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It's just obvious. "Love" is meant to bring two people together so they can reproduce.Lobster_Ear
I never said it was about sex. That is just the natural course. Overall, love is just a great feeling, and your relationship is a prime example of what I mean. It feels good to be in love and feel loved. You're in love with the feeling of love and you get that feeling from your GF. Love's not special. Your love is not unique. It's normal, but the person your with isn't the only person you can get the feeling from, it's just who you happen to be with.Lobster_Ear needs to get a girlfriend. He's a bit sour.
Honestly, LE? You can't love a person, and love is just a tool used by God (or whoever) to instigate horizontal mambo? Christ.
LE, if you ever find love, you'll think yourself a retard for ever saying this crap. Love's not about sex for everyone, for some people (like me) it's just about spending time with her. Being with her. And knowing she loves me like I love her. Beats getting laid any day.
To tell the truth, I'd rather go through life a virgin than go through life unloved.
AlmightyMax
I understand my views are not favored by the majority of you, but that does not mean I will stay quiet. I know it's absurd when you hear something out of your paradigm of beliefs, but I just tell it how I see it.
I understand my views are not favored by the majority of you, but that does not mean I will stay quiet. I know it's absurd when you hear something out of your paradigm of beliefs, but I just tell it how I see it.
Lobster_Ear
[QUOTE="Lobster_Ear"]It's just obvious. "Love" is meant to bring two people together so they can reproduce.Saturos3091
And if you would have read that whole post you would have seen that I addressed that.Lobster_Ear
[QUOTE="Lobster_Ear"]I understand my views are not favored by the majority of you, but that does not mean I will stay quiet. I know it's absurd when you hear something out of your paradigm of beliefs, but I just tell it how I see it.
Saturos3091
I understand that. I'm usually tolerant of other people beliefs for the most part, but there are things that get to me (like choosing one life over 40), but whatever. Hopefully that situation never comes up because it would suck to have to choose, no matter what your beliefs are.Lobster_Ear
[QUOTE="Lobster_Ear"]And if you would have read that whole post you would have seen that I addressed that.Saturos3091
I also belive humans aren't meant to stay with one person (especially males), which further supports my "love theory". It's nature.
I know, I'm crazy aren't I?:roll:
I also belive humans aren't meant to stay with one person (especially males), which further supports my "love theory". It's nature.
I know, I'm crazy aren't I?:rolls:
Lobster_Ear
No, you're not. If people were meant to stay with one person, then they wouldn't cheat or continue dating after the death of a spouse. I honestly do not find that morally right, which gives me an idea.
To be honest, I don't really care about any of them except for the young children. Love is flawed and if the new leader was as much of a dissapointment as Bush I most definetly would not care.
In short, I'd save the kids.
My girlfriend, even if it was a choice between the world and her, I'd say screw the world.black_cat19world is a bit much dont you think? what if she wanted to let you save the world instead of her?
and to the TC i pick option 2...its tough and if i was a superhero i would probably be hated by everyone but I dont wanna live a lonely life with out the women i love. Im suffering it enough now as it is. But if i was a hero id try my best to save all 3 even if it meant my life.
I also said it's not always that way in our day in age. People have flings, and get knocked up. But nature DID intend love to bring people together to reproduce not just for sex. [Then what would you propose sex is for, if not for reproduction, in the case of nature? ]Of course these are just the basics. People are more complicated, but we are still just another species on this planet with instincts to reproduce, for the most part. [True and agreed]Of course our minds are more liberated than other animals, but Love leads to reproductionin most cases. Yes, but you're saying that love is also entirely about reproduction, which it is not. Sex, in case of nature, is however entirely about reproduction. Love is not essentially sex and it's that line that seems to confuse some people.
I also belive humans aren't meant to stay with one person (especially males), which further supports my "love theory". It's nature. But selfishness isn't nature? It is nature for man to want to reproduce with more than one person, and it's natural for women to want to reproduce with one male for obvious reasons (diseases, etc.).
I know, I'm crazy aren't I?:rolls:
Lobster_Ear
If by crazy, you mean contradictory, then yes. :P Otherwise I don't find anything "crazy" about your beliefs.
[QUOTE="Lobster_Ear"]I'm sorry if I made it seem like it's entirely about reproducing. I really meant that it LEADS to reproduction, the ultimate goal in nature. Love is just a feeling. Sex and reproduction do not NEED to be parts of it.I also said it's not always that way in our day in age. People have flings, and get knocked up. But nature DID intend love to bring people together to reproduce not just for sex. [Then what would you propose sex is for, if not for reproduction, in the case of nature? ]Of course these are just the basics. People are more complicated, but we are still just another species on this planet with instincts to reproduce, for the most part. [True and agreed]Of course our minds are more liberated than other animals, but Love leads to reproductionin most cases. Yes, but you're saying that love is also entirely about reproduction, which it is not. Sex, in case of nature, is however entirely about reproduction. Love is not essentially sex and it's that line that seems to confuse some people.
I also belive humans aren't meant to stay with one person (especially males), which further supports my "love theory". It's nature. But selfishness isn't nature? It is nature for man to want to reproduce with more than one person, and it's natural for women to want to reproduce with one male for obvious reasons (diseases, etc.).
I know, I'm crazy aren't I?:rolls:
If by crazy, you mean contradictory, then yes. :P Otherwise I don't find anything "crazy" about your beliefs.Saturos3091
And of course selfishness is normal. Everyone has selfish tendencies. I just believe choosing an emotion attached to a person over saving 40 people is beyond an acceptable selfish behaviour. But that's my mentality.
If she was your true love, she would sacrifice herself for the kids. Anything less seems to not be a true love, at least in my eyes.battlefront23
That doesn't really have to do with her love for you.
[QUOTE="battlefront23"]If she was your true love, she would sacrifice herself for the kids. Anything less seems to not be a true love, at least in my eyes.SpidersRMe
That doesn't really have to do with her love for you.
If she truly loved me, she would hate that I chose her over the kids. In fact, I would hope she would leave me because of my selfish and stupid decision.
I'm sorry if I made it seem like it entirely about reproducing. I really meant that it LEADS to reproduction, the ultimate goal in nature. Love is just a feeling. Sex and reproduction do not NEED to be parts of it.
And of course selfishness is normal. Everyone has selfish tendencies. I just believe choosing an emotion attached to a person over saving 40 people is beyond an acceptable selfish behaviour. But that's my mentality.
Lobster_Ear
I am severely disappointed in the OT right now. If she was your true love, she would sacrifice herself for the kids. Or if you decided to save her rather than them, she would be disappointed in you and see you as being less noble. Anything less seems to not be a true love, at least in my eyes.battlefront23
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That makes absolutely no sense to me, her being your true love depends on how you feel about her, and vice versa, you can't say EVERY single girl in the world would think that, because it's just not true. And how exactly does her doing/not doing something have ANYTHING to do with her being your true love???
[QUOTE="battlefront23"]I am severely disappointed in the OT right now. If she was your true love, she would sacrifice herself for the kids. Or if you decided to save her rather than them, she would be disappointed in you and see you as being less noble. Anything less seems to not be a true love, at least in my eyes.black_cat19
:?
That makes absolutely no sense to me, her being your true love depends on how you feel about her, and vice versa, you can't say EVERY single girl in the world would think that, because it's just not true. And how exactly does her doing/not doing something have ANYTHING to do with her being your true love???
I don't think any man wants a selfish wife. :| Anything less then her telling me to let go of her.
[QUOTE="SpidersRMe"][QUOTE="battlefront23"]If she was your true love, she would sacrifice herself for the kids. Anything less seems to not be a true love, at least in my eyes.battlefront23
That doesn't really have to do with her love for you.
If she truly loved me, she would hate that I chose her over the kids. In fact, I would hope she would leave me because of my selfish and stupid decision.
That's what YOU expect from a girl you would consider your true love, but you can't say that's what EVERYONE's true love has to do and if she doesn't she's not a true love, there's no set definition of what a true love should or shouldn't be, that's entirely up to each individual.
My true love.
President? pfffft, please...there are lots of people who want to be president.
2nd Graders? Well, I dont know them...and I can forgive myself for that.
My true love, though...I would suffer the rest of my life for letting her die. I think sending some 2nd graders to heaven 70 years earlier would be all right.
[QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="SpidersRMe"][QUOTE="battlefront23"]If she was your true love, she would sacrifice herself for the kids. Anything less seems to not be a true love, at least in my eyes.black_cat19
That doesn't really have to do with her love for you.
If she truly loved me, she would hate that I chose her over the kids. In fact, I would hope she would leave me because of my selfish and stupid decision.
That's what YOU expect from a girl you would consider your true love, but you can't say that's what EVERYONE's true love has to do and if she doesn't she's not a true love, there's no set definition of what a true love should or shouldn't be, that's entirely up to each individual.
Who in here that would post seriously wants a selfish wife? The answer is: 0. Being selfless is a thing all humans are attracted to in one another.
[QUOTE="black_cat19"][QUOTE="battlefront23"]I am severely disappointed in the OT right now. If she was your true love, she would sacrifice herself for the kids. Or if you decided to save her rather than them, she would be disappointed in you and see you as being less noble. Anything less seems to not be a true love, at least in my eyes.battlefront23
:?
That makes absolutely no sense to me, her being your true love depends on how you feel about her, and vice versa, you can't say EVERY single girl in the world would think that, because it's just not true. And how exactly does her doing/not doing something have ANYTHING to do with her being your true love???
I don't think any man wants a selfish wife. :| Anything less then her telling me to let go of her.
Not selfish, but not completely selfless either, I don't want a saint or a nun, I just want a normal girl that complements me and that I can get along with and trust, I just want there to be a special sort of connection, someone who accepts me for who I am, but of course she'll have her defects, just like I do and just like everyone else does, there's no such thing as a perfect human being (not that I even consider not wasting your life over some kids and a guy you'll never meet and don't even have a connection with a defect, but whatever).
[QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="black_cat19"][QUOTE="battlefront23"]I am severely disappointed in the OT right now. If she was your true love, she would sacrifice herself for the kids. Or if you decided to save her rather than them, she would be disappointed in you and see you as being less noble. Anything less seems to not be a true love, at least in my eyes.black_cat19
:?
That makes absolutely no sense to me, her being your true love depends on how you feel about her, and vice versa, you can't say EVERY single girl in the world would think that, because it's just not true. And how exactly does her doing/not doing something have ANYTHING to do with her being your true love???
I don't think any man wants a selfish wife. :| Anything less then her telling me to let go of her.
Not selfish, but not completely selfless either, I don't want a saint or a nun, I just want a normal girl that complements me and that I can get along with and trust, I just want there to be a special sort of connection, someone who accepts me for who I am, but of course she'll have her defects, just like I do and just like everyone else does, there's no such thing as a perfect human being (not that I even consider not wasting your life over some kids and a guy you'll never meet and don't even have a connection with a defect, but whatever).
Ok I'm gonna go off of the girl topic because I understand what you mean although I disagree. BUT, are you serious in saying you would pick your true love over the lives of children? They have dreams and you are gonna cut them short just because YOU wouldn't have your true love? Now that, in my mind, is extreme selfishness right there.
[QUOTE="black_cat19"][QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="SpidersRMe"][QUOTE="battlefront23"]If she was your true love, she would sacrifice herself for the kids. Anything less seems to not be a true love, at least in my eyes.battlefront23
That doesn't really have to do with her love for you.
If she truly loved me, she would hate that I chose her over the kids. In fact, I would hope she would leave me because of my selfish and stupid decision.
That's what YOU expect from a girl you would consider your true love, but you can't say that's what EVERYONE's true love has to do and if she doesn't she's not a true love, there's no set definition of what a true love should or shouldn't be, that's entirely up to each individual.
Who in here that would post seriously wants a selfish wife? The answer is: 0. Being selfless is a thing all humans are attracted to in one another.
idunno, deep down I think it would be nice to have a wife that does anything for me, and nothing for anyone else. Kind of Bonnie and Clyde, if you will...so long as we got eachother, **** the world and all it's second graders!
[QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="black_cat19"][QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="SpidersRMe"][QUOTE="battlefront23"]If she was your true love, she would sacrifice herself for the kids. Anything less seems to not be a true love, at least in my eyes.mrbojangles25
That doesn't really have to do with her love for you.
If she truly loved me, she would hate that I chose her over the kids. In fact, I would hope she would leave me because of my selfish and stupid decision.
That's what YOU expect from a girl you would consider your true love, but you can't say that's what EVERYONE's true love has to do and if she doesn't she's not a true love, there's no set definition of what a true love should or shouldn't be, that's entirely up to each individual.
Who in here that would post seriously wants a selfish wife? The answer is: 0. Being selfless is a thing all humans are attracted to in one another.
idunno, deep down I think it would be nice to have a wife that does anything for me, and nothing for anyone else. Kind of Bonnie and Clyde, if you will...so long as we got eachother, **** the world and all it's second graders!
I actually agree with you a lot on OT, but I am serious when I say I'm happy not everyone is like you. :|
I Don't know the 2nd graders so why should i give a flying F***
and the Leaders of country's are all crooks anyway so the choice is quite obvious
Poster_11
Because you don't know someone you wouldn't save them? :|
Wow OT is epicly failing me tonight. I had no idea this many people were so self-centered. :?
[QUOTE="mrbojangles25"][QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="black_cat19"][QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="SpidersRMe"][QUOTE="battlefront23"]If she was your true love, she would sacrifice herself for the kids. Anything less seems to not be a true love, at least in my eyes.battlefront23
That doesn't really have to do with her love for you.
If she truly loved me, she would hate that I chose her over the kids. In fact, I would hope she would leave me because of my selfish and stupid decision.
That's what YOU expect from a girl you would consider your true love, but you can't say that's what EVERYONE's true love has to do and if she doesn't she's not a true love, there's no set definition of what a true love should or shouldn't be, that's entirely up to each individual.
Who in here that would post seriously wants a selfish wife? The answer is: 0. Being selfless is a thing all humans are attracted to in one another.
idunno, deep down I think it would be nice to have a wife that does anything for me, and nothing for anyone else. Kind of Bonnie and Clyde, if you will...so long as we got eachother, **** the world and all it's second graders!
I actually agree with you a lot on OT, but I am serious when I say I'm happy not everyone is like you. :|
thanks, and I was being 100% serious. Wait, no...1000% serious.
Nah, I was being sarcastic. Keep in mind that when I post crap like that, its because I am entertaining the thought. The minute I post it, I reread it and realize it was a mistake but I dont delete it. I like to see if anyone quotes it.
And you did! woooo!
[QUOTE="Poster_11"]I Don't know the 2nd graders so why should i give a flying F***
and the Leaders of country's are all crooks anyway so the choice is quite obvious
battlefront23
Because you don't know someone you wouldn't save them? :|
Wow OT is epicly failing me tonight. I had no idea this many people were so self-centered. :?
[QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="mrbojangles25"][QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="black_cat19"][QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="SpidersRMe"][QUOTE="battlefront23"]If she was your true love, she would sacrifice herself for the kids. Anything less seems to not be a true love, at least in my eyes.mrbojangles25
That doesn't really have to do with her love for you.
If she truly loved me, she would hate that I chose her over the kids. In fact, I would hope she would leave me because of my selfish and stupid decision.
That's what YOU expect from a girl you would consider your true love, but you can't say that's what EVERYONE's true love has to do and if she doesn't she's not a true love, there's no set definition of what a true love should or shouldn't be, that's entirely up to each individual.
Who in here that would post seriously wants a selfish wife? The answer is: 0. Being selfless is a thing all humans are attracted to in one another.
idunno, deep down I think it would be nice to have a wife that does anything for me, and nothing for anyone else. Kind of Bonnie and Clyde, if you will...so long as we got eachother, **** the world and all it's second graders!
I actually agree with you a lot on OT, but I am serious when I say I'm happy not everyone is like you. :|
thanks, and I was being 100% serious. Wait, no...1000% serious.
I'm not known for having popularity on OT. And I know why too. ;)
[QUOTE="black_cat19"][QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="black_cat19"][QUOTE="battlefront23"]I am severely disappointed in the OT right now. If she was your true love, she would sacrifice herself for the kids. Or if you decided to save her rather than them, she would be disappointed in you and see you as being less noble. Anything less seems to not be a true love, at least in my eyes.battlefront23
:?
That makes absolutely no sense to me, her being your true love depends on how you feel about her, and vice versa, you can't say EVERY single girl in the world would think that, because it's just not true. And how exactly does her doing/not doing something have ANYTHING to do with her being your true love???
I don't think any man wants a selfish wife. :| Anything less then her telling me to let go of her.
Not selfish, but not completely selfless either, I don't want a saint or a nun, I just want a normal girl that complements me and that I can get along with and trust, I just want there to be a special sort of connection, someone who accepts me for who I am, but of course she'll have her defects, just like I do and just like everyone else does, there's no such thing as a perfect human being (not that I even consider not wasting your life over some kids and a guy you'll never meet and don't even have a connection with a defect, but whatever).
Ok I'm gonna go off of the girl topic because I understand what you mean although I disagree. BUT, are you serious in saying you would pick your true love over the lives of children? They have dreams and you are gonna cut them short just because YOU wouldn't have your true love? Now that, in my mind, is extreme selfishness right there.
Well, yeah...
People die all the time, that won't change, and no one cares except those close to them, because everyone else doesn't know these people, I'm sure somewhere, somehow, a bus full of kids just died and I had nothing to do with it, do I care? Of course not, I didn't even know those kids, and again, people die all the time anyway. I think it's not much different here...
[QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="Poster_11"]I Don't know the 2nd graders so why should i give a flying F***
and the Leaders of country's are all crooks anyway so the choice is quite obvious
Poster_11
Because you don't know someone you wouldn't save them? :|
Wow OT is epicly failing me tonight. I had no idea this many people were so self-centered. :?
Yet another fail.
[QUOTE="Poster_11"][QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="Poster_11"]I Don't know the 2nd graders so why should i give a flying F***
and the Leaders of country's are all crooks anyway so the choice is quite obvious
battlefront23
Because you don't know someone you wouldn't save them? :|
Wow OT is epicly failing me tonight. I had no idea this many people were so self-centered. :?
Yet another fail.
[QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="black_cat19"][QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="black_cat19"][QUOTE="battlefront23"]I am severely disappointed in the OT right now. If she was your true love, she would sacrifice herself for the kids. Or if you decided to save her rather than them, she would be disappointed in you and see you as being less noble. Anything less seems to not be a true love, at least in my eyes.black_cat19
:?
That makes absolutely no sense to me, her being your true love depends on how you feel about her, and vice versa, you can't say EVERY single girl in the world would think that, because it's just not true. And how exactly does her doing/not doing something have ANYTHING to do with her being your true love???
I don't think any man wants a selfish wife. :| Anything less then her telling me to let go of her.
Not selfish, but not completely selfless either, I don't want a saint or a nun, I just want a normal girl that complements me and that I can get along with and trust, I just want there to be a special sort of connection, someone who accepts me for who I am, but of course she'll have her defects, just like I do and just like everyone else does, there's no such thing as a perfect human being (not that I even consider not wasting your life over some kids and a guy you'll never meet and don't even have a connection with a defect, but whatever).
Ok I'm gonna go off of the girl topic because I understand what you mean although I disagree. BUT, are you serious in saying you would pick your true love over the lives of children? They have dreams and you are gonna cut them short just because YOU wouldn't have your true love? Now that, in my mind, is extreme selfishness right there.
Well, yeah...
People die all the time, that won't change, and no one cares except those close to them, because everyone else doesn't know these people, I'm sure somewhere, somehow, a bus full of kids just died and I had nothing to do with it, do I care? Of course not, I didn't even know those kids, and again, people die all the time anyway. I think it's not much different here...
Well obviously there was nothing you could have done. But if you can do something, even if it means sacrificing the one you love, you should do the right thing. I think she would be proud you were her love. :)
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