Why are a lot of guys here so against fighting?

I notice a funny trend around here, FEAR. Ohh i fighting is stupid oh i wouldn't dare get into a fight. Fighting doesn' solve anything.

Ohh i love her soo much, should i speak to her? What should i do, the girl inadvertantly touched me, does that mean she loves me

I sense a keen correlation there.

[QUOTE="The_Mac_Daddy"]People who are scared to fight I'm willing to bet 85% of them get walked all over in anything they do. Knowing that you won't take too much crap really gives you more confidence in anything you do.mrbojangles25

thats not how the world works, dude.

He means people who aren't willing to fight will never be aggressive in anyway. When he talks about people being pushed around or walked all over he doesn't mean physically. It's all metaphor.

As for the waiting for someone to take the first punch. You can still be charged with insigting or provoking a fight if he has more friends than you do.

I just ignore people. I don't hear it and I don't care, because it doesn't matter what they say anyway. It's either fact or fiction and I have nothing to hide. But if he wants to back his hot air with some physical activity I can help him with that. I don't hit people, I injure people, because hitting is just playing. And I don't play. The message is simple. I could kill them if I want to, with very little effort. Even accidently.

There's nothing particularly wrong with them. It's just that in a vast majority of cases where people want to get into fights, there are much better ways to handle the situation.

"Vast majority" being every time someone makes a thread here saying they want to "beat up" someone.

I notice a funny trend around here, FEAR. Ohh i fighting is stupid oh i wouldn't dare get into a fight. Fighting doesn' solve anything.

Ohh i love her soo much, should i speak to her? What should i do, the girl inadvertantly touched me, does that mean she loves me

I sense a keen correlation there.

Poedon

I notice a funny trend around here, FEAR. Ohh i fighting is stupid oh i wouldn't dare get into a fight. Fighting doesn' solve anything.

Ohh i love her soo much, should i speak to her? What should i do, the girl inadvertantly touched me, does that mean she loves me

I sense a keen correlation there.

Poedon

I've noticed that too.

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]Can you list some of the positives of getting punched in the face, please?cryptosopoidium

If your the one punching it can relive anger. If your not well, there is no positive.

lmfao

[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]Can you list some of the positives of getting punched in the face, please?cryptosopoidium

If your the one punching it can relive anger. If your not well, there is no positive.

lmfao

[QUOTE="biBLioTek"][QUOTE="mrbojangles25"]

Fights are only good in terms of self defense.

With that said, here are some reasons I dont like fighting:

1. My opponent can end up in the hospital or even die. So could I.

2. The cops could get called. Last time I checked I think fighting is a pretty heft misdemeanor or even a felony.

3. Girls find it unnattractive when guys fight.

4. I dont really ever have a reason to fight; I am 6'3'' and a large guy, and as a result people are biased against me since every time I have been in a fight, people always give me that mean glare because I am very big, and the people that pick fights tend to be very little (methinx they compensate for something by fighting).

H8sMikeMoore

the first one isnt true. people get punched in the face everyday. yet you never hear of "death by punch in the face" you might break your nose at the very worst.

Bull ****. That happens all the time.

[QUOTE="Poedon"]

I notice a funny trend around here, FEAR. Ohh i fighting is stupid oh i wouldn't dare get into a fight. Fighting doesn' solve anything.

Ohh i love her soo much, should i speak to her? What should i do, the girl inadvertantly touched me, does that mean she loves me

I sense a keen correlation there.

The_Mac_Daddy

I've noticed that too.

Indeed. I feel a few of the people I know would love to beat up people that piss them off. People they don't know that make fun of them or say something to them and they probably could if they tried. But they just don't have it in them to do that so they get really frustrated, ashamed and angry.

But this is all because of their assumption that their dignity and integrity as a person is somehow at stake when an idiot on the street tries to vent on them. I actually feel sorry for people who feel the need to do that, they're obviously pissed off or sad about something in their lives.

Well, I almost got in a fight tonight. And seriously, I thought of this thread lol, and decided not to get in a fight. I was at the movies tonight with some people seeing iron man. These guys behind us were being really loud and obnoxious, which was bad enough. But then they throw candy in the air and it hits us. I turn around and tell them to quit that **** we tryin to watch a movie. They said alright they'd stop. 10 minutes later we get hit by some **** again. My friend decided to go get security and they ended up kicking them out.

I was still pissed after security took them out. I felt like a p****. I hate talking to police in situations like that. I feel like a coward doin that ****. That was a pretty petty situation. I usually won't fight in a petty situation especially at a public place like a movie theater. But it still pisses me off because I'd want to fight the *******. Oh well.

But honestly, I never start fights. Y'all got the wrong impression in this thread. I'm just quicker to fight someone than other people usually are I guess.

The_Mac_Daddy

You wanted to get in a fight because someone threw candy at you? Are you serious? (Is he serious? *directed at other posters*) Dude, what are you, like 16 year's old?

You wanted to get in a fight because someone threw candy at you? Are you serious? (Is he serious? *directed at other posters*) Dude, what are you, like 16 year's old?

DeerhunterIA

Scrapes are good to get into now and again. The_Mac_Daddy

No its not and I'll tell you why.

1.) You go to jail, and that means you get a record which stays with you for the rest of your life. When you fill out a job application you have to say why you got a arrested. Which then in fact can pretty much deny you the position you are applying for.

2.) Somebody can get hurt. Well if you want to look at it as I'm acting like a soccer mom thats fine, but then you can go and pay the medical bills of someone you hurt or yourself for that matter, or you could get sued.

3.) A lot of people these days don't use their heads, and because of this a lot of them don't think before they act. What do I mean by this? Well someone would rather use a gun or a knife, because these days a lot are men aren't men they are little girls because they can't face a fight with fists they end up using bullets instead. To sum it up, you die.

There is also a lot of other ramifications that can follow during and after a fight is well over, and to be honest it isn't something that I would like to find out, whether I won the fight or not.

But if came down to a situation where I did not have a choice I guess I have to lay down a beaten.

you're really stereotyping people who are big. and its really unfair. because ive met tons of really big meatheads and they were some of the most outgoing people ive ever met. they are usually just guys who want to hang out. they get big though, not only because its a hobby, but because they dont want to have to deal with petty drama.

H8sMikeMoore

Your sounding very childish here I hope you know that.

"it's really unfair". so what. Life is unfair. I get people looking at me and calling me names all the time just because I've got long hair (I'm a guy) but I don't get into fights with them. I ignore them. I don't sink to their level.

If you get big and pile on the muscle just so you can deal with petty drama then that just tells me your very insecure and you feel you have to improve your physique to get any confidence.

And please stop calling these guys "meatheads". It's sounds like a pet name for them is slightly wrong.

LOL..

.. and this is the warrior that would beat me to the floor:

The intimidating face is what gets me :lol:

The_Mac_Daddy

intimidating?...that's my happy face...:?...

CIoud_S

[QUOTE="CIoud_S"]

intimidating?...that's my happy face...:?...

double_decker

nope...but it was damn good none-the-less tiger.....:oops:CIoud_S

Next time can I bring the bottle? :oops:double_decker

the more the merrier....;)...anyway I gotta jet...I'll leave you with the tough guy...:lol:...have a great memorial day weekend gang....CIoud_S

Because, thave average GS user prolly gets bullied and beaten up in fights.

Not the biggest believer in fighting and I have never started one but have finished a couple.

I have always thought that you should get into at least one or two fights in your life. It is crucial to get your butt beat at least once. Humbles you and keeps your mouth in check.

[QUOTE="The_Mac_Daddy"]LOL..

.. and this is the warrior that would beat me to the floor:

The intimidating face is what gets me :lol:

CIoud_S

Because, thave average GS user prolly gets bullied and beaten up in fights.

marcus4hire

I have always thought that you should get into at least one or two fights in your life. It is crucial to get your butt beat at least once. Humbles you and keeps your mouth in check.

marcus4hire

[QUOTE="marcus4hire"]

I have always thought that you should get into at least one or two fights in your life. It is crucial to get your butt beat at least once. Humbles you and keeps your mouth in check.

double_decker

Yes, but peer groups can also help with this.

I dont know.. I guess I just feel like there are a lot of ******* on this site who are afraid to get in any kind of physical altercation. I guess I just feel a strong need to stand up for myself and others, and sometimes words just don't cut it. So if that means things start getting physical, then so be it.The_Mac_Daddy

So everyone who doesn't want to get into a fight over trivial things is weak?

I'm sorry but whatever you believe, fighting is always the last option. I've seen some very good answers in favor of not fighting. Hardly any in favor of getting into scraps.

[QUOTE="The_Mac_Daddy"]I dont know.. I guess I just feel like there are a lot of ******* on this site who are afraid to get in any kind of physical altercation. I guess I just feel a strong need to stand up for myself and others, and sometimes words just don't cut it. So if that means things start getting physical, then so be it.ColdRush88

So everyone who doesn't want to get into a fight over trivial things is weak?

I'm sorry but whatever you believe, fighting is always the last option. I've seen some very good answers in favor of not fighting. Hardly any in favor of getting into scraps.

If you never get in any, then you don't really know. I guess we just really don't have the same kind of mentality.

[QUOTE="ColdRush88"]

[QUOTE="The_Mac_Daddy"]I dont know.. I guess I just feel like there are a lot of ******* on this site who are afraid to get in any kind of physical altercation. I guess I just feel a strong need to stand up for myself and others, and sometimes words just don't cut it. So if that means things start getting physical, then so be it.The_Mac_Daddy

So everyone who doesn't want to get into a fight over trivial things is weak?

I'm sorry but whatever you believe, fighting is always the last option. I've seen some very good answers in favor of not fighting. Hardly any in favor of getting into scraps.

If you never get in any, then you don't really know. I guess we just really don't have the same kind of mentality.

Well considering that us humans have a useful skill called speaking, then I think we should use that first and foremost. It's more sensible than fighting. And I'd personally respect someone much more for not resorting to violence.

[QUOTE="The_Mac_Daddy"][QUOTE="ColdRush88"]

[QUOTE="The_Mac_Daddy"]I dont know.. I guess I just feel like there are a lot of ******* on this site who are afraid to get in any kind of physical altercation. I guess I just feel a strong need to stand up for myself and others, and sometimes words just don't cut it. So if that means things start getting physical, then so be it.ColdRush88

So everyone who doesn't want to get into a fight over trivial things is weak?

I'm sorry but whatever you believe, fighting is always the last option. I've seen some very good answers in favor of not fighting. Hardly any in favor of getting into scraps.

If you never get in any, then you don't really know. I guess we just really don't have the same kind of mentality.

Well considering that us humans have a useful skill called speaking, then I think we should use that first and foremost. It's more sensible than fighting. And I'd personally respect someone much more for not resorting to violence.

A lot of times, speaking can only go so far. Emotion takes control, adrenaline kicks in, and speaking sounds less and less appealing. When you reach that point, you won't feel good until you bust someone up. Even if you lose, you still feel good because you know you didn't back down from the guy.

Most of them solve absolutely nothing, but there are times that nothing short of physical violence will either get someone to stop doing something or to get an idea through there head. buxboy

Ive always found it solves more than you think. If there is someone where beef keeps going back and fourth, and it finally turns into a fight however many days, weeks, etc. later, then after the fight the beef usually stops for the most part. After someone gets dropped, all the bull**** stops for the most part.

Because after that, anything they say, any crap talking they do, you take really lightly. You already won the fight, you already busted them up. After that, their words are meaningless.

[QUOTE="buxboy"]Most of them solve absolutely nothing, but there are times that nothing short of physical violence will either get someone to stop doing something or to get an idea through there head. The_Mac_Daddy

Ive always found it solves more than you think. If there is someone where beef keeps going back and fourth, and it finally turns into a fight however many days, weeks, etc. later, then after the fight the beef usually stops for the most part. After someone gets dropped, all the bull**** stops for the most part.

Because after that, anything they say, any crap talking they do, you take really lightly. You already won the fight, you already busted them up. After that, their words are meaningless.

Yup I know what you mean.

[QUOTE="buxboy"]Most of them solve absolutely nothing, but there are times that nothing short of physical violence will either get someone to stop doing something or to get an idea through there head. The_Mac_Daddy

Ive always found it solves more than you think. If there is someone where beef keeps going back and fourth, and it finally turns into a fight however many days, weeks, etc. later, then after the fight the beef usually stops for the most part. After someone gets dropped, all the bull**** stops for the most part.

Because after that, anything they say, any crap talking they do, you take really lightly. You already won the fight, you already busted them up. After that, their words are meaningless.

[QUOTE="H8sMikeMoore"]

you're really stereotyping people who are big. and its really unfair. because ive met tons of really big meatheads and they were some of the most outgoing people ive ever met. they are usually just guys who want to hang out. they get big though, not only because its a hobby, but because they dont want to have to deal with petty drama.

ColdRush88

Your sounding very childish here I hope you know that.

"it's really unfair". so what. Life is unfair. I get people looking at me and calling me names all the time just because I've got long hair (I'm a guy) but I don't get into fights with them. I ignore them. I don't sink to their level.

If you get big and pile on the muscle just so you can deal with petty drama then that just tells me your very insecure and you feel you have to improve your physique to get any confidence.

And please stop calling these guys "meatheads". It's sounds like a pet name for them is slightly wrong.

yeah life is unfair. but stereotyping big guys is almost on the same level as stereotyping on race. its just stupid.

I definitely think putting on muscle is a good way to avoid fighting. But after reading all of your posts, the only conclusion I can come to is that you have some sort of hate towards athletic/muscular people. Its probably due to the fact that those are the kids that pick on you while you're in highschool/middle school or whatever.

the fact that you're taking such offense to the idea of someone else putting on muscle so they have a fun hobby, and also dont have to deal with stupidity from overly aggressive people shows how much you dont like those people. Youve done nothing but attack the idea of putting on muscle.

Goto a gym, talk to people. youll realize you're the one being extremely childish and petty. most people put on muscle because its a hobby, but everyone starts out with the idea of intimidating overly aggressive jerks and getting laid. If you decided to do it, youd think the same way. Youll find that most of the people who are the biggest are for the most part pretty nice people.

i mean i dont know you, but if you're not good at sports or you're not strong thats no reason to hate people who are. so chill out... here it comes "i dont hate them but but but"

I'm not a big strong guy, and I'e never been in a fight. Not least of all because I don't associate myself with the kinds of dumb ****ers who like to get into fights.

A lot of you are like, "yeah, but what do you do when homies go stepping all up in your grill?"

The thing is, I don't hae that problem because I don't associate with dumbasses.