I don't understand women......

Seriously.

I don't even know if women today actually want to be with nice guys. All the relationships I see anymore are of women with jerks. I've dated a number of times but how it ends never makes sense to me. My previous relationship ended in a way that didn't even make sense to me. She and her friends had stated numerous times that they were glad she ended up with a "nice guy" for once that would treat her right (which I did). But she didn't want to go to college as a virgin and broke up with me because I wouldn't "put out", so she went and slept with one of her ex's. Now I've been labelled as a jerk by her and her friends.

I seriously don't understand women. Many say they want a nice guy to treat them with respect, but is this all a lie? I know plenty of great guys, but they never get dates because of that very reason. So what's going on here girls? Do women want guys who will respect them even more, or has society changed somuch that we are a turn off?

I don't understand YOU... psht, you didn't hit it. :|

Well, I kid, but um... maybe you should find a young woman to date rather than a girl. If she breaks up with you because you wouldn't let her force you into a situation you weren't ready for, then you can find someone better...

Well, I don't understand her either.

Oy vei...

Don't generalize, please and thank you. Every woman is an individual looking for something different. We are human beings, shockingly, so we may say one thing and mean another, or not. Don't confuse your adolescent journeys with anything that resembles being an adult either, wait for people to grow up. I don't mean to sound condescending but from the sound of the girl you were with she was not somebody anyone should really take seriously to begin with. It's not that this is how women are, this is how that one woman is. You might as well just say "I don't understand young people" because that is the matter which is actually frustrating you, not women. You speak as if men don't do completely idiotic things.

Seriously.

I don't even know if women today actually want to be with nice guys. All the relationships I see anymore are of women with jerks. I've dated a number of times but how it ends never makes sense to me. My previous relationship ended in a way that didn't even make sense to me. She and her friends had stated numerous times that they were glad she ended up with a "nice guy" for once that would treat her right (which I did). But she didn't want to go to college as a virgin and broke up with me because I wouldn't "put out", so she went and slept with one of her ex's. Now I've been labelled as a jerk by her and her friends.

I seriously don't understand women. Many say they want a nice guy to treat them with respect, but is this all a lie? I know plenty of great guys, but they never get dates because of that very reason. So what's going on here girls? Do women want guys who will respect them even more, or has society changed somuch that we are a turn off?

Sparticus247

what you need ot understand is that women are arrtacted the most to this.........................it isn't looks so everyone quit it with the "i'm too ugly **** What they like most about guys is the way they make them feel. you canlt be that run of the mill average "wuss" type that goes up to a girl and says "Excuse me, I think you're very beautiful, would you like to dance??" What you do is go up to her and say "You know, I've noticed you've been checking me out quite a lot, so I guess I can do you a favor and give you one dance."

You'll never understand them! They constantly invent new languages just to confuse the male population! If you figure it out, they just change all the words, just like that! You'll will never know what they are thinking or saying! :o

I don't understand YOU...tbone29

You'll never understand them! They constantly invent new languages just to confuse the male population! If you figure it out, they just change all the words, just like that! You'll will never know what they are thinking or saying! :o

The_Ish

So that explains it! :o

Women. Well my friend, don't take one, or a few, bad experiences and use it or them to generalize the female species as a whole. It's all about the individual.

I would just say live life, date, find someone who treats you right for a change, and just know you will have your ups and downs. That's about all you can do.

It's one thing to understand one individual, but to try and understand the opposite sex as a whole is nearly impossible.

I am hoping stupid is just a phase girls go through because I will never stop being a nice guy.

I am hoping stupid is just a phase girls go through because I will never stop being a nice guy.

Thechaninator

[QUOTE="Sparticus247"]

Seriously.

I don't even know if women today actually want to be with nice guys. All the relationships I see anymore are of women with jerks. I've dated a number of times but how it ends never makes sense to me. My previous relationship ended in a way that didn't even make sense to me. She and her friends had stated numerous times that they were glad she ended up with a "nice guy" for once that would treat her right (which I did). But she didn't want to go to college as a virgin and broke up with me because I wouldn't "put out", so she went and slept with one of her ex's. Now I've been labelled as a jerk by her and her friends.

I seriously don't understand women. Many say they want a nice guy to treat them with respect, but is this all a lie? I know plenty of great guys, but they never get dates because of that very reason. So what's going on here girls? Do women want guys who will respect them even more, or has society changed somuch that we are a turn off?

firebreathing

what you need ot understand is that women are arrtacted the most to this.........................it isn't looks

That is complete BS. Woman are just as shallow as men are, end of story.

I believe that is an unjust generalization of women. We are not all driven by desire. With age, comes a longing for more outside the physical aspect of a relationship, so give it time.MsCortana

I apologize if I seemed to generalize women as whole into my personal experiances. It's just stuff like this happens a lot to me, so I'm just going with what I've personally been exposed to.

I know not all women are alike, just like how are men aren't. It was not my intention of insulting anyone, but was just hoping for some insight from the other females on the forum.

Again I apologize if you feel I have insulted you.

[QUOTE="tbone29"]I don't understand YOU...darksword1123

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy intimacy as much as anyone else, but there is a line that I won't cross until I am with my wife.

Its funny how stereotypes have changed. Usually its the woman that typically want that life long partner and guys are the sex craving lunatics. But the more I hear of people stories, the more I figure that it is quite the opposite.RMage

That depends on the individual and not the gender.;)

Its funny how stereotypes have changed. Usually its the woman that typically want that life long partner and guys are the sex craving lunatics. But the more I hear of people stories, the more I figure that it is quite the opposite.RMage

I've noticed this too.. I always thought it was that way but then when I hit high school, I was proved quite wrong...

I dont think girls have a problem with nice guys, they dont like boring guys, weather you are or you arent, if you dont prove to them you arent boring they will go after the 'bad guys' because they dont seem boring. And sounds like your the one that screwed up in that relationship.wizard90

He screwed up by not putting out? I don't think he screwed up, I actually commend him for it.

[QUOTE="RMage"]Its funny how stereotypes have changed. Usually its the woman that typically want that life long partner and guys are the sex craving lunatics. But the more I hear of people stories, the more I figure that it is quite the opposite.Agriath

I've noticed this too.. I always thought it was that way but then when I hit high school, I was proved quite wrong...

That's a myth that women have created so that they seem as the gentle gender.It's a common secret nowadays that women think about sex way more than men,they just have the ability to hide it better.

That's a myth that women have created so that they seem as the gentle gender.It's a common secret nowadays that women think about sex way more than men,they just have the ability to hide it better.

Hate_Squad

Actually, according to studies done...men think about sex more than women. It's just now known that women think about sex. Whereas before, it wasn't known. Bit different than your statement though. ;)

[QUOTE="Hate_Squad"]

That's a myth that women have created so that they seem as the gentle gender.It's a common secret nowadays that women think about sex way more than men,they just have the ability to hide it better.

LJS9502_basic

Actually, according to studies done...men think about sex more than women. It's just now known that women think about sex. Whereas before, it wasn't known. Bit different than your statement though. ;)

It's because of the women's ability to hide it that the studies showed otherwise:P

I'm gonna be going to college next year too, and it's stupid to think you'll be a loser if you don't put out. I actually find it a turn off if I find out that my girlfriend isn't a virgin. CuddlesTheBunny

Believe me,you are going to be turned off a lot:P

I'm gonna be going to college next year too, and it's stupid to think you'll be a loser if you don't put out. I actually find it a turn off if I find out that my girlfriend isn't a virgin. CuddlesTheBunny

I'm currently at college, and yes that is a stupid outlook

My friend Diana can't have children now because whatevr the thing was that she got screwed up her ovaries, and Jamie and a few others have a kid orare going to have a kid. Don't get me wrong, I love kids and I know they love theirs, but being a 19-20 year old single mother working and going to college is just way toomuch to bear with at once.

I don't understand YOU... psht, you didn't hit it. :|

tbone29

I would... shame :(

I'm gonna be going to college next year too, and it's stupid to think you'll be a loser if you don't put out. I actually find it a turn off if I find out that my girlfriend isn't a virgin. CuddlesTheBunny

I find that outlook stupid, but at the same time I am not gonna let someones past get in the way of a relationship. So what if she isn't a virgin? As long as she hasn't slept with half her college/high school then no biggie. Mine as well have someone with experience help teach you in the bedroom....