How good are you with girls?

6-9 months im going to the AirForce. Counting the days lol. pygmahia5

I haven't really tested myself on this, i talk to them pretty easily, and i have never been rejected, thing is, i only try the ones i know for sure that like me :P

But i kinda like talking to girls, and they don't intimidate me.

If you guys are really having problems, check out Vin DiCarlo, that guy has some really cool stuff regarding this matter....

I'm perfectly fine with boys up until the point any sort of romantic gestures or feelings become involved. Then I start getting awkward, nervous and it just becomes a bit of a mess.

[QUOTE="pygmahia5"] 6-9 months im going to the AirForce. Counting the days lol. BranKetra

i'm not good with the girls at all

I've been with the same woman for six years, and we're married now. I don't know what that means exactly in relation to your question. I guess I had to be good with "girls" to make it as far as I have. :D

I also generally don't have trouble talking to or otherwise interacting with women, unless they're ugly to the point of inducing a fit of involuntary gagging.

Assassin_87

I don't think you have to be good with girls to be with a woman for a longtime lol. You get used to that woman and know how to treat her, what she wants, what to say. With other women this would be tougher....

Dude, I work at a bar/night club so... yeah... I think that pretty much says it all :cool:

Not very good. When I try and hook up with a woman sometimes they run away. I am used to the word NO.

Not very good. When I try and hook up with a woman sometimes they run away. I am used to the word NO.

Easports48

Dude, I work at a bar/night club so... yeah... I think that pretty much says it all :cool:

4dr1el

I worked as a bouncer at a gay lesbian barD3nnyCrane

Well, thats part of your problem ^^^^ :P

Speaking for myself, in just one month 4 girls asked for my phone number and other two started conversation with me. Well, being good looking always helps too :cool:

ps: sorry for lack of modesty

[QUOTE="D3nnyCrane"]

I worked as a bouncer at a gay lesbian bar4dr1el

Well, thats part of your problem ^^^^ :P

Speaking for myself, in just one month 4 girls asked for my phone number and other two started conversation with me. Well, being good looking always helps too :cool:

ps: sorry for lack of modesty

[QUOTE="4dr1el"]

[QUOTE="D3nnyCrane"]

I worked as a bouncer at a gay lesbian barchilly-chill

Well, thats part of your problem ^^^^ :P

Speaking for myself, in just one month 4 girls asked for my phone number and other two started conversation with me. Well, being good looking always helps too :cool:

ps: sorry for lack of modesty

It was a slow month

^^I was gonna say, 4 is nothing. How much do you get on a good day??

i'm a ladies man ;)

^^I was gonna say, 4 is nothing. How much do you get on a good day??

chilly-chill

I was kidding with the "slow month" comment. I think 4 asking for my number is pretty good (especially in my country where hardly a girl makes the 1st move... still 4 girls in a month is a better average then most guys here, going by the forever alone comments

About as good as with heterosexual males.

I do pretty good.

Well guys for the past couple of days, I had given up on trying to be social, I'm just not good at it. I was actually happier turning off my emotions, and just not trying. I think I'm going to start trying again. Setting little goals. Just trying to be social.Ugalde-

I am the kind of guy who has a lot of female friends because they find that it is easy to trust me and talk to me, but who has trouble finding a girlfriend. :P

[QUOTE="Ugalde-"]Well guys for the past couple of days, I had given up on trying to be social, I'm just not good at it. I was actually happier turning off my emotions, and just not trying. I think I'm going to start trying again. Setting little goals. Just trying to be social.GameGuy642003

[QUOTE="GameGuy642003"]

[QUOTE="Ugalde-"]Well guys for the past couple of days, I had given up on trying to be social, I'm just not good at it. I was actually happier turning off my emotions, and just not trying. I think I'm going to start trying again. Setting little goals. Just trying to be social.Ugalde-

[QUOTE="Ugalde-"][QUOTE="GameGuy642003"] Bro, why do you think you feel this way? Is there anything that you can be thankful in your life? Or has your life been full of negative crap?

GameGuy642003

For instance today I was at school sitting outside by myself doing homework and one of the guys on my football team came over and asked if I wanted to go to the library with him. I said sure and went with him. We sat right next to each other and talked for like 1 minute and then it just went quite. Then another guy from the team comes over and they sit there and talk non-stop until I had to go to class. I don't get it at all.

Being lonely really sucks. Spring break is going to be horrible for me.

[QUOTE="GameGuy642003"][QUOTE="Ugalde-"] Full of negative crap. My life has been a bit weird.Ugalde-

For instance today I was at school sitting outside by myself doing homework and one of the guys on my football team came over and asked if I wanted to go to the library with him. I said sure and went with him. We sat right next to each other and talked for like 1 minute and then it just went quite. Then another guy from the team comes over and they sit there and talk non-stop until I had to go to class. I don't get it at all.

Being lonely really sucks. Spring break is going to be horrible for me.

Im doing alot better. ever since Ive fought and stopped looking at porn its gotten easier. I can talk to girls that live in reality and not have my mind distorted by fantastical women. They also like to talk to me more Ive found out, they are more comfortable around me, and me around them.GameGuy642003

[QUOTE="GameGuy642003"]Im doing alot better. ever since Ive fought and stopped looking at porn its gotten easier. I can talk to girls that live in reality and not have my mind distorted by fantastical women. They also like to talk to me more Ive found out, they are more comfortable around me, and me around them.wii60_3

[QUOTE="wii60_3"][QUOTE="GameGuy642003"]Im doing alot better. ever since Ive fought and stopped looking at porn its gotten easier. I can talk to girls that live in reality and not have my mind distorted by fantastical women. They also like to talk to me more Ive found out, they are more comfortable around me, and me around them.GameGuy642003

Depends.

I fare better when we have mutual friends/acquaintances. If we end up becoming somewhat closer, then things usually take off from there and could lead into a relationship. I usually try to get to know a girl better first, before even thinking of asking her out. I'd like to be sure that she shares mutual feelings, and if not, then we'll just stay friends. I don't think I've ever randomly admitted to a girl that I liked her. For some odd reason, they get one of their friends to ask me if I like them. *shrugs*

But yeah... I'm certainly not the type of guy who walks up to random girls and tries to "spit game". It just seems idiotic approaching a girl based on her looks alone. Women catch on to that, and write you off as "just another guy".

It's even weirder when guys ask random girls out on dates and act surprised when they get rejected. I mean, you shouldn't expect her to date a total stranger just because you think she's hot.

im at the point of my life right now where i don't really care. im goin to a comm college right now and its like a funeral in every class!! i can't even attempt to talk to any girls because they run out of the classroom like semen out my cockadoodle doo. in conclusion...im done tryin for a while. pygmahia5

Well guys for the past couple of days, I had given up on trying to be social, I'm just not good at it. I was actually happier turning off my emotions, and just not trying. I think I'm going to start trying again. Setting little goals. Just trying to be social.Ugalde-

Here's a tip dude to get out of your socialization problem. Force yourself to talk to people.People would want to listen to you if you talk to them. Even though I'm not the greatest at meeting new people once I get past the meeting stage usually now a days for whoever I talk to I can talk decently to the person whenever I talk to them. This also applies to talking to girls which is way harder to do in my opinion.Just don;t try to act a certain way around girls to please them. Just be yourself and they will like you.