Do Transexuals have the right to go out with straight people not telling them?

So do transexuals have the right to go out with a straight person, or getting with a straight person in a club without telling them?

I think they are the opposite sex now and should be treated as equals, so yeah they don't have to reveal it to anyone.

No because it's a trap.

Its clearly a big part of their past, so yes, it should be brought up. It won't be a secret for long anyway.

i think that is should be a crime for a tranny to sleep/be in a relationship with someone without them knowing

i think that is should be a crime for a tranny to sleep/be in a relationship with someone without them knowing

g_unot1994

Thats like a really manly woman being arrested for being in a relationship with a gay dude without telling him.... It shouldn't be a crime, Just really heavily frowned upon.

I think people who say transgendered people should just run up and tell every potential date about their past is either foolish or naive or both.

i think that is should be a crime for a tranny to sleep/be in a relationship with someone without them knowing

g_unot1994

We don't make laws to protect insecure men.

No because it's a trap.

shoot-first

Yeah thats just straight evil. I have nothing against transexuals but tricking people like that is a one way ticket to you know where. Ive heard horror stories of people who were married to transexuals for years without knowing and when they finally did find out all hell broke loose. I feel like if your a transexual and you have no prolems with what you are then you shouldn't be afraid to tell people. Building relationships off lies is not only a good way to ruin your life but that of others as well.

I think it's best they tell someone before things get intimate, it might not be easy or even fun to do but it'll be less fun if the other person finds out after a long time together and then potentially leaves.Treflis

But technically they're a woman or a man now, so they should have the same rights as everyone else. So whats the need for them to tell a potential partner they're transgendered, when in theory they are that sex now.Our society has accepted gays and it's only a matter of time when transgendered people are recognised for the sex they are.

I think it's best they tell someone before things get intimate, it might not be easy or even fun to do but it'll be less fun if the other person finds out after a long time together and then potentially leaves.Treflis

I'm just amazed people don't see the danger in this. Murders and assault directed at transgender folk are rather common. You're almost asking to get murdered by some psychotic wanna-be alpha male if you go around telling everyone you're interested in that you used to be male. It's not just some upsetting thing to go through, it's potentially life threatening.

[QUOTE="shoot-first"]

No because it's a trap.

Gen007

Yeah thats just straight evil. I have nothing against transexuals but tricking people like that is a one way ticket to you know where. Ive heard horror stories of people who were married to transexuals for years without knowing and when they finally did find out all hell broke loose. I feel like if your a transexual and you have no prolems with what you are then you shouldn't be afraid to tell people. Building relationships off lies is not only a good way to ruin your life but that of others as well.

I actually really doubt there are people who were "married to transexuals for years!" without knowing.

I don't tell everyone my past and I don't see why they should. Should I tell every potential date that I was born with irritable bowels and once had a wart?

lol... like you wouldn't know with out being told.

until they can do something about big mens and adam's apple trannies will always stand out like a giraffe in dark glasses trying to sneak in to a poplar bear's only party

[QUOTE="Treflis"]I think it's best they tell someone before things get intimate, it might not be easy or even fun to do but it'll be less fun if the other person finds out after a long time together and then potentially leaves.caribo2222

But technically they're a woman or a man now, so they should have the same rights as everyone else. So whats the need for them to tell a potential partner they're transgendered, when in theory they are that sex now.Our society has accepted gays and it's only a matter of time when transgendered people are recognised for the sex they are.

I personally dont see what this has to do with right's. There's no law that say's they have to tell people is there? The real issue here is a moral one and not telling makes that person the worst type of liar imo.

[QUOTE="Treflis"]I think it's best they tell someone before things get intimate, it might not be easy or even fun to do but it'll be less fun if the other person finds out after a long time together and then potentially leaves.caribo2222

But technically they're a woman or a man now, so they should have the same rights as everyone else. So whats the need for them to tell a potential partner they're transgendered, when in theory they are that sex now.Our society has accepted gays and it's only a matter of time when transgendered people are recognised for the sex they are.

[QUOTE="g_unot1994"]

i think that is should be a crime for a tranny to sleep/be in a relationship with someone without them knowing

Pixel-Pirate

We don't make laws to protect insecure men.

You don't have to be insecure to be upset at jumping into bed with what you thought was a woman, but turns out to be a man.

[QUOTE="Gen007"]

[QUOTE="shoot-first"]

No because it's a trap.

Pixel-Pirate

Yeah thats just straight evil. I have nothing against transexuals but tricking people like that is a one way ticket to you know where. Ive heard horror stories of people who were married to transexuals for years without knowing and when they finally did find out all hell broke loose. I feel like if your a transexual and you have no prolems with what you are then you shouldn't be afraid to tell people. Building relationships off lies is not only a good way to ruin your life but that of others as well.

I actually really doubt there are people who were "married to transexuals for years!" without knowing.

I don't tell everyone my past and I don't see why they should. Should I tell every potential date that I was born with irritable bowels and once had a wart?

There are and there have actually been tv specials done on the very subject. It happens different ways. Sometimes they just never have sex for various reasons other times its because the person really did look so much like the opposite sex and with a sex change the other person really couldn't tell. Often times they get away with it to but some decide to flip flop back and forth between the sexes.

[QUOTE="Treflis"]I think it's best they tell someone before things get intimate, it might not be easy or even fun to do but it'll be less fun if the other person finds out after a long time together and then potentially leaves.Pixel-Pirate

I'm just amazed people don't see the danger in this. Murders and assault directed at transgender folk are rather common. You're almost asking to get murdered by some psychotic wanna-be alpha male if you go around telling everyone you're interested in that you used to be male. It's not just some upsetting thing to go through, it's potentially life threatening.

If you are going to conduct a relationship with someone, then it's best not to withhold information that they might find very important. For their sake and yours.

transexuals are disguisting and should be put to death. NO MERCY FOR THE TRANNIES!

g_unot1994

It's like if you went to your favourite sandwich shop and bought your favourite sandwich, but then after one bite you realised the sandwich was all pickle and nuts instead of honey glazed ham. You'd rightly be upset at the sandwich shop proprietor for not telling you he'd just switched up the ingredients in your usual, but that doesn't mean we have to draw up a sandwich components bill to deal with the kind of thing - it should just be common sense.

It's like if you went to your favourite sandwich shop and bought your favourite sandwich, but then after one bite you realised the sandwich was all pickle and nuts and no ham. You'd rightly be upset at the sandwich shop proprietor for not telling you he'd just switched up the ingredients in your usual, but that doesn't mean we have to draw up a sandwich components bill to deal with the kind of thing - it should just be common sense.jimmyjammer69

Yep. They're allowed to find out if they like and trust the other person first, before unloading all of their personal secrets, just like everyone else.

It's a complicated game on their behalf, not a lot of people are accepting of them. It isn't right to lead someone on but it's difficult to admit who you truly are to someone that you have just met. I wouldn't say it is a right but I can understand a transsexual's apprehension in admitting their true selves. A lot of people don't even understand what a transsexual is, and it's easy to blame society for suppressing that information from schools and communities.

It's far too controversial of an issue to have a defiant answer on because there is no right or wrong way of really going about such a sensitive issue. It's best to have an open mind in the dating game and not to hurt someone else's feelings regardless of gender or origin.

[QUOTE="caribo2222"]

[QUOTE="Treflis"]I think it's best they tell someone before things get intimate, it might not be easy or even fun to do but it'll be less fun if the other person finds out after a long time together and then potentially leaves.Treflis

But technically they're a woman or a man now, so they should have the same rights as everyone else. So whats the need for them to tell a potential partner they're transgendered, when in theory they are that sex now.Our society has accepted gays and it's only a matter of time when transgendered people are recognised for the sex they are.

It's either you get hit in the bar... OR you reveal it in the bedroom while he/she is intoxicated and you still get the pleasure WIN/WIN!

I think it's best they tell someone before things get intimate, it might not be easy or even fun to do but it'll be less fun if the other person finds out after a long time together and then potentially leaves.Treflis

[QUOTE="Treflis"][QUOTE="caribo2222"]

But technically they're a woman or a man now, so they should have the same rights as everyone else. So whats the need for them to tell a potential partner they're transgendered, when in theory they are that sex now.Our society has accepted gays and it's only a matter of time when transgendered people are recognised for the sex they are.

frostybanana

[QUOTE="Treflis"]I think it's best they tell someone before things get intimate, it might not be easy or even fun to do but it'll be less fun if the other person finds out after a long time together and then potentially leaves.Pixel-Pirate

I'm just amazed people don't see the danger in this. Murders and assault directed at transgender folk are rather common. You're almost asking to get murdered by some psychotic wanna-be alpha male if you go around telling everyone you're interested in that you used to be male. It's not just some upsetting thing to go through, it's potentially life threatening.

And if you're a transgendered person, I hope that you're only involved in one-night-stands.

If you keep on seeing the person, that ENORMOUSLY increases the chances of them finding out about you anyway. And if you're worried about getting assaulted or murdered, then what's going to be more likely to result in you getting assaulted or murdered? Telling the person that you're transsexual BEFORE getting heavily involved with them, or having them find out about you AFTER they've been sleeping with you for the better part of a year?

I think it should be a crime. It's considered rape if you sneak into a woman's bedroom in the dark and have sex with her pretending to be her husband/boyfriend/whatever. She doesn't know. She thinks it's someone else. Rape.

Its quite a big part of your life, so you can't just pretend that you were never a man.

If its a serious relationship (or they want it to become serious) then they should tell their partner.

I took a women's studies c|ass in college, where I learned that looking at a women the wrong way is sexual assault, so I'm pretty sure tricking someone into letting them feel you up when you're a different gender is too.

AFAIK, people even have the right to lie (there are exceptions of course).

Just because the secret is very disgusting to some people doesnt mean that changes the above fact.

Not to many trannies are going to get dates when they tell guys they used to or had a penis Have to tell before sex.

How would it go down?"Excuse me sir, I have a penis Or "Ma'am, do you have a penis or a vagina Do you have both? Did you ever surgically alter your appearance and or gender?"

If youhook-up with woman you have known since grade school you don't have to worry.

Not to many trannies are going to get dates when they tell guys they used to or had a penis Have to tell before sex.

majrankin

Exactly, people have to realise that when a man changes into a woman, he is a woman. The past is the past and it doesn't have to be brought up. I'm gay but i don't have to tell everybody now do i?

So do transexuals have the right to go out with a straight person, or getting with a straight person in a club without telling them?

I think they are the opposite sex now and should be treated as equals, so yeah they don't have to reveal it to anyone.

caribo2222

[QUOTE="caribo2222"]

So do transexuals have the right to go out with a straight person, or getting with a straight person in a club without telling them?

I think they are the opposite sex now and should be treated as equals, so yeah they don't have to reveal it to anyone.

GuitarPAaron

No still haven't posted a pic. Do you agree that when a man has a sex change he is a woman?, why don't people realise this.