Looks or personality: which is more important?

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#51 deactivated-5b19214ec908b
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Both are important.

I'm not going to get into a relationship with someone who I don't find sexually attractive

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#52 VaguelyTagged
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people are not voting honestly.

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#53 Pirate700
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people are not voting honestly.

VaguelyTagged

Or more people just find personallity more important. That doesn't mean you want someone ugly.

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#54 ExoticAnimal
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

At my age, Dracula68

Yup, I will assume 99% of the younger gen will pick looks. They will change their mind, however, when they get older.

Sorry bro, I ain't going to be your age for a very long time. lol
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#55 Fightingfan
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She's gotta be better looking then me, and she's gotta be fun.
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#56 ps3theJT
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I'll be honest and pick looks.

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#57 VaguelyTagged
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[QUOTE="VaguelyTagged"]

people are not voting honestly.

Pirate700

Or more people just find personallity more important. That doesn't mean you want someone ugly.

then why am i not seeing this in relationships in real life?
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#58 Pirate700
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

[QUOTE="VaguelyTagged"]

people are not voting honestly.

VaguelyTagged

Or more people just find personallity more important. That doesn't mean you want someone ugly.

then why am i not seeing this in relationships in real life?

Not sure what you mean.

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#59 hadoken
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I suggest we ask Hadoken whose side he's on. Whoever he picks automatically loses.

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ok and the winner is.... OH MY GOD! nikva has INTERFERED WITH A STEEL CHAIR!!!
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#61 Pirate700
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

[QUOTE="VaguelyTagged"] then why am i not seeing this in relationships in real life?VaguelyTagged

Not sure what you mean.

what i see in real life relationships is that people tend to pick looks over personality.

How do you know that's why someone picked that person? And how do you know their partner's personality isn't better than their looks?

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#62 DeathnoteSz
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Which do you think is more important in looking for a partner of the opposite sex? I would have to go with personality but, granted, I do have to be attracted to her physically at least to some degree.

EDIT: Just to clarify, by "looks" I mean someone highly attractive but who has a decent personality at best, not necessarily someone with a highly unfavorable personality. Just as the "personality" category denotes someone with a wonderfully admirable personality yet decent-looking at best.

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id rather take a decent looking chick with an amazing personality than a very hot chick with an awful personality who will probably fk up my life anyways
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#63 Pirate700
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[QUOTE="Tigerman950"]

Which do you think is more important in looking for a partner of the opposite sex? I would have to go with personality but, granted, I do have to be attracted to her physically at least to some degree.

EDIT: Just to clarify, by "looks" I mean someone highly attractive but who has a decent personality at best, not necessarily someone with a highly unfavorable personality. Just as the "personality" category denotes someone with a wonderfully admirable personality yet decent-looking at best.

DeathnoteSz

id rather take a decent looking chick with an amazing personality than a very hot chick with an awful personality who will probably fk up my life anyways

Bingo.

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#64 VaguelyTagged
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[QUOTE="VaguelyTagged"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]Not sure what you mean.

Pirate700

what i see in real life relationships is that people tend to pick looks over personality.

How do you know that's why someone picked that person? And how do you know their partner's personality isn't better than their looks?

ok i knew you could say that but what about the couples that i personally know?
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#65 soulless4now
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Personality + smarts is a must.

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#66 ExoticAnimal
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Personality + smarts is a must.

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Hi there! :P
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#67 Pirate700
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

[QUOTE="VaguelyTagged"] what i see in real life relationships is that people tend to pick looks over personality.VaguelyTagged

How do you know that's why someone picked that person? And how do you know their partner's personality isn't better than their looks?

ok i knew you could say that but what about the couples that i personally know?

Just says a lot about those you associate with is all.

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#68 soulless4now
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[QUOTE="soulless4now"]

Personality + smarts is a must.

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Hi there! :P

You aren't adding to the topic. You should know better. :x
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#69 ExoticAnimal
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[QUOTE="ExoticAnimal"][QUOTE="soulless4now"]

Personality + smarts is a must.

soulless4now
Hi there! :P

You aren't adding to the topic. You should know better. :x

I did, somewhat. I voted but looks like I'm losing in the pools. :(
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#70 themajormayor
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[QUOTE="LordQuorthon"]

I suggest we ask Hadoken whose side he's on. Whoever he picks automatically loses.

hadoken
ok and the winner is.... OH MY GOD! nikva has INTERFERED WITH A STEEL CHAIR!!!

rofl :lol:
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[QUOTE="ExoticAnimal"][QUOTE="soulless4now"][QUOTE="ExoticAnimal"] Hi there! :P

You aren't adding to the topic. You should know better. :x

I did, somewhat. I voted but looks like I'm losing in the pools. :(

Guess you need to re-evaluate your personality then. Oh ho ho ho. >.> :P
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[QUOTE="soulless4now"]

Personality + smarts is a must.

ExoticAnimal

Hi there! :P

:usrs:

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#73 ExoticAnimal
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[QUOTE="ExoticAnimal"][QUOTE="soulless4now"]You aren't adding to the topic. You should know better. :x soulless4now
I did, somewhat. I voted but looks like I'm losing in the pools. :(

Guess you need to re-evaluate your personality then. Oh ho ho ho. >.> :P

Hey now... not until I'm older! lol All righty Tim Taylor!
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#74 soulless4now
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[QUOTE="soulless4now"][QUOTE="ExoticAnimal"] I did, somewhat. I voted but looks like I'm losing in the pools. :(ExoticAnimal
Guess you need to re-evaluate your personality then. Oh ho ho ho. >.> :P

Hey now... not until I'm older! lol All righty Tim Taylor!

/facepalm Wait...who's Time Taylor? o_O *googles*

Edit: Oh, I used to watch that show xD

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#75 lloveLamp
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Looks. and then the rest doesn't matter
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#76 Aquat1cF1sh
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I posted this once somewhere.

  1. Personality
  2. Hygiene
  3. Looks
Dracula68
This is a very good list!
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#77 almasdeathchild
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Personality I don't mind abit of chunky dunking. But I'd rather have a girl who is nice treats me great doesn't need me to pay for every damn thing. You can be the hottest chick and be a complete dirt bag and I've met many
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#78 ExoticAnimal
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/facepalm Wait...who's Time Taylor? o_O *googles*

Edit: Oh, I used to watch that show xD

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Nah, its quite easy choice for me. I gots to have both. Can't love a girl for who she is if she got an ass face. For shame...
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#79 themajormayor
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Can't believehygiene isn't first on some people's list! GROSS!

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#80 ShadowMoses900
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Personality is what makes the relationhsip last, I have been out with some pretty attractive women but they were air heads and I lost interest entirely. I especially hate wome that I have gone out with who were just gossip idiots and wanted to talk about people I didn't even know behind their backs, not worth the time if you ask me.

Being attracted to the person is important, but physcal attractiveness is very subjective so you might find yourself attracted to someone that other people do not. Some of my best relationships have been like this.

But your personality isn't, your either replulsive or your delightful to be around. Also confidence makes people more attractive, it is a fact. I knew a girl who at first I didn't find her attractive at all, but later she became more confident and I couldn't take my eyes off her.

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#81 michael_1234576
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an awesome personality can definitely make up for mediocre looks.

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#82 Fajsha-
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if she doesn't have a sense of humor i'm not even gonna bother.. personality is definitely more important. When i was younger i tent to go more for the looks tho.. as most teenagers

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#83 deactivated-58061ea11c905
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I would like to say personality but my brain and my entire nervous system clearly say otherwise.
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#84 almasdeathchild
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Personality is what makes the relationhsip last, I have been out with some pretty attractive women but they were air heads and I lost interest entirely. I especially hate wome that I have gone out with who were just gossip idiots and wanted to talk about people I didn't even know behind their backs, not worth the time if you ask me.

Being attracted to the person is important, but physcal attractiveness is very subjective so you might find yourself attracted to someone that other people do not. Some of my best relationships have been like this.

But your personality isn't, your either replulsive or your delightful to be around. Also confidence makes people more attractive, it is a fact. I knew a girl who at first I didn't find her attractive at all, but later she became more confident and I couldn't take my eyes off her.

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Shadow buddy havent seen you in a while what's up with you these days?
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Personality. A bad personality can make even the most beautiful people look truly ugly.
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#86 ShadowMoses900
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[QUOTE="ShadowMoses900"]

Personality is what makes the relationhsip last, I have been out with some pretty attractive women but they were air heads and I lost interest entirely. I especially hate wome that I have gone out with who were just gossip idiots and wanted to talk about people I didn't even know behind their backs, not worth the time if you ask me.

Being attracted to the person is important, but physcal attractiveness is very subjective so you might find yourself attracted to someone that other people do not. Some of my best relationships have been like this.

But your personality isn't, your either replulsive or your delightful to be around. Also confidence makes people more attractive, it is a fact. I knew a girl who at first I didn't find her attractive at all, but later she became more confident and I couldn't take my eyes off her.

almasdeathchild

Shadow buddy havent seen you in a while what's up with you these days?

Fighting crime and throwing fun parties with my awesome PS3 girl friends, that's what!

Seriously I've been on Netflix alot now, can't stop watching Breaking Bad lol.

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#87 Tigerman950
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No. It really isn't.

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Of course kindness is part of personality. Not everyone is kind, so their personalities differ accordingly and in a number of other ways.

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#88 soulless4now
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[QUOTE="soulless4now"]

/facepalm Wait...who's Time Taylor? o_O *googles*

Edit: Oh, I used to watch that show xD

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Nah, its quite easy choice for me. I gots to have both. Can't love a girl for who she is if she got an ass face. For shame...

That makes sense. I wouldn't want a camel.
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#89 ExoticAnimal
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That makes sense. I wouldn't want a camel. soulless4now
What's wrong with camels? o_O
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#90 RobertBowen
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Personality is the glue that binds a relationship together, and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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#91 _R34LiTY_
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an open personality always wins against a broad that's concieted because of her vanity

Well maybe not always, but usually.....

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#92 biggest_loser
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I like to have a balance, bit of both lol
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#93 the_plan_man
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Looks by a mile.
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[QUOTE="foxhound_fox"] A bad personality can make even the most beautiful people look truly ugly.

True dat.
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#95 Pirate700
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Looks by a mile.the_plan_man

[QUOTE="foxhound_fox"] A bad personality can make even the most beautiful people look truly ugly.the_plan_man
True dat.

Which is it then?

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#96 cyborg100000
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Personality goes a long way towards making someone attractive. Too many good looking girls are air headed, FB obsessed posers who only care about themselves. It does apply to less good looking girls too but it's amazing how a girl with average looks can really warm on you with an appealing personality.

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#97 soulless4now
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[QUOTE="soulless4now"]That makes sense. I wouldn't want a camel. ExoticAnimal
What's wrong with camels? o_O

No girl wants to date a guy that looks like one. >.>
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[QUOTE="ExoticAnimal"][QUOTE="soulless4now"]That makes sense. I wouldn't want a camel. soulless4now
What's wrong with camels? o_O

No girl wants to date a guy that looks like one. >.>

There's people that look like camels?

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#99 coolbeans90
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I'm not an idiot, so personality.

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#100 deactivated-5806da829a153
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My logic tells me that looks are more important, at least to a lot of people. If looks and money did not matter to women at least in some level then I would already have the girl of my dreams but fact is she doesn't like me back and there is nothing I can do to change it.