So my girlfriend was cheating with guy from work. **FINAL UPDATE**

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#101 CBR600-RR
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Sorry to hear, but at least you're having lasagne.

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#102 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Would this not work better in a blog? Anyway, as with all things 'net related....I have my doubts. Could have sworn in the first thread you called her a wife....now she's a gf. Interesting indeed.pis3rch

The title of the other thread is "my girlfriend is cheating on me....." :roll:

Like I spend my time memorizing dating problem threads.:roll:

And the update contradicts the OP.

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#103 Omzzz
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i guess it took you that long since you didn't know what to write next?
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#104 MOSSBERG_E-Rock
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sorry to find out it was true :(

but dont feel bad, you did the right thing and you showed her that you wont take any crap from her, you will move on and find someone better

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haha i like that so i gotta steal it. Nice job man. You'll find someone who deserves you. I know it will take a while to get completely over it but go out and enjoy your new singleness! safely, of course

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#105 MgamerBD
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I still think you should've beat the **** out of that guy. I would've.....
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#106 ChiChiMonKilla
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Did I miss something were him and the "guy" friends if not why should he be mad at him or want to fight him?

If anybody should have got smacked up it should have been his cheating girl no ??

Anyway it sucks that he could have had a 3-way and missed his chance to treat her like the tramp she is.

Anyway good luck at least you found out some guys never do.

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#107 TBoogy
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Did I miss something were him and the "guy" friends if not why should he be mad at him or want to fight him?

If anybody should have got smacked up it should have been his cheating girl no ??

Anyway it sucks that he could have had a 3-way and missed his chance to treat her like the tramp she is.

Anyway good luck at least you found out some guys never do.

ChiChiMonKilla
Totally agree. People always want to lash out at the person the cheater is with, but that guy didn't owe anyone anything. It's his GF that broke a commitment.
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#108 Snipes_2
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murder would have seemd like a logical solution

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I agree with this. That man would not have lived had I seen him doing that with someone I love. :evil:

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#109 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="ChiChiMonKilla"]

Did I miss something were him and the "guy" friends if not why should he be mad at him or want to fight him?

If anybody should have got smacked up it should have been his cheating girl no ??

Anyway it sucks that he could have had a 3-way and missed his chance to treat her like the tramp she is.

Anyway good luck at least you found out some guys never do.

TBoogy

Totally agree. People always want to lash out at the person the cheater is with, but that guy didn't owe anyone anything. It's his GF that broke a commitment.

SHe must be terminated as well :)

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#110 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="ChiChiMonKilla"]

Did I miss something were him and the "guy" friends if not why should he be mad at him or want to fight him?

If anybody should have got smacked up it should have been his cheating girl no ??

Anyway it sucks that he could have had a 3-way and missed his chance to treat her like the tramp she is.

Anyway good luck at least you found out some guys never do.

TBoogy
Totally agree. People always want to lash out at the person the cheater is with, but that guy didn't owe anyone anything. It's his GF that broke a commitment.

well since you can't lash out at the girl. Most people lash out at the cheater...The girl will also get hers when he leaves her. With nowhere to go and no money she will be out of luck. Either way the guy would get the beat down and learn a lesson and the girl would be out on the street somewhere. Its a win win.
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#111 LJS9502_basic
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well since you can't lash out at the girl. Most people lash out at the cheater...The girl will also get hers when he leaves her. With nowhere to go and no money she will be out of luck. Either way the guy would get the beat down and learn a lesson and the girl would be out on the street somewhere. Its a win win.MgamerBD
Well actually the house they were living in was the girls grandmothers house...and yes I double checked that. So technically she has a place...he does not.

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#112 MgamerBD
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"] well since you can't lash out at the girl. Most people lash out at the cheater...The girl will also get hers when he leaves her. With nowhere to go and no money she will be out of luck. Either way the guy would get the beat down and learn a lesson and the girl would be out on the street somewhere. Its a win win.LJS9502_basic

Well actually the house they were living in was the girls grandmother house...and yes I double checked that. So technically she has a place...he does not.

Damn...well he did say he was the only person with a job that could sustain 4 people so i'm sure he could find a new place
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#113 LegendaryFox77
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That sucks man, you did the right thing not to beat the guy up though, no need to make the situation even worse.

Good luck in the future, hopefully you'll find someone more trusting and dependable.

My only question is why did you pack up and leave? Weren't they in your house?

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#114 II_Seraphim_II
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Damn, that's some rough stuff man :( Oh well, think of the bright-side, you now can start looking for the right one.
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#115 Regent192
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I was listening to "the bleeding" by five finger death punch while I was reading that :o. u can relate that to the song

but seriously its your choice u did that.

EDIT: wait, your banned. how did that happen?

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#116 enterawesome
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If that's how she treated you, screw her. You deserve better than her. Sorry to hear about that though. :(
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#117 DiabeticVampire
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tl; dr but from the sound of it I'd suggest blogging, although I'm not sure this is something you'd want to parade around the internet like a trophy.
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#118 MagikarpSplash
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Banned? Lolwut?
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#119 EVOLV3
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Damn, TC got banned but at least his legacy will now live on.

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#120 moonlightcharm6
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well I'm sorry to hear that:(. no one deserves to be cheated on. well it might take time but there's plenty of fish in the sea:D
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#121 1bigsmoke55
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That sucks. i hope things work out for you.

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#122 Shad0ki11
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Mission accomplished, man. Don't acknowledge her and move on.

**** like this prevents me from wanting to get into a relationship. I just don't trust very many people.

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#123 rcignoni
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Glad it was resolved peacefully, and that you made her cry for you.
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#124 wstfld
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That's a tough thing to walk in on man. Way to pack your crap and get out.
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#125 MrBubbles59
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I'm sorry to hear that happened to you man but you did the right thing.
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#126 hamstergeddon
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Dude I'm proud of you. I don't know you but you kept your cool and that's what matters. Furthermore, dragging his ass out into the street with everybody else watching must have been damn satisfying for you and super humiliating for him. The girl got what she deserved.
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#127 MistressMinako
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You did the right thing TC. Eh, I find that it also stinks that now the TC is banned... well, shows how stinky his day ended out.
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#128 pis3rch
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[QUOTE="pis3rch"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Would this not work better in a blog? Anyway, as with all things 'net related....I have my doubts. Could have sworn in the first thread you called her a wife....now she's a gf. Interesting indeed.LJS9502_basic

The title of the other thread is "my girlfriend is cheating on me....." :roll:

Like I spend my time memorizing dating problem threads.:roll:

And the update contradicts the OP.

He put the link right there in the first post, within the first two lines of this thread....no memorization necessary
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#129 legend26
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damn, TC got banz0rd :(

i nominate this thread for thread of the year

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#131 yuuki88
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why did he get banned? o.o

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#132 Truf89
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That sucks....

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#133 D_Battery
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Shame that he got banned... If he got banned for this, I would be very upset. This fellow's story has been one of the most interesting and engaging things I've found on here in quite a while, and more than that, there was nothing explicitly offensive about it (not in this thread at least.) I don't want to make assumptions, maybe he did something else bad, but my faith in the moderators would sink much further if this was why he was banned.
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#134 ghoklebutter
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I sympathize.
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#135 IPWNDU2
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The mod that banned him was probably "the guy"

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#136 Nagru
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Shame that he got banned... If he got banned for this, I would be very upset. This fellow's story has been one of the most interesting and engaging things I've found on here in quite a while, and more than that, there was nothing explicitly offensive about it (not in this thread at least.) I don't want to make assumptions, maybe he did something else bad, but my faith in the moderators would sink much further if this was why he was banned.D_Battery

Unfortunately, I'm pretty sure this is what he got banned for.

His last thread on this got locked, and when he asked in the "Ask the Mods" board, they told him he should blog this instead. Chances are at level thirty he already had a decent history, and this pushed the Mods over the edge.

Plus, the last moments of his post history don't show any deleted posts, so there's not much else it could be:

[spoiler] History [/spoiler]

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#137 carrot-cake
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Why was the TC banned? For this? If it was for this, that doesnt make sense.
We will probably never know the real reason though :lol:
If this story is true, good job to the TC.

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#138 Dark__Link
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Why was the TC banned? For this? If it was for this, that doesnt make sense.
We will probably never know the real reason though :lol:
If this story is true, good job to the TC.

carrot-cake

He was warned for not posting his original thread in his blog. Posting another thread apparently set the admins over the limit. Someone's pretty drunk with power...

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#139 carrot-cake
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[QUOTE="carrot-cake"]

Why was the TC banned? For this? If it was for this, that doesnt make sense.
We will probably never know the real reason though :lol:
If this story is true, good job to the TC.

Dark__Link

He was warned for not posting his original thread in his blog. Posting another thread apparently set the admins over the limit. Someone's pretty drunk with power...


Interesting, well he had a history of moderations to warrant a ban I hope.

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#140 spawnassasin
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glad you decided not to get violent

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#141 wstfld
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Why was the TC banned? For this? If it was for this, that doesnt make sense.
We will probably never know the real reason though :lol:
If this story is true, good job to the TC.

carrot-cake

I just got suspended for quoting someone else. The Man comes down hard.

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#142 spawnassasin
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he got banned

shame that is i rather enjoyed his story

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#143 Dark__Link
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[QUOTE="Dark__Link"]

[QUOTE="carrot-cake"]

Why was the TC banned? For this? If it was for this, that doesnt make sense.
We will probably never know the real reason though :lol:
If this story is true, good job to the TC.

carrot-cake

He was warned for not posting his original thread in his blog. Posting another thread apparently set the admins over the limit. Someone's pretty drunk with power...


Interesting, well he had a history of moderations to warrant a ban I hope?

Let me just don my mod hat and take a look at his history.

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#144 carrot-cake
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[QUOTE="carrot-cake"]

[QUOTE="Dark__Link"] He was warned for not posting his original thread in his blog. Posting another thread apparently set the admins over the limit. Someone's pretty drunk with power...

Dark__Link


Interesting, well he had a history of moderations to warrant a ban I hope?

Let me just don my mod hat and take a look at his history.


Ugh, that question mark wasn't supposed to be there.

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#145 bigblunt537
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Sorry bro, I feel you too man I just went through the same thing. My ex(really pretty btw) left me for a 5'0 fat kid whose 17 after 2 years of us going out. Plus she was cheating on me for a month before we made our break up official... Good luck bro hope you find a new and betetr girl. Times will be hard, but just remember you are a lot better without her.

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#146 bigblunt537
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[QUOTE="Dark__Link"]

[QUOTE="carrot-cake"]
Interesting, well he had a history of moderations to warrant a ban I hope?

carrot-cake

Let me just don my mod hat and take a look at his history.


Ugh, that question mark wasn't supposed to be there.

He wasn;t warned because of that reason. READ the last post. They closed his post because it was talking about violently hurting someone else which isn't allowed here.

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#147 rockguy92
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Hope things pick up for you.
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#148 Ringx55
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Wow, he was banned? Shows how far mods have come. **** m**s
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#149 bigblunt537
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Wow, he was banned? Shows how far mods have come. **** m**sRingx55

Yea if this is the reason well GS needs some new mods. Definitely not a reason to mod. this eprson was just looking for people to express what was going on in his life with.

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#150 Commander-Gree
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Shame that he got banned... If he got banned for this, I would be very upset. This fellow's story has been one of the most interesting and engaging things I've found on here in quite a while, and more than that, there was nothing explicitly offensive about it (not in this thread at least.) I don't want to make assumptions, maybe he did something else bad, but my faith in the moderators would sink much further if this was why he was banned.D_Battery
I don't know. It seems that whenever there is a fun thread on this site, it gets locked or somebody gets banned. :P