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#151 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"]

And the fact that when some sport star divorce he has to pay his ex wife 15k in child support

You don't need 15k a month

Epic__Lulz

Income/net worth plus factoring in what the spouse or the child is accustomed to in regards to lifestyle before the divorce ... if the person can afford it, that is how it is determined. Really... get a good lawyer and you can argue for almost anything.

It's ridiculous. It doesn't take over 150k a year to raise a child. Hey it's not my problem you divorced the breadwinner. Get a job. I could understand if its like 500 dollars a month but 15k CUT BACK your lifestyle , get a job and take care of your kid.

It's his kid as well. Why should the child suffer while dad parties (or mom if the case is reversed).

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#152 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]


Yeah I know it takes a lot of money to raise a kid and I know it takes a lot of time.
Yeah but I have seen facts and it's true that men have to pay more and they get called deadbeats just cause they can't pay for their kids sometime.

Not every man is like a CEO of a company.

joshrocks2245

Have you raised a child as a single parent? A deadbeat is someone that doesn't pay support on time or at all. Guess what....when a child is hungry he needs food. He doesn't need to hear a parent didn't pay.:|

No I haven't, but they say deadbeats are the men who sometimes can't pay for their kid. Yeah but the child does have food if he has his mom. Trust me the women and kid have plenty of money when a man pays child support.

Trust you? Based on what? A youtube video? If you still have both your parents with you... go and give them a hug and thank them for everything they have given you. It makes me a little sad knowing that you think it is that easy to raise a kid. When you face the reality of living on your own - having to pay for your own bills and your own things... ask yourself how much more difficult it would be when you have a little thing running around that you have to take care of - who most likely doesn't realize how much work you have put in so that they can search for things on youtube about deadbeat dads.

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#153 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

Yeah it is proven. Just watch this youtube video and you can see how these men get called deadbeat dads and the women make these men famous, and the men get hated just because they don't have a good job and they sometimes can't afford to pay for their kids.

Epic__Lulz

Youtube? Nope. Dude look kids need food, clothing, and shelter and I have no sympathy for a deadbeat parent that doesn't provide such. Courts set child support BASED ON INCOME. It is affordable for them to pay. Perhaps they shouldn't make babies they don't want to support.

It should be based on Income up to a point. Women should not get 15 k a month for 1 child

So a parent should have more money than they knows what to do with but god forbid the child gets it?:|

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#154 joshrocks2245
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Have you raised a child as a single parent? A deadbeat is someone that doesn't pay support on time or at all. Guess what....when a child is hungry he needs food. He doesn't need to hear a parent didn't pay.:|

LJS9502_basic

No I haven't, but they say deadbeats are the men who sometimes can't pay for their kid. Yeah but the child does have food if he has his mom. Trust me the women and kid have plenty of money when a man pays child support.

*sigh* It is the responsibility of BOTH parents to provide for the child. Not one. I'm not going to trust you. I know women that barely get any money for child support.

It doesn't matter if you don't trust me, I know what is the truth. Yeah maybe some women never get any money, but lots of women get tons of money. Even if the women has a great job and is making tons of money, the man still has to pay lots of money. The courts are always against the men, and they never take the side of men.

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#155 Epic__Lulz
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[QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"] Income/net worth plus factoring in what the spouse or the child is accustomed to in regards to lifestyle before the divorce ... if the person can afford it, that is how it is determined. Really... get a good lawyer and you can argue for almost anything. LJS9502_basic

It's ridiculous. It doesn't take over 150k a year to raise a child. Hey it's not my problem you divorced the breadwinner. Get a job. I could understand if its like 500 dollars a month but 15k CUT BACK your lifestyle , get a job and take care of your kid.

It's his kid as well. Why should the child suffer while dad parties (or mom if the case is reversed).

That's his choice. The father should provide 3/4 of the necessities for the child. If he doesnt want to be in the life of child that's fine. It doesn't even take 1k a month to raise 1 child. If it does you are doing something wrong

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#156 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

No I haven't, but they say deadbeats are the men who sometimes can't pay for their kid. Yeah but the child does have food if he has his mom. Trust me the women and kid have plenty of money when a man pays child support.

joshrocks2245

*sigh* It is the responsibility of BOTH parents to provide for the child. Not one. I'm not going to trust you. I know women that barely get any money for child support.

It doesn't matter if you don't trust me, I know what is the truth. Yeah maybe some women never get any money, but lots of women get tons of money. Even if the women has a great job and is making tons of money, the man still has to pay lots of money. The courts are always against the men, and they never take the side of men.

AGAIN... my dad was given custody of us. My mom was the one who had to pay child support. Only reason we ended up with our mom is because my dad realized that we'd be better off being raised by her than him. There is one great example that your case is not ALWAYS.
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#157 trix5817
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It seems that they are.
First of all lots, of people think men are evil if they defend them selves against a women. Fair enough. If a man is in a relationship and the women cheats usually people will still think the man is the bad person, and they will blame the man for the women cheating. Where the hell do you live? O_o
Also I've found out recently that there is a lot more attention payed to breast cancer then prostate cancer. Perhaps because breast cancer is more dangerous >_>

I feel like I am discriminated against, it's like if I get prostate cancer no one will help cause no one pays attention to it Apart from, you know, the doctor, if I get beat up by a women there is no shelter for men to go to. Lack of demand.
All the time I always hear about deadbeat dads who can't pay child support, um not all men have great jobs and they still have bills to pay and all kinds of other stuff. Asking men to support their own children? Appalling!

I was watching a youtube video and it was of a women beating up some man. She wasn't really beating him up it was fake, but they wanted to see how people would react.
So no one did anything, there was a women who cheered the other women on, and there was a cop who walked right by. The cop told someone that he didn't think the women could cause any harm to the man. Then the cop was asked "what if a man was beating up a women" and the cop said he would arrest the man.
So it's good to know if I am getting beat up that no one will help me, people say not to hit a women back but if a women is beating me up I will defend my self cause no one else will help. Honestly, the thing about defending yourself against a woman is pretty much the only thing I agree with here. U_U


So do you think men are discriminated against??

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#158 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

No I haven't, but they say deadbeats are the men who sometimes can't pay for their kid. Yeah but the child does have food if he has his mom. Trust me the women and kid have plenty of money when a man pays child support.

joshrocks2245

*sigh* It is the responsibility of BOTH parents to provide for the child. Not one. I'm not going to trust you. I know women that barely get any money for child support.

It doesn't matter if you don't trust me, I know what is the truth. Yeah maybe some women never get any money, but lots of women get tons of money. Even if the women has a great job and is making tons of money, the man still has to pay lots of money. The courts are always against the men, and they never take the side of men.

Wrong. There are men who have custody and the women pays BASED ON HER INCOME. You don't know the truth. I'm telling you the truth. It's very expensive to raise a child. You assume it's inexpensive and easy. That is not the case. And MOST people get paid way less than you are assuming. Not every child has a parent that is a CEO, sports star, or actor. Most people struggle.

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#159 Epic__Lulz
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[QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

Youtube? Nope. Dude look kids need food, clothing, and shelter and I have no sympathy for a deadbeat parent that doesn't provide such. Courts set child support BASED ON INCOME. It is affordable for them to pay. Perhaps they shouldn't make babies they don't want to support.

LJS9502_basic

It should be based on Income up to a point. Women should not get 15 k a month for 1 child

So a parent should have more money than they knows what to do with but god forbid the child gets it?:|

It's their choice. I am not for abandoning children but if it's their will then let them. All im getting at that it is not fair that the male should pay for the female to sit at home and raise a child when the father has to work when they are not together

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#160 joshrocks2245
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[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Have you raised a child as a single parent? A deadbeat is someone that doesn't pay support on time or at all. Guess what....when a child is hungry he needs food. He doesn't need to hear a parent didn't pay.:|

Sajedene

No I haven't, but they say deadbeats are the men who sometimes can't pay for their kid. Yeah but the child does have food if he has his mom. Trust me the women and kid have plenty of money when a man pays child support.

Trust you? Based on what? A youtube video? If you still have both your parents with you... go and give them a hug and thank them for everything they have given you. It makes me a little sad knowing that you think it is that easy to raise a kid. When you face the reality of living on your own - having to pay for your own bills and your own things... ask yourself how much more difficult it would be when you have a little thing running around that you have to take care of - who most likely doesn't realize how much work you have put in so that they can search for things on youtube about deadbeat dads.

Yeah cause the youtube video shows some women bashing men just because they sometimes can't pay for their child. Who said I think it's easy to raise a kid?? I never said that. I know it's hard for the women, but that doesn't mean the man should be paying thousands of dollars a month for the women and the kid. Does a kid really need that much money??
I know it's hard for the women but it's more hard for the man when hes living in a small apartment with no food and has no job.

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#161 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"]

It should be based on Income up to a point. Women should not get 15 k a month for 1 child

Epic__Lulz

So a parent should have more money than they knows what to do with but god forbid the child gets it?:|

It's their choice. I am not for abandoning children but if it's their will then let them. All im getting at that it is not fair that the male should pay for the female to sit at home and raise a child when the father has to work when they are not together

You have a skewed idea. Most non custodial parents are working as well. The child support is to help with the child. Not the adult.

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#162 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"]

It's ridiculous. It doesn't take over 150k a year to raise a child. Hey it's not my problem you divorced the breadwinner. Get a job. I could understand if its like 500 dollars a month but 15k CUT BACK your lifestyle , get a job and take care of your kid.

Epic__Lulz

It's his kid as well. Why should the child suffer while dad parties (or mom if the case is reversed).

That's his choice. The father should provide 3/4 of the necessities for the child. If he doesnt want to be in the life of child that's fine. It doesn't even take 1k a month to raise 1 child. If it does you are doing something wrong

Hmm... 2 weeks of groceries for me alone is at least 150$. Rent/mortgage for me to live in is $850+ a month. Utilities is 200+ a month. That's already over $1K just for me alone -- with no kid. I didn't even include misc. expenses, gas, car, cellphone, dog supplies, and god forbid maybe some money for a movie or something recreational.
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#163 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

No I haven't, but they say deadbeats are the men who sometimes can't pay for their kid. Yeah but the child does have food if he has his mom. Trust me the women and kid have plenty of money when a man pays child support.

joshrocks2245

Trust you? Based on what? A youtube video? If you still have both your parents with you... go and give them a hug and thank them for everything they have given you. It makes me a little sad knowing that you think it is that easy to raise a kid. When you face the reality of living on your own - having to pay for your own bills and your own things... ask yourself how much more difficult it would be when you have a little thing running around that you have to take care of - who most likely doesn't realize how much work you have put in so that they can search for things on youtube about deadbeat dads.

Yeah cause the youtube video shows some women bashing men just because they sometimes can't pay for their child. Who said I think it's easy to raise a kid?? I never said that. I know it's hard for the women, but that doesn't mean the man should be paying thousands of dollars a month for the women and the kid. Does a kid really need that much money??
I know it's hard for the women but it's more hard for the man when hes living in a small apartment with no food and has no job.

Housing, food, clothing, education, medicine, heat, electricity, entertainment.....the list goes on.

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#164 joshrocks2245
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[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]*sigh* It is the responsibility of BOTH parents to provide for the child. Not one. I'm not going to trust you. I know women that barely get any money for child support.

LJS9502_basic

It doesn't matter if you don't trust me, I know what is the truth. Yeah maybe some women never get any money, but lots of women get tons of money. Even if the women has a great job and is making tons of money, the man still has to pay lots of money. The courts are always against the men, and they never take the side of men.

Wrong. There are men who have custody and the women pays BASED ON HER INCOME. You don't know the truth. I'm telling you the truth. It's very expensive to raise a child. You assume it's inexpensive and easy. That is not the case. And MOST people get paid way less than you are assuming. Not every child has a parent that is a CEO, sports star, or actor. Most people struggle.

Yeah the women do not have to pay more though, thats why no body hears of a deadbeat mom, cause they can afford it. No I know the truth, some men have to pay thousands of dollars a month for the kids, does a kid really need thousands of dollars a month?? I don't think so.
No I know the truth dude, I've done lots of research and I know the facts.

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[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]*sigh* It is the responsibility of BOTH parents to provide for the child. Not one. I'm not going to trust you. I know women that barely get any money for child support.

Sajedene

It doesn't matter if you don't trust me, I know what is the truth. Yeah maybe some women never get any money, but lots of women get tons of money. Even if the women has a great job and is making tons of money, the man still has to pay lots of money. The courts are always against the men, and they never take the side of men.

AGAIN... my dad was given custody of us. My mom was the one who had to pay child support. Only reason we ended up with our mom is because my dad realized that we'd be better off being raised by her than him. There is one great example that your case is not ALWAYS.

But it is in most cases. Women mostly get custody of child

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#166 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

It doesn't matter if you don't trust me, I know what is the truth. Yeah maybe some women never get any money, but lots of women get tons of money. Even if the women has a great job and is making tons of money, the man still has to pay lots of money. The courts are always against the men, and they never take the side of men.

joshrocks2245

Wrong. There are men who have custody and the women pays BASED ON HER INCOME. You don't know the truth. I'm telling you the truth. It's very expensive to raise a child. You assume it's inexpensive and easy. That is not the case. And MOST people get paid way less than you are assuming. Not every child has a parent that is a CEO, sports star, or actor. Most people struggle.

Yeah the women do not have to pay more though, thats why no body hears of a deadbeat mom, cause they can afford it. No I know the truth, some men have to pay thousands of dollars a month for the kids, does a kid really need thousands of dollars a month?? I don't think so.
No I know the truth dude, I've done lots of research and I know the facts.

Dude I am telling you right now you are wrong. I raise a child ON MY OWN. How much do you think rent/mortgage is a month? That alone gets you up there.

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#167 Epic__Lulz
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]It's his kid as well. Why should the child suffer while dad parties (or mom if the case is reversed).

Sajedene

That's his choice. The father should provide 3/4 of the necessities for the child. If he doesnt want to be in the life of child that's fine. It doesn't even take 1k a month to raise 1 child. If it does you are doing something wrong

Hmm... 2 weeks of groceries for me alone is at least 150$. Rent/mortgage for me to live in is $850+ a month. Utilities is 200+ a month. That's already over $1K just for me alone -- with no kid. I didn't even include misc. expenses, gas, car, cellphone, dog supplies, and god forbid maybe some money for a movie or something recreational.

Women can get jobs this isnt 1800's. A father should not have to pay for HIS EX wife bills. Only when it comes to the child

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I believe men are simply where women were 100 years ago. Clearly I don't mean that literally - it's just the gender lines that prevented women from voting or even leaving the kitchen have been blurred. Men can be stay at home Dads. Women can seek high education and even become shapers of society. Men can now cry, women can now excel at professional sport. It's just, in my own opinion, MEN HAVE NEVER HAD A GENDER-DEFINING MOMENT. We never had to have suffrage to attain our male right to vote. We never burned bras in the name of women's lib. We have simply always been men, no matter how the accepted paradigms of that role have changed. I think it is the lack of truly earned idenitity that creates percieved repression. It's not repression, merely unequalled parity.
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[QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]It's his kid as well. Why should the child suffer while dad parties (or mom if the case is reversed).

Sajedene

That's his choice. The father should provide 3/4 of the necessities for the child. If he doesnt want to be in the life of child that's fine. It doesn't even take 1k a month to raise 1 child. If it does you are doing something wrong

Hmm... 2 weeks of groceries for me alone is at least 150$. Rent/mortgage for me to live in is $850+ a month. Utilities is 200+ a month. That's already over $1K just for me alone -- with no kid. I didn't even include misc. expenses, gas, car, cellphone, dog supplies, and god forbid maybe some money for a movie or something recreational.



Yeah and you know men have to pay for their own groceries and rent and everything else right?? Then they have to pay tons of money for their kids and the wife gets all the money so then the mother doesn't need to pay a lot of money for her kid, cause she already has the money from her husband.
Don't you think thats wrong??
What if I was stuck paying thousands of dollars a month for a kid with no job? Don't you think thats wrong???

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#170 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

It doesn't matter if you don't trust me, I know what is the truth. Yeah maybe some women never get any money, but lots of women get tons of money. Even if the women has a great job and is making tons of money, the man still has to pay lots of money. The courts are always against the men, and they never take the side of men.

Epic__Lulz

AGAIN... my dad was given custody of us. My mom was the one who had to pay child support. Only reason we ended up with our mom is because my dad realized that we'd be better off being raised by her than him. There is one great example that your case is not ALWAYS.

But it is in most cases. Women mostly get custody of child

Because given the situation of the divorce - which are usually between the two parents - the court will determine who is more fitting as a parent... now why they see it is their mother - well that is a case by case basis.
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#171 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"]

That's his choice. The father should provide 3/4 of the necessities for the child. If he doesnt want to be in the life of child that's fine. It doesn't even take 1k a month to raise 1 child. If it does you are doing something wrong

joshrocks2245

Hmm... 2 weeks of groceries for me alone is at least 150$. Rent/mortgage for me to live in is $850+ a month. Utilities is 200+ a month. That's already over $1K just for me alone -- with no kid. I didn't even include misc. expenses, gas, car, cellphone, dog supplies, and god forbid maybe some money for a movie or something recreational.



Yeah and you know men have to pay for their own groceries and rent and everything else right?? Then they have to pay tons of money for their kids and the wife gets all the money so then the mother doesn't need to pay a lot of money for her kid, cause she already has the money from her husband.
Don't you think thats wrong??
What if I was stuck paying thousands of dollars a month for a kid with no job? Don't you think thats wrong???

I think it's wrong to have a child and no job.

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#172 Epic__Lulz
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"] AGAIN... my dad was given custody of us. My mom was the one who had to pay child support. Only reason we ended up with our mom is because my dad realized that we'd be better off being raised by her than him. There is one great example that your case is not ALWAYS. Sajedene

But it is in most cases. Women mostly get custody of child

Because given the situation of the divorce - which are usually between the two parents - the court will determine who is more fitting as a parent... now why they see it is their mother - well that is a case by case basis.

women usually get it.

Unless the mother is proven to be a crack head or neglecter the father has no chance of getting

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[QUOTE="Sajedene"] Hmm... 2 weeks of groceries for me alone is at least 150$. Rent/mortgage for me to live in is $850+ a month. Utilities is 200+ a month. That's already over $1K just for me alone -- with no kid. I didn't even include misc. expenses, gas, car, cellphone, dog supplies, and god forbid maybe some money for a movie or something recreational. LJS9502_basic



Yeah and you know men have to pay for their own groceries and rent and everything else right?? Then they have to pay tons of money for their kids and the wife gets all the money so then the mother doesn't need to pay a lot of money for her kid, cause she already has the money from her husband.
Don't you think thats wrong??
What if I was stuck paying thousands of dollars a month for a kid with no job? Don't you think thats wrong???

I think it's wrong to have a child and no job.

Tell that to all the trashy people . Who just live off of welfare , get high and produce crack babies

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#174 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"] But it is in most cases. Women mostly get custody of child

Epic__Lulz

Because given the situation of the divorce - which are usually between the two parents - the court will determine who is more fitting as a parent... now why they see it is their mother - well that is a case by case basis.

women usually get it.

Unless the mother is proven to be a crack head or neglecter the father has no chance of getting

Usually is not always.;)

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#175 joshrocks2245
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[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Wrong. There are men who have custody and the women pays BASED ON HER INCOME. You don't know the truth. I'm telling you the truth. It's very expensive to raise a child. You assume it's inexpensive and easy. That is not the case. And MOST people get paid way less than you are assuming. Not every child has a parent that is a CEO, sports star, or actor. Most people struggle.

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Yeah the women do not have to pay more though, thats why no body hears of a deadbeat mom, cause they can afford it. No I know the truth, some men have to pay thousands of dollars a month for the kids, does a kid really need thousands of dollars a month?? I don't think so.
No I know the truth dude, I've done lots of research and I know the facts.

Dude I am telling you right now you are wrong. I raise a child ON MY OWN. How much do you think rent/mortgage is a month? That alone gets you up there.

Yeah it's a lot of money but you know the other parent has to pay for rent mortgage too.
But the women never has to pay a lot of money for child support, I know it's true.

I've never even heard of a deadbeat mom, but everyone loves to disrespect a deadbeat dad, all the time.

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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"]

That's his choice. The father should provide 3/4 of the necessities for the child. If he doesnt want to be in the life of child that's fine. It doesn't even take 1k a month to raise 1 child. If it does you are doing something wrong

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Hmm... 2 weeks of groceries for me alone is at least 150$. Rent/mortgage for me to live in is $850+ a month. Utilities is 200+ a month. That's already over $1K just for me alone -- with no kid. I didn't even include misc. expenses, gas, car, cellphone, dog supplies, and god forbid maybe some money for a movie or something recreational.



Yeah and you know men have to pay for their own groceries and rent and everything else right?? Then they have to pay tons of money for their kids and the wife gets all the money so then the mother doesn't need to pay a lot of money for her kid, cause she already has the money from her husband.
Don't you think thats wrong??
What if I was stuck paying thousands of dollars a month for a kid with no job? Don't you think thats wrong???

Is it my fault you have no job? So tell me... besides the fact that I (say I am a mom) have a full time job, with a kid, I work all day, pay all the bills and expenses, I also have to put food on the table for the kid, make breakfast for the kid, take it shopping for school clothes and supplies, and OMFG the kid has a cold and wakes up in the middle of the night with a fever so i gotta take it to the ER, then the kid has PTA so I gotta go do that, then he has football practice so I gotta go do that, watch his games, make sure he is passing his lessons but man that kid sucks at math so I gotta sit down with him after dinner and help him with his homework... and now that he's a teen he is pestering me for a cellphone and then he is going to want to start driving soon... or money to go out with his friends... etc etc etc... and all the dad has to do is give $1K a month? Don't you think that's wrong?

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#177 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"] But it is in most cases. Women mostly get custody of child

Epic__Lulz

Because given the situation of the divorce - which are usually between the two parents - the court will determine who is more fitting as a parent... now why they see it is their mother - well that is a case by case basis.

women usually get it.

Unless the mother is proven to be a crack head or neglecter the father has no chance of getting

My mom was not a crack head and was not neglectful. Custody was still given to my dad.
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#178 Epic__Lulz
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[QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"] Because given the situation of the divorce - which are usually between the two parents - the court will determine who is more fitting as a parent... now why they see it is their mother - well that is a case by case basis. LJS9502_basic

women usually get it.

Unless the mother is proven to be a crack head or neglecter the father has no chance of getting

Usually is not always.;)

I would say at least 90%

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#179 joshrocks2245
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[QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"] AGAIN... my dad was given custody of us. My mom was the one who had to pay child support. Only reason we ended up with our mom is because my dad realized that we'd be better off being raised by her than him. There is one great example that your case is not ALWAYS. Sajedene

But it is in most cases. Women mostly get custody of child

Because given the situation of the divorce - which are usually between the two parents - the court will determine who is more fitting as a parent... now why they see it is their mother - well that is a case by case basis.

Yeah don't you think thats wrong?? Usually everything is the mans fault.
If a women and a man get in a fight, it's the mans fault. If a women cheats on a man, it's the mans fault.
If a women and a man have a child together and the man has a job but the women doesn't and even if the women abuses the kid, she gets the kid.
Thats happened before too.

The court is never on the side of any man, unless the man is like Donald Trump or some rich millionaire, then maybe the father will get to keep the kid.

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#180 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

Yeah the women do not have to pay more though, thats why no body hears of a deadbeat mom, cause they can afford it. No I know the truth, some men have to pay thousands of dollars a month for the kids, does a kid really need thousands of dollars a month?? I don't think so.
No I know the truth dude, I've done lots of research and I know the facts.

joshrocks2245

Dude I am telling you right now you are wrong. I raise a child ON MY OWN. How much do you think rent/mortgage is a month? That alone gets you up there.

Yeah it's a lot of money but you know the other parent has to pay for rent mortgage too.
But the women never has to pay a lot of money for child support, I know it's true.

I've never even heard of a deadbeat mom, but everyone loves to disrespect a deadbeat dad, all the time.

AGAIN josh....support is based on income. Thus a mother would pay the same percentage of her income as a father would. Second....yes I have heard of deadbeat moms.

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#181 Epic__Lulz
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[QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"] Because given the situation of the divorce - which are usually between the two parents - the court will determine who is more fitting as a parent... now why they see it is their mother - well that is a case by case basis. Sajedene

women usually get it.

Unless the mother is proven to be a crack head or neglecter the father has no chance of getting

My mom was not a crack head and was not neglectful. Custody was still given to my dad.

Your dad is in the minority. Don't think it's any where near 50/50

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#182 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"] women usually get it.

Unless the mother is proven to be a crack head or neglecter the father has no chance of getting

Epic__Lulz

My mom was not a crack head and was not neglectful. Custody was still given to my dad.

Your dad is in the minority. Don't think it's any where near 50/50

That doesn't matter. Both parents are required to support the child.

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#183 joshrocks2245
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[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"] Hmm... 2 weeks of groceries for me alone is at least 150$. Rent/mortgage for me to live in is $850+ a month. Utilities is 200+ a month. That's already over $1K just for me alone -- with no kid. I didn't even include misc. expenses, gas, car, cellphone, dog supplies, and god forbid maybe some money for a movie or something recreational. Sajedene



Yeah and you know men have to pay for their own groceries and rent and everything else right?? Then they have to pay tons of money for their kids and the wife gets all the money so then the mother doesn't need to pay a lot of money for her kid, cause she already has the money from her husband.
Don't you think thats wrong??
What if I was stuck paying thousands of dollars a month for a kid with no job? Don't you think thats wrong???

Is it my fault you have no job? So tell me... besides the fact that I (say I am a mom) have a full time job, with a kid, I work all day, pay all the bills and expenses, I also have to put food on the table for the kid, make breakfast for the kid, take it shopping for school clothes and supplies, and OMFG the kid has a cold and wakes up in the middle of the night with a fever so i gotta take it to the ER, then the kid has PTA so I gotta go do that, then he has football practice so I gotta go do that, watch his games, make sure he is passing his lessons but man that kid sucks at math so I gotta sit down with him after dinner and help him with his homework... and now that he's a teen he is pestering me for a cellphone and then he is going to want to start driving soon... or money to go out with his friends... etc etc etc... and all the dad has to do is give $1K a month? Don't you think that's wrong?

It's not your fault but I mean it's not easy to find a job these days with no school. Well I know its' a lot of work for the women, but I think it's more wrong that a man has to pay thousands of dollars (it's more then 1k) for a kid that he can't even see, the wife usually doesn't want her deadbeat husband to see her kid. Don't you think thats wrong??
You don't think it's wrong a man has to pay so much money for his kid?? Why does a kid need that much money?? Please tell me that.

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#184 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"] But it is in most cases. Women mostly get custody of child

joshrocks2245

Because given the situation of the divorce - which are usually between the two parents - the court will determine who is more fitting as a parent... now why they see it is their mother - well that is a case by case basis.

Yeah don't you think thats wrong?? Usually everything is the mans fault.
If a women and a man get in a fight, it's the mans fault. If a women cheats on a man, it's the mans fault.
If a women and a man have a child together and the man has a job but the women doesn't and even if the women abuses the kid, she gets the kid.
Thats happened before too.

The court is never on the side of any man, unless the man is like Donald Trump or some rich millionaire, then maybe the father will get to keep the kid.

http://www.fatherscustody.org/

And from a lawyers site....

http://www.gitlin.com/pages/questions/qa_custody.html#Q1

How's that for a little research.

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#185 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

Yeah and you know men have to pay for their own groceries and rent and everything else right?? Then they have to pay tons of money for their kids and the wife gets all the money so then the mother doesn't need to pay a lot of money for her kid, cause she already has the money from her husband.
Don't you think thats wrong??
What if I was stuck paying thousands of dollars a month for a kid with no job? Don't you think thats wrong???

joshrocks2245

Is it my fault you have no job? So tell me... besides the fact that I (say I am a mom) have a full time job, with a kid, I work all day, pay all the bills and expenses, I also have to put food on the table for the kid, make breakfast for the kid, take it shopping for school clothes and supplies, and OMFG the kid has a cold and wakes up in the middle of the night with a fever so i gotta take it to the ER, then the kid has PTA so I gotta go do that, then he has football practice so I gotta go do that, watch his games, make sure he is passing his lessons but man that kid sucks at math so I gotta sit down with him after dinner and help him with his homework... and now that he's a teen he is pestering me for a cellphone and then he is going to want to start driving soon... or money to go out with his friends... etc etc etc... and all the dad has to do is give $1K a month? Don't you think that's wrong?

It's not your fault but I mean it's not easy to find a job these days with no school. Well I know its' a lot of work for the women, but I think it's more wrong that a man has to pay thousands of dollars (it's more then 1k) for a kid that he can't even see, the wife usually doesn't want her deadbeat husband to see her kid. Don't you think thats wrong??
You don't think it's wrong a man has to pay so much money for his kid?? Why does a kid need that much money?? Please tell me that.

Uh...you know the courts order visitation as well.:|

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#186 Sajedene
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[QUOTE="Sajedene"]

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

Yeah and you know men have to pay for their own groceries and rent and everything else right?? Then they have to pay tons of money for their kids and the wife gets all the money so then the mother doesn't need to pay a lot of money for her kid, cause she already has the money from her husband.
Don't you think thats wrong??
What if I was stuck paying thousands of dollars a month for a kid with no job? Don't you think thats wrong???

joshrocks2245

Is it my fault you have no job? So tell me... besides the fact that I (say I am a mom) have a full time job, with a kid, I work all day, pay all the bills and expenses, I also have to put food on the table for the kid, make breakfast for the kid, take it shopping for school clothes and supplies, and OMFG the kid has a cold and wakes up in the middle of the night with a fever so i gotta take it to the ER, then the kid has PTA so I gotta go do that, then he has football practice so I gotta go do that, watch his games, make sure he is passing his lessons but man that kid sucks at math so I gotta sit down with him after dinner and help him with his homework... and now that he's a teen he is pestering me for a cellphone and then he is going to want to start driving soon... or money to go out with his friends... etc etc etc... and all the dad has to do is give $1K a month? Don't you think that's wrong?

It's not your fault but I mean it's not easy to find a job these days with no school. Well I know its' a lot of work for the women, but I think it's more wrong that a man has to pay thousands of dollars (it's more then 1k) for a kid that he can't even see, the wife usually doesn't want her deadbeat husband to see her kid. Don't you think thats wrong??
You don't think it's wrong a man has to pay so much money for his kid?? Why does a kid need that much money?? Please tell me that.

Because kids are expensive... and as you yourself have worded... IT IS HIS KID.

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#187 joshrocks2245
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[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Dude I am telling you right now you are wrong. I raise a child ON MY OWN. How much do you think rent/mortgage is a month? That alone gets you up there.

LJS9502_basic

Yeah it's a lot of money but you know the other parent has to pay for rent mortgage too.
But the women never has to pay a lot of money for child support, I know it's true.

I've never even heard of a deadbeat mom, but everyone loves to disrespect a deadbeat dad, all the time.

AGAIN josh....support is based on income. Thus a mother would pay the same percentage of her income as a father would. Second....yes I have heard of deadbeat moms.

No it's not based on income. It's based on how much the kid needs, I've heard cases that the women makes the man pay a certain amount of money every month.
The women are not forced to pay the certain amount, show me that the women has had to pay a lot of money for her kids.

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#188 Epic__Lulz
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[QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"] My mom was not a crack head and was not neglectful. Custody was still given to my dad. LJS9502_basic

Your dad is in the minority. Don't think it's any where near 50/50

That doesn't matter. Both parents are required to support the child.

That is true. Father supports fiancially. Im not arguing the father should not have to pay. Im arguing some of the ridiculous rulings when it comes to women getting paid extreme amounts of moneys

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#189 LJS9502_basic
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No it's not based on income. It's based on how much the kid needs, I've heard cases that the women makes the man pay a certain amount of money every month.
The women are not forced to pay the certain amount, show me that the women has had to pay a lot of money for her kids.

joshrocks2245

You heard a case? Not exactly proof. The courts look at income dude. If mom has custody she has to pay for the child...just not court mandated. And as I've tried to get through to you....kids are very expensive and being the custodial parent generally (unless one was with a millionaire) costs more.

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#190 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"]

Your dad is in the minority. Don't think it's any where near 50/50

Epic__Lulz

That doesn't matter. Both parents are required to support the child.

That is true. Father supports fiancially. Im not arguing the father should not have to pay. Im arguing some of the ridiculous rulings when it comes to women getting paid extreme amounts of moneys

The child is considered to be entitled to a percentage of income. That is why.

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#191 joshrocks2245
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@LJ: Yeah but not if the guy is a deadbeat, and sometimes I've heard that the women moves away and doesn't tell the man where shes living.

@Saje: Yeah it's her kid too so why doesn't she have to pay a lot of money for her kid?? She already has lots of money from her husband.
People always act like it's the mans fault if a child is born and doesn't have money, the women creates a child too you know.

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@LJ: Yeah but not if the guy is a deadbeat, and sometimes I've heard that the women moves away and doesn't tell the man where shes living.

@Saje: Yeah it's her kid too so why doesn't she have to pay a lot of money for her kid?? She already has lots of money from her husband.
People always act like it's the mans fault if a child is born and doesn't have money, the women creates a child too you know.

joshrocks2245

Right... and since the guy is paying the money... that means she has the child with her... and insert here EVERYTHING else she has to do besides financially supporting the child. We're like going in circles here... what don't you get?

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#193 LJS9502_basic
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@LJ: Yeah but not if the guy is a deadbeat, and sometimes I've heard that the women moves away and doesn't tell the man where shes living.

@Saje: Yeah it's her kid too so why doesn't she have to pay a lot of money for her kid?? She already has lots of money from her husband.
People always act like it's the mans fault if a child is born and doesn't have money, the women creates a child too you know.

joshrocks2245

That is wrong. When visitation is set by the courts it has to be abided by. If the partner is a deadbeat they go back to court and dad can be jailed but she cannot unilaterally stop visitation.

I'd imagine that is rare since SHE WANTS CHILD SUPPORT.

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[QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]That doesn't matter. Both parents are required to support the child.

LJS9502_basic

That is true. Father supports fiancially. Im not arguing the father should not have to pay. Im arguing some of the ridiculous rulings when it comes to women getting paid extreme amounts of moneys

The child is considered to be entitled to a percentage of income. That is why.

It should be a max amount of dollars per child. Depending on the child physical and mental state. Fathers should pay for 3/4 quarters but no pay the mother to raise the child. No women or man should get 15k for a child

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No it's not based on income. It's based on how much the kid needs, I've heard cases that the women makes the man pay a certain amount of money every month.
The women are not forced to pay the certain amount, show me that the women has had to pay a lot of money for her kids.

LJS9502_basic

You heard a case? Not exactly proof. The courts look at income dude. If mom has custody she has to pay for the child...just not court mandated. And as I've tried to get through to you....kids are very expensive and being the custodial parent generally (unless one was with a millionaire) costs more.

Yeah it is proof because I am not lying, it's a proven fact. Yeah and if the man can't pay all the money he gets sent to jail and he has to pay more and all that stuff. There was a man who killed him self because he had no money left because he had to pay so much for child support.
Do you think thats wrong?? And don't say it's his fault because he brought a child into the world, the women is also responsible for bringing the child into the world.

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#196 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]

[

No it's not based on income. It's based on how much the kid needs, I've heard cases that the women makes the man pay a certain amount of money every month.
The women are not forced to pay the certain amount, show me that the women has had to pay a lot of money for her kids.

joshrocks2245

You heard a case? Not exactly proof. The courts look at income dude. If mom has custody she has to pay for the child...just not court mandated. And as I've tried to get through to you....kids are very expensive and being the custodial parent generally (unless one was with a millionaire) costs more.

Yeah it is proof because I am not lying, it's a proven fact. Yeah and if the man can't pay all the money he gets sent to jail and he has to pay more and all that stuff. There was a man who killed him self because he had no money left because he had to pay so much for child support.
Do you think thats wrong?? And don't say it's his fault because he brought a child into the world, the women is also responsible for bringing the child into the world.

Where are these proven facts because I have family and friends that get very little from the dad for their children.

Again what I think is wrong is for a parent NOT to provide for their child. Deadbeats get NO sympathy from me. I don't want to have to raise their child through my tax dollars because they are not working. I have my own child to raise thank you very much.

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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"]

It's ridiculous. It doesn't take over 150k a year to raise a child. Hey it's not my problem you divorced the breadwinner. Get a job. I could understand if its like 500 dollars a month but 15k CUT BACK your lifestyle , get a job and take care of your kid.

Epic__Lulz

It's his kid as well. Why should the child suffer while dad parties (or mom if the case is reversed).

That's his choice. The father should provide 3/4 of the necessities for the child. If he doesnt want to be in the life of child that's fine. It doesn't even take 1k a month to raise 1 child. If it does you are doing something wrong

Are you kidding? You got to support yourself to, pay rent, pay utilities, pay for food, a thousand a month is very little...In fact that's near the poverty level in America I think for a medium sized family.
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@LJ: Yeah see the deatbeat is jailed because he couldn't pay all the child support. That isn't wrong?? Then the wife doesn't let the man see his own child.
I see why some men kill them selves, they get screwed over by the courts and it makes me sick.

@Saje: Yeah but she has all the money from the husband, she may have to take care of the kid but at least she can see it.

You guys don't see any male discrimination do you?? Theres so much proof and it's so easy to find, all kinds of males are always discriminated against.
You know I used to think all deadbeat dads were all horrible men until I heard of the myth of the deadbeat dad, all people think that men have great jobs and can pay thousands of dollars a month for their kid.
I'll never ever try to have kids, I never want to be screwed over by the courts.

It seems to be a womens world, not a mans.

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#199 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="Epic__Lulz"]That is true. Father supports fiancially. Im not arguing the father should not have to pay. Im arguing some of the ridiculous rulings when it comes to women getting paid extreme amounts of moneys

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The child is considered to be entitled to a percentage of income. That is why.

It should be a max amount of dollars per child. Depending on the child physical and mental state. Fathers should pay for 3/4 quarters but no pay the mother to raise the child. No women or man should get 15k for a child

They get a max percentage of dad's/mom's money. Why should dad/mom not have to provide? If they have a high payment they make lots of money. Would you rather it be spent on a new care every year? With the so called excess money they can put the money aside to pay for college since a parent is under no obligation to pay and all support ceases at 18 or 19 at the latest if still in high school.

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@LJ: Yeah see the deatbeat is jailed because he couldn't pay all the child support. That isn't wrong?? Then the wife doesn't let the man see his own child.
I see why some men kill them selves, they get screwed over by the courts and it makes me sick.

@Saje: Yeah but she has all the money from the husband, she may have to take care of the kid but at least she can see it.

You guys don't see any male discrimination do you?? Theres so much proof and it's so easy to find, all kinds of males are always discriminated against.
You know I used to think all deadbeat dads were all horrible men until I heard of the myth of the deadbeat dad, all people think that men have great jobs and can pay thousands of dollars a month for their kid.
I'll never ever try to have kids, I never want to be screwed over by the courts.

It seems to be a womens world, not a mans.

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Providing for the child is NOT discrimination. Period.