So I was eating breakfast and I faintly hear what appears to be a guy yelling at someone. I kind of ignore it. A bit later I hear loud distressed screaming and yelling. It immediately made me just stop eating. It just put me on edge. It sounded like this guy was being tortured, or like he just got his leg cut off my lawn mower or something, or like he desperately needed help. So I go up to my window and open it and I am kind of panicing because I'm not sure what to do. It gets ever louder and I now see him walking on the sidewalk and he's cursing and he's screaming at the top of his lungs "you *****" really loudly then more yelling. He just passed and I couldn't really see him because he got on the other side of some fence with a lot of trees covering him. It sounded like he was about to kill himself.

What do you think this was? I'm thinking he got cheated on or something, but this sounded different.. a lot more intense. Like I said it was very extreme, I wouldn't be surprised if he would charge at me if I made eye-contact with him.

So my friend said we would study today for an exam about a week ago, multiple times. Today i couldn't reach him until like 1:30pm. Turns out he's now studying with a bunch of other people in some place.. doesn't invite me there either. I'm like come on we need to study together.. and he said he *might* be able to make it here at like 7pm. I call him again later and say what time did you say again (as to make sure he doesn't forget) and now he says *maybe* really late like 8pm.. I get pissed and remind him we agreed to this a long time ago and he says he tried to tell me on msn and it isn't his fault because he couldn't reach me (this was like late last night). I just told him he's pathetic and hung up. We obviously had plans before any of his friends, and yet he uses the excuse that he's busy and it isn't his fault. He will never admit he did anything wrong.

Once more he constantly does stuff like this. He always stands me up and tells me last minute he can't do stuff we agreed to. I told him about it and he just argues with me and wont admit his fault to anything.

Am i taking this too seriously or is he just being a bad friend?

First worry about getting a date, then worry about how you'll get there.

As for dancing, prom dates usually dance with each other but that doesn't mean they dance "exclusively" with the other one. Usually a friend or an aqcuantance might come in and ask your date for a dance, it's prom after all it could be the last time you see your friends, why not dance? If you're going to dance something then i suggest you see hitch, the part where he teaches albert how to dance.

While not the best dancing moves it can help you keep the beat on most pop, rap songs besides....most of the lights will be off it's not like all eyes will be set on you.

Now if it's salsa we're talking about....then take some lessons because you need to be close to your partner on that one.

Darthkaiser

So I never went to semi formal and in other similar events I never really danced... even though I really wanted to. I think I would be ready to dance now though. Anyways, prom is coming up very shortly and not only do I not have a date, but I don't have a way to get there. Well, there's always parents, but isn't that kind of embarassing? Especially alone. I will try to ask some friends if they have any extra room in the time being.

Another question I have is about dancing. So I don't have a date, but of course I would like to dance with girls. Do prom dates usually dance solely with eachother for the entirety of the prom? How was your experience at prom? What was your situation going into it? Should I have trouble finding people to dance with?

[QUOTE="bertainpp7"]

Now I don't know if I'm attractive or not at all really. Some days I think I look good others not so much. Probably not so much considering I've never had a girl friend or been complimented on my looks. I'm just wondering what this might mean. I was waiting at a place and a girl and her friend passed by me. The one girl gave me a look I have never seen before. Its message was undoubtedly clear and focused with intention, again not like anyone has never looked at me before, and it left me speechless (figure of speech, I was by myself at the time). I'm not sure if she was mocking me with her friend or not, but regardless there was meaning to that stare. I thought okay probably making fun of me since I'm somewhat a loner. Anyways what should it mean when someone does this? Am I blowing it out of proportion or is this something? Let me state again I have been looked at many times before just randomly but this time was different. There was like a pause and then a very direct, personal and extended stare.

MrGeezer

1) Do you know any of the people who were present at the time?

2) Do you have any way of contacting any of them?

3) If the answer to questions 1 and 2 is "no", then why give a ****?

4) If you do indeed know the people, then you could, you know...maybe try TALKING TO THEM

Now I don't know if I'm attractive or not at all really. Some days I think I look good others not so much. Probably not so much considering I've never had a girl friend or been complimented on my looks. I'm just wondering what this might mean. I was waiting at a place and a girl and her friend passed by me. The one girl gave me a look I have never seen before. Its message was undoubtedly clear and focused with intention, again not like anyone has never looked at me before, and it left me speechless (figure of speech, I was by myself at the time). I'm not sure if she was mocking me with her friend or not, but regardless there was meaning to that stare. I thought okay probably making fun of me since I'm somewhat a loner. Anyways what should it mean when someone does this? Am I blowing it out of proportion or is this something? Let me state again I have been looked at many times before just randomly but this time was different. There was like a pause and then a very direct, personal and extended stare.

[QUOTE="bertainpp7"]I don't know if you remember me, but I made a bunch of posts about this girl I liked a lot. And I did ask her out and she rejected me. I'm not going to lie, it sucked big time, and things were awkward after and never the same. I can't help but feel bad about it. But then I remember the constant race my mind was in before I did anything, it was insanity. And all that thinking just stopped and slowly but surely I am moving on. You have no idea how hard that was for me to ask her, but I did it, and so can you.Solid_Tango