ALOT has happened today. Im typing this now from my bro's house and by saying that i think you should know what happened. Those that dont know, heres the thread. http://uk.gamespot.com/pages/forums/show_msgs.php?topic_id=27210587
In short, a sequence of events led me to doubt if my long term girlfriend had been faithful. She WAS cheating. WithA person from my old crappy job whom i assume she met when she tagged along for an after work meal. I guess il just pick up right from where i left off, heres what happened.
Firstly i think i'd like to thank you guys. In the end, I was not physically violent towards the person i have partly to thank the guys that were telling me not to and what not in the last thread. But it was mostly due to my real life friend who kept talking sense into right till the last moment.
Like i said, i was at my friends house and we were looking out from the Window which is directly opposite of my home. We were there for about an 2 hours. I went to the toilet and the next thing i remember was her shouting "HE'S HERE!!" I rushed myself out of the bathroom and hurried to the Window. I saw the guy who was about 4 houses away from mine and instantly recognised him as a person from my old job who i didnt really like (or hate). So for those that were saying he might not know we were together, he definately knew. He walked to our house.
I was pretty angry but was containing myself. This is when my friend asked if she should film it, to remind my gf of her shame but like i said, i said no. He rang the bell and she opened it. Both of them were smiley/cheerful. As he closed the door i noticed him putting his hand on her hips and moving closer to her before closing the door. At this point i was 100% certain of what was going on.
This is when we decided to wait for 10 minutes and if you remember, this was when i also posted the update in the first thread. After a while we both decided to move out. We went in from the back door because it doesnt make a sound when entering. I didnt have time (well i guess i did but didnt) to think up a plan and just wanted to go with my emotion. My friend (along with you guys) also convinced me not to get violent by this point. So we went into our house and started to proceed up the stairs........You could hear them having sex.
This was probably the most painful moment of my life and my eyes felt so teary (i didnt shed). I was almost about to turn around and leave but it was either now or never
We were at our bedroom door. We were there, they didnt know we were. I opened the door pretty fast (my friend right next to me) and they both screamed and turned around (they were also not under the covers and were fully exposed). I wanted to be wittty, i wanted to say something to make her feel bad and do stuff that were suggested here but i just couldnt, i was just too damn hurt to even think.
So i just started packing my things there and then, in front of them in their nude. I didnt say anything and neither did they. My girlfriend did start crying and put her face in her hands. The guy immediately jumped up and was REALLY scared. Shaking scared. But he didnt try to run away because we were near the door. I had pretty much finished packing and then she started saying IM SORRY, im sorry whilst sobbering on the bed. After i was done packing (the immediate) The guy tried running past me and i took him outside.....whilst he was naked (I wasnt volent with him and i didnt hit him). We live in the city so there were a whole lot of people around which would have made me laugh any day of the week..........
Sorry guys quite a bit more happened but i have to go check on the lasagne im making right now. Ill be 10 minutes.
**FINAL UPDATE**
Sorry i took so long guys. The lasagne took longer to make and i had to pretty much eat all of it since my friend (another one) had to leave before it was done.
I was outside and so was the guy who was naked at the time. He asked me for his clothes and i just said no. A neighbour, that was outside watching the whole thing took him into her house and he stayed there for a while (shes an obese 50 year old). A person that i havent said anything past Hello in the morning to absoloutely hates me. Im 1/4Ethiopian and 3/4 WhiteEnglish. Ialways got the impression she was a racist old bat with the countless times i've heard her yell racial slurs. Asumed thats why she hated me (theres a whole bunch of stuff thats happened between us butthats for another thread another day)At this point a small crowd had gathered outside (around 20ish) but to be honest i wasnt bothered at all with what was going on there.
I went back in the house to get my friend and things. She had chucked on some lose clothes covered over with her shower gown and came up to me. She was in my face saying things like im sorry im sorry, it was an accident it wont ever happen again etc. I just sort of moved past her called my friend and we left the house. We started to cross the road to her house and my gf came out after us still sobbering and apologising, pulling my clothes trying to hold me back. But we kept on walking. Alot of people were looking. Once we got to her house my friend went in and i was behind her, i remember turning around and closing the door with my gf looking at me sobbering. This was the first time i looked her in the eyes since before what happened and i closed the door with a plain face.
I looked from the window above and i saw the other guy coming out of that ladies house in just underwear. He came and stood near her and she was pushing him away. I remember seeing them there, both of them outside in their underwear and thinking........oh my....... i cant believe how lucky i was to get out of that when i did. I wasnt even feeling sad at that one moment or sorry for myself. I just remember looking and thinking and i think i said 'thats the most pathetic sight i have ever seen'.
I stayed at my friends house for a while and my gf went back in and tried calling me (I left my phone there). She through the guys clothes at the window and he walked off back where he came from. After a while, my friends husband (who is also my friend but i've known his wife since school days)came back from work knowing what has happened. Apparently its already spread. They offered putting me up but i told them i already made plans with my bro. I havent told him what happened, il do it tommorow since she was a major part of family life.
You know what guys, i think the biggest pain for me was knowing that we were together and she was cheating on me. But now i just feel so glad that i got out of there. The fact that she cheated with such a bum (trust me, this guy has no qualities whatsoever) Just left me pondering how many more there was. I've always had the principle that if a partner cheats, get out of there quick, whether its an intimate affair or even a kiss.
Thanks for all your advice and thanks for listening guys.
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