is sex before marriage a sin?

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#201 inyourface_12
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[QUOTE="inyourface_12"][QUOTE="Kratos_Aurion56"]

[QUOTE="nizms"]Wuts sex?coldkill19

Its when two people get naked & kiss:oops:

i think what he means is when one guy and one girl get naked and kiss;)

but i had sex with a girl

but it wasnt real sex:|

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#202 coldkill19
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[QUOTE="coldkill19"][QUOTE="inyourface_12"][QUOTE="Kratos_Aurion56"]

[QUOTE="nizms"]Wuts sex?inyourface_12

Its when two people get naked & kiss:oops:

i think what he means is when one guy and one girl get naked and kiss;)

but i had sex with a girl

but it wasnt real sex:|

intercourse?
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#203 inyourface_12
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[QUOTE="inyourface_12"][QUOTE="coldkill19"][QUOTE="inyourface_12"][QUOTE="Kratos_Aurion56"]

[QUOTE="nizms"]Wuts sex?coldkill19

Its when two people get naked & kiss:oops:

i think what he means is when one guy and one girl get naked and kiss;)

but i had sex with a girl

but it wasnt real sex:|

intercourse?

sure. call it whatever you want but real sex(intercourse) can only occur between male and female

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#204 quiglythegreat
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[QUOTE="quiglythegreat"][QUOTE="Rekunta"]

If you live by religious principles, then yes.

I say sex is pleasurable for a very good reason: simply to encourage procreation. Considering it a sin comes off to me as absurd. It's akin to saying that urinating, eating, and any normal bodily function is a sin.

Rekunta

No, sex is definitely meant to develop an attachment to someone.

Wrong. That notion is idealized romance perpetuated by popular media.

Uh, no. The media is bipolar about this. It's either soulmates or friends with benefits on this in the media. No, sexual attraction results in sexual love which results in tremendous attachment.
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#205 Rekunta
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[QUOTE="Rekunta"][QUOTE="quiglythegreat"][QUOTE="Rekunta"]

If you live by religious principles, then yes.

I say sex is pleasurable for a very good reason: simply to encourage procreation. Considering it a sin comes off to me as absurd. It's akin to saying that urinating, eating, and any normal bodily function is a sin.

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No, sex is definitely meant to develop an attachment to someone.

Wrong. That notion is idealized romance perpetuated by popular media.

Uh, no. The media is bipolar about this. It's either soulmates or friends with benefits on this in the media. No, sexual attraction results in sexual love which results in tremendous attachment.

Strong emotional attachment to another benefits sexual intercourse and procreation. Sex is not meant to create a tremendous attachment to another soley so that the two people will be forever soulmates. Not to say that it doesn't, but that is not it's inherent purpose.

It is the attachment, the emotional bond between two people that helps breed the desire to have intercourse and reproduce. Sex is not a tool used to bond two people, it is the end achieved by the means.....namely, emotional bonding, and what we define as "love".

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#206 camreeno360
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I don't think it matters whether or not you're married. I think the only thing that matters is being in love with the person. Besides, I don't believe in this "sin" system anyway. Everything do whether good or bad is based on memory and conception of what the person sees right. Yeah whatever.
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#207 cametall
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I thought Jesus died for our sins? Or was it for sins up until then?
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#208 quiglythegreat
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Strong emotional attachment to another benefits sexual intercourse and procreation. Sex is not meant to create a tremendous attachment to another soley so that the two people will be forever soulmates. Not to say that it doesn't, but that is not it's inherent purpose.

It is the attachment, the emotional bond between two people that helps breed the desire to have intercourse and reproduce. Sex is not a tool used to bond two people, it is the end achieved by the means.....namely, emotional bonding, and what we define as "love".

Rekunta
Well, but it still does that. Very little about sex is natural, but essentially it is emotional, and that's what I was trying to stress.
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#209 syorks
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[QUOTE="inyourface_12"][QUOTE="coldkill19"][QUOTE="inyourface_12"][QUOTE="Kratos_Aurion56"]

[QUOTE="nizms"]Wuts sex?coldkill19

Its when two people get naked & kiss:oops:

i think what he means is when one guy and one girl get naked and kiss;)

but i had sex with a girl

but it wasnt real sex:|

intercourse?

Wow i can't believe your that young and have already had sex with a girl. I mean your like 13. That's just wrong.

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#210 syorks
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I thought Jesus died for our sins? Or was it for sins up until then?cametall

He did but it is up to us to accept His sacrafice to be forgiven. he's willing to forgive our sins only if we ask Him to forgive them by acknowledgeing His sacrafice and who He is.

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#211 Canuck3000
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What isn't a sin now? >_>