[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]
[QUOTE="rawsavon"] All you have to do is ask me to clarify something :? (as you did earlier). I often make the mistake of assuming things are understood when they are notrawsavon
Well raw, pretty much the only thing that you've said so far that I didn't really catch on to is this: "It seems like you go towards threads that fit 'you' and post only from that angle. At least that has been my experience from your posts. I realize that there are psychological reasons people do this, but I still 'enjoy' seeing it happen in real life (as opposed to text books)"
What did you mean by that?
Most/many of your posts that I have seen go something like this:
1.thread about height...'why is short not okay' 'why do girls lie tall better'
2.thread about girls...'why do they only like_____ [that is not me]'
3.make thread about relationship with mom (relationship that was biggest influence on current relationships [or a lack thereof] with girls)
4.post in threads giving benefits of current body frame
5.post in threads giving benefits of similar body frames
Your posts follow a very specific pattern (a few psychological defense mechanisms at play).
My mistake is in thinking these things are understood…that people see these things as I do. I apologize
1. All I was doing was asking a woman as to why she likes tall men. Because Ijust don't know whywomen, and people in general prefer tall men/people.She gave a somewhat clear answer.
2. Don't really remember doing that.
3. I did not make a thread aboutmy relationship with my mother. All I was doing was asking if OT thinks that someones relationship with the opposite sex is more important. And I don't really have a relationship with anyone at the moment, I hate the spot that I'm in right now, and I hate everybody around me, i'm just trying to get out of it.
4. There are benefits of any body frame.
5. Look above.
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