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#151 The_Ish
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[QUOTE="The_Ish"]

Wrong again, as usual.

Your anology doesn't work because we aren';t debating theories, we are debating the crediblity of the sources' theory.

That unknown astronomer may be insignificant compared to Steven Hawking, but he does not have an agenda, nor does he base his research on his agenda.

A better anology would be this:

Would you rather take facts about the situation in Iraq from the US media, or the Taliban. Sure, it's extreme, but it's similar in that the US media would be far more credibile than the Taliban would.

In this case, the APA and other organizations, both in and outside the US, trumps the theories of NARTH, an organization that has already admitted it's own bias by stating to be against the APA.

Silver_Dragon17

Here's an even better analogy: Two people claim to have the facts, but only one person actually presents them. The other one just goes "Well, these guys say different, so you're wrong!" without ever presenting an argument. Who am I supposed to believe?

If the APA say different, post something from the APA that disproves me.

That has nothing to do with the argument.

And the APA has already said it's share. Just go on their website. I'm not going to spend two hours nitpicking every damn article for you.

Fact of the matter is, APA + other organizations > NARTH, as such, no one will acknowledge your swamp of links, not because NARTH has less intelligent people, but because their credibility is greatly in question.

You links, which are your points, will always be invalid.

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#152 cjek
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For me personally, being gay isn't a choice. But I accept that there may be other reasons for other people to be gay because I don't know what it's like to be in everyone elses situation, and I don't know the science behind possible reasons. I also accept that there is a possibility that I was influenced to be gay from my upbringing or my environment. But again, I don't know the science. All I know is that I had no say in the matter, and I am who I am.
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#153 Kratos_Aurion56
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Yeah, I'm really really excited. I've never celebrated Christmas once in my entire life because of what I was forced to believe growing up, so now that I'm no longer under that control, I'm gonna give it a shot :D I have plans and everything ^_^ If I were a billionaire, I'd send you all gifts and become the e-santa :P_Marisa_

Yay! Christmas is awesome ^_^

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#154 The_Ish
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Yeah, I'm really really excited. I've never celebrated Christmas once in my entire life because of what I was forced to believe growing up, so now that I'm no longer under that control, I'm gonna give it a shot :D I have plans and everything ^_^ If I were a billionaire, I'd send you all gifts and become the e-santa :P_Marisa_

You never celebrated Christmas? :o Even I celebrated christmas! Though I did do it secretly with a bunch of friends. >_>

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#155 _Marisa_
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[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]

Yeah, I'm really really excited. I've never celebrated Christmas once in my entire life because of what I was forced to believe growing up, so now that I'm no longer under that control, I'm gonna give it a shot :D I have plans and everything ^_^ If I were a billionaire, I'd send you all gifts and become the e-santa :PThe_Ish

You never celebrated Christmas? :o Even I celebrated christmas! Though I did do it secretly with a bunch of friends. >_>



Nope, never once. But I'm making my stand this year. CHRISTMAS IS MINE! Muhahahaha
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#156 Silver_Dragon17
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That has nothing to do with the argument.

And the APA has already said it's share. Just go on their website. I'm not going to spend two hours nitpicking every damn article for you.

Fact of the matter is, APA + other organizations > NARTH, as such, no one will acknowledge your swamp of links, not because NARTH has less intelligent people, but because their credibility is greatly in question.

You links, which are your points, will always be invalid.

The_Ish

It's not my responsibility to gather up YOUR proof. You are the one with the burden, so if you don't give me proof, I'm not in any way entitled to believe you.

My links are only invalid when disproven, which is something you have yet to do.

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#157 niptuckSean
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Sorry, but why is everyone talking about Christmas?
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#158 greenprince
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[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]

Yeah, I'm really really excited. I've never celebrated Christmas once in my entire life because of what I was forced to believe growing up, so now that I'm no longer under that control, I'm gonna give it a shot :D I have plans and everything ^_^ If I were a billionaire, I'd send you all gifts and become the e-santa :PThe_Ish

You never celebrated Christmas? :o Even I celebrated christmas! Though I did do it secretly with a bunch of friends. >_>

Why would do it secertly unless you're hiding something!:o
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#159 Kratos_Aurion56
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Sorry, but why is everyone talking about Christmas?niptuckSean

Because its awesome :|

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#160 _Marisa_
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Sorry, but why is everyone talking about Christmas?niptuckSean


Because those two up above won't stop arguing and we're sick of hearing it lol Besides, Christmas is fun.
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#161 _Margulis_
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[QUOTE="_Margulis_"][QUOTE="Silver_Dragon17"][QUOTE="_Margulis_"][QUOTE="Silver_Dragon17"][QUOTE="_Margulis_"]

He already countered your points when he pointed out they aren't from a credible source.

Silver_Dragon17

That's a fallacy. It doesn't counter my arguments at all.

Yes it does.

No it doesn't.

Yes it does.

Picture this: an unheard of astronomer goes up and challenges a theory of Steven Hawking, the smartest man in the world.

You can't prove that, I want proof.

No it doesn't.

Yes it does, if I said a 4 foot tall man with a shoe fetish lived within 20 miles of your house you wouldn't be able to prove me wrong, but since I'm a credible source it doesn't mean it's true.

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#162 The_Ish
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[QUOTE="The_Ish"]

That has nothing to do with the argument.

And the APA has already said it's share. Just go on their website. I'm not going to spend two hours nitpicking every damn article for you.

Fact of the matter is, APA + other organizations > NARTH, as such, no one will acknowledge your swamp of links, not because NARTH has less intelligent people, but because their credibility is greatly in question.

You links, which are your points, will always be invalid.

Silver_Dragon17

It's not my responsibility to gather up YOUR proof. You are the one with the burden, so if you don't give me proof, I'm not in any way entitled to believe you.

My links are only invalid when disproven, which is something you have yet to do.

I don't have to disprove them, since they are already disproven through more credible organizations.

The fact that they are widely accepted by the scientific community and all over the net means your the one that has to back up the claims of this organization.

The APA, and so many others have already proven what they have had to.

Go ahead and believe that homosexuality is a choice, the opinions of some voice on the net or the "research" of a descredited organization won't change the fact that it isn't.

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#163 The_Ish
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[QUOTE="The_Ish"]

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]

Yeah, I'm really really excited. I've never celebrated Christmas once in my entire life because of what I was forced to believe growing up, so now that I'm no longer under that control, I'm gonna give it a shot :D I have plans and everything ^_^ If I were a billionaire, I'd send you all gifts and become the e-santa :Pgreenprince

You never celebrated Christmas? :o Even I celebrated christmas! Though I did do it secretly with a bunch of friends. >_>

Why would do it secertly unless you're hiding something!:o

I come from a Muslim family. >_>

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#164 Def_Jef88
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I don't choose what im attracted to. i just am....
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#165 Silver_Dragon17
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Yes it does, if I said a 4 foot tall man with a shoe fetish lived within 20 miles of your house you wouldn't be able to prove me wrong, but since I'm a credible source it doesn't mean it's true.

_Margulis_

It doesn't mean it's false either. The way to find out is to go online and do a search around my house to see if people are like that. But the fallacy is when I go "Haha! You're wrong!" without checking anything out.

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#166 luke1889
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I personally don't think so.
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#167 Silver_Dragon17
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[QUOTE="Silver_Dragon17"][QUOTE="The_Ish"]

That has nothing to do with the argument.

And the APA has already said it's share. Just go on their website. I'm not going to spend two hours nitpicking every damn article for you.

Fact of the matter is, APA + other organizations > NARTH, as such, no one will acknowledge your swamp of links, not because NARTH has less intelligent people, but because their credibility is greatly in question.

You links, which are your points, will always be invalid.

The_Ish

It's not my responsibility to gather up YOUR proof. You are the one with the burden, so if you don't give me proof, I'm not in any way entitled to believe you.

My links are only invalid when disproven, which is something you have yet to do.

I don't have to disprove them, since they are already disproven through more credible organizations.

The fact that they are widely accepted by the scientific community and all over the net means your the one that has to back up the claims of this organization.

The APA, and so many others have already proven what they have had to.

Go ahead and believe that homosexuality is a choice, the opinions of some voice on the net or the "research" of a descredited organization won't change the fact that it isn't.

Then give us something from the organizations. It can't be that hard.

Uh, nobody in the scientific community believes homosexuality is genetic.:| You're the one who needs to prove your position; the burden of proof lies on you firstly anyway.:|

Then show me what they have proven, and I'll shut up.;)

I don't believe homosexuality is a choice, I believe it is hormonal. KNow why? Because that's where the evidence points.;)

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#168 EboyLOL
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[QUOTE="Silver_Dragon17"][QUOTE="The_Ish"]

That has nothing to do with the argument.

And the APA has already said it's share. Just go on their website. I'm not going to spend two hours nitpicking every damn article for you.

Fact of the matter is, APA + other organizations > NARTH, as such, no one will acknowledge your swamp of links, not because NARTH has less intelligent people, but because their credibility is greatly in question.

You links, which are your points, will always be invalid.

The_Ish

It's not my responsibility to gather up YOUR proof. You are the one with the burden, so if you don't give me proof, I'm not in any way entitled to believe you.

My links are only invalid when disproven, which is something you have yet to do.

I don't have to disprove them, since they are already disproven through more credible organizations.

The fact that they are widely accepted by the scientific community and all over the net means your the one that has to back up the claims of this organization.

The APA, and so many others have already proven what they have had to.

Go ahead and believe that homosexuality is a choice, the opinions of some voice on the net or the "research" of a descredited organization won't change the fact that it isn't.

Just give him an effing link already. We are both on the same side, but if he wants a link to have the obvious proven to him, provide one. I regrettably have trouble navigating the site...
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#169 luke1889
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You're the one who needs to prove your position; the burden of proof lies on you firstly anyway.:|

Silver_Dragon17

So the burden of proof is on the claimant?

Another tasty irony. ;)

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#170 _Margulis_
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[QUOTE="_Margulis_"]

Yes it does, if I said a 4 foot tall man with a shoe fetish lived within 20 miles of your house you wouldn't be able to prove me wrong, but since I'm a credible source it doesn't mean it's true.

Silver_Dragon17

It doesn't mean it's false either. The way to find out is to go online and do a search around my house to see if people are like that. But the fallacy is when I go "Haha! You're wrong!" without checking anything out.

You're right, maybe you should get a move on saying something worth acknowledging.

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#171 EboyLOL
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Uh, nobody in the scientific community believes homosexuality is genetic.:|

Silver_Dragon17
Actually I did provide multiple links stating just that...
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#172 greenprince
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[QUOTE="greenprince"][QUOTE="The_Ish"]

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]

Yeah, I'm really really excited. I've never celebrated Christmas once in my entire life because of what I was forced to believe growing up, so now that I'm no longer under that control, I'm gonna give it a shot :D I have plans and everything ^_^ If I were a billionaire, I'd send you all gifts and become the e-santa :PThe_Ish

You never celebrated Christmas? :o Even I celebrated christmas! Though I did do it secretly with a bunch of friends. >_>

Why would do it secertly unless you're hiding something!:o

I come from a Muslim family. >_>

Oh, I thought it was the ''man'' trying to put you down.
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#173 Silver_Dragon17
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[QUOTE="Silver_Dragon17"][QUOTE="_Margulis_"]

Yes it does, if I said a 4 foot tall man with a shoe fetish lived within 20 miles of your house you wouldn't be able to prove me wrong, but since I'm a credible source it doesn't mean it's true.

_Margulis_

It doesn't mean it's false either. The way to find out is to go online and do a search around my house to see if people are like that. But the fallacy is when I go "Haha! You're wrong!" without checking anything out.

You're right, maybe you should get a move on saying something worth acknowledging.

I'm not the one commiting the fallacy.;)

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#174 123625
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im pretty sure im straight.

actually i know i am.

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#175 Silver_Dragon17
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[QUOTE="Silver_Dragon17"] You're the one who needs to prove your position; the burden of proof lies on you firstly anyway.:|

luke1889

So the burden of proof is on the claimant?

Another tasty irony. ;)

Do you HAVE to do that everytime I go scientific?

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#176 _Margulis_
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[QUOTE="_Margulis_"][QUOTE="Silver_Dragon17"][QUOTE="_Margulis_"]

Yes it does, if I said a 4 foot tall man with a shoe fetish lived within 20 miles of your house you wouldn't be able to prove me wrong, but since I'm a credible source it doesn't mean it's true.

Silver_Dragon17

It doesn't mean it's false either. The way to find out is to go online and do a search around my house to see if people are like that. But the fallacy is when I go "Haha! You're wrong!" without checking anything out.

You're right, maybe you should get a move on saying something worth acknowledging.

I'm not the one commiting the fallacy.;)

Is someone talking to me?

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#177 The_Ish
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[QUOTE="The_Ish"][QUOTE="greenprince"][QUOTE="The_Ish"]

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"]

Yeah, I'm really really excited. I've never celebrated Christmas once in my entire life because of what I was forced to believe growing up, so now that I'm no longer under that control, I'm gonna give it a shot :D I have plans and everything ^_^ If I were a billionaire, I'd send you all gifts and become the e-santa :Pgreenprince

You never celebrated Christmas? :o Even I celebrated christmas! Though I did do it secretly with a bunch of friends. >_>

Why would do it secertly unless you're hiding something!:o

I come from a Muslim family. >_>

Oh, I thought it was the ''man'' trying to put you down.

Technically, it is :P

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#178 LouieV13
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You choose to be gay or straight. I personally could care less if somone is gay
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#179 ninjacat11
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For the most part, it's genetic.
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#180 luke1889
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[QUOTE="luke1889"][QUOTE="Silver_Dragon17"] You're the one who needs to prove your position; the burden of proof lies on you firstly anyway.:|

Silver_Dragon17

So the burden of proof is on the claimant?

Another tasty irony. ;)

Do you HAVE to do that everytime I go scientific?

I'm sorry. I'll stop now. :oops:

I'm only joshing with you after all. :(

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#181 nbtrap1212
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For the most part, it's genetic.ninjacat11

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#182 LouieV13
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[QUOTE="ninjacat11"]For the most part, it's genetic.nbtrap1212

How is it genetic...
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#183 iMuffins
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I didn't choose to be straightmig_killer2

Exactly. I just started liking girls. I presume its the same process if you're homosexual.

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#184 InstantClassic1
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I'm not sure why everyone is debating this? Because whatever you believe, everyone will just defend their beliefs. Their is no way of proving whether you do have a choice or don't it's that simple, I just had to say that.
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#185 Kratos_Aurion56
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I'm not sure why everyone is debating this? Because whatever you believe, everyone will just defend their beliefs. Their is no way of proving whether you do have a choice or don't it's that simple, I just had to say that.InstantClassic1

I'm not sure why its even an issue :?

Is it so hard to just accept people? :(

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#186 giton
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Omg, who the hell cares if it's genetic or not. They are the way they are and they're happy that way. Drop it. _Marisa_

i'm with you... what difference does it make whether sexual orientation/preference is genetic, hormonal, or a choice?

seriously, why should anyone care about this? love the one you're with, live and let live, mind you own business, etc.

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#187 MichaeltheCM
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sure why not :D
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#188 fkholmes
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You can't choose. It's all 'bout the chemicals.