should i be mad at him?

Kick him in the testicles and see what happens.

freek666

[QUOTE="AAllxxjjnn"][QUOTE="tepni"]

She doesn't want to make a big deal out of it. idk, she has trust issues with me. Everything she told me NOT to tell him, I'd go and tell him anyway. So basically if I brought it up she'd be so pissed and would NOT be my friend anymore. and I can't lose her. she's still friends with him, because, word for word, "he didn't know what he was doing, he was drunk."

tepni

i cant talk to her about it now, cuz shes WITH him right now with other people..about to go to a party. wow, you know what? fck my life. the people i love are..constantly hurting me and not even realizing it because they have alchohol to blame. screw them all.

actually no.. thats partly why im worried that if i were to bring it up to him, she had been exagerating the whole time. either way, she did start off the conversation saying, "oh god..i dont even know if im a virgin anymore". so, wow. yeah. thats saying a lot i think.

i cant talk to her about it now, cuz shes WITH him right now with other people..about to go to a party. wow, you know what? fck my life. the people i love are..constantly hurting me and not even realizing it because they have alchohol to blame. screw them all.tepni

When you are drunk your true emotions uncover.

In his mind, he wanted to have sexual intercourse with your friend since the day he met her.

samuraiguns

thanks all of you though. youre helping out more than you know.

actually no.. thats partly why im worried that if i were to bring it up to him, she had been exagerating the whole time. either way, she did start off the conversation saying, "oh god..i dont even know if im a virgin anymore". so, wow. yeah. thats saying a lot i think.

i cant talk to her about it now, cuz shes WITH him right now with other people..about to go to a party. wow, you know what? fck my life. the people i love are..constantly hurting me and not even realizing it because they have alchohol to blame. screw them all.

tepni

[QUOTE="freek666"]

Kick him in the testicles and see what happens.

samuraiguns

[QUOTE="tepni"]actually no.. thats partly why im worried that if i were to bring it up to him, she had been exagerating the whole time. either way, she did start off the conversation saying, "oh god..i dont even know if im a virgin anymore". so, wow. yeah. thats saying a lot i think.

i cant talk to her about it now, cuz shes WITH him right now with other people..about to go to a party. wow, you know what? fck my life. the people i love are..constantly hurting me and not even realizing it because they have alchohol to blame. screw them all.Avistann

[QUOTE="tepni"]actually no.. thats partly why im worried that if i were to bring it up to him, she had been exagerating the whole time. either way, she did start off the conversation saying, "oh god..i dont even know if im a virgin anymore". so, wow. yeah. thats saying a lot i think.

i cant talk to her about it now, cuz shes WITH him right now with other people..about to go to a party. wow, you know what? fck my life. the people i love are..constantly hurting me and not even realizing it because they have alchohol to blame. screw them all.Avistann

"So you've learned from your mistakes, right?"

"Yes I have.."

"Please don't drink anymore, promise me you wont."

"I won't. I won't drink around the guys at least."

Today in the car..

"Hey, let's get fcked up later tonight!"

Me,

"...."

[QUOTE="AAllxxjjnn"][QUOTE="tepni"]

She doesn't want to make a big deal out of it. idk, she has trust issues with me. Everything she told me NOT to tell him, I'd go and tell him anyway. So basically if I brought it up she'd be so pissed and would NOT be my friend anymore. and I can't lose her. she's still friends with him, because, word for word, "he didn't know what he was doing, he was drunk."

tepni

i cant talk to her about it now, cuz shes WITH him right now with other people..about to go to a party. wow, you know what? fck my life. the people i love are..constantly hurting me and not even realizing it because they have alchohol to blame. screw them all.

I guess that's what I shall do. My best friend though, I need to talk to her. I'm always telling her, don't drink. This is how our conversation usually goes..

"So you've learned from your mistakes, right?"

"Yes I have.."

"Please don't drink anymore, promise me you wont."

"I won't. I won't drink around the guys at least."

Today in the car..

"Hey, let's get fcked up later tonight!"

Me,

"...."

tepni

On the other hand, I have no school friends really except my girlfriend. Most of them do not like to be around me cause I do not party and the others just like to screw with my head and treat me like crap.

I used to be upset about it but now I am over it. I got two great friends left, so I can not complain. As long as these two stay in my life, I think I will make it out alive.

Just find the people who you connect very well with. You will enjoy life so much more.

Being a man, having been drunk on a number of occasions, and only recently departed from such a scene, I can say with 100% confidence he wanted to have sex with your friend before he started drinking that night; hell I wouldn't be shocked if it became his sole reason for being at the party once they discovered each other. Trust me on this. -Twilight-

My dad told me that when you go through life you'll find that you are lucky to even have one true friend at the end of it all. This is the reason why, you can't trust anybody, even your friends. Someone is always willing to screw you over, and a lot of times that someone is a good friend. If she started the conversation off with, "I don't know if im virgin..." then shes not a frickin virgin. She knows what happend and doesn't care. Thats why she doesn't want you to talk to to him, and thats why shes out with him again.Coffee_Blade

You should be mad but work it out with him.RenegadePatriot

Be mad at him. The "I was drunk" excuse is BS and if you let him get away with it once he'll do it again.

Tiefster

Exactly, talk to him about what your friend told you. If he accepts it, try to knock some sense on him, if he does not accepts it, talk with your friend and be sure it's true.

Depending on how close are you two, and if the guy you really loves you, he will accept it, and he will tell you he is sorry, that he was drunk and he didn't mean to do that, just make him feel a bit bad about what he did. If he just dosen't seem to care, leave him. Now.

Sometimes stuff happens, and while being drunk is not an excuse, if he was really drunk stuff may happen. In my honest opinion? Leave him, you're to good for him.

That's the best i can think now, good luck =)

P.S: Is that you on your avvy? You're dead gorgeous :o

[QUOTE="Tiefster"]

Be mad at him. The "I was drunk" excuse is BS and if you let him get away with it once he'll do it again.

darkguy_101

Exactly, talk to him about what your friend told you. If he accepts it, try to knock some sense on him, if he does not accepts it, talk with your friend and be sure it's true.

Depending on how close are you two, and if the guy you really loves you, he will accept it, and he will tell you he is sorry, that he was drunk and he didn't mean to do that.

That's the best i can think now, good luck =)

P.S: Is that you on your avvy? You're dead gorgeous :o

I'll talk to her about it first..definitely.

And yes it is, not very recent, well it was taken the beginning of the year.

Now my hair's blonde :/ heh

[QUOTE="darkguy_101"]

*STUFF*

tepni

I'll talk to her about it first..definitely.

And yes it is, not very recent, well it was taken the beginning of the year.

Now my hair's blonde :/ heh

Now that i think about it better, you should just dump him if you see he dosen't care enough for you.

I don't drink, or go to parties, but my best friend does. She was at a party with a guy who I'm not exactly going out with, but it's obv we like each other. I mean we're up til 5 every night on the phone, we say I love you to each other, yeah you get theee point. Anyway, they got drunk, and she told me he was trying to have sex with her. Undressing her, kissing her. She had to basically pry him off her. When I heard this I was shocked, didn't sound like a thing he'd do. But I guess you don't have control when you're drunk? Anyway, he never told me, she told me all this. He's not acting any different. They're still good friends. I'm mad at him, I can't even imagine that. I love him so much I just don't want to picture his hands on another girll...ehrr...

Anyway, should I be mad? Should I not talk to him for a while? I don't know what to do, I don't know how people are when they're drunk. I mean, if she hadn't done anything and he did have sex with her..thank god it didn't get that far.

I'm coming to you guys because my best friend told me not to tell anyone or bring it up with people I know, ESPECIALLY him.

Alright.

So..should I just forget this happened? Let it go?

I know he's going to party like every weekend and she said she wouldn't get drunk around him anymore but I DOUBT that.

This may not sound like a big deal to all of you, but it's making me pissed.

tepni

Ah, I remember girls like you so well in High School. They become wrapped around a guy so much that they'll go into denial for him.

[QUOTE="tepni"]

[QUOTE="darkguy_101"]

*STUFF*

darkguy_101

I'll talk to her about it first..definitely.

And yes it is, not very recent, well it was taken the beginning of the year.

Now my hair's blonde :/ heh

Now that i think about it better, you should just dump him if you see he dosen't care enough for you.

were not going out so no need : P

weird part is, id take him back in a heartbeat if he were to just say "im sorry" or at least bring it up so we could talk about it..

were not going out so no need : P

weird part is, id take him back in a heartbeat if he were to just say "im sorry" or at least bring it up so we could talk about it..

tepni

[QUOTE="darkguy_101"]

[QUOTE="tepni"]

I'll talk to her about it first..definitely.

And yes it is, not very recent, well it was taken the beginning of the year.

Now my hair's blonde :/ heh

tepni

Now that i think about it better, you should just dump him if you see he dosen't care enough for you.

were not going out so no need : P

weird part is, id take him back in a heartbeat if he were to just say "im sorry" or at least bring it up so we could talk about it..

[QUOTE="tepni"]

[QUOTE="darkguy_101"]

Now that i think about it better, you should just dump him if you see he dosen't care enough for you.

-Twilight-

were not going out so no need : P

weird part is, id take him back in a heartbeat if he were to just say "im sorry" or at least bring it up so we could talk about it..

i guess you could say that.

[QUOTE="darkguy_101"]

[QUOTE="tepni"]

I'll talk to her about it first..definitely.

And yes it is, not very recent, well it was taken the beginning of the year.

Now my hair's blonde :/ heh

tepni

Now that i think about it better, you should just dump him if you see he dosen't care enough for you.

were not going out so no need : P

weird part is, id take him back in a heartbeat if he were to just say "im sorry" or at least bring it up so we could talk about it..

weird part is, id take him back in a heartbeat if he were to just say "im sorry" or at least bring it up so we could talk about it..

tepni

That guy could take advantage of you and you would have no one to blame but yourself. But then again, you probably wouldn't notice that.

[QUOTE="tepni"]

[QUOTE="darkguy_101"]

Now that i think about it better, you should just dump him if you see he dosen't care enough for you.

Sajedene

were not going out so no need : P

weird part is, id take him back in a heartbeat if he were to just say "im sorry" or at least bring it up so we could talk about it..

Ah they're coming to get me in an hour and I can't talk to her about it since she's with him. So while I'm in the car with him, I'll be thinking about how much I hate him and how much I want to forget about it and hold his hand at the same time. Oh god. This'll be an interesting night.

Well he may be thinking of a way to say what happened that night. He may be scared and he could be thinking he wouldlose you if he told you what happened. Something like this happened to me last year... Sorta.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="tepni"]

were not going out so no need : P

weird part is, id take him back in a heartbeat if he were to just say "im sorry" or at least bring it up so we could talk about it..

tepni

Ah they're coming to get me in an hour and I can't talk to her about it since she's with him. So while I'm in the car with him, I'll be thinking about how much I hate him and how much I want to forget about it and hold his hand at the same time. Oh god. This'll be an interesting night.

Well if your going to a party then just take him outside and ask about the whole thing. Tell him how you feel just so he wont think you two are drifting apart because of what happened.

like saje said...youre getting played hard, kid.

[QUOTE="tepni"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"] We're all a sucker for pain. As Incubus said... sometimes its a good hurt and it makes us feel alive. Just try and be smart about it. Don't want to waste your life on someone who causes you so much pain. You can't change him. Only he can change himself. And if you were the girl he wants to change for... he would have already done it the moment he knew he cared for you. Roxas12934

Ah they're coming to get me in an hour and I can't talk to her about it since she's with him. So while I'm in the car with him, I'll be thinking about how much I hate him and how much I want to forget about it and hold his hand at the same time. Oh god. This'll be an interesting night.

Well if your going to a party then just take him outside and ask about the whole thing. Tell him how you feel just so he wont think you two are drifting apart because of what happened.

we're not going to any party tonight :/ hopefully.

i hope i get a chance to talk to her in private about it first..

[QUOTE="Roxas12934"]

[QUOTE="tepni"] That's one good quote..!

Ah they're coming to get me in an hour and I can't talk to her about it since she's with him. So while I'm in the car with him, I'll be thinking about how much I hate him and how much I want to forget about it and hold his hand at the same time. Oh god. This'll be an interesting night.

tepni

Well if your going to a party then just take him outside and ask about the whole thing. Tell him how you feel just so he wont think you two are drifting apart because of what happened.

we're not going to any party tonight :/ hopefully.

i hope i get a chance to talk to her in private about it first..

Yea the best thing to do is talk to her aswell and make things cool between you. Im sure you dont want to lose your bestfriend just because of a silly thing.

Some People deserve 2nd chances......this guy doesn't sound like one of them. CleanPlayer

[QUOTE="CleanPlayer"]Some People deserve 2nd chances......this guy doesn't sound like one of them. martialbullet

Some People deserve 2nd chances......this guy doesn't sound like one of them. CleanPlayer

Men = Pigs

Men + Alcohol = Drunk pigs

Men + Alcohol + Woman = Drunk horny pigs

I'm not sure you should be mad, we can't help ourselves :|

I'd advise you brace yourself. If this is the kind of company you keep it's only a matter of time before the hurt gets worse... and worse...

Sounds like he presents an image you want to see. Not the sort of person I'd be interested in dating if I were a gal.

My stomach feels like it's dropped. I'm so nervous to be in the car with the both of them. I won't even be able to talk to them about it tonight, well most likely. Ahhhh. Calm dowwwwn.

Thank you. Wow. And I don't go to these parties, because I'm not going to drink! So why go! It's a bunch of girls acting like sluts basically, laughing really hard blurting out weird things, driving around to random people's houses...not my scene. He also doesn't let me know he drinks. I had to find it out from other people. He doesn't want me thinking of him as that kind of guy..pff. Ugh. But honestly, he really DOESNT seem like that kind of guy! To do this, its abusrd. Do a lot of girls say that? But really..didn't see this coming.

tepni

My stomach feels like it's dropped. I'm so nervous to be in the car with the both of them. I won't even be able to talk to them about it tonight, well most likely. Ahhhh. Calm dowwwwn.

tepni

[QUOTE="tepni"]

Thank you. Wow. And I don't go to these parties, because I'm not going to drink! So why go! It's a bunch of girls acting like sluts basically, laughing really hard blurting out weird things, driving around to random people's houses...not my scene. He also doesn't let me know he drinks. I had to find it out from other people. He doesn't want me thinking of him as that kind of guy..pff. Ugh. But honestly, he really DOESNT seem like that kind of guy! To do this, its abusrd. Do a lot of girls say that? But really..didn't see this coming.

WhiteSnake5000

My stomach feels like it's dropped. I'm so nervous to be in the car with the both of them. I won't even be able to talk to them about it tonight, well most likely. Ahhhh. Calm dowwwwn.

tepni