Why do some women seem to think that men don't have feelings?

They hang around idiotic jerks. As if they'd have nothing without said jerks. Tsk tsk on them. I don't have that problem because the women I hang out with are what you call intelligent.Symphonycometh

I prefer to hang out with girls like this

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[QUOTE="Symphonycometh"]They hang around idiotic jerks. As if they'd have nothing without said jerks. Tsk tsk on them. I don't have that problem because the women I hang out with are what you call intelligent.rawsavon

I prefer to hang out with girls like this

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[QUOTE="DazedDarkness"] I have confidence, just more of a silent confidence. I'm not the type of person to chase after girls anyway, with dorky cheesy pick up lines or try to use material crap to pick them up. I wait until I have a nice conversation with them make them think I'm a nice guy, and then we do it, and I never call them again.

DazedDarkness

That wasn't very funny...does this relate to the cheesy dorky thing..?

Yes perhaps..

Aren't the forum rednecks just about due to arrive and piss all over the thread with arbitrary, backwards ideals of masculinity?LiedVonDerErde

[QUOTE="LiedVonDerErde"]Aren't the forum rednecks just about due to arrive and piss all over the thread with arbitrary, backwards ideals of masculinity?Jandurin

I put my left shoe on my right foot this morning.

[QUOTE="pete_merlin"]

Women label men as players yet girls sleep around way more than guys.

WheresKinggiAt

Also, it's probably best not to overly express "emotions" to girls you aren't involved in a relationship with. It just makes things awkward and serious.

[QUOTE="WheresKinggiAt"]

[QUOTE="pete_merlin"]

Women label men as players yet girls sleep around way more than guys.

xhellcatx

Also, it's probably best not to overly express "emotions" to girls you aren't involved in a relationship with. It just makes things awkward and serious.

To put it simply, a key that opens many locks is a master key. A lock that is opened by many keys is a ****y lock.F1_2004

This just made my day.

Why would anyone want to conform to a stereotype? (A negative one at that)

No thanks. How about I act like myself instead?

[QUOTE="clyde46"]

Women, you will never EVER understand them.

xaos

[QUOTE="xhellcatx"][QUOTE="WheresKinggiAt"]The opposite is true. If a man sleeps around he usually gets high fives from his buddies. If a woman sleeps around she is labeled a whore.

Also, it's probably best not to overly express "emotions" to girls you aren't involved in a relationship with. It just makes things awkward and serious.

F1_2004

This I can't agree with. A guy really doesn't need much to get a girl in bed. And its really not so easy for us girls to land a guy in bed either. I think its unfair to say that its really easy for one sex to get that easier then the other. Also, a guy who has sex with as many women as possible is disgusting in my opinion. But, if a girl goes around and has sex with as many guys as possible, it is also disgusting. But if a girl has sex with say 2 people (at different times) she will still be called a whore. Ive heard it myself (and have been called one). If a guy only has sex with 2 women in the same time frame as the woman had with 2 guys, then he gets told hes not trying hard enough blah blah blah. its wrong imo.

[QUOTE="clayron"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] Can we cut it up like a bad credit card...right in front of himOleg_Huzwog

That seems an excessive choice of tool... which is a manly man's trait... so yes.

[QUOTE="LiedVonDerErde"]Aren't the forum rednecks just about due to arrive and piss all over the thread with arbitrary, backwards ideals of masculinity?Jandurin

I'll fill your void!xaos

REAL MEN BOTTLE UP THEIR EMOTIONS AND SUFFER CRIPPLING EMOTIONAL DAMAGELiedVonDerErde

[QUOTE="xaos"]I'll fill your void!Jandurin

REAL MEN BOTTLE UP THEIR EMOTIONS AND SUFFER CRIPPLING EMOTIONAL DAMAGELiedVonDerErde

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[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="clyde46"]

Women, you will never EVER understand them.

FrostyPhantasm

[QUOTE="FrostyPhantasm"][QUOTE="xaos"] Thank God I get to deal with men, who at least are insane in the same ways that I am :Dxaos

Shallow understanding of things brings more than just thinking men dont have feelings.

[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="FrostyPhantasm"] Sounds beautiful :3 tell me more.rawsavon

women will never know the true power of man.

women will never know the true power of man.

hiphopballer

Why do most of these threads always end up starting to borderline sexism? Im honestly starting to tire from it.xhellcatx

Because it's a sexist topic to begin with?

[QUOTE="xhellcatx"]Why do most of these threads always end up starting to borderline sexism? Im honestly starting to tire from it.Oleg_Huzwog

Because it's a sexist topic to begin with?

You just forfeited your man card.

Oleg_Huzwog

Agreed.

Why do most of these threads always end up starting to borderline sexism? Im honestly starting to tire from it.xhellcatx

Then stop reading them if they begin to tire you.

[QUOTE="xhellcatx"]Why do most of these threads always end up starting to borderline sexism? Im honestly starting to tire from it.CAWZY

Then stop reading them if they begin to tire you.

[QUOTE="F1_2004"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"] qft. i see it all the time. And whats worse, the scenario is always the guy has slept with a whole crap ton of women more then the woman has slept with men, and she still is a slut. .... Anyways, the emotional man thing... I dig a guy who can tap into his compassionate side and still like to play with puppies and kittens, and admit something is cute, and admit they are feeling sad about something. The guys who hold everything in all the time, In my personal experience, are the guys who end up beating their women, or at least expressing physical violence in some way or another. Verbal abuse too sometimes. xhellcatx

This I can't agree with. A guy really doesn't need much to get a girl in bed. And its really not so easy for us girls to land a guy in bed either. I think its unfair to say that its really easy for one sex to get that easier then the other. Also, a guy who has sex with as many women as possible is disgusting in my opinion. But, if a girl goes around and has sex with as many guys as possible, it is also disgusting. But if a girl has sex with say 2 people (at different times) she will still be called a whore. Ive heard it myself (and have been called one). If a guy only has sex with 2 women in the same time frame as the woman had with 2 guys, then he gets told hes not trying hard enough blah blah blah. its wrong imo.

[QUOTE="xhellcatx"]

[QUOTE="F1_2004"] Um maybe because a guy needs to be skilled to get a lot of women, and doing so is an accomplishment, whereas a woman needs to simply be a slut to get a lot of men. Women are the ones who enforce the standards, men are the ones who do the hunting. To put it simply, a key that opens many locks is a master key. A lock that is opened by many keys is a ****y lock.F1_2004

This I can't agree with. A guy really doesn't need much to get a girl in bed. And its really not so easy for us girls to land a guy in bed either. I think its unfair to say that its really easy for one sex to get that easier then the other. Also, a guy who has sex with as many women as possible is disgusting in my opinion. But, if a girl goes around and has sex with as many guys as possible, it is also disgusting. But if a girl has sex with say 2 people (at different times) she will still be called a whore. Ive heard it myself (and have been called one). If a guy only has sex with 2 women in the same time frame as the woman had with 2 guys, then he gets told hes not trying hard enough blah blah blah. its wrong imo.

Women, you will never EVER understand them.

clyde46

that's the common perception, but imo its 100% true both ways, I'll be damned if me and my gender can be simplified down any more than a woman can.

[QUOTE="clyde46"]

Women, you will never EVER understand them.

jpph

that's the common perception, but imo its 100% true both ways, I'll be damned if me and my gender can be simplified down any more than a woman can.

Women label men as players yet girls sleep around way more than guys.

pete_merlin

i know right

Your correct in assuming im not a guy. And it may be partially true a women pretty much just needs to open her legs... but please explain to me why some guys believe a girl is a slut for having 2 guys, but if a guy has 2 guys then he needs to try harder and get at least double that, and then be commended for it. There is no logic there. Personally... MY take on it is this: People who have sex purely to have as many partners as they can are disgusting. If a person, no matter what gender, is in an actual relationship and is exclusive with the person they are in the relationship with--no matter how long it lasts between them.. its not NEARLY as bad, but a lot guys still think the woman as a slut. Tell me ... YOUR opinion on this.... How many guys does it take for a woman to be labeled a whore by you... and how many women does it take for guys to be either labeled a whore, OR commended (... or both)xhellcatx

The logic is that this is how society operates. Why is it when a girl hits a guy, we both laugh, but when a guy hits a girl he goes to jail? Because as a society we've accepted that one is wrong and the other is okay.

For a guy to get many women, requires serious skills. I would not praise his lifestyle nor want it for myself, but I will give him credit where credit is due, as will most other guys. He has pulled off something difficult and, to a certain extent, admirable.

For a girl to get many guys, is nothing impressive. Not only is it considered socially unimpressive, but it takes no work and there's nothing commendable about it.

As for the number, it depends entirely on the people, the time, the place, the circumstances etc. I don't know what your deal was with the 2 guys and people calling you a slut. if a girl sleeps with 2 guys in one night, yeah she's a slut. Because most women wouldn't agree to something like that. Hence why it's all the more impressive if a guy can pull it off. As was already said, the woman is the lock, the man is the key trying to open the lock. It's just how things happen to be.

Actually, its kind of against ToU to post offensive things, and sexism .. well its offensive. Thats why its called sexism, and people who use sexism are called sexist. Its frustrating. And instead of reporting people for using sexist posting, I just comment in the hopes people will see the ways of their errors. ;)xhellcatx

[QUOTE="F1_2004"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"]

This I can't agree with. A guy really doesn't need much to get a girl in bed. And its really not so easy for us girls to land a guy in bed either. I think its unfair to say that its really easy for one sex to get that easier then the other. Also, a guy who has sex with as many women as possible is disgusting in my opinion. But, if a girl goes around and has sex with as many guys as possible, it is also disgusting. But if a girl has sex with say 2 people (at different times) she will still be called a whore. Ive heard it myself (and have been called one). If a guy only has sex with 2 women in the same time frame as the woman had with 2 guys, then he gets told hes not trying hard enough blah blah blah. its wrong imo.

xhellcatx

The easy explanation: Women have a lot more to lose by having sex with multiple partners than men do. Women can potentially be stuck with a kid, men just have to pay child support. Personally, I don't agree with men being commended for getting laid every weekend by different girls, but I'm just one person. I condemn men and women that do that sort of thing, but I have to think that, just by looking at the consequences, that the women who do that deserve the name-calling. However, if a girl's been with two guys(ever) and gets called a slut, that's neither accurate nor ethical. Well, unless that girl is very young (~15), but then again, I think most people that have sex that early are making a mistake to begin with.

I r man I have no feeling ughh ughh.

[QUOTE="xhellcatx"] Actually, its kind of against ToU to post offensive things, and sexism .. well its offensive. Thats why its called sexism, and people who use sexism are called sexist. Its frustrating. And instead of reporting people for using sexist posting, I just comment in the hopes people will see the ways of their errors. ;)Vandalvideo

Probably something along the lines of, they've been hurt by men before who lied to them because they wanted something other than a relationship, and then when they got what they wanted, they stopped talking to/seeing them. It's unfortunate that those type of guys exist, and they give the rest of you sweet, emotional ones a bad name. :(

Edit: As for women who want their men to be emotionless "killing machines"...well. There's something wrong right there. :| I don't find anything wrong with a guy crying when he's sad. Or a guy liking something that's typically feminine. We're all people..gender roles ftl.

I'm guessing it's because of all of the domestic violence news.

EDIT: and leaving the girls after you get in the sack with them :o

Because most guys don't show off their emotions.