You're not going to see her after this June? You're not really friends with her = you're not in the friend zone.
Now is the only time to make the move! If it does not work, she'll be leaving pretty soon anyway. Stop being a wuss, invite her on a date! It's an order!
People here are very naive, looks do in fact matter a lot. My advice is: Working out. If you don't have the face, you can have the body. It looks to me as if you have plenty of motivation to do this, since it sounds like you're at your all-time low. You need something to dedicate yourself to, the gym is a good start. Confidence is also key, but it is impossible to just grow that overnight or grow it out of nothingness. If you work out, perhaps buy some nice clothes, then you might begin to feel better about yourself. If you work out, and this still doesn't work, I would suggest rehabilitation. Move to a new environment, get a new job, do something new. You will start meeting new people, who will get an impression of you NOT related to how you once were, but how you are now. You will also have that 'new guy' attention, which will probably help boost your ego.
Log in to comment