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#101 Netherscourge
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[QUOTE="NailedGR"]Nether is 100% correct you ignoramus

Oleg_Huzwog

Sigh... context, you dolt. When someone makes a baseless argument of "just watch, the person who gets the heart will probably smoke and ruin their lives forever", sees someone else make an equally baseless suggestion to illustrate the absurdity of his statement, and then vehemently argues against said illustration.... that person has gone off the deep end.

I not totally crazy. Maybe like 60/40.

I haven't had a full night's sleep in several days - that's probably why I'm so moody.

However, I would say that my baseless example was slightly more tame than the counter-baseless example.

Fact is, nobody deserves to live more than another in this situation.

The sad reality of this whole situaiton is that most people want to take their organs with them to the grave (or the incinerator) rather than donate them to let someone have a second chance at life.

That's really the crux of the whole issue. Fighting for and/or lining up for the limited availability of organs.

Hopefully, one day, stem cells will solve this problem (if we can ever get the morons in Washington to support it).

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#102 Oleg_Huzwog
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[QUOTE="thegerg"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]In this thread, we decided that people with special needs should be left to die for the benefit of "normal" people. Jolly good.SolidSnake35
No, I think we decided that the individual with the greatest chance of success in surgery and recovery should get the heart.

If that's how you want to spin it. As far as I'm concerned, if that kid was first on the list, he deserves a chance.

The organ donor list is not like sitting at the DMV. It's not first-come-first-serve, take a number, wait your turn.

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#103 SolidSnake35
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]In this thread, we decided that people with special needs should be left to die for the benefit of "normal" people. Jolly good.N30F3N1X

It's not the "benefit" of normal people. It's for the life of a normal person you dumbass.

Isn't it beneficial to live?... Wait.... Isn't it beneficial to live, you twonker?
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#104 SolidSnake35
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="thegerg"] No, I think we decided that the individual with the greatest chance of success in surgery and recovery should get the heart.Oleg_Huzwog

If that's how you want to spin it. As far as I'm concerned, if that kid was first on the list, he deserves a chance.

The organ donor list is not like sitting at the DMV. It's not first-come-first-serve, take a number, wait your turn.

Oh I see. So perhaps minorities get preferential treatment too. I know how these things work.
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#106 SolidSnake35
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There aren't enough hearts in this thread. That's for sure. ;D
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#107 Communist_Soul
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[QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"] If that's how you want to spin it. As far as I'm concerned, if that kid was first on the list, he deserves a chance.SolidSnake35

The organ donor list is not like sitting at the DMV. It's not first-come-first-serve, take a number, wait your turn.

Oh I see. So perhaps minorities get preferential treatment too. I know how these things work.

You're a fvcking moron.

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#108 SPYDER0416
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[QUOTE="TopTierHustler"]

cold, I'd still prefer somebody with a functioning mind living.

slipknot0129

I agree. Better to save a normal person than a person like that.

Wow, I did not realize people on the internet were THIS terrible and misinformed.

Like... wow.

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#109 SolidSnake35
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]

The organ donor list is not like sitting at the DMV. It's not first-come-first-serve, take a number, wait your turn.

Communist_Soul

Oh I see. So perhaps minorities get preferential treatment too. I know how these things work.

You're a fvcking moron.

No you.
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#110 MrGeezer
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Fact is, nobody deserves to live more than another in this situation.Netherscourge
It has nothing to do with who "deserves" to live.
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#111 Slow_Show
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In this thread, we decided that people with special needs should be left to die for the benefit of "normal" people. Jolly good.SolidSnake35

In this thread, we decided that the better candidate for heart transplant surgery should be left to die for the benefit of a human interest story. Jolly good.

This isn't rocket science (or brain surgery, for that matter): the fundamental issue isn't that Corby has autism, it's that there are far more candidates for heart transplant surgery than there are hearts available. In cases like that, all a doctor can do is triage and make sure those with the best chance of surviving get the best care, because the unfortunate fact is a bunch of people are going to die no matter what. Corby's autism significantly impacts his ability to survive the transplant process, therefore one cannot in good conscience recommend him for heart transplant surgery knowing there are other candidates with better chances of survival.

If you want to get mad, get mad at the number of people who don't sign their donor cards or at the opt-in nature of the system. Don't blame doctors for doing the best they can with an impossibly sh*tty situation.

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#112 SolidSnake35
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]In this thread, we decided that people with special needs should be left to die for the benefit of "normal" people. Jolly good.Slow_Show

In this thread, we decided that the better candidate for heart transplant surgery should be left to die for the benefit of a human interest story. Jolly good.

This isn't rocket science (or brain surgery, for that matter): the fundamental issue isn't that Corby has autism, it's that there are far more candidates for heart transplant surgery than there are hearts available. In cases like that, all a doctor can do is triage and make sure those with the best chance of surviving get the best care, because the unfortunate fact is a bunch of people are going to die no matter what. Corby's autism significantly impacts his ability to survive the transplant process, therefore one cannot in good conscience recommend him for heart transplant surgery knowing there is another candidate with a better chance of survival.

If you want to get mad, get mad at the number of people who don't sign their donor cards or at the opt-in nature of the system. Don't blame doctors for doing the best they can with an impossibly sh*tty situation.

If I'm ever left to die because someone behind me in the list is "a better candidate", I'm taking them with me.
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#113 MrGeezer
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"] If I'm ever left to die because someone behind me in the list is "a better candidate", I'm taking them with me.

Ooh, looks like we've got a badass here.
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#114 SolidSnake35
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[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"] If I'm ever left to die because someone behind me in the list is "a better candidate", I'm taking them with me.

Ooh, looks like we've got a badass here.

I like to think of myself as the fella from Die Hard.
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#115 TehFuneral
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I wish we had all the hearts to give to thoe who need it :(

I wish her son gets it.

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#116 SolidSnake35
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I wish we had all the hearts to give to thoe who need it :(

I wish her son gets it.

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We never will. Before hearts are given to autistic children, people in this thread will be feeding them to their dogs.
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#117 Communist_Soul
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[QUOTE="Communist_Soul"]

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"] Oh I see. So perhaps minorities get preferential treatment too. I know how these things work.SolidSnake35

You're a fvcking moron.

No you.

Touché.

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#118 SolidSnake35
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="Communist_Soul"]

You're a fvcking moron.

Communist_Soul

No you.

Touché.

Don't touch me.
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#119 Communist_Soul
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[QUOTE="Communist_Soul"]

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"] No you.SolidSnake35

Touché.

Don't touch me.

I got you a teddy bear for court.

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#120 Slow_Show
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We never will. Before hearts are given to autistic children, people in this thread will be feeding them to their dogs.SolidSnake35

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#121 OrianaDorta
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Kids who are more likely to lead normal productive lives in should be the first for heart transplants. If there were an abundance of available hearts then it would seem unfair, but due to the fact that hearts are not just falling off trees, it is a decision that requires careful judgment. I believe the doctors are making the right call on this one.

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My thoughts exactly

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sad

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#124 SolidSnake35
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]We never will. Before hearts are given to autistic children, people in this thread will be feeding them to their dogs.Slow_Show

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I hope for your sake that you are sure.
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#126 SolidSnake35
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And you call others heartless?thegerg
Sorry I was trying to sound cool. I thought you guys would like it.
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#128 ShadowMoses900
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I see no reason why he cannot get it, is it the insurance company denying them coverage or what? He has a right to live like everyone else. I see some people in this thread are saying that the heart has to go to a normal person instead because they are more healthy. I can see some of where they are coming from, but that is a hard decision to make. I know I could not make it.

There has to be another way, her son should get it. There are other hearts out there. People die all the time, surely they must be organ donors right?

EDIT: Besides what is a "normal" person? That is a slipper slope, do we deny someone who may have a slight speech impediment a life saving operation because they are not deemed "normal"? Do we turn down a person because they may be slightly color blind? That is like saying "person X is more worthy of life than person Y", that is borderline Eugenics right there. And that is wrong.

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#129 NailedGR
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There aren't enough hearts in this thread. That's for sure. ;DSolidSnake35

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#130 Nibroc420
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[QUOTE="thegerg"]And you call others heartless?SolidSnake35
Sorry I was trying to sound cool. I thought you guys would like it.

Trying to sound cool? You've spoken out against giving a healthy heart to the best candidate, because you think a boy who might not even survive the operation is a better fit. Somehow, you think that despite your lack of medical expertise, you're allowed to decide if a doctor's decisions are correct, that is not the case. I'm sorry, but you combining the worst parts of arrogance and ignorance together doesn't make you sound cool.
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#131 Chris_Williams
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I wonder if this kid was one of yours would you be okay with just letting the better person having it and your child dying, its really easy to sit infront of a computer when you don't have a child in the hospital who needs a heart transplant and say it should go to the better person. What if this child doesn't want to die, its not his fault he has autism. Can you guys walk up to this child and tell him he's going to die because he's not healthy and that he will never be able to contribute to society. Think about that.

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#132 Oleg_Huzwog
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I wonder if this kid was one of yours would you be okay with just letting the better person having it and your child dying, its really easy to sit infront of a computer when you don't have a child in the hospital who needs a heart transplant and say it should go to the better person. What if this child doesn't want to die, its not his fault he has autism. Can you guys walk up to this child and tell him he's going to die because he's not healthy and that he will never be able to contribute to society. Think about that.

Chris_Williams

This "kid" is a 23 year-old man. It's generally a good idea to at least skim a story before commenting on it.

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#133 Nibroc420
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I see no reason why he cannot get it, is it the insurance company denying them coverage or what? He has a right to live like everyone else. I see some people in this thread are saying that the heart has to go to a normal person instead because they are more healthy. I can see some of where they are coming from, but that is a hard decision to make. I know I could not make it.

There has to be another way, her son should get it. There are other hearts out there. People die all the time, surely they must be organ donors right?

EDIT: Besides what is a "normal" person? That is a slipper slope, do we deny someone who may have a slight speech impediment a life saving operation because they are not deemed "normal"? Do we turn down a person because they may be slightly color blind? That is like saying "person X is more worthy of life than person Y", that is borderline Eugenics right there. And that is wrong.

ShadowMoses900
You didn't even read the article did you? An autistic boy needed a heart transplant, however in his current medical state, and with his autism, the doctor's cant see him surviving the operation, or for much long afterwards. Meaning it comes down to "Let the autistic boy live maybe another year, or give the heart to a healthier patient who'd have a better chance of surviving long term" It's not solely because he has autism, it's because his medical state makes the surgery too risky, and they'd rather save someone who they know would use the heart for more than just a year or so. There's only so many hearts that are up for donation, and doctor's have to make decisions like these constantly. It's why we have waiting list for recipients, however if the person at the top of the list is 5 days from death, and could die on the operating table, tough decisions have to be made for the greater good.
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#134 Chris_Williams
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[QUOTE="Chris_Williams"]

I wonder if this kid was one of yours would you be okay with just letting the better person having it and your child dying, its really easy to sit infront of a computer when you don't have a child in the hospital who needs a heart transplant and say it should go to the better person. What if this child doesn't want to die, its not his fault he has autism. Can you guys walk up to this child and tell him he's going to die because he's not healthy and that he will never be able to contribute to society. Think about that.

Oleg_Huzwog

This "kid" is a 23 year-old man. It's generally a good idea to at least skim a story before commenting on it.

replace kid with adult then, there you go
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I wonder if this kid was one of yours would you be okay with just letting the better person having it and your child dying, its really easy to sit infront of a computer when you don't have a child in the hospital who needs a heart transplant and say it should go to the better person. What if this child doesn't want to die, its not his fault he has autism. Can you guys walk up to this child and tell him he's going to die because he's not healthy and that he will never be able to contribute to society. Think about that.

Chris_Williams

It is what it is. it's easy to see your son dying and want to save him no matter the consequences or how it is probaby not the right decision. What about if he doesn't survive, then some other candidate doesn't even get a chance because they wasted a heart on someone they knew it would be difficult for it to work on? Life isn't perfect and sometimes the best decisions aren't the easiest.

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#136 Oleg_Huzwog
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[QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]

[QUOTE="Chris_Williams"]

I wonder if this kid was one of yours would you be okay with just letting the better person having it and your child dying, its really easy to sit infront of a computer when you don't have a child in the hospital who needs a heart transplant and say it should go to the better person. What if this child doesn't want to die, its not his fault he has autism. Can you guys walk up to this child and tell him he's going to die because he's not healthy and that he will never be able to contribute to society. Think about that.

Chris_Williams

This "kid" is a 23 year-old man. It's generally a good idea to at least skim a story before commenting on it.

replace kid with adult then, there you go

And if you had skimmed it, you'd have also seen that autism was not the sole deciding factor.

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#138 Slow_Show
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I wonder if this kid was one of yours would you be okay with just letting the better person having it and your child dying, its really easy to sit infront of a computer when you don't have a child in the hospital who needs a heart transplant and say it should go to the better person. What if this child doesn't want to die, its not his fault he has autism. Can you guys walk up to this child and tell him he's going to die because he's not healthy and that he will never be able to contribute to society. Think about that.

Chris_Williams

So what do we tell all the other people who would be turned down as a result of Corby getting his transplant? "Even though you're the better candidate, you're going to die because the autistic guy down the hall makes for a better news story"?

For the umpteenth time, the issue isn't that his autism prevents him from contributing to society or anything like that, it's that his autism genuinely affects his ability to survive the transplant process.

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#139 Chris_Williams
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[QUOTE="Chris_Williams"][QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]

This "kid" is a 23 year-old man. It's generally a good idea to at least skim a story before commenting on it.

Oleg_Huzwog

replace kid with adult then, there you go

And if you had skimmed it, you'd have also seen that autism was not the sole deciding factor.

my point is, no one here has been in that situation so its easy for you guys to sit on your high horses and decide who should live and who should die. I don't care if its a child or a 23 year old man, I'm sure the doctors had to do what they had to do but its disheartening reading these comments and chances are someone here are going to have an autistic child and I wanna see if they still feel the same way.
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#140 SolidSnake35
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="thegerg"]And you call others heartless?thegerg
Sorry I was trying to sound cool. I thought you guys would like it.

Don't apologize for that. It might be reasonable, though, to apologize for insulting others because they disagree with you.

I don't recall insulting anyone in this thread.
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#141 Chris_Williams
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[QUOTE="Chris_Williams"]

I wonder if this kid was one of yours would you be okay with just letting the better person having it and your child dying, its really easy to sit infront of a computer when you don't have a child in the hospital who needs a heart transplant and say it should go to the better person. What if this child doesn't want to die, its not his fault he has autism. Can you guys walk up to this child and tell him he's going to die because he's not healthy and that he will never be able to contribute to society. Think about that.

Slow_Show

So what do we tell all the other people who would be turned down as a result of Corby getting his transplant? "Even though you're the better candidate, you're going to die because the autistic guy down the hall makes for a better news story"?

For the umpteenth time, the issue isn't that his autism prevents him from contributing to society or anything like that, it's that his autism genuinely affects his ability to survive the transplant process.

its not even about that anymore its just about these comments i'm reading, also you should be telling this to about 80% of the people in this thread as they are talking about letting him die because he is autistic and not because he might not survive it because of his autism

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#142 SolidSnake35
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="thegerg"]And you call others heartless?Nibroc420
Sorry I was trying to sound cool. I thought you guys would like it.

Trying to sound cool? You've spoken out against giving a healthy heart to the best candidate, because you think a boy who might not even survive the operation is a better fit. Somehow, you think that despite your lack of medical expertise, you're allowed to decide if a doctor's decisions are correct, that is not the case. I'm sorry, but you combining the worst parts of arrogance and ignorance together doesn't make you sound cool.

I don't recall saying that anything prior to that post was an attempt to sound "cool", which was itself a joke. And it's not about fit. You give the heart to whoever needed it first. How depressing that he might be waiting and waiting, seeing hearts come and go because more recent cases are a "better fit". At what point do you draw the line and say he has waited long enough?
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#144 Chris_Williams
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[QUOTE="Chris_Williams"]

I wonder if this kid was one of yours would you be okay with just letting the better person having it and your child dying, its really easy to sit infront of a computer when you don't have a child in the hospital who needs a heart transplant and say it should go to the better person. What if this child doesn't want to die, its not his fault he has autism. Can you guys walk up to this child and tell him he's going to die because he's not healthy and that he will never be able to contribute to society. Think about that.

thegerg

I wonder if this kid was one of yours would you be okay with just letting the better person having it and your child dying, its really easy to sit infront of a computer when you don't have a child in the hospital who needs a heart transplant and say it should go to the better person. What if this child doesn't want to die, its not his fault he has autism. Can you guys walk up to this child and tell him he's going to die because he's not healthy and that he will never be able to contribute to society. Think about that.

Chris_Williams
I doubt any reasonable person would be "ok" with watching a loved one die, but that applies to everyone, not just this woman. She isn't special just because her son is autistic, and neither is he. He's a poor candidate for the surgery, so he should'nt be selected over one who is a better candidate.

and I guarantee if this was your son you wouldn't be just cool with it and fight to get him a heart transplant, thats my point. Put yourself in her shoes, her son is probably going to die and probably won't find a heart in time but hell she's trying and thats what a parent should do.
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#145 Nibroc420
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="Nibroc420"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"] Sorry I was trying to sound cool. I thought you guys would like it.

Trying to sound cool? You've spoken out against giving a healthy heart to the best candidate, because you think a boy who might not even survive the operation is a better fit. Somehow, you think that despite your lack of medical expertise, you're allowed to decide if a doctor's decisions are correct, that is not the case. I'm sorry, but you combining the worst parts of arrogance and ignorance together doesn't make you sound cool.

I don't recall saying that anything prior to that post was an attempt to sound "cool", which was itself a joke. And it's not about fit. You give the heart to whoever needed it first. How depressing that he might be waiting and waiting, seeing hearts come and go because more recent cases are a "better fit". At what point do you draw the line and say he has waited long enough?

Fact: There are more people who need hearts, than there are working hearts to give. This boy has a preexisting condition that doctors are saying will only make the heart transplant more risky. He has difficulty communicating, which makes figuring out his post-operation symptoms or any possible complications, much harder, and much riskier. Meanwhile, people who have no preexisting conditions that make such an operation even more dangerous, need hearts. They're otherwise healthy, they're able to discuss their symptoms with their doctors and nurses. This woman however feels her son is special, and for some reason wants her son (who appeared healthy in the picture), to undergo dangerous surgery that the doctors are saying has a good chance to kill him. Yet she's petitioning for the surgery? that's just ****ed. Again if you'd read the article...
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#146 Necrifer
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Sad story, but I must trust the doctor's decision.

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#147 SolidSnake35
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[QUOTE="Nibroc420"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="Nibroc420"] Trying to sound cool? You've spoken out against giving a healthy heart to the best candidate, because you think a boy who might not even survive the operation is a better fit. Somehow, you think that despite your lack of medical expertise, you're allowed to decide if a doctor's decisions are correct, that is not the case. I'm sorry, but you combining the worst parts of arrogance and ignorance together doesn't make you sound cool.

I don't recall saying that anything prior to that post was an attempt to sound "cool", which was itself a joke. And it's not about fit. You give the heart to whoever needed it first. How depressing that he might be waiting and waiting, seeing hearts come and go because more recent cases are a "better fit". At what point do you draw the line and say he has waited long enough?

Fact: There are more people who need hearts, than there are working hearts to give. This boy has a preexisting condition that doctors are saying will only make the heart transplant more risky. He has difficulty communicating, which makes figuring out his post-operation symptoms or any possible complications, much harder, and much riskier. Meanwhile, people who have no preexisting conditions that make such an operation even more dangerous, need hearts. They're otherwise healthy, they're able to discuss their symptoms with their doctors and nurses. This woman however feels her son is special, and for some reason wants her son (who appeared healthy in the picture), to undergo dangerous surgery that the doctors are saying has a good chance to kill him. Yet she's petitioning for the surgery? that's just ****ed. Again if you'd read the article...

How does she think he's special? If he was first in the queue, it's the other dude that thinks s/he is special. And you say it as if she's risking his life by asking for the surgery. He's going to die for certain if they don't try. Or at least that's what I have been assuming.
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#148 chrisrooR
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Unfortunate story, though I agree with the docs. There are better candidates for the surgery that have probably been waiting just as long.
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#149 Nibroc420
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"][QUOTE="Nibroc420"][QUOTE="SolidSnake35"] I don't recall saying that anything prior to that post was an attempt to sound "cool", which was itself a joke. And it's not about fit. You give the heart to whoever needed it first. How depressing that he might be waiting and waiting, seeing hearts come and go because more recent cases are a "better fit". At what point do you draw the line and say he has waited long enough?

Fact: There are more people who need hearts, than there are working hearts to give. This boy has a preexisting condition that doctors are saying will only make the heart transplant more risky. He has difficulty communicating, which makes figuring out his post-operation symptoms or any possible complications, much harder, and much riskier. Meanwhile, people who have no preexisting conditions that make such an operation even more dangerous, need hearts. They're otherwise healthy, they're able to discuss their symptoms with their doctors and nurses. This woman however feels her son is special, and for some reason wants her son (who appeared healthy in the picture), to undergo dangerous surgery that the doctors are saying has a good chance to kill him. Yet she's petitioning for the surgery? that's just ****ed. Again if you'd read the article...

How does she think he's special? If he was first in the queue, it's the other dude that thinks s/he is special. And you say it as if she's risking his life by asking for the surgery. He's going to die for certain if they don't try. Or at least that's what I have been assuming.

My understanding was he never was on the list... a doctor noticed the left side of his heart isn't pumping blood as well as it could be, and sent him to a specialist where they could determine if he was fit for a heart transplant... From Article: He was diagnosed with the ailment in 2008. He was referred to Penn Medicine in 2011 to discuss a transplant. In a letter, dated June 13, 2011, Dr. Susan Brozena wrote: I have recommended against transplant given his psychiatric issues, autism, the complexity of the process, multiple procedures and the unknown and unpredictable effect of steroids on behavior. He wasn't at the top of the list, he never even made the list... Because the specialist was worried about combining the drugs Corby took for autism, with the drugs used to help the body accept the new heart, as well as Corby's inability to communicate with his doctors.
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#150 deactivated-59d151f079814
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All I know is I am glad I didn't have to make the decision..