You think this kind of relationship would ever work out??

Well, today one of my female friends told me she found a boyfriend, and when I asked who, she said "Well, he's 21 years old and goes to the community college."

I tried not to laugh. My friend is 15 years old. Yet shes still texting me, mad as hell for practically laughing in her face. Sorry. I needed a good laugh.

Im curious what you guys think....you guys think a sophomore and a college dude would work out for a real relationship?

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Any college guy that would date a 15 year old little kid is a total loser and pedophile. If I were you, I would strongly consider reporting this. Sick. just sickrawsavon

They aren't a pedophile. Pedophiles go after younger people, not 15-year olds.

Is she one of those chicks that's desperate to grow up?

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Any college guy that would date a 15 year old little kid is a total loser and pedophile. If I were you, I would strongly consider reporting this. Sick. just sickavatar_genius

They aren't a pedophile. Pedophiles go after younger people, not 15-year olds.

It'll be hard to work out... >.>PerfectEnding

At that age, six years is quite a stretch. She should at least find someone younger than 20.

Initially, it totally seems that way--but it rarely ever works out for very long. I've dated guys that age when I was 15(two years ago). Let her enjoy this little fling though. She'll surely learn from it one way or another. = )

Is she one of those chicks that's desperate to grow up?

AAllxxjjnn

[QUOTE="avatar_genius"]

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Any college guy that would date a 15 year old little kid is a total loser and pedophile. If I were you, I would strongly consider reporting this. Sick. just sickrawsavon

They aren't a pedophile. Pedophiles go after younger people, not 15-year olds.

No, he's an ephebophile.

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="avatar_genius"]

They aren't a pedophile. Pedophiles go after younger people, not 15-year olds.

avatar_genius

No, he's an ephebophile.

Why don't you ask your friend what she sees in the guy?avatar_genius

I know a girl who dates guys 6 years older than her. It's disgusting IMO. 15 and 18+ isn't even LEGAL here. That will not work.XilePrincess

Initially, it totally seems that way--but it rarely ever works out for very long. I've dated guys that age when I was 15(two years ago). Let her enjoy this little fling though. She'll surely learn from it one way or another. = )

TecmoGirl

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

Initially, it totally seems that way--but it rarely ever works out for very long. I've dated guys that age when I was 15(two years ago). Let her enjoy this little fling though. She'll surely learn from it one way or another. = )

Sajedene

Thats just nasty...

I felt akward about the idea of dating a 17 year-old sophmore as a 20 year old who's been out of HS for over 3 years and that played a big part in me turning this girl I know (who I do hang out with and am still friends with) down....

MAYBE the age difference wouldn't be an issue later on in life, but at that time period it is a HUGE issue....

I think age is the least of problems in a relationship.

Sure it could. As long as she gives it up when he wants it can work. If it's going to be good relationship is another matter ;)

At that age, six years is quite a stretch. She should at least find someone younger than 20.

dog64

yeah i mean...how much can they really have in common with that age difference

[QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

Initially, it totally seems that way--but it rarely ever works out for very long. I've dated guys that age when I was 15(two years ago). Let her enjoy this little fling though. She'll surely learn from it one way or another. = )

Sajedene

It's not even that big of a deal Saje. It's like the norm now--lots of girls are dating guys 5+ years older then them(vice versa as well). It's not like he's abusing or raping her or something. And it won't last anyways--so I don't see the issue with it. Also, how is it not respecting yourself? Are you implying if she messed around with a guy her age, that would actually be anymore self-respecting or something? Most guys usually want the same thing once they pass 15 and I doubt it would be any different with a guy her own age other then the number.

People are acting appalled and digusted right now like this stuff doesn't happen often.

Thats just nasty...

I felt akward about the idea of dating a 17 year-old sophmore as a 20 year old who's been out of HS for over 3 years and that played a big part in me turning this girl I know (who I do hang out with and am still friends with) down....

MAYBE the age difference wouldn't be an issue later on in life, but at that time period it is a HUGE issue....

LostProphetFLCL

Well, a three year age difference isn't bad. Double it though and it can be a problem, depending on the age of of the younger person. If they're both the age of consent, it doesn't matter what the age difference is.

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="THE_BRUTALIZER"] ugghh im a senior and that would be disgusting......now its starting to seem more nasty than weird......:|THE_BRUTALIZER

18 = Adult .. under 18=minor .. I think you know where I am going with this :P

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Only if he is a good guy and she is mature enough. If not then no way. He prolly just gonna take advantage of her or the other way around so chances are the best is not gonna happen.

[QUOTE="THE_BRUTALIZER"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] Sometimes laws suck and hurt (relatively) innocent people (an 18 year old being convicted of stat. rape for being with his 16/17 year old GF...depending on the state.) But we have these laws for a reason. They are designed to protect kids from predators...what kid would not like to date someone in college.Espada12

18 = Adult .. under 18=minor .. I think you know where I am going with this :P

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hedden93

[QUOTE="LostProphetFLCL"]

Thats just nasty...

I felt akward about the idea of dating a 17 year-old sophmore as a 20 year old who's been out of HS for over 3 years and that played a big part in me turning this girl I know (who I do hang out with and am still friends with) down....

MAYBE the age difference wouldn't be an issue later on in life, but at that time period it is a HUGE issue....

dog64

Well, a three year age difference isn't bad. Double it though and it can be a problem, depending on the age of of the younger person. If they're both the age of consent, it doesn't matter what the age difference is.

Hell a 6 year difference isn't horrible but only later on in life after school.

In my case the 3 year difference meant ALOT. Shes got 2 more years of high school while I have been out of high school for 3 years. The whole thought of it is kind of creepy to me. I mean that would have been just like someone earlier had said, like a senior in HS dating someone in junior high.....

Wow I knew that but I didnt know that it applied to this stuff......I guess Ill talk to my friend tomorrow, like I said. Cause if this guy's a pedophile, or ANYTHING close........*censored for illegal content*THE_BRUTALIZER

There isn't an actual law against dating, only sex. In this case, sex would be illegal. If you search the web, you can find statutory rape laws in your area.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="TecmoGirl"]

Initially, it totally seems that way--but it rarely ever works out for very long. I've dated guys that age when I was 15(two years ago). Let her enjoy this little fling though. She'll surely learn from it one way or another. = )

TecmoGirl

It's not even that big of a deal Saje. It's like the norm now--lots of girls are dating guys 5+ years older then them(vice versa as well). It's not like he's abusing or raping her or something. And it won't last anyways--so I don't see the issue with it. Also, how is it not respecting yourself? Are you implying if she messed around with a guy her age, that would actually be anymore self-respecting or something? Most guys usually want the same thing once they pass 15 and I doubt it would be any different with a guy her own age other then the number.

People are acting appalled and digusted right now like this stuff doesn't happen often.

[QUOTE="THE_BRUTALIZER"]Wow I knew that but I didnt know that it applied to this stuff......I guess Ill talk to my friend tomorrow, like I said. Cause if this guy's a pedophile, or ANYTHING close........*censored for illegal content*dog64

There isn't an actual law against dating, only sex. In this case, sex would be illegal. If you search the web, you can find statutory rape laws in your area.

[QUOTE="dog64"]

[QUOTE="LostProphetFLCL"]

Thats just nasty...

I felt akward about the idea of dating a 17 year-old sophmore as a 20 year old who's been out of HS for over 3 years and that played a big part in me turning this girl I know (who I do hang out with and am still friends with) down....

MAYBE the age difference wouldn't be an issue later on in life, but at that time period it is a HUGE issue....

LostProphetFLCL

Well, a three year age difference isn't bad. Double it though and it can be a problem, depending on the age of of the younger person. If they're both the age of consent, it doesn't matter what the age difference is.

Hell a 6 year difference isn't horrible but only later on in life after school.

In my case the 3 year difference meant ALOT. Shes got 2 more years of high school while I have been out of high school for 3 years. The whole thought of it is kind of creepy to me. I mean that would have been just like someone earlier had said, like a senior in HS dating someone in junior high.....

Wait you're 20 right? That means you graduated at 17?

not at the young of an age try maybe 15 years later lol

[QUOTE="LostProphetFLCL"]

[QUOTE="dog64"]

Well, a three year age difference isn't bad. Double it though and it can be a problem, depending on the age of of the younger person. If they're both the age of consent, it doesn't matter what the age difference is.

dog64

Hell a 6 year difference isn't horrible but only later on in life after school.

In my case the 3 year difference meant ALOT. Shes got 2 more years of high school while I have been out of high school for 3 years. The whole thought of it is kind of creepy to me. I mean that would have been just like someone earlier had said, like a senior in HS dating someone in junior high.....

Wait you're 20 right? That means you graduated at 17?

[QUOTE="dog64"]

[QUOTE="LostProphetFLCL"]

Hell a 6 year difference isn't horrible but only later on in life after school.

In my case the 3 year difference meant ALOT. Shes got 2 more years of high school while I have been out of high school for 3 years. The whole thought of it is kind of creepy to me. I mean that would have been just like someone earlier had said, like a senior in HS dating someone in junior high.....

Sajedene

Wait you're 20 right? That means you graduated at 17?

[QUOTE="dog64"]

[QUOTE="LostProphetFLCL"]

Hell a 6 year difference isn't horrible but only later on in life after school.

In my case the 3 year difference meant ALOT. Shes got 2 more years of high school while I have been out of high school for 3 years. The whole thought of it is kind of creepy to me. I mean that would have been just like someone earlier had said, like a senior in HS dating someone in junior high.....

Sajedene

Wait you're 20 right? That means you graduated at 17?

So did I :) I was homeschooled and skipped over 7th grade. But in LostProphetFLCL's case, the 17 year old still has two years of high school. Shouldn't she be in 12th grade?