Return of the depressing thread: Share your life problems!

I'm nineteen years old & I've never kissed a girl

& I have no friends ..

somebody play a god damn violin.

soren008

My only problem is that my school sucks so bad.:x

my life basically sucks, i hate my family much more than anything in the world, everyone will think its just teen anger =/8-Bitterness

Teen angst is not what I think it is. Unless that's what it is.But most kids/teens/adults have reasons for using the word hate when talking about their families. I'm guessing it's something you'd rather not talk about, but I just hope that your outlook on life improves as well as your family life.

I'm... i don't know how to say this but i really hate to go out, even with friends, family for fun, every where they offer i reject to go. so i don't have job, money, even someone to talk to. it's almost 3 weeks i'm in my room, ALONE! :(Pixy64

Again I ask, do you enjoy being alone? It doesn't sound like it, but it does sound like your body and brain pushes people away. You should figure out what it is about people and activities that you don't like. You could be mildly depressed. Along with everyone else on this thread. :P

I'm nineteen years old & I've never kissed a girl

& I have no friends ..

somebody play a god damn violin.

soren008

Oh no! 19 years old and you haven't kissed a girl! You've missed out on your whole life at 19 years on the planet. Dude, what is with men and thinking that they have to do everything with a girl by the age of 16 or they're not cool?? It's not that hard to talk to girls. You just need to not come off as a guy with a) no social skills whatsoever, b) a guy that is so desperate he'll eat his own s*** to kiss a girl, and c) a self pitying boy. You need to be a man. Someone a girl can relate to, talk to, and havve fun with. Moping about having no friends isn't going to get you any.

Go out and talk. Start up conversations with people. Go to gamestop and talk to people there, chances are you'll find someone to hang out with, and in turn you'll eventually talk to girls.

Seriously, you're lucky. I'm 19 years old and I've had sex wtih more guys than I can remember. Im lucky I don't have STDs or AIDS. I've gone to Sex Addiction Annonymous meetings to get over my addiction. You should take more time out to enjoy your life rather than think you're not living it like everyone else. Seriously, wait for the right girl, and don't think about it. Stressing about it makes it not happen. Trust me. And there are more girls out there than you think that would love to share your company. Be confident. You have your whole life ahead of you.

[QUOTE="8-Bitterness"]my life basically sucks, i hate my family much more than anything in the world, everyone will think its just teen anger =/Esmenet

Teen angst is not what I think it is. Unless that's what it is.But most kids/teens/adults have reasons for using the word hate when talking about their families. I'm guessing it's something you'd rather not talk about, but I just hope that your outlook on life improves as well as your family life.

Not sure why im going to list my problems but I'v never told anybody them.... They might not be so big compared to some peoples but oh well.

1. Im 19 and a virgin, its my fault really I never try to pull girls in case I get rejected and everyone finds out, its not so much the rejection but people knowing i got rejected that bothered me.

2. I have an issue where between the phases of meeting someone and being really good friends I am socially awkward... I dont know why. With people I dont know or know really well I am funny and myself, but in between I just cant seem to be myself.

Thats about it really... I am pretty happy overall :)

[QUOTE="Esmenet"]

[QUOTE="8-Bitterness"]my life basically sucks, i hate my family much more than anything in the world, everyone will think its just teen anger =/8-Bitterness

Teen angst is not what I think it is. Unless that's what it is.But most kids/teens/adults have reasons for using the word hate when talking about their families. I'm guessing it's something you'd rather not talk about, but I just hope that your outlook on life improves as well as your family life.

I understand that completely. Some families just have a lot of things to work on, and in the long run, it works out better if you don't live together. My relationship with my parents got so much better as soon as I was out of the house. (but, the reason for me hating my parents was because they didn't notice I was raped...and they know now, so it's getting easier).

And if you never end up loving your family, its sad, but it happens.

Not sure why im going to list my problems but I'v never told anybody them.... They might not be so big compared to some peoples but oh well.

1. Im 19 and a virgin, its my fault really I never try to pull girls in case I get rejected and everyone finds out, its not so much the rejection but people knowing i got rejected that bothered me.

2. I have an issue where between the phases of meeting someone and being really good friends I am socially awkward... I dont know why. With people I dont know or know really well I am funny and myself, but in between I just cant seem to be myself.

Thats about it really... I am pretty happy overall :)

wigan_gamer

See above response to other 19 year old who never kissed a girl. NOT A BIG DEAL!!!!! You have your whole life to have sex.

And have you ever tried explaining that to someone? Like "I don't know what it is, but sometimes I just don't know what to say when I'm meeting new people. I'd really like to be friends, if you can deal with me being odd for a few weeks." Most people will just laugh it off, and take all your flaws upfront. If they don't, then it's not worth being friends wtih them.

[QUOTE="Pixy64"]I'm... i don't know how to say this but i really hate to go out, even with friends, family for fun, every where they offer i reject to go. so i don't have job, money, even someone to talk to. it's almost 3 weeks i'm in my room, ALONE! :(Esmenet

Again I ask, do you enjoy being alone? It doesn't sound like it, but it does sound like your body and brain pushes people away. You should figure out what it is about people and activities that you don't like. You could be mildly depressed. Along with everyone else on this thread. :P

[QUOTE="8-Bitterness"][QUOTE="Esmenet"]

Teen angst is not what I think it is. Unless that's what it is.But most kids/teens/adults have reasons for using the word hate when talking about their families. I'm guessing it's something you'd rather not talk about, but I just hope that your outlook on life improves as well as your family life.

Esmenet

I understand that completely. Some families just have a lot of things to work on, and in the long run, it works out better if you don't live together. My relationship with my parents got so much better as soon as I was out of the house. (but, the reason for me hating my parents was because they didn't notice I was raped...and they know now, so it's getting easier).

And if you never end up loving your family, its sad, but it happens.

I'm... i don't know how to say this but i really hate to go out, even with friends, family for fun, every where they offer i reject to go. so i don't have job, money, even someone to talk to. it's almost 3 weeks i'm in my room, ALONE! :(Pixy64

[QUOTE="Esmenet"]

[QUOTE="Pixy64"]I'm... i don't know how to say this but i really hate to go out, even with friends, family for fun, every where they offer i reject to go. so i don't have job, money, even someone to talk to. it's almost 3 weeks i'm in my room, ALONE! :(Pixy64

Again I ask, do you enjoy being alone? It doesn't sound like it, but it does sound like your body and brain pushes people away. You should figure out what it is about people and activities that you don't like. You could be mildly depressed. Along with everyone else on this thread. :P

It's extremely normal to not know why. That takes a long time to figure out. But you could always try talking to a professional about it, and seeing what solutions they provide. All I would say is, start off slow. Start haning out with a family member just doing something you love, like playing video games. Don't overdo it right away.

My bf of 3 and a half years won't call, text or e-mail me.. He keeps ditching me for his friends and he doesn't care that I am sad. :'(-Water-Wings-

Making a update to my post.. I got dumped. :cry:

[QUOTE="-Water-Wings-"]My bf of 3 and a half years won't call, text or e-mail me.. He keeps ditching me for his friends and he doesn't care that I am sad. :'(-Water-Wings-

Making a update to my post.. I got dumped. :cry:

EDIT: and try to be more direct, its kind of hard to descypher (spelling fail) stuff sometimes, so he might not even know youre sad

[QUOTE="-Water-Wings-"]

[QUOTE="-Water-Wings-"]My bf of 3 and a half years won't call, text or e-mail me.. He keeps ditching me for his friends and he doesn't care that I am sad. :'(8-Bitterness

Making a update to my post.. I got dumped. :cry:

EDIT: and try to be more direct, its kind of hard to descypher (spelling fail) stuff sometimes, so he might not even know youre sad

I don't see him as much as I use too.. He went to college in a city about 2 and a half hours away and I am stuck here finishing high school. I thought we were going to make it.. Less than a year and I would be there.I tried so hard, but I'm just a failure..

Problems? Let's see, money is a bit short at the moment due to various things. I'm busy trying to sort out the tenancy agreement on my flat as the letting agency have been useless. I have split up with my girlfriend I've been with for the last 3 years.

On the plus side today I've been the happiest I've been in years :D

[QUOTE="8-Bitterness"]

[QUOTE="-Water-Wings-"]

Making a update to my post.. I got dumped. :cry:

-Water-Wings-

EDIT: and try to be more direct, its kind of hard to descypher (spelling fail) stuff sometimes, so he might not even know youre sad

I don't see him as much as I use too.. He went to college in a city about 2 and a half hours away and I am stuck here finishing high school. I thought we were going to make it.. Less than a year and I would be there.I tried so hard, but I'm just a failure..

[QUOTE="-Water-Wings-"]

[QUOTE="8-Bitterness"] well, since im a d000000000d i guess i could~ help... proooooooobably he just got used to being with you and right now he just wants to have fun with his friends, what i think you should do is either surprise him (lol), or set a limit to him

EDIT: and try to be more direct, its kind of hard to descypher (spelling fail) stuff sometimes, so he might not even know youre sad

8-Bitterness

I don't see him as much as I use too.. He went to college in a city about 2 and a half hours away and I am stuck here finishing high school. I thought we were going to make it.. Less than a year and I would be there.I tried so hard, but I'm just a failure..

I did.. I bought a webcam and a mic just to talk to him, but he was never on or he was too busy with his friends.. It's hard for me to get down there, I have a job and I can't drive yet so I have to take the bus. Everytime I am about toc ome down, he would make excuses. In january I was going to get my license and a car, too visit more.. I just feel like I'll never be good enough for him..

[QUOTE="8-Bitterness"][QUOTE="-Water-Wings-"]

I don't see him as much as I use too.. He went to college in a city about 2 and a half hours away and I am stuck here finishing high school. I thought we were going to make it.. Less than a year and I would be there.I tried so hard, but I'm just a failure..

-Water-Wings-

I did.. I bought a webcam and a mic just to talk to him, but he was never on or he was too busy with his friends.. It's hard for me to get down there, I have a job and I can't drive yet so I have to take the bus. Everytime I am about toc ome down, he would make excuses. In january I was going to get my license and a car, too visit more.. I just feel like I'll never be good enough for him..

[QUOTE="-Water-Wings-"]My bf of 3 and a half years won't call, text or e-mail me.. He keeps ditching me for his friends and he doesn't care that I am sad. :'(biggest_loser

[QUOTE="-Water-Wings-"]

[QUOTE="8-Bitterness"] nah youre not, the distance to get there and the traffic there would be to get there are the failures, try using a webcam to see him at least, and find time to visit him regularly8-Bitterness

I did.. I bought a webcam and a mic just to talk to him, but he was never on or he was too busy with his friends.. It's hard for me to get down there, I have a job and I can't drive yet so I have to take the bus. Everytime I am about toc ome down, he would make excuses. In january I was going to get my license and a car, too visit more.. I just feel like I'll never be good enough for him..

So we all know break ups suck. But this time around, it really looks like you're in luck. But first, you need to stop thinking you weren't good enough for him, or that you failed in the relationship. 8Bitternes is right. He didn't deservve you. You were putting in all the effort in the relationship, and he just decided it wasn't for him anymore. You need to completely take the blame off of yourself, because anyone should want to have you as a girlfriend. You did everything you could to get it to work. And if you're still in high school, then spending as much time with him as you did is a significant part of your life. It seems like forever. BUT here's where you're in luck. You ahve your whole life to find someone better than him that will treat you with the respect and attention you deserve. I think college got to his head, and he just got too busy to keep up with things. College has a way to demature men, and a way of maturing them. You picked the short straw. However, you will most likely meet a lot of guys in college, so being single can be a good thing. The most important thing is to not dwell on it. Keep your mind busy, hang out with your girlfriends, and have lots of fun. You have a job, so that helps. Don't sit at home and mope, because it really isn't worth it. I'm talking from experience. I moped for a year about a guy that cheated on me and called me a whore, and I still thought he was the best thing for me. It just made me more depressed and on more medication. You deserve more, so keep that in mind. Make this a lesson on which traits you like and don't like in a guy. Good luck.

Well, I can't say my life is bad,but it is disappointing. My major drowns me in so much work and studying that I never have time to make any friends. Or actually, I have friends that I talk to in class but never hang out with them. On weekends I do hang out with friends that I knew in high school, but that's about it. One thing I notice in this thread is a lot of guys(and girls?) complaining that they are still virgins. Seriously? Getting laid is your top priority? Why do people see virginity as a negative thing? I'm almost 20, and still a virgin. I could care less about sex right now.

My almost-girlfriend is moving a few states away in a week, and I'm seeing her for the last time tomorrow. I was going to make a few short videos for fun with her (I enjoy making comedic shorts for my friends/family), but I dropped my $200 camera this morning and now it's broken. So that means no final memories besides a disposable camera.

My almost-girlfriend is moving a few states away in a week, and I'm seeing her for the last time tomorrow. I was going to make a few short videos for fun with her (I enjoy making comedic shorts for my friends/family), but I dropped my $200 camera this morning and now it's broken. So that means no final memories besides a disposable camera.

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