[QUOTE="drucom"]Preppy girls don't think of loner guys. Like, at all. Trust me, when they look at you, they aren't thinking about your (supposed) wonderfully-interesting personality. They aren't thinking whether you're some kind of deviant pervert. They don't think about you at all.
The moment you understand this is the moment you will realize you need to stop being a loner and get out there.
Brainkiller05
This guy just destroyed TCs life, but yea it needed to be said... I've seen quite a few topics were the TC is just deluded and somehow thinks people love them or w.e yet they couldn't be any wronger. and how is wronger not a word. "it needed to be said"...couldn't be more true if I had said so myself in my original post.
I was a loner in high-school, people didn't want to approach me because I was so introverted. But high-school was unimportant, it didn't matter.
When I got to college, I realized what a freaking loser I was for being so damn introverted, and how I had zero friends. It hit me so hard that I dropped out and decided to begin anew with a completely new view on life and what I had to do.
"Just do it". Truly words to live by. If you see a girl that interests you, go talk to her. Introduce yourself, maintain eye contact, compliment on something minor without coming off as a pervert. Don't just look for 'romantic' relationships. Build a group of friends and this 'romanticism' you're looking for will come more easily, though it won't happen by magic.
Don't just sit around wallowing in self-pity like I did when I was younger and far more stupid. Get up, REALLY set some goals and make a plan.
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