How good are you with girls?

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[QUOTE="cheese_game619"]If anything women are inferior. We are bigger, stronger and smarter in general. My post got deleted by some idiot mod but it got overturned lol.sonofsmeagle

I'm male, and I honestly feel disgusted when people like you try to justify sexism. Men and women are individuals first and groups second.

Might doesn't make right, though. And it certainly doesn't entail male superiority.ghoklebutter

[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"]Might doesn't make right, though. And it certainly doesn't entail male superiority.cheese_game619

[QUOTE="cheese_game619"][QUOTE="ghoklebutter"]Might doesn't make right, though. And it certainly doesn't entail male superiority.El3ctrosisV2

Ok I'm not afraid to speak to girls although I do get rejected alot but it w/e to me.

ps3theJT

As in crushes on a girl, I SUCK major at it. I've never been able to ask a girl out because I just chicken out before hand. I've never officialy had a girlfriend, though I have been on a few dates, if you could call them that, that mostly started out as me and some chick I know just talking and we grab a bite to eat or something.

I have plenty of girls as friends, but most of them I would never really consider dating. They all have some quirk about them that would make them unbearable after a while. I don't mean I have high standards, I don't (my only standards are to not be a fat chick, the huge variety, and be emotionally stable and willing to put up with a few things about me that some people consider annoying. I'm willing to tolerate little things like a bad laugh or things of that nature), but they all have something about them that would make a relationship impossible for me. One thinks she is right about everything (not the stereotypical "women always think they're right" thing, I mean if you prove her wrong in anything at all, no matter how trivial, she turns into a b*tch until you admit defeat), one is extremely emotionally unstable (anything sets her off, and she skyrockets to boiling rage in no time), and another one is elitist.

I'm a bit of a smooth talker and I have some charisma, so it wouldn't be difficult for me to get a date, but my nerves always get the better of me. So far, just "friend" pie dates, no actualt dates.

Well just got out of a 4 years relationship. So at the moment my level of game is like -10. Hopefully that changes soon... this whole not having sex thing blows

I don't have a problem talking to girls I study with. I don't even have a problem talking to chicks, I don't hold back sarcasm or cynism either.

With that said I don't believe in bromance. First comes knowing eachother then comes asking out. The other way around does not make sense to me.

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How good I am? Yesterday I finally said to this girl what I felt for her. Thing is I had to get drunk to do it, otherwise I would never have found the courage to do so.

LP4EVA2005

@Ugalde- It sounds like you aren't very confident. It doesn't matter what you look like or what you do, girls are attracted to confidence. I've asked people out and got rejected but you can't take it to heart every time or it will make you feel worseanakissed

How good I am? Yesterday I finally said to this girl what I felt for her. Thing is I had to get drunk to do it, otherwise I would never have found the courage to do so.

lancea34

I'm not great, but don't go out of my way too often. Too much crap going on in my life to worry about a girlfriend right now.

I'm married. 'Nuff said.

I'm married. 'Nuff said.

jimkabrhel

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I'm married. 'Nuff said.

Drakes_Fortune

I don't see how.

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I'm married. 'Nuff said.

jimkabrhel

I don't see how.

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[QUOTE="Drakes_Fortune"] biggest loser right here.themajormayor

I don't see how.

:lol:

Yeah it's weird. Im not confident at all. I actually hate myself, thats actually why I goto the gym so much. And its weird because the few times that I have asked girls out its no problem. If they say no I really dont care and I feel good about it afterwords. But then I just cant ask out a new one.Ugalde-

If you "hate yourself" you need a psychologist, not a gym subscription.

No mate, you're a joke. If anything women are inferior. We are bigger, stronger and smarter in general. My post got deleted by some idiot mod but it got overturned lol.cheese_game619

But, I never said that seriously. It was a joke.

[QUOTE="Ugalde-"] Yeah it's weird. Im not confident at all. I actually hate myself, thats actually why I goto the gym so much. And its weird because the few times that I have asked girls out its no problem. If they say no I really dont care and I feel good about it afterwords. But then I just cant ask out a new one.N30F3N1X

If you "hate yourself" you need a psychologist, not a gym subscription.

No real problems. I hang around with girls more than I do with lads.Just-Breathe

Yeah, that helps alot with confidence later.

Well I hate myself because I don't think I look good and I struggle talking to girls because of it. If I go to the gym I can eventually make myself look good, which will make me more confident with girls. Get the connection?Ugalde-

Does it work?

I be pimpin with teh ladiez

[QUOTE="Ugalde-"]Well I hate myself because I don't think I look good and I struggle talking to girls because of it. If I go to the gym I can eventually make myself look good, which will make me more confident with girls. Get the connection?DeadMan1290

Does it work?

[QUOTE="DeadMan1290"]

[QUOTE="Ugalde-"]Well I hate myself because I don't think I look good and I struggle talking to girls because of it. If I go to the gym I can eventually make myself look good, which will make me more confident with girls. Get the connection?Ugalde-

Does it work?

Man not all ladies are looking for freakin' wrestler looking buff dudes. But, I mean if you don't feel comfortable with yourself then getting a girl you like won't help. Have you tried maybe making female friends at the gym? That can be a start.

I'm not afraid to talk to them but I'm afraid to ask them out.metroidprime55

This. Almost 19 and still have never had a girlfriend.

I met this girl who I really am liking, but just found out a couple of days ago she's transferring to a different college next semester. :(

Just my luck.

[QUOTE="metroidprime55"]I'm not afraid to talk to them but I'm afraid to ask them out.Vari3ty

This. Almost 19 and still have never had a girlfriend.

I met this girl who I really am liking, but just found out a couple of days ago she's transferring to a different college next semester. :(

Just my luck.

It's not next semester yet. Ask her out. Better her to say no, than to never have tried.

Well I hate myself because I don't think I look good and I struggle talking to girls because of it. If I go to the gym I can eventually make myself look good, which will make me more confident with girls. Get the connection?Ugalde-

That is one of the most fragile foundations confidence can be built on. If you base your confidence on appearance you will feel crushed if, or rather, when, you are rejected again.

I'm not trying to scry or cast some black magic at you. Psychology exists to help people, not to analyze inmates.

Good. It's nice when you don't even have to work at them, they flirt with you.

sherman-tank1

I met this girl who I really am liking, but just found out a couple of days ago she's transferring to a different college next semester. :( Just my luck.Vari3ty

[QUOTE="Ugalde-"][QUOTE="DeadMan1290"]

Does it work?

DeadMan1290

Man not all ladies are looking for freakin' wrestler looking buff dudes. But, I mean if you don't feel comfortable with yourself then getting a girl you like won't help. Have you tried maybe making female friends at the gym? That can be a start.

Let me give you a quick example.

I started school a week late. The first day I went I walked into my accounting class, and there was a really cute girl there. I sat right next to her and asked her if I could borrow a pen. She let me. At the end of the class I asked her if she wanted the pen back and and she said keep it. I then asked her what her next class was and she said economics. I asked if I could walk with her because I still didn't know the school yet. So we walked together and talked/joked and then when we got to her class I just awkwardly said "bye". Same thing the next day. Then like a week went by where I'm not sure but I think she was mad at me for not asking her out. I don't know girls well enough to know if I was getting the right vibe but that's what it felt like. After like a week she started talking to me again. After a couple of days of that I asked her out. My direct dialogue was:

Me: Robin do you have a boyfriend?

Robin:Why?

Me: Well I was thinking we should do something this weekend.

Robin: I don't know. She then slowly walked away.

See I think I had the oppertunity the first day I met her but I blew it by waiting and then got a "no". Or maybe she was never interested.

[QUOTE="Ugalde-"]Well I hate myself because I don't think I look good and I struggle talking to girls because of it. If I go to the gym I can eventually make myself look good, which will make me more confident with girls. Get the connection?N30F3N1X

That is one of the most fragile foundations confidence can be built on. If you base your confidence on appearance you will feel crushed if, or rather, when, you are rejected again.

I'm not trying to scry or cast some black magic at you. Psychology exists to help people, not to analyze inmates.

Man I suck at approaching girls. I talk to a girl that works there. Even asked her out to no avail. Believe me this is something that has been making me miserable for awhile. I have heard all the advice, things like just do it. I just cant, well I can, but no matter how much I want to, I wont. I think if I looked the way I wanted to I might be able to get over my mind block. Let me give you a quick example. I started school a week late. The first day I went I walked into my accounting class, and there was a really cute girl there. I sat right next to her and asked her if I could borrow a pen. She let me. At the end of the class I asked her if she wanted the pen back and and she said keep it. I then asked her what her next class was and she said economics. I asked if I could walk with her because I still didn't know the school yet. So we walked together and talked/joked and then when we got to her class I just awkwardly said "bye". Same thing the next day. Then like a week went by where I'm not sure but I think she was mad at me for not asking her out. I don't know girls well enough to know if I was getting the right vibe but that's what it felt like. After like a week she started talking to me again. After a couple of days of that I asked her out. My direct dialogue was: Me: Robin do you have a boyfriend? Robin:Why? Me: Well I was thinking we should do something this weekend. Robin: I don't know. She then slowly walked away.

See I think I had the oppertunity the first day I met her but I blew it by waiting and then got a "no". Or maybe she was never interested.

Ugalde-

Mmmm... Yeah women are a very tough puzzle to solve. But, I mean getting a ''No'' is not always bad. She porbably WAS interested at first but probably felt that you lacked confidence and probably sort of turned her off. You got to try to be more confident. I know it's easier said then done, trust me I know. But, some things are better than they appear, for example: You see a girl you like at the gym. You don't talk to her the first day. After a week you see she goes everyday to the gym. You start to talking to her, askher if you can train with her or buy her a milk shake or something and she accepts. You go home that day feeling pretty damn good about yourself cause you made that move and now porbably have better chances of going out with her or getting her number...

See what I mean? You have to build a strategy with women...

OMFG dude that was a really cool thing to say.Ugalde-

Feel free to disregard what I said.

Just remember psychologists are out there for you.

[QUOTE="Ugalde-"]OMFG dude that was a really cool thing to say.N30F3N1X

Feel free to disregard what I said.

Just remember psychologists are out there for you.

[QUOTE="Ugalde-"]Man I suck at approaching girls. I talk to a girl that works there. Even asked her out to no avail. Believe me this is something that has been making me miserable for awhile. I have heard all the advice, things like just do it. I just cant, well I can, but no matter how much I want to, I wont. I think if I looked the way I wanted to I might be able to get over my mind block. Let me give you a quick example. I started school a week late. The first day I went I walked into my accounting class, and there was a really cute girl there. I sat right next to her and asked her if I could borrow a pen. She let me. At the end of the class I asked her if she wanted the pen back and and she said keep it. I then asked her what her next class was and she said economics. I asked if I could walk with her because I still didn't know the school yet. So we walked together and talked/joked and then when we got to her class I just awkwardly said "bye". Same thing the next day. Then like a week went by where I'm not sure but I think she was mad at me for not asking her out. I don't know girls well enough to know if I was getting the right vibe but that's what it felt like. After like a week she started talking to me again. After a couple of days of that I asked her out. My direct dialogue was: Me: Robin do you have a boyfriend? Robin:Why? Me: Well I was thinking we should do something this weekend. Robin: I don't know. She then slowly walked away.

See I think I had the oppertunity the first day I met her but I blew it by waiting and then got a "no". Or maybe she was never interested.

DeadMan1290

Mmmm... Yeah women are a very tough puzzle to solve. But, I mean getting a ''No'' is not always bad. She porbably WAS interested at first but probably felt that you lacked confidence and probably sort of turned her off. You got to try to be more confident. I know it's easier said then done, trust me I know. But, some things are better than they appear, for example: You see a girl you like at the gym. You don't talk to her the first day. After a week you see she goes everyday to the gym. You start to talking to her, askher if you can train with her or buy her a milk shake or something and she accepts. You go home that day feeling pretty damn good about yourself cause you made that move and now porbably have better chances of going out with her or getting her number...

See what I mean? You have to build a strategy with women...

No real problems. I hang around with girls more than I do with lads.Just-Breathe

set your trash on fire, then take a dump on it, that in a nut shell is how bad i am.

[QUOTE="cheese_game619"]No mate, you're a joke. If anything women are inferior. We are bigger, stronger and smarter in general. My post got deleted by some idiot mod but it got overturned lol.DeadMan1290

But, I never said that seriously. It was a joke.