normal and more than possible.

The keyword there was "possible". Just because I disagreed with Darkside's superlative statement doesn't mean I advocate the exact opposite of it. As I said before, being attracted to more than one person is more than natural to be attracted to just one person.

But it is inevitable to be attracted to more than one woman/man. I don't see how you can say that is not true -- which you are trying to say now. So I'm confused.

I don't see how being kicked in the face would be sexy, but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Like I said, I'm not saying that the exact opposite is true, but it is very possible to just be attracted to just one person in your life.
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#140 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"][QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"] The keyword there was "possible". Just because I disagreed with Darkside's superlative statement doesn't mean I advocate the exact opposite of it. As I said before, being attracted to more than one person is more than natural to be attracted to just one person.

But it is inevitable to be attracted to more than one woman/man. I don't see how you can say that is not true -- which you are trying to say now. So I'm confused.

I don't see how being kicked in the face would be sexy, but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Like I said, I'm not saying that the exact opposite is true, but it is very possible to just be attracted to just one person in your life.

Yeah, I guess. If you live in a small town with no TV and stuff. And half of the people in town are like... your relatives.
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#141 Tjeremiah1988
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="AirGuitarist87"][QUOTE="Sajedene"] But it is inevitable to be attracted to more than one woman/man. I don't see how you can say that is not true -- which you are trying to say now. So I'm confused.

I don't see how being kicked in the face would be sexy, but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Like I said, I'm not saying that the exact opposite is true, but it is very possible to just be attracted to just one person in your life.

Yeah, I guess. If you live in a small town with no TV and stuff. And half of the people in town are like... your relatives.

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#142 Morning_Revival
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Protect? Fail.
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#143 gunswordfist
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Hell yes. Girlfriends do everything that happens in porn. That just pretend they don't.
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#144 remmbermytitans
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Hell yes. Girlfriends do everything that happens in porn. That just pretend they don't.gunswordfist
It's not that they pretend they don't. It's that they pretend that they don't WANT to.
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#145 Deathrebellion
Member since 2009 • 362 Posts

lolz for the 'no' guys - u pervs......

for the 'don't know" guys - mee tooo i didn't know there were soo many of us...... :shock: :lol:

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#146 Kikouken
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lol. ROFL. Insightful thread.
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#147 MrLions
Member since 2007 • 9833 Posts
No I still watch porn either way. :P
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#148 foxhound_fox
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Protect? What is wrong with porn? I want whomever I meet to be not only into watching porn together with me but enjoy the same kinds as I do.

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#149 deactivated-61010a1ed19f4
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iv been with my girlfriend for over 3 years, and everyday i look at porn.

even if she increased her payload, i would still need to make time for precious precious freaky porn

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#150 Omni-Slash
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are you kidding?......if I didn't have a wife i wouldn't be in porn period....how else do you think i pay for her shopping excursions?.....