[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="Wolls"]Well shame that youre banned but i hope you do read this still I seriously have massive respect for you now... i think you handled it perfectly. You made her feel your pain without resorting to violence.. looks like she will chuck that guy now and basically she will regret this for the rest of her life as she should I hope you will be ok and good luck with everything :) Why do you assume she will dump the other guy? Obviously the relationship between the TC and herself was not working. Anyway, I have my doubts about this story to start with. Well i dont know.... from the sounds of it the girl seemed to regret what she had done, and pushing the other guy away and not comming after him afterwards at all even when he was stuck outside with no clothes. It just seemed as if she put part of the blame on him as well as herself. Also im willing to give him the benefit of the doubt tbh just cos it would be really odd to come on here and do this for no reason. Yes telling an online internet forum all about this is also a bit odd but id rarther say nice things just in case its true.
[QUOTE="Wolls"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="Wolls"]Well shame that youre banned but i hope you do read this still I seriously have massive respect for you now... i think you handled it perfectly. You made her feel your pain without resorting to violence.. looks like she will chuck that guy now and basically she will regret this for the rest of her life as she should I hope you will be ok and good luck with everything :) Why do you assume she will dump the other guy? Obviously the relationship between the TC and herself was not working. Anyway, I have my doubts about this story to start with. Well i dont know.... from the sounds of it the girl seemed to regret what she had done, and pushing the other guy away and not comming after him afterwards at all even when he was stuck outside with no clothes. It just seemed as if she put part of the blame on him as well as herself. Also im willing to give him the benefit of the doubt tbh just cos it would be really odd to come on here and do this for no reason. Yes telling an online internet forum all about this is also a bit odd but id rarther say nice things just in case its true. Sometimes people regret causing pain to someone they loved. Well it was his update that changed the outcome that caused me to believe instead of think this story wasn't true.
[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="Wolls"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] Why do you assume she will dump the other guy? Obviously the relationship between the TC and herself was not working. Anyway, I have my doubts about this story to start with. Well i dont know.... from the sounds of it the girl seemed to regret what she had done, and pushing the other guy away and not comming after him afterwards at all even when he was stuck outside with no clothes. It just seemed as if she put part of the blame on him as well as herself. Also im willing to give him the benefit of the doubt tbh just cos it would be really odd to come on here and do this for no reason. Yes telling an online internet forum all about this is also a bit odd but id rarther say nice things just in case its true. Sometimes people regret causing pain to someone they loved. Well it was his update that changed the outcome that caused me to believe instead of think this story wasn't true. No of course i know that. Im saying that it doesnt seem like she really loved the other man in the first place and regret is a very powerful emotion too. So imo she might regret her actions so much that she would dump this other guy. But of course im just speculating Anyway, so what is it about this story you dont trust so much?
[QUOTE="Wolls"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="Wolls"] Well i dont know.... from the sounds of it the girl seemed to regret what she had done, and pushing the other guy away and not comming after him afterwards at all even when he was stuck outside with no clothes. It just seemed as if she put part of the blame on him as well as herself. Also im willing to give him the benefit of the doubt tbh just cos it would be really odd to come on here and do this for no reason. Yes telling an online internet forum all about this is also a bit odd but id rarther say nice things just in case its true. Sometimes people regret causing pain to someone they loved. Well it was his update that changed the outcome that caused me to believe instead of think this story wasn't true. No of course i know that. Im saying that it doesnt seem like she really loved the other man in the first place and regret is a very powerful emotion too. So imo she might regret her actions so much that she would dump this other guy. But of course im just speculating Anyway, so what is it about this story you dont trust so much?Well I'm generally skeptical but his update changed the story a bit and since he was already finished with the situation....there should have been no change.
Why did ban him mods? he didnt do anytthing wrongSolid_Tango
The mods locked the topic yesterday because TC considered being violent to the man. I went to compain on the mod board about them locking it before i can respond to another person who said he would hit the girl but TC made a topic about it first. TC got told they wouldn't open it back up and to blog the story.
Could he have been banned for posting this story instead of blogging it. Am glad he finished the story that loads of people wanted to here the end of. If he was banned for making a new post about a story he was told to blog then that would be bad of the mods for kicking someone when they are down and looking for support.
For the other people who said blog it then why? If he blogged it then most of us wouldn't have seen the story. I would have never have found the story.
[QUOTE="Solid_Tango"]Why did ban him mods? he didnt do anytthing wrongcampbell1874
The mods locked the topic yesterday because heconsidered being violent to the man. I went to compain on the mod board about them locking it before i can respond toanother person who said he would hit thegirl.TC gottold they wouldn't open it back up and to blog the story.
Could he have been banned forposting this story instead of blogging it. Am glad he finished thestory that loads ofpeople wanted to here the end of. If he was banned for making a new post about a story he was told to blog then that would be bad of the modsfor kicking someone when they are down andlooking for support.
For the other people who said blog it then why? If he blogged it then most of us wouldn't have seen the story. I would have never have found the story.
Unless someone suicides an account it's rare that one post gets them banned. Perhaps there is more to his banning than you suspect? As for why it was a blog thread......any personal stories are treated as such or we'd have OT filled with threads with no discussion.
[QUOTE="Solid_Tango"]Why did ban him mods? he didnt do anytthing wrongLJS9502_basic
The mods locked the topic yesterday because heconsidered being violent to the man. I went to compain on the mod board about them locking it before i can respond toanother person who said he would hit thegirl.TC gottold they wouldn't open it back up and to blog the story.
Could he have been banned forposting this story instead of blogging it. Am glad he finished thestory that loads ofpeople wanted to here the end of. If he was banned for making a new post about a story he was told to blog then that would be bad of the modsfor kicking someone when they are down andlooking for support.
For the other people who said blog it then why? If he blogged it then most of us wouldn't have seen the story. I would have never have found the story.
Unless someone suicides an account it's rare that one post gets them banned. Perhaps there is more to his banning than you suspect? As for why it was a blog thread......any personal stories are treated as such or we'd have OT filled with threads with no discussion.
I think your right that there must be more to it than just these couple of poststo get banned. Mybe the mod was the guy caught naked with the girlfriend, who knows.
I sort of assume he was a troll who completed his mission and was asked to be killed off afterwards. Like some holy interweb martyr or something. Not that Jeebus was a troll...
[QUOTE="MgamerBD"][QUOTE="TBoogy"] Totally agree. People always want to lash out at the person the cheater is with, but that guy didn't owe anyone anything. It's his GF that broke a commitment.ChiChiMonKilla
well since you can't lash out at the girl. Most people lash out at the cheater...The girl will also get hers when he leaves her. With nowhere to go and no money she will be out of luck. Either way the guy would get the beat down and learn a lesson and the girl would be out on the street somewhere. Its a win win.
Can't lash out at the girl really she is the cheater as far as I can tell the guy did nothing wrong imo. You want to beat down a guy who is not your friend and maybe didnt even know what was going on. Cheaters are good at lying I am sure she told him that they were apart or he was abusive ect. In either case I am sure he did not break in and rape her meaning she was willing and let him in to her and her man's home.
The fact that he showed up during the time her man was at work means she was hiding from both of them. What I dont get is why he didnt throw her stuff out instead of leaving ??
According to the thread he made the day before eysterday it was the girl friends grand mothers place therefor not his.
Would this not work better in a blog? Anyway, as with all things 'net related....I have my doubts. Could have sworn in the first thread you called her a wife....now she's a gf. Interesting indeed.LJS9502_basic
he did say GF in original post,together 5 years or something like that
Dude that is the worst situation to be caught in, im sure the dude whois completley naked banging your g/f was proboblyscared crapless but If it were me that walked in I would of told him to put his pants on brought him out side stomped him then threw the girl out on the lawn followed by all her stuff
Dude that is the worst situation to be caught in, im sure the dude whois completley naked banging your g/f was proboblyscared crapless but If it were me that walked in I would of told him to put his pants on brought him out side stomped him then threw the girl out on the lawn followed by all her stuff
Snakewiseman
That would have led to arrest....and you can't throw someone out of their own house.:|
[QUOTE="Solid_Tango"]Why did ban him mods? he didnt do anytthing wrongLJS9502_basic
You don't have to do anything wrong to get banned on this site. :( How do you guys know he did nothing wrong? Moderation histories are private. That's true. I wonder if it had anything to do with this topic.
Why would you want legal problems? When a relationship is over...it's over. Move on...but don't derail your life because of it. derail your life you would get in about zero trouble
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