Would you date a girl even if she wanted to stay abstinent forever?

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#1 Rob0_Jesus
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I think I could have a relationship with a chick that doesnt want to do it. It would suck but if shes the one than I aint lettin her go.

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#2 Neon-Tiger
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Pretty much, yeah. The thought of having sex is becoming less appealing with each passing day.
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#3 wildjango64
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I'm pretty sure sex is a necessity in a long and committed relationship, she would want to do it sometime

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#4 Yandere
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Possibly no if she was attractive enough to date.

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#5 stepnkev
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Only if she wanted to wait until marriage. This is the view both my wife and I shared. We both wanted to wait. Going by your question though, forever to me means just that and since I wanted kids, I would not date a girl who wanted to stay abstinent forever.

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#6 DivergeUnify
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#7 MrPraline
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Heh, what's the point of the specific gay options in the poll? Not sure, it would depend on the girl.
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#9 Omega_Zero69
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well maybe but she will change her mind of being abstinent when shes with me 8)
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#10 jJaAmMeEsS2184
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I've never dated one that was....and never will..

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#11 Dark_Knight6
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:lol: No, absolutely not. I wouldn't have sex with someone I don't have significant feelings for but if there's never going to be sex, no thanks.

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#12 mindstorm
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If forever ends at marriage, yes.
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#13 Jaysonguy
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Not at all, what's the use?

There is not one single reason to have a relationship then

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#14 deactivated-5d6e91f5c147a
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Or we could just be friends.
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#15 CptJSparrow
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No.
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#16 Rob0_Jesus
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Heh, what's the point of the specific gay options in the poll? Not sure, it would depend on the girl.MrPraline

Im not leaving the gays out. There are hetero and homo options.

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#17 lil_zelda_dude
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Theres always ear s3x lol

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#18 jimmyjammer69
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I'd date her for a while, but she couldn't reasonably expect me to be with her forever and not have sex.
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#19 _BlueDuck_
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No. A healthy sex life is key to any relationship.

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#20 Theokhoth
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I'd be fine with it.

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#21 themagicbum9720
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i wouldn't mind, sex isn't all that great.
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#22 raven_squad
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Honestly, yeah. It doesn't seem all that important in the scheme of things.
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#23 deactivated-60678a6f9e4d4
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Unless she was really amazing, no.

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#24 Treflis
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Nope. You can argue with it being shallow and only because of lust but if there's no physical attraction and desire for physical contact or the prospect of children made together then it can't be "true" love.
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#25 supa_badman
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I guess I'm ok with that.

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#26 Rob0_Jesus
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Not at all, what's the use?

There is not one single reason to have a relationship then

Jaysonguy

Wow are you serious? Thats a pretty shallow thing to say. Relationships arent made just to get it on.

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#27 deactivated-605ba7fd6332a
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Sure, it's not like I'm having sex now anyway.

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#28 mrbojangles25
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whats the point of dating if you cant have sex?

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#29 PimpiNbananas
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what do you mean by no sex forever? is it only counting Penetration? I mean if i could still see her naked, touch her up and eat her out then i wouldnt mind, she has to be the one though.

if you mean i cant do anything with her except kiss then forget it,, i dont care how good lookin she is

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#30 mrbojangles25
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[QUOTE="Jaysonguy"]

Not at all, what's the use?

There is not one single reason to have a relationship then

Rob0_Jesus

Wow are you serious? Thats a pretty shallow thing to say. Relationships arent made just to get it on.

its at least half the reason, though.

and its not shallow. There is nothing wrong, selfish, or immoral about wanting to physically express your love for someone and have children.

without sex, your relationship is about as meaningful as having a best friend. And we all already have a few of those.

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#31 tbone29
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Nah... I'll pass on that
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#32 raven_squad
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[QUOTE="Rob0_Jesus"]

[QUOTE="Jaysonguy"]

Not at all, what's the use?

There is not one single reason to have a relationship then

mrbojangles25

Wow are you serious? Thats a pretty shallow thing to say. Relationships arent made just to get it on.

its at least half the reason, though.

and its not shallow. There is nothing wrong, selfish, or immoral about wanting to physically express your love for someone and have children.

without sex, your relationship is about as meaningful as having a best friend. And we all already have a few of those.

He said there was no point in having a relationship without sex. Doesn't sound to me like the purpose of the sex in that relationship would be to "physically express love for someone". It would just be to have sex. :?
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#33 DabsTight703
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#34 njean777
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sure sex is physical effection not emotional. Some people like to say its emotional but it is not. The only reason for sex is to reproduce. Not to say i wouldnt have sex with my wife cuz i def. would but it is not needed in all actuality unless you want children.

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#35 theharlemshake
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If she's the one? I would think "the one" would want to have your kids...the natural way. The thought of a relationship lasting "forever" without sex is outlandish.
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#36 Omni-Slash
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yeah no...sexual intimacy is the unltimate culmination of being emotionally close to someone....if the person I'm with will never commit to that level.....what's the point.?..
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#37 foxhound_fox
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Hahaha... no. As soon as I found out about that, I'd end the relationship. For me, sex is an integral part of a healthy relationship.

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#38 LostProphetFLCL
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I am sorry but at that point I have to ask why should she be my girlfriend?

The physical intimacy is the MAJOR difference between a relationship and just a friendship. It would just be filling the relationship spot with a friendship which I wouldn't want.

I may not be all about sex and am actually still a virgin, but to me it seems that sex and the physical intimacy in general is the one thing that puts a relationship onto a level above just a friendship, so a sexless relationship makes no sense to me.

If it was just waiting for a while I could deal with that, but if it is "never having sex" then I am sorry but I refuse to lose out on that part of life.

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#39 mrbojangles25
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[QUOTE="mrbojangles25"]

[QUOTE="Rob0_Jesus"]

Wow are you serious? Thats a pretty shallow thing to say. Relationships arent made just to get it on.

raven_squad

its at least half the reason, though.

and its not shallow. There is nothing wrong, selfish, or immoral about wanting to physically express your love for someone and have children.

without sex, your relationship is about as meaningful as having a best friend. And we all already have a few of those.

He said there was no point in having a relationship without sex. Doesn't sound to me like the purpose of the sex in that relationship would be to "physically express love for someone". It would just be to have sex. :?

well you dont need to be in a relationship to have sex, so I am assuming that if one is in a relationship it is due to some sort of attraction, affection, or love being present between the two people. And if there is that connection, then sex is awesome

but lets be honest who here is really going to remain abstinent forever?

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#40 CyberAltair5
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Amour platonique is true love in my opinion.

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#41 Cube_of_MooN
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Forever? Like even after marraige forever? I don't know about that.
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#42 markop2003
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I'ld do it but only if she had a good reason, though personally i can't think of a satisfactory reason that could justify being abstinent forever.
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#43 mustang0712
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no i need sex can't live without it i go 2 days without it and i start to go crazy lol

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#44 hiphops_savior
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As long as forever means until marriage, then yes. I prefer saving myself for a "rainy day".
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#45 deactivated-605ba7fd6332a
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I'ld do it but only if she had a good reason, though personally i can't think of a satisfactory reason that could justify being abstinent forever.markop2003

I'm ignorant when it comes to religion so I'm not sure about this, but what if she were a nun?

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#46 Teenaged
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without sex, your relationship is about as meaningful as having a best friend.

mrbojangles25

I disagree with that.

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#47 Jaysonguy
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[QUOTE="Jaysonguy"]

Not at all, what's the use?

There is not one single reason to have a relationship then

Rob0_Jesus

Wow are you serious? Thats a pretty shallow thing to say. Relationships arent made just to get it on.

I'm completely serious

If I want to talk to someone I'll have a friend

There's no reason to have a relationship with someone if they're not physical

I don't waste my time with "oh but we're so good at talking"

No, take your things and leave my sight immediately

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#48 supa_badman
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[QUOTE="markop2003"]I'ld do it but only if she had a good reason, though personally i can't think of a satisfactory reason that could justify being abstinent forever.uhoh_hotdogs

I'm ignorant when it comes to religion so I'm not sure about this, but what if she were a nun?

A nun wouldn't be in a relationship, because she's already 'married' to God :lol:
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#49 deactivated-6243ee9902175
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Yes, my personal opinion is you don't need sex as much as the feeling that someone cares about you as much as you care for them.

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#50 Jaysonguy
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Yes, my personal opinion is you don't need sex as much as the feeling that someone cares about you as much as you care for them.

Whiteblade999

Oh yeah, that's completely rewarding the first 5 or ten seconds, pure joy

Then it's time to act on things