Majority of Americans Support G@y Marriage AND Adoption by G@y Couples

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#101 Theokhoth
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[QUOTE="ROFLCOPTER603"]Do you know anyone with homosexual parents? If you do, they'll tell you that their life isn't exactly great. It's already tough being adopted, add in gay parents and you have one really stressful life.scorch-62
I've never heard of such a claim. Please explain yourself, preferably with links to relevant research.

There is none. Also, relevant.
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[QUOTE="ROFLCOPTER603"]Do you know anyone with homosexual parents? If you do, they'll tell you that their life isn't exactly great. It's already tough being adopted, add in gay parents and you have one really stressful life.scorch-62
I've never heard of such a claim. Please explain yourself, preferably with links to relevant research.

http://www.reallife.com

Check it out.

Seriously though, why are you asking for links? Just talk to someone with homosexual parents. They'd have to live in the most saintly town to have never got any ridicule over their parents.

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#103 Theokhoth
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[QUOTE="DroidPhysX"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"][QUOTE="DroidPhysX"] At a federal level. The power to define marriage wasn't given to the feds. 10th amendment gives it to the states. The feds can't ban gay marriage (gays from being married not gays receiving benefits) without a constitutional amendment. Bush tried that in '06 and failed.

The Defense of Marriage Act defines marriage as between one man and one woman. It explicitly defines marriage and it is a federal law passed by the Clinton administration.

So then states that have legalized gay marriage should be expecting a lawsuit from the federal gov't for violating federal law?

The federal government stopped enforcing DOMA in court recently, but before then, potentially.
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[QUOTE="scorch-62"][QUOTE="ROFLCOPTER603"]Do you know anyone with homosexual parents? If you do, they'll tell you that their life isn't exactly great. It's already tough being adopted, add in gay parents and you have one really stressful life.ROFLCOPTER603

I've never heard of such a claim. Please explain yourself, preferably with links to relevant research.

http://www.reallife.com

Check it out.

Seriously though, why are you asking for links? Just talk to someone with homosexual parents. They'd have to live in the most saintly town to have never got any ridicule over their parents.

Everyone from the APA to to people who actually have these parents says you're wrong. You're wrong. Whatever ridicule they may get, it isn't life-ending like you seem to think it is. You sound like the fear-mongers who said repealing DADT would result in mass gay lynchings in the military.
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#105 CreasianDevaili
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[QUOTE="alexside1"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"] No; simply that they allow those who are against it greater leverage.

Theokhoth

And?

And that's a problem with apathy.

So you are saying that people who do not care, should care, because not enough people care? Why should people care that someone isn't truely popular enough to get enough people to care about it for the side that someone thinks is the side that everyone should care most about?

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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"][QUOTE="DroidPhysX"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"] The Defense of Marriage Act defines marriage as between one man and one woman. It explicitly defines marriage and it is a federal law passed by the Clinton administration.

So then states that have legalized gay marriage should be expecting a lawsuit from the federal gov't for violating federal law?

The federal government stopped enforcing DOMA in court recently, but before then, potentially.

Massachusetts legalized gay marriage in 2003....surprised the GOP didn't challenge it for 5-6 years. Speaking of which, where in the constitution does it give the feds to define marriage? State laws on marriage are constitutional. DOMA isn't.
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[QUOTE="DivergeUnify"]

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

I'm pretty sure its because they can have kids, thus uniting their bloodDivergeUnify
Not all married couples have kids. :roll:

"Because they CAN have kids" Most married couples have kids I would assume

:lol: Here comes the eyerolling to belittle every contribution someone brings to the discussion thats not explicitely 100% pro-gay

Friends of mine, who are married and straight, can't have kids. She's infertile. Is their marriage any less valid?
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#108 ROFLCOPTER603
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[QUOTE="ROFLCOPTER603"]

[QUOTE="scorch-62"] I've never heard of such a claim. Please explain yourself, preferably with links to relevant research.Theokhoth

http://www.reallife.com

Check it out.

Seriously though, why are you asking for links? Just talk to someone with homosexual parents. They'd have to live in the most saintly town to have never got any ridicule over their parents.

Everyone from the APA to to people who actually have these parents says you're wrong. You're wrong. Whatever ridicule they may get, it isn't life-ending like you seem to think it is. You sound like the fear-mongers who said repealing DADT would result in mass gay lynchings in the military.

I only know two people with homosexual parents, and both of them are made fun of. Maybe my town just sucks.

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#109 DivergeUnify
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[QUOTE="ROFLCOPTER603"]

[QUOTE="scorch-62"] I've never heard of such a claim. Please explain yourself, preferably with links to relevant research.Theokhoth

http://www.reallife.com

Check it out.

Seriously though, why are you asking for links? Just talk to someone with homosexual parents. They'd have to live in the most saintly town to have never got any ridicule over their parents.

Everyone from the APA to to people who actually have these parents says you're wrong. You're wrong. Whatever ridicule they may get, it isn't life-ending like you seem to think it is. You sound like the fear-mongers who said repealing DADT would result in mass gay lynchings in the military.

"You sound like the fear-mongers who said repealing DADT would result in mass gay lynchings in the military." Destroy his credibility with your lables! Do it, Do it! :twisted: No opposition!
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Today's development on the defense of DOMA seemed relevant to this conversation.

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#111 DivergeUnify
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[QUOTE="mattbbpl"][QUOTE="DivergeUnify"]

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"] Not all married couples have kids. :roll:

"Because they CAN have kids" Most married couples have kids I would assume

:lol: Here comes the eyerolling to belittle every contribution someone brings to the discussion thats not explicitely 100% pro-gay

Friends of mine, who are married and straight, can't have kids. She's infertile. Is their marriage any less valid?

Nope, because marriage-capacity isn't decided on an individual basis, its based on having a male and a female for the most part, and what can they do that a male/male female/female can't in a marriage? Reproduce I'm for gay marriage anyways, I don't see why you guys are getting all up and arms about facts. Thats cool that you can pick out a fertility example, but for the most part men and women can reproduce together. Nothing to debate here
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"][QUOTE="ROFLCOPTER603"]

http://www.reallife.com

Check it out.

Seriously though, why are you asking for links? Just talk to someone with homosexual parents. They'd have to live in the most saintly town to have never got any ridicule over their parents.

ROFLCOPTER603

Everyone from the APA to to people who actually have these parents says you're wrong. You're wrong. Whatever ridicule they may get, it isn't life-ending like you seem to think it is. You sound like the fear-mongers who said repealing DADT would result in mass gay lynchings in the military.

I only know two people with homosexual parents, and both of them are made fun of. Maybe my town just sucks.

Which is not really the fault of the parents, is it? It's more of society's fault than the individual parents. If adoption to a gay couple becomes more common, kids will be teased less for that. But that can't happen if we use the justification of banning gay adoption for "the kids will be teased!"
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Why does everyone like gay people and now they are being allowed to marry and adopt? I hate how this is even a political issue but people flip if i wanna smoke weed for recreational purposes

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[QUOTE="GabuEx"]

Every national telephone poll uses randomly selected telephone numbers from anywhere in the nation in order to get a representative sampling. They don't say as much because that's basically implied; the whole point of a (honest) poll is to get a representative sampling.

Espada12

Yeah I know, it's just the accuracy of these polls has been known to be off. You poll and find out 51% of Americans want it, then when it comes up for vote it fails by 6-10%. of the required votes needed.

Because people often support something but don't bother going out to vote.

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Why does everyone like gay people and now they are being allowed to marry and adopt? I hate how this is even a political issue but people flip if i wanna smoke weed for recreational purposes

playmynutz
I think you'll find that those who want to legalize certain drugs and those who want to allow gay people to marry and adopt come from the same camp more often than they come from separate camps.
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[QUOTE="DroidPhysX"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"][QUOTE="DroidPhysX"] So then states that have legalized gay marriage should be expecting a lawsuit from the federal gov't for violating federal law?

The federal government stopped enforcing DOMA in court recently, but before then, potentially.

Massachusetts legalized gay marriage in 2003....surprised the GOP didn't challenge it for 5-6 years. Speaking of which, where in the constitution does it give the feds to define marriage? State laws on marriage are constitutional. DOMA isn't.

The feds grant rights to marriages. Ergo, the feds are involved with marriage. The feds outlaw any state from banning interracial marriages as well. I really can't make it simpler than that. The feds can and do get involved with marriage. A lot.
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#117 ROFLCOPTER603
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[QUOTE="ROFLCOPTER603"]

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"] Everyone from the APA to to people who actually have these parents says you're wrong. You're wrong. Whatever ridicule they may get, it isn't life-ending like you seem to think it is. You sound like the fear-mongers who said repealing DADT would result in mass gay lynchings in the military.Ring_of_fire

I only know two people with homosexual parents, and both of them are made fun of. Maybe my town just sucks.

Which is not really the fault of the parents, is it? It's more of society's fault than the individual parents. If adoption to a gay couple becomes more common, kids will be teased less for that. But that can't happen if we use the justification of banning gay adoption for "the kids will be teased!"

The first step is to allow gay marriage-which I'm all for. Then, afterwards we can allow adoption. But right now it just doesn't work.

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[QUOTE="mattbbpl"][QUOTE="DivergeUnify"] "Because they CAN have kids" Most married couples have kids I would assume

:lol: Here comes the eyerolling to belittle every contribution someone brings to the discussion thats not explicitely 100% pro-gay

DivergeUnify

Friends of mine, who are married and straight, can't have kids. She's infertile. Is their marriage any less valid?

Nope, because marriage-capacity isn't decided on an individual basis, its based on having a male and a female for the most part, and what can they do that a male/male female/female can't in a marriage? Reproduce I'm for gay marriage anyways, I don't see why you guys are getting all up and arms about facts. Thats cool that you can pick out a fertility example, but for the most part men and women can reproduce together. Nothing to debate here

Men and women don't need to be married to reproduce. By your logic, all men and all women are related--because they have the potential to have kids. Actually, scratch that; you're not using logic.

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[QUOTE="DroidPhysX"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"] The federal government stopped enforcing DOMA in court recently, but before then, potentially. Theokhoth
Massachusetts legalized gay marriage in 2003....surprised the GOP didn't challenge it for 5-6 years. Speaking of which, where in the constitution does it give the feds to define marriage? State laws on marriage are constitutional. DOMA isn't.

The feds grant rights to marriages. Ergo, the feds are involved with marriage. The feds outlaw any state from banning interracial marriages as well. I really can't make it simpler than that. The feds can and do get involved with marriage. A lot.

Actually, it was the Supreme Court that did that:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loving_v._Virginia.

DOMA prevents gay couples from recieving federal benefits as straight couples. In fact, it gives states the option to not recognize OTHER STATES gay marriage laws. So DOMA itself proves my point.

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#120 Ring_of_fire
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[QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"][QUOTE="ROFLCOPTER603"]

I only know two people with homosexual parents, and both of them are made fun of. Maybe my town just sucks.

ROFLCOPTER603

Which is not really the fault of the parents, is it? It's more of society's fault than the individual parents. If adoption to a gay couple becomes more common, kids will be teased less for that. But that can't happen if we use the justification of banning gay adoption for "the kids will be teased!"

The first step is to allow gay marriage-which I'm all for. Then, afterwards we can allow adoption. But right now it just doesn't work.

It won't work until we start it, regardless of status of marriage. if it becomes more common, less people will be against it.
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[QUOTE="GabuEx"]

OK, there's a nationwide poll showing 52% support of gay marriage... where's the nationwide vote in which it lost by 6-10%?

Espada12

No I said when it comes up time to vote on it the votes always fall short.

Unless this is a nationwide vote we'te talking about, I'm not sure how you're not comparing apples to oranges.

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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"][QUOTE="DroidPhysX"] Massachusetts legalized gay marriage in 2003....surprised the GOP didn't challenge it for 5-6 years. Speaking of which, where in the constitution does it give the feds to define marriage? State laws on marriage are constitutional. DOMA isn't.DroidPhysX

The feds grant rights to marriages. Ergo, the feds are involved with marriage. The feds outlaw any state from banning interracial marriages as well. I really can't make it simpler than that. The feds can and do get involved with marriage. A lot.

Actually, it was the Supreme Court that did that:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loving_v._Virginia.

DOMA prevents gay couples from recieving federal benefits as straight couples. In fact, it gives states the option to not recognize OTHER STATES gay marriage laws. So DOMA itself proves my point.

The Supreme Court does not make laws; it only interprets them. And the Supreme Court is a federal court, so your point is moot here. Yes, but without DOMA, the federal government still involves itself with marriage in the granting of federal marriage rights. It has ALWAYS done this, DOMA or no.
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[QUOTE="DivergeUnify"][QUOTE="mattbbpl"] Friends of mine, who are married and straight, can't have kids. She's infertile. Is their marriage any less valid?Theokhoth

Nope, because marriage-capacity isn't decided on an individual basis, its based on having a male and a female for the most part, and what can they do that a male/male female/female can't in a marriage? Reproduce I'm for gay marriage anyways, I don't see why you guys are getting all up and arms about facts. Thats cool that you can pick out a fertility example, but for the most part men and women can reproduce together. Nothing to debate here

Men and women don't need to be married to reproduce. By your logic, all men and all women are related--because they have the potential to have kids. Actually, scratch that; you're not using logic.

But they get benefits if they DO get married DUR

:lol: :lol: The bold oh my god! Thats exactly what I'm saying thanks for simplifying it

Parents united in bloody by their children= EVERY HUMAN ON EARTH IS RELATED :lol:

But you said man and woman, instead of everybody, so I'm going to assume you're excluding gays here? Are you saying they're not worthy of blood relation? :|

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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

[QUOTE="DivergeUnify"] Nope, because marriage-capacity isn't decided on an individual basis, its based on having a male and a female for the most part, and what can they do that a male/male female/female can't in a marriage? Reproduce I'm for gay marriage anyways, I don't see why you guys are getting all up and arms about facts. Thats cool that you can pick out a fertility example, but for the most part men and women can reproduce together. Nothing to debate here DivergeUnify

Men and women don't need to be married to reproduce. By your logic, all men and all women are related--because they have the potential to have kids. Actually, scratch that; you're not using logic.

But they get benefits if they DO get married DUR

Yes, so it's their marriage, and not their capacity to have children, that determines their benefits. See how that works? ;)
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[QUOTE="DivergeUnify"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"] Men and women don't need to be married to reproduce. By your logic, all men and all women are related--because they have the potential to have kids. Actually, scratch that; you're not using logic.

Theokhoth

But they get benefits if they DO get married DUR

Yes, so it's their marriage, and not their capacity to have children, that determines their benefits. See how that works? ;)

If you want to deny that part of the reason marriage benefits exist is to help married couples raise kids, thats your right. In the end you're still in denial

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[QUOTE="DroidPhysX"]

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"] The feds grant rights to marriages. Ergo, the feds are involved with marriage. The feds outlaw any state from banning interracial marriages as well. I really can't make it simpler than that. The feds can and do get involved with marriage. A lot.Theokhoth

Actually, it was the Supreme Court that did that:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loving_v._Virginia.

DOMA prevents gay couples from recieving federal benefits as straight couples. In fact, it gives states the option to not recognize OTHER STATES gay marriage laws. So DOMA itself proves my point.

The Supreme Court does not make laws; it only interprets them. And the Supreme Court is a federal court, so your point is moot here. Yes, but without DOMA, the federal government still involves itself with marriage in the granting of federal marriage rights. It has ALWAYS done this, DOMA or no.

You just said the feds OUTLAW any state from banning interracial marriages. I.E. you said that they made a law banning it. keyword: "Outlaw". And as you said, the Supreme Court does not make laws. That's a contradiction on your part. Secondly, my point was about whether the feds can regulate marriage in the states. :?

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Sometimes I wish genetics were more advance than they are currently. Then we could purposely alter and mold the embryos to be the type of child we want. Then we could all be happy and everyone could get what they want. Surely every sexuality, every ethnic, every gender bender requirement could be fulfilled and we could drop such old fashioned things like marriage and whatnot. Because SURELY everyone would alter their future children to want, need, and be everything. Evvverythinggg..
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"][QUOTE="DivergeUnify"] But they get benefits if they DO get married DUR DivergeUnify

Yes, so it's their marriage, and not their capacity to have children, that determines their benefits. See how that works? ;)

If you want to deny that part of the reason marriage benefits exist is to help married couples raise kids, thats your right. In the end you're still in denial

I thought it was to aid in forming families, not just having biological kids. That's what a lot of the benefits (such as hospital visitation rights) are geared toward. And if they want to form a family unit and give some adopted children a home, I say kudos to them.
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"][QUOTE="DivergeUnify"] But they get benefits if they DO get married DUR DivergeUnify

Yes, so it's their marriage, and not their capacity to have children, that determines their benefits. See how that works? ;)

If you want to deny that part of the reason marriage benefits exist is to help married couples raise kids, thats your right. In the end you're still in denial

Since people don't have to be married to have kids, no I'm not.
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#130 DivergeUnify
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[QUOTE="DivergeUnify"]

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"] Yes, so it's their marriage, and not their capacity to have children, that determines their benefits. See how that works? ;)mattbbpl

If you want to deny that part of the reason marriage benefits exist is to help married couples raise kids, thats your right. In the end you're still in denial

I thought it was to aid in forming families, not just having biological kids. That's what a lot of the benefits (such as hospital visitation rights) are geared toward. And if they want to form a family unit and give some adopted children a home, I say kudos to them.

Having kids in general, sure. But the majority of this "having kids" business tends to come from reproduction, does it not?
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[QUOTE="Espada12"]

[QUOTE="GabuEx"]

OK, there's a nationwide poll showing 52% support of gay marriage... where's the nationwide vote in which it lost by 6-10%?

GabuEx

No I said when it comes up time to vote on it the votes always fall short.

Unless this is a nationwide vote we'te talking about, I'm not sure how you're not comparing apples to oranges.

True but still I mean if you make a blanket statement like 51% in support of and everytime it comes up for vote it gets struck down then you must call into question the accuracy of these polls.

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#132 DivergeUnify
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[QUOTE="DivergeUnify"]

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"] Yes, so it's their marriage, and not their capacity to have children, that determines their benefits. See how that works? ;)Theokhoth

If you want to deny that part of the reason marriage benefits exist is to help married couples raise kids, thats your right. In the end you're still in denial

Since people don't have to be married to have kids, no I'm not.

If you want to deny the fact that getting married helps in raising a child( one of the primary things male-female relationships do) then continue to do so
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You explicitly stated that you supported the genocide of gays in Uganda. Don't even try to lie about that.scorch-62

Nope you said I did until I gave up arguing with you and told you what you wanted to hear. I know you mashed that report button really hard when you saw it to!

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#134 mattbbpl
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[QUOTE="mattbbpl"][QUOTE="DivergeUnify"] If you want to deny that part of the reason marriage benefits exist is to help married couples raise kids, thats your right. In the end you're still in denial

DivergeUnify

I thought it was to aid in forming families, not just having biological kids. That's what a lot of the benefits (such as hospital visitation rights) are geared toward. And if they want to form a family unit and give some adopted children a home, I say kudos to them.

Having kids in general, sure. But the majority of this "having kids" business tends to come from reproduction, does it not?

The majority, yes, but some families are formed through marriage without kids or through adoption of children. Both are regular occurrences, and both are legally recognized families. I fail to see how "the majority of instances" has any relevance.

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#135 Theokhoth
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"][QUOTE="DroidPhysX"]

Actually, it was the Supreme Court that did that:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loving_v._Virginia.

DOMA prevents gay couples from recieving federal benefits as straight couples. In fact, it gives states the option to not recognize OTHER STATES gay marriage laws. So DOMA itself proves my point.

DroidPhysX

The Supreme Court does not make laws; it only interprets them. And the Supreme Court is a federal court, so your point is moot here. Yes, but without DOMA, the federal government still involves itself with marriage in the granting of federal marriage rights. It has ALWAYS done this, DOMA or no.

You just said the feds OUTLAW any state from banning interracial marriages. I.E. you said that they made a law banning it. keyword: "Outlaw". And as you said, the Supreme Court does not make laws. That's a contradiction on your part. Secondly, my point was about whether the feds can regulate marriage in the states. :?

*Sigh* Here is what I said: DOMA defines marriage as excluding gays. This does not ban gay marriage per se. This does, however, have all the same effects as the banning of gay marriage--without saying it. It's exploiting a loophole. The Supreme Court can not make laws. I never said they could. The federal government can; it is against federal law to ban interracial marriage anywhere in the U.S, because the Supreme Court ruled that such bannings are unconstitutional. The feds can regulate interracial marriage, polygamy, and other types of marriage by choosing whether or not to recognize them. If they do not recognize these marriages, then they are not marriages in any legal sense of the term; in the eyes of the law a gay couple is simply a couple of friends who live with eachother.
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#136 ROFLCOPTER603
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relevant to this argument- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=liq_wYFkMoU

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#137 Theokhoth
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[QUOTE="scorch-62"]

You explicitly stated that you supported the genocide of gays in Uganda. Don't even try to lie about that.Espada12

Nope you said I did until I gave up arguing with you and told you what you wanted to hear. I know you mashed that report button really hard when you saw it to!

I'm sure he was just dying to hear "I support the genocide of homosexuals."
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#138 GabuEx
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[QUOTE="GabuEx"]

[QUOTE="Espada12"]

No I said when it comes up time to vote on it the votes always fall short.

Espada12

Unless this is a nationwide vote we'te talking about, I'm not sure how you're not comparing apples to oranges.

True but still I mean if you make a blanket statement like 51% in support of and everytime it comes up for vote it gets struck down then you must call into question the accuracy of these polls.

Um, no, no you don't.

That's like saying that because the people in Kansas keep voting Republican we must call the accuracy of the 2008 election results into question.

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#139 DroidPhysX
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[QUOTE="DroidPhysX"]

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"] The Supreme Court does not make laws; it only interprets them. And the Supreme Court is a federal court, so your point is moot here. Yes, but without DOMA, the federal government still involves itself with marriage in the granting of federal marriage rights. It has ALWAYS done this, DOMA or no. Theokhoth

You just said the feds OUTLAW any state from banning interracial marriages. I.E. you said that they made a law banning it. keyword: "Outlaw". And as you said, the Supreme Court does not make laws. That's a contradiction on your part. Secondly, my point was about whether the feds can regulate marriage in the states. :?

*Sigh* Here is what I said: DOMA defines marriage as excluding gays. This does not ban gay marriage per se. This does, however, have all the same effects as the banning of gay marriage--without saying it. It's exploiting a loophole. The Supreme Court can not make laws. I never said they could. The federal government can; it is against federal law to ban interracial marriage anywhere in the U.S, because the Supreme Court ruled that such bannings are unconstitutional. The feds can regulate interracial marriage, polygamy, and other types of marriage by choosing whether or not to recognize them. If they do not recognize these marriages, then they are not marriages in any legal sense of the term; in the eyes of the law a gay couple is simply a couple of friends who live with eachother.

So essentially, this was a misunderstanding.
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#140 Theokhoth
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"][QUOTE="DivergeUnify"] If you want to deny that part of the reason marriage benefits exist is to help married couples raise kids, thats your right. In the end you're still in denial

DivergeUnify

Since people don't have to be married to have kids, no I'm not.

If you want to deny the fact that getting married helps in raising a child( one of the primary things male-female relationships do) then continue to do so

It helps, sure; but it's the marriage and not the child that grants these rights and privileges. Proof: A childless couple still has these rights and privileges. Yet an unmarried couple with children does not.

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#141 Theokhoth
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"][QUOTE="DroidPhysX"]

You just said the feds OUTLAW any state from banning interracial marriages. I.E. you said that they made a law banning it. keyword: "Outlaw". And as you said, the Supreme Court does not make laws. That's a contradiction on your part. Secondly, my point was about whether the feds can regulate marriage in the states. :?

DroidPhysX

*Sigh* Here is what I said: DOMA defines marriage as excluding gays. This does not ban gay marriage per se. This does, however, have all the same effects as the banning of gay marriage--without saying it. It's exploiting a loophole. The Supreme Court can not make laws. I never said they could. The federal government can; it is against federal law to ban interracial marriage anywhere in the U.S, because the Supreme Court ruled that such bannings are unconstitutional. The feds can regulate interracial marriage, polygamy, and other types of marriage by choosing whether or not to recognize them. If they do not recognize these marriages, then they are not marriages in any legal sense of the term; in the eyes of the law a gay couple is simply a couple of friends who live with eachother.

So essentially, this was a misunderstanding.

Pretty much. I think all arguments boil down to a misunderstanding of some sort.

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#142 Espada12
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I'm sure he was just dying to hear "I support the genocide of homosexuals."Theokhoth

Yes he was, because he obviously had his mind set on that since he understood exactly what I was saying.

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#143 raynimrod
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Secondly, my point was about whether the feds can regulate marriage in the states. :?

DroidPhysX

Well if they can, that means they can force you to get married! :o

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#144 Espada12
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Um, no, no you don't.

That's like saying that because the people in Kansas keep voting Republican we must call the accuracy of the 2008 election results into question.

GabuEx

Which is why I said in the first place polls like these mean nothing.

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#145 GabuEx
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[QUOTE="GabuEx"]

Um, no, no you don't.

That's like saying that because the people in Kansas keep voting Republican we must call the accuracy of the 2008 election results into question.

Espada12

Which is why I said in the first place polls like these mean nothing.

They mean that a majority support same-sex marriage in America today, but yes, other than what they mean, they mean nothing. :P

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#146 Lockedge
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[QUOTE="GabuEx"]

OK, there's a nationwide poll showing 52% support of gay marriage... where's the nationwide vote in which it lost by 6-10%?

Espada12

No I said when it comes up time to vote on it the votes always fall short.

Welp, I've read through over 50 posts, and I'm tired of reading so in case this wasn't addressed later...... There were cases like Prop 8, for instance, where polls were done where support for same sex marriage was sitting around 52-54% a few weeks prior to voting. Then the Prop 8 proponents pushed out ad campaigns using fearmongering tactics stating a bunch of radical stuff could happen to California if same sex marriage was allowed. It didn't matter that all of the accusations were incorrect and not using California law as basis, but once that seed of fear was planted, the polls started to shift. Even though the California ministry of education refuted claims the ads made, even though the state had protections for religious institutions, etc., people bought into the fear tactics. These ads and tactics are addressed and broken down in the Prop 8 trial and soundly dismissed. In Maine, the major SSM ballot after Prop 8, these ads once again hit the airwaves, and I certainly don't doubt that they had an impact in an otherwise very very close ballot measure.
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#147 scorch-62
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NopeEspada12
I stopped reading here. In your EXACT words: "It's their culture and country and if they agree with it they can do whatever they want." In other words, you are excusing genocide in the event that the majority supports it.
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#148 789shadow
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As morbid as it sounds, the only thing that's holding back the full legalization of gay marriage in America at this point is old people not dying. :P

GabuEx

This is the cause of a LOT of problems. :P

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#149 alexside1
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[QUOTE="Espada12"]Nopescorch-62
I stopped reading here. In your exact words: "It's their culture and country and if they agree with it they can do whatever they want."

This doesn't mean that he him self agrees with it.
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#150 scorch-62
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[QUOTE="scorch-62"][QUOTE="Espada12"]Nopealexside1
I stopped reading here. In your exact words: "It's their culture and country and if they agree with it they can do whatever they want."

This doesn't mean that he him self agrees with it.

Read my edit.