My grandmother said i should start masturbating everynight so that i will cure my acne since acne is linked to stress and masturbating releives stress

Is she correct?

[QUOTE="biggerdjam"][QUOTE="whipassmt"] Is your adoptive family okay with that? Also I don't think "real family" is the best term to use, particularly in front of your adoptive family.

whipassmt

My friend goes between his real family and his family that adopted all the time,dont see the problem Bucked20

Wow hating on the people that raised you and being racist about it.LJS9502_basic

[QUOTE="biggerdjam"][QUOTE="whipassmt"]

does your birth family live here in or Vietnam?

Once you're 18 you are legally an adult so you can legally live with either family if they let you or on your own if you can afford to do so.

For now I would advise you to talk to your adoptive parents about it, and if you want to contact your birth parents do so by phone or internet, then maybe you can arrange to visit them with your adoptive family some time, like a big get together.

whipassmt

I don't know if your birth parents may be willing to spend as much time with you, as you want to with them. They gave you up for adoption after all, and it has been 16 years.dramaybaz

does your birth family live here in or Vietnam?

Once you're 18 you are legally an adult so you can legally live with either family if they let you or on your own if you can afford to do so.

For now I would advise you to talk to your adoptive parents about it, and if you want to contact your birth parents do so by phone or internet, then maybe you can arrange to visit them with your adoptive family some time, like a big get together.

whipassmt

It's pretty f'ed up that you don't consider your adoptive parents as "real family".

Oleg_Huzwog

I am Vietnamese and the day i was born i was put up for adoption by my real parents and adopted by a white family. 

About 2 months ago, with the help of my vietnamese friend and HIS family and a paper my (white)mom got from the Hospital at the time of my adoption(dont ask why) with my REAL moms name and SSN on it, i found my real family.  Now i am 16 so i find myself pretty lucky about finding my real family....my blood, at age 16, seeing adoptee's not find their family unitl later on in their lives.

Now i dont want to leave my adopted family and go live with my real family, bc that would be a bitch move, but i would like it to be like switching back and fourth and living with my white family but staying with my real family when ever.  

They ARE my real family by blood and their are my people but how does this work out? Can they still be my family and do things AS family? like my real mom or dad bring me to the doctor or be considered part of the family?

And what happens when im 18? 

Like i know my adopted family is my family by law but what about my real family?

[QUOTE="The_Lipscomb"][QUOTE="Toph_Girl250"]Nothing helps Acne, it only goes away over time. Fightingfan