ur pretty hot
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idk, maybe you jus have a mean-lookin mug; can't really change that.
smile more, perhaps? tho don't try to force it, an no full-teeth smiles, jus a good-natured smirk. i do it all the time to strangers, and most of the time, they respond in kind. then again, i'm white and have a friendly looking faceÂ
just don't look like ur going to rape ppl problem solved
obv some ppl r racist so u cant do anything 'bout being black, but most aren't racist
smile or w/e
[QUOTE="BluRayHiDef"][QUOTE="MrPraline"]If it's a stranger or a girl you barely know (like your colleague), then yeah it's certainly possible to "win her over". Just have a conversation. dave123321
The problem is that I have a deep seeded hatred for people who judge me without knowing me, such that I avoid or minimize contact with them. Since I get this from most females, and most people in general, I'm pretty much alone. Besides, I don't think these people want anything to do with me anyway. :(
Don't judge people without getting to know them, adyI just have a deep seeded hatred for people...... Â I don't judge anyone.... Â I already know you ;) Your interests.... not mine. Â I've never had a girl look afraid of me, that's cause I have deep chocolate brown eyes and a smile that will melt an iceberg. Â In fact, I get scared of how girls look at me! Â I've already judge you all ;) Â Y'all suck! Â :P
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[QUOTE="MrPraline"]If it's a stranger or a girl you barely know (like your colleague), then yeah it's certainly possible to "win her over". Just have a conversation. BluRayHiDef
The problem is that I have a deep seeded hatred for people who judge me without knowing me, such that I avoid or minimize contact with them. Since I get this from most females, and most people in general, I'm pretty much alone. Besides, I don't think these people want anything to do with me anyway. :(
Sounds to me like your problems are the cause of a continuous loop of anti-social behavior, which you could easily prevent.
[QUOTE="MrPraline"]If it's a stranger or a girl you barely know (like your colleague), then yeah it's certainly possible to "win her over". Just have a conversation. BluRayHiDef
The problem is that I have a deep seeded hatred for people who judge me without knowing me, such that I avoid or minimize contact with them. Since I get this from most females, and most people in general, I'm pretty much alone. Besides, I don't think these people want anything to do with me anyway. :(
I had a similar situation with a hot girl I used to work with. She told someone that I always stared at her. (not gonna lie, I did). Once this news got back to me I developed complete hatred for her. I was cold, rude and obnoxious to her. She would ask me something about work and I would answer with hatred. I ran into her and some of her friends at a bar one night and we started talking. The next thing you know, Im bumming rides off of her, going out for more drinks and being totally friendly to each other. She got to know who I really am and I got to know her. I didn't get to bone her though. She was getting married to the rich son of daddys co. But I wanted to. lol.Blu,
Are you one of us?
Do you want to be one of us?
Those questions are vague on purpose, answer as best you can.
[QUOTE="MissLibrarian"]Two questions:
1. what is a bert stare
dave123321
2. do you wash your clothes and self oftenÂ
[QUOTE="MrPraline"]If it's a stranger or a girl you barely know (like your colleague), then yeah it's certainly possible to "win her over". Just have a conversation. BluRayHiDef
The problem is that I have a deep seeded hatred for people who judge me without knowing me, such that I avoid or minimize contact with them. Since I get this from most females, and most people in general, I'm pretty much alone. Besides, I don't think these people want anything to do with me anyway. :(
All that way of thinking will create is a vicious cycle. Girls a naturally perceptive to non-verbal forms of communication, like body language and facial expressions. They'll know you're feeling uncomfortable, and that will make them uncomfortable as a result. Judging people is a natural human instinct, we all do it, it's an automatic response, so hating others for it is plain stupid.I've had women cross the street when we're crossing on the sidewalk late at night, but that's it. I think it's funny because it makes me feel imposing, and I'm just walking.
Blu,
Are you one of us?
Do you want to be one of us?
Those questions are vague on purpose, answer as best you can.
LazySloth718
I am biologically Human, but psychologically alien due to social isolation. I am a misanthrope. I wish I could have been one of you from my beginning, but do not want to become one of you now. As an outsider, I see your kind, your species, for what it is, which is a divisive and prejudiced brood of vipers. Had I been one of you, I would have been oblivious to your true nature, in a state of blissful ignorance, but I now know the truth, and subsequently cannot enjoy said bliss. In a perpetual state of anger I remain, until my explosion or implosion. Watch for my sign, listen for my call.
[QUOTE="LazySloth718"]
Blu,
Are you one of us?
Do you want to be one of us?
Those questions are vague on purpose, answer as best you can.
BluRayHiDef
I am biologically Human, but psychologically alien due to social isolation. I am a misanthrope. I wish I could have been one of you from my beginning, but do not want to become one of you now. As an outsider, I see your kind, your species, for what it is, which is a divisive and prejudiced brood of vipers. Had I been one of you, I would have been oblivious to your true nature, in a state of blissful ignorance, but I now know the truth, and subsequently cannot enjoy said bliss. In a perpetual state of anger I remain, until my explosion or implosion. Watch for my sign, listen for my call.
As you wish.
Realize that your isolation is largely self imposed. It's not the people rejecting you; it's the people rejecting you rejecting them.
Is humanity flawed? Absolutely.
You're no better, no worse.
Is that so horrible?
The truth isn't the truth, it's YOUR truth. Everybody develops their own, with their own biases that evolve over time.
When I was your age, I had a very different set of beliefs than I do now, and looking back on them I can only laugh.
Above all realize that you never stop learning. There is no point in your life at which you can stop and say "ok I get it, I know what's going on here." For every truth you discover you'll find 10 more. It's literally a forest of truths. As you chop trees and widen the clearing, everything you thought you knew goes out the window, you re-calibrate and re-assess, and form new worldviews before discarding that and moving on to the next.
One of the cool things about humanity is that they communicate and teach each other, they bounce ideas, every book you ever read had someone pour years of his heart and soul and experiences into it, you don't have to figure out everything yourself, chances are somebody already did the work for you and put it in a book. The $20 you spend on Eckart Tolle, Sun Tzu, Machiavelli, Nietche, Kahlil Gibran, Epictetus or Aristotle can save you 20 years learning the same concept on your own.
The most powerful thing in the world isn't a gun, or a tank, or money, or a mob of mediocre douchecanoes yelling "Sir, yes sir!"
The most powerful thing in the world is an idea.
[QUOTE="LazySloth718"]
Blu,
Are you one of us?
Do you want to be one of us?
Those questions are vague on purpose, answer as best you can.
BluRayHiDef
I am biologically Human, but psychologically alien due to social isolation. I am a misanthrope. I wish I could have been one of you from my beginning, but do not want to become one of you now. As an outsider, I see your kind, your species, for what it is, which is a divisive and prejudiced brood of vipers. Had I been one of you, I would have been oblivious to your true nature, in a state of blissful ignorance, but I now know the truth, and subsequently cannot enjoy said bliss. In a perpetual state of anger I remain, until my explosion or implosion. Watch for my sign, listen for my call.
Rofl. Calm down, brah. Maybe it's your skin condition that girls are scared of?[QUOTE="LazySloth718"]
Blu,
Are you one of us?
Do you want to be one of us?
Those questions are vague on purpose, answer as best you can.
BluRayHiDef
I am biologically Human, but psychologically alien due to social isolation. I am a misanthrope. I wish I could have been one of you from my beginning, but do not want to become one of you now. As an outsider, I see your kind, your species, for what it is, which is a divisive and prejudiced brood of vipers. Had I been one of you, I would have been oblivious to your true nature, in a state of blissful ignorance, but I now know the truth, and subsequently cannot enjoy said bliss. In a perpetual state of anger I remain, until my explosion or implosion. Watch for my sign, listen for my call.
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
[QUOTE="LazySloth718"]
Blu,
Are you one of us?
Do you want to be one of us?
Those questions are vague on purpose, answer as best you can.
BluRayHiDef
I am biologically Human, but psychologically alien due to social isolation. I am a misanthrope. I wish I could have been one of you from my beginning, but do not want to become one of you now. As an outsider, I see your kind, your species, for what it is, which is a divisive and prejudiced brood of vipers. Had I been one of you, I would have been oblivious to your true nature, in a state of blissful ignorance, but I now know the truth, and subsequently cannot enjoy said bliss. In a perpetual state of anger I remain, until my explosion or implosion. Watch for my sign, listen for my call.
[QUOTE="LazySloth718"]
Blu,
Are you one of us?
Do you want to be one of us?
Those questions are vague on purpose, answer as best you can.
BluRayHiDef
I am biologically Human, but psychologically alien due to social isolation. I am a misanthrope. I wish I could have been one of you from my beginning, but do not want to become one of you now. As an outsider, I see your kind, your species, for what it is, which is a divisive and prejudiced brood of vipers. Had I been one of you, I would have been oblivious to your true nature, in a state of blissful ignorance, but I now know the truth, and subsequently cannot enjoy said bliss. In a perpetual state of anger I remain, until my explosion or implosion. Watch for my sign, listen for my call.
Well Mystery solvedwhenever i try and talk to women they always ignore me or claim that i "look like a rapist". i think personally that they should shut their damn mouths and stop being so choice with those words. kids love me and im a very cultured and educated guy. it really hurts me feelings and makes me feel unwanted :(. i think maybe my problem is the same as TC's in a way and that this is probably why i will never have a girl give a damn about me.. :cry:
oh well at least the guys like me. i actually cant keep them off me. Â
From my journal.
Humans. Honestly can't stand 'em. A race of bigots, against their own kind, against me. Subtle differences in morphology are enough to spark anything from wariness to full blown aggressive xenophobia. Take my experience as an example; I've masqueraded as what they call an "Asian," a "Black", a "White," and as a member of a few of the other subgroups they've divided themselves into. In each case I experienced some form of condescension or contempt from members of some or all of the other groups, whether it was avoidance, insincerity, or outright insult. When I was tasked with gathering intel on the Humans, I hoped, so strongly, that I could deem them a worthy race. However, here I am having completed the task and having to deem them utterly unworthy, and unregrettably so; I've come to hate these creatures, just as much as they hate themselves.
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From my journal.
Humans. Honestly can't stand 'em. A race of bigots, against their own kind, against me. Subtle differences in morphology are enough to spark anything from wariness to full blown aggressive xenophobia. Take my experience as an example; I've masqueraded as what they call an "Asian," a "Black", a "White," and as a member of a few of the other subgroups they've divided themselves into. In each case I experienced some form of condescension or contempt from members of some or all of the other groups, whether it was avoidance, insincerity, or outright insult. When I was tasked with gathering intel on the Humans, I hoped, so strongly, that I could deem them a worthy race. However, here I am having completed the task and having to deem them utterly unworthy, and unregrettably so; I've come to hate these creatures, just as much as they hate themselves.
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Entry 079 - Februrary 18th, 2442 C.E.
BluRayHiDef
YOU'RE FROM THE FUTURE?!
Have you ever had girls be afraid of you? Afraid as in under the impression that you're going to rape them or something
BluRayHiDef
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Just smile more buddy, that's all there is to it. And some women are into dead-eyed scary types, so you may be onto a winner there.
I have the exact opposite problem. There's a girl I like, but I'm a total coward, so I never say Hi. :(
I don't follow.From my journal.
Humans. Honestly can't stand 'em. A race of bigots, against their own kind, against me. Subtle differences in morphology are enough to spark anything from wariness to full blown aggressive xenophobia. Take my experience as an example; I've masqueraded as what they call an "Asian," a "Black", a "White," and as a member of a few of the other subgroups they've divided themselves into. In each case I experienced some form of condescension or contempt from members of some or all of the other groups, whether it was avoidance, insincerity, or outright insult. When I was tasked with gathering intel on the Humans, I hoped, so strongly, that I could deem them a worthy race. However, here I am having completed the task and having to deem them utterly unworthy, and unregrettably so; I've come to hate these creatures, just as much as they hate themselves.
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BluRayHiDef
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