Do You Tip the Waiter or Deliveryman?

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#351 daqua_99
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I'll put this to you.

I work in a supermarket stacking shelves (fruit and veg). A customer comes up to me and asks for a smaller piece of pumpkin. I go out back and cut the pumpkin for her. She says thanks, and leaves. I've performed a service that is within my job description and I got nothing extra for it.

However, if I'm a waiter, get the order correct, serve it to the customers, ask them for drinks every so often, and hand them the bill, I expect a tip? I'm doing what my job entails me to do, but I expect something extra for simply doing my job.

Catch my drift? If you do it for one industry you should do it for every industry.

Note: I'm Australian.

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You will be paid by the employer to fulfill the entire job description. Waiters and delivery drivers are paid LESS due to tips. So no...it's not the same thing at all.

But here they are paid the exact same amount, between $15 and $18 an hour, the minimum wage

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#352 BluRayHiDef
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[QUOTE="daqua_99"]

I'll put this to you.

I work in a supermarket stacking shelves (fruit and veg). A customer comes up to me and asks for a smaller piece of pumpkin. I go out back and cut the pumpkin for her. She says thanks, and leaves. I've performed a service that is within my job description and I got nothing extra for it.

However, if I'm a waiter, get the order correct, serve it to the customers, ask them for drinks every so often, and hand them the bill, I expect a tip? I'm doing what my job entails me to do, but I expect something extra for simply doing my job.

Catch my drift? If you do it for one industry you should do it for every industry.

Note: I'm Australian.

LJS9502_basic

You will be paid by the employer to fulfill the entire job description. Waiters and delivery drivers are paid LESS due to tips. So no...it's not the same thing at all.

Here's an idea, why not just pay waiters and deliverymen the same way other types of employees are paid?

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#353 dunl12496
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I wouldn't give him three dollars! Maybe a buck or so.

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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="daqua_99"]

I'll put this to you.

I work in a supermarket stacking shelves (fruit and veg). A customer comes up to me and asks for a smaller piece of pumpkin. I go out back and cut the pumpkin for her. She says thanks, and leaves. I've performed a service that is within my job description and I got nothing extra for it.

However, if I'm a waiter, get the order correct, serve it to the customers, ask them for drinks every so often, and hand them the bill, I expect a tip? I'm doing what my job entails me to do, but I expect something extra for simply doing my job.

Catch my drift? If you do it for one industry you should do it for every industry.

Note: I'm Australian.

BluRayHiDef

You will be paid by the employer to fulfill the entire job description. Waiters and delivery drivers are paid LESS due to tips. So no...it's not the same thing at all.

Here's an idea, why not just pay waiters and deliverymen the same way other types of employees are paid?

that's fine, but then your chinese food would have been 8.97$.

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#355 daqua_99
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that's fine, but then your chinese food would have been 8.97$.

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If I could get a quality Chinese meal for that price I would be stoked

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#356 BluRayHiDef
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[QUOTE="BluRayHiDef"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] You will be paid by the employer to fulfill the entire job description. Waiters and delivery drivers are paid LESS due to tips. So no...it's not the same thing at all.

sonicare

Here's an idea, why not just pay waiters and deliverymen the same way other types of employees are paid?

that's fine, but then your chinese food would have been 8.97$.

Fine. My point is that waiters and deliveryman should be paid just like any other employee, by their EMPLOYER from the business' budget and profits. It's stupid to rely on the customer to pick up on the business' slack. Stupid. Stupid. Stupid.

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#357 VigilantEagle
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If they give good service I will tip them very generously and if they are not that great I give them a cheap tip.
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[QUOTE="BluRayHiDef"]

[QUOTE="sonicare"]

[QUOTE="BluRayHiDef"]

Here's an idea, why not just pay waiters and deliverymen the same way other types of employees are paid?

that's fine, but then your chinese food would have been 8.97$.

Fine. My point is that waiters and deliveryman should be paid just like any other employee, by their EMPLOYER from the business' budget and profits. It's stupid to rely on the customer to pick up on the business' slack. Stupid. Stupid. Stupid.

That's the point of a service industry. People get a tip based on their performance. If the waiter does a horrible job, you don't tip.
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I tip decently I guess. There's a 15% charge on top of restaurant meals (auto tip) but it's kind of customary to tip on top of that. I'm usually only with one other person so we aren't there long and we aren't hard to serve. I tip delivery drivers around $5, or whatever number I can round it up to that I don't have to wait for them to give me change. There's a delivery charge, but that usually barely covers gas.
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#360 kittensRjerks
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I tip for both usually 15-20%, less if the service sucked.

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#361 BluRayHiDef
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[QUOTE="BluRayHiDef"]

[QUOTE="sonicare"] that's fine, but then your chinese food would have been 8.97$.

sonicare

Fine. My point is that waiters and deliveryman should be paid just like any other employee, by their EMPLOYER from the business' budget and profits. It's stupid to rely on the customer to pick up on the business' slack. Stupid. Stupid. Stupid.

That's the point of a service industry. People get a tip based on their performance. If the waiter does a horrible job, you don't tip.

No. They should be paid by the hour. If they perform poorly, they should just be fired, like any other employee. The entire concept of tipping is stupid.

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#362 TreebucketLumi
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But the fact of the matter is, at least in the US, waiters don't get paid the same amount. They rely on tips, like it or not. Just because you think it's stupid doesn't mean it's not the truth, and basing your principles off of NOT THE TRUTH is especially stupid.

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#363 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="BluRayHiDef"]

[QUOTE="sonicare"][QUOTE="BluRayHiDef"]

Fine. My point is that waiters and deliveryman should be paid just like any other employee, by their EMPLOYER from the business' budget and profits. It's stupid to rely on the customer to pick up on the business' slack. Stupid. Stupid. Stupid.

That's the point of a service industry. People get a tip based on their performance. If the waiter does a horrible job, you don't tip.

No. They should be paid by the hour. If they perform poorly, they should just be fired, like any other employee. The entire concept of tipping is stupid.

You do know that the customer pays for EVERYTHING right? ...the Employer pays for nothing (when it comes down to it) So you can either: a. be forced to pay a set amount...tip is included in wage...so business adds cost to the food...you have no control in how much you pay for food...less motivation to provide GREAT service b/c pay is set (just give 'good enough' service to keep job) or b. pay what you feel is the right amount for a tip based on quality of service provided...keep some control over the situation Either way, you pay for it all I prefer to have some control and have the added motivation
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rofl itt blurayhidef can afford high definition but is too poor to chip in a few bucks at dinner. I guess some people just don't have priorities so sad
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#365 rawsavon
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Bluray posted a thread about his skin condition. We all said he should go to the doctor (sounded bad)...but he said he could not afford it ...then someone posted his blog about a $2,000 PC After that, people did not seem as interested in helping. Most of us have money...life is just about choices and allocations
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"]Bluray posted a thread about his skin condition. We all said he should go to the doctor (sounded bad)...but he said he could not afford it ...then someone posted his blog about a $2,000 PC After that, people did not seem as interested in helping. Most of us have money...life is just about choices and allocations

yeah definitely. Don't buy a stupid tv or PC until you have enough money to buy several of them at once. That's been my motto forever. Don't buy luxury stuff until you can afford more than one at that moment.
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Bluray posted a thread about his skin condition. We all said he should go to the doctor (sounded bad)...but he said he could not afford it ...then someone posted his blog about a $2,000 PC After that, people did not seem as interested in helping. Most of us have money...life is just about choices and allocationsrawsavon

C'mon, man. I can't even make a thread without you turning it into a personal issue about me. That really wasn't necessary. I officially do not like you and will not respond to any of your posts. I ask politely that you never post in any of my threads ever again.

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[QUOTE="rawsavon"]Bluray posted a thread about his skin condition. We all said he should go to the doctor (sounded bad)...but he said he could not afford it ...then someone posted his blog about a $2,000 PC After that, people did not seem as interested in helping. Most of us have money...life is just about choices and allocationsBluRayHiDef

C'mon, man. I can't even make a thread without you turning it into a personal issue about me. That really wasn't necessary. I officially do not like you and will not respond to any of your posts. I ask politely that you never post in any of my threads ever again.

rofl WATCH OUT RAWSAVON. someone DISLIKES you on the INTERNET
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#369 BluRayHiDef
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rofl itt blurayhidef can afford high definition but is too poor to chip in a few bucks at dinner. I guess some people just don't have priorities so sadJandurin

This has nothing to do with not having enough money for food. I've said numerous times that I don't care about the TOTAL price of the food/ service, just that the "tipping" fee should be included in the service charge since people treat tips as if they are mandatory. My point is that why should tipping be optional if people are frowned upon for taking the option of not tipping? This could all be avoided if they'd just pay waiters and deliverymen the same way they pay other employees, this way they don't have to rely on the subjectivity of the customer. I wouldn't mind if my dinner costs a few dollars more; I just think the concept of tipping is stupid for the aforementioned reason. So, basically, it's not about the money per se, it's about the idea of making something optional even though people are ridiculed for taking the option most people don't.

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#370 FragStains
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This last page of the thread has been the best one yet. I can't wait to see the next page.
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[QUOTE="BluRayHiDef"]

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]Bluray posted a thread about his skin condition. We all said he should go to the doctor (sounded bad)...but he said he could not afford it ...then someone posted his blog about a $2,000 PC After that, people did not seem as interested in helping. Most of us have money...life is just about choices and allocationsJandurin

C'mon, man. I can't even make a thread without you turning it into a personal issue about me. That really wasn't necessary. I officially do not like you and will not respond to any of your posts. I ask politely that you never post in any of my threads ever again.

rofl WATCH OUT RAWSAVON. someone DISLIKES you on the INTERNET

Eh, I'm just going to assume that you're some sarcastic jackass who likes to poke fun at people. You've yet to add anything substantive to this thread. All you've done is criticize me...for the wrong reason (as explained in my most previous post). I officially don't like you either. Buzz off.

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This thread has gone from "Eh.. I posted in here yesterday, I should check the new responses" to F5 F5 F5
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This last page of the thread has been the best one yet. I can't wait to see the next page.FragStains

Wow, it seems as if anyone above level 40 likes to either incite drama, or instigate it. Sad, just sad. I made this thread just to see other people's opinions on this matter and to exchange ideas on it. I didn't make it so that someone could bring something completely irrelevant (my PC and my skin) into the conversation. What the hell does my PC and my skin have to do with this thread? Nothing. As I've already said, it's not about the money; it's about the principle: Giving the customer and option, but ridiculing him for taking the option you don't want him to take. That's just plain stupid.

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Eh, I'm just going to assume that you're some sarcastic jackass who likes to poke fun at people. You've yet to add anything substantive to this thread. All you've done is criticize me...for the wrong reason (as explained in my most previous post). I officially don't like you either. Buzz off.

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You're half right. I posted plenty of serious posts to people that had real questions or misunderstandings. You, on the other hand, understand how it works and are just whinging about how you have to pay SOME AMOUNT OF YOUR OWN DISCRETION to fulfill what should be the TOTAL COST. You just don't like having to make decisions and would probably prefer to be seen as a jerk for paying nothing extra than for paying too little extra because of what tipping TOO LITTLE implies.
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This thread has gone from "Eh.. I posted in here yesterday, I should check the new responses" to F5 F5 F5Atmanix
This is so going to the YLYL ^0^

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[QUOTE="rawsavon"]Bluray posted a thread about his skin condition. We all said he should go to the doctor (sounded bad)...but he said he could not afford it ...then someone posted his blog about a $2,000 PC After that, people did not seem as interested in helping. Most of us have money...life is just about choices and allocationsBluRayHiDef

C'mon, man. I can't even make a thread without you turning it into a personal issue about me. That really wasn't necessary. I officially do not like you and will not respond to any of your posts. I ask politely that you never post in any of my threads ever again.

It went with what was said above my post :? ...it supported that we all have money...but we just have to make choices when allocating (eating out, Dr. visit, C, etc) -so it was just a support statement to an assertion Also, I posted an on-topic response to your post on this page As for the other stuff: I can't believe that you don't like me :( But as for posting...I will post in w/e interests me. If you wish to avoid certain people posting in your topics, you could always do a blog and set your profile to private (so that only friends can comment). But if you post a topic in a public forum, it is open season to all users here
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I'm just going to assume that you're some sarcastic jackass ...I officially don't like you either. Buzz off.

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Why don't you like Jand.? I thought you would like the fact that many people find your topic to be interesting/entertaining
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I don't know why, but it bothers me when people leave no tip or a measly tip. If I cannot afford to tip, then I don't go out to eat. If I can't afford to pay the delivery man for my pizza, thern I go pick it up myslf.
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"]Bluray posted a thread about his skin condition. We all said he should go to the doctor (sounded bad)...but he said he could not afford it ...then someone posted his blog about a $2,000 PC After that, people did not seem as interested in helping. Most of us have money...life is just about choices and allocationsBluRayHiDef

C'mon, man. I can't even make a thread without you turning it into a personal issue about me. That really wasn't necessary. I officially do not like you and will not respond to any of your posts. I ask politely that you never post in any of my threads ever again.

:lol: Fantastic. This is going in my sig right now.

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[QUOTE="BluRayHiDef"]

[QUOTE="sonicare"][QUOTE="BluRayHiDef"]

Fine. My point is that waiters and deliveryman should be paid just like any other employee, by their EMPLOYER from the business' budget and profits. It's stupid to rely on the customer to pick up on the business' slack. Stupid. Stupid. Stupid.

That's the point of a service industry. People get a tip based on their performance. If the waiter does a horrible job, you don't tip.

No. They should be paid by the hour. If they perform poorly, they should just be fired, like any other employee. The entire concept of tipping is stupid.

The concept is not stupid at all. It rewards performance. In the end, the consumer pays for what he or she wants. This way you have more control over that. Some people don't like tipping because they are uncertain of when to tip or how much to tip, but that doesn't make it "stupid". I suspect you feel it's stupid because IYO it adds a few more dollars to the cost of something, but in reality, it probably lowers the overall cost.
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I don't know why, but it bothers me when people leave no tip or a measly tip. If I cannot afford to tip, then I don't go out to eat. If I can't afford to pay the delivery man for my pizza, thern I go pick it up myslf.Travo_basic
This is a smart man...and one that I respect. Proper allocation of personal resources is something many people choose not to do these days...our grandparents would be sad :(
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I don't know why, but it bothers me when people leave no tip or a measly tip. If I cannot afford to tip, then I don't go out to eat. If I can't afford to pay the delivery man for my pizza, thern I go pick it up myslf.Travo_basic
If I get terrible service I give 5%. Normal service gets 15% and great service can get up to 25%. The current system forces waitstaff to perform their duties in order to be rewarded, therefore I will give a measly tip if their service is horrible. Unfortunately, some waitstaff forget about how the system is intended to work and assume they are entitled to 20% gratuity even they didn't come get our drink order for 10 minutes, got the food order wrong, gave an attitude when asked (politely) to please have the meal corrected or amended, and took forever to bring the check.
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I don't know why, but it bothers me when people leave no tip or a measly tip. If I cannot afford to tip, then I don't go out to eat. If I can't afford to pay the delivery man for my pizza, thern I go pick it up myslf.Travo_basic
That's my thoughts. If I don't want to pay the delivery tip, I pick it up. If I want the convenience of having it delivered to me, then I will have to pay more for that. Simple concept.
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#384 BluRayHiDef
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[QUOTE="BluRayHiDef"]

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]Bluray posted a thread about his skin condition. We all said he should go to the doctor (sounded bad)...but he said he could not afford it ...then someone posted his blog about a $2,000 PC After that, people did not seem as interested in helping. Most of us have money...life is just about choices and allocationscybrcatter

C'mon, man. I can't even make a thread without you turning it into a personal issue about me. That really wasn't necessary. I officially do not like you and will not respond to any of your posts. I ask politely that you never post in any of my threads ever again.

:lol: Fantastic. This is going in my sig right now.

No it's not. It's forbidden in the TOU to put quotes into your signature without the attributer's consent. Guess what? I don't give you consent to put my quote into your signature. So, forget about it. Don't you just love the TOU?

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[QUOTE="Travo_basic"]I don't know why, but it bothers me when people leave no tip or a measly tip. If I cannot afford to tip, then I don't go out to eat. If I can't afford to pay the delivery man for my pizza, thern I go pick it up myslf.FragStains
If I get terrible service I give 5%. Normal service gets 15% and great service can get up to 25%. The current system forces waitstaff to perform their duties in order to be rewarded, therefore I will give a measly tip if their service is horrible. Unfortunately, some waitstaff forget about how the system is intended to work and assume they are entitled to 20% gratuity even they didn't come get our drink order for 10 minutes, got the food order wrong, gave an attitude when asked (politely) to please have the meal corrected or amended, and took forever to bring the check.

that's appropriate. though my bad tip is 10% i don't eat out enough to have had an experience that was 5%... except maybe once, but it was at a sandwich place, not quite the same
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#386 FragStains
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[QUOTE="Travo_basic"]I don't know why, but it bothers me when people leave no tip or a measly tip. If I cannot afford to tip, then I don't go out to eat. If I can't afford to pay the delivery man for my pizza, thern I go pick it up myslf.sonicare
That's my thoughts. If I don't want to pay the delivery tip, I pick it up. If I want the convenience of having it delivered to me, then I will have to pay more for that. Simple concept.

Here's a question: Some places charge a 'delivery fee'...does that not cover the convenience of being delivered to? Am I obligated to subsidize the delivery person specifically? I pay for the food. I pay for the delivery (as the restaurant has established). What further responsibility do I have?
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[QUOTE="BluRayHiDef"]

[QUOTE="cybrcatter"]

[QUOTE="BluRayHiDef"]

C'mon, man. I can't even make a thread without you turning it into a personal issue about me. That really wasn't necessary. I officially do not like you and will not respond to any of your posts. I ask politely that you never post in any of my threads ever again.

:lol: Fantastic. This is going in my sig right now.

No it's not. It's forbidden in the TOU to put quotes into your signature with the attributer's consent. Guess what? I don't give you consent to put my quote into your signature. So, forget about it. Don't you just love the TOU?

Cybr did not say he was going to use it on THIS site
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[QUOTE="cybrcatter"]

[QUOTE="BluRayHiDef"]

C'mon, man. I can't even make a thread without you turning it into a personal issue about me. That really wasn't necessary. I officially do not like you and will not respond to any of your posts. I ask politely that you never post in any of my threads ever again.

BluRayHiDef

:lol: Fantastic. This is going in my sig right now.

No it's not. It's forbidden in the TOU to put quotes into your signature with the attributer's consent. Guess what? I don't give you consent to put my quote into your signature. So, forget about it. Don't you just love the TOU?

Please play the game properly.
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[QUOTE="FragStains"][QUOTE="Travo_basic"]I don't know why, but it bothers me when people leave no tip or a measly tip. If I cannot afford to tip, then I don't go out to eat. If I can't afford to pay the delivery man for my pizza, thern I go pick it up myslf.Jandurin
If I get terrible service I give 5%. Normal service gets 15% and great service can get up to 25%. The current system forces waitstaff to perform their duties in order to be rewarded, therefore I will give a measly tip if their service is horrible. Unfortunately, some waitstaff forget about how the system is intended to work and assume they are entitled to 20% gratuity even they didn't come get our drink order for 10 minutes, got the food order wrong, gave an attitude when asked (politely) to please have the meal corrected or amended, and took forever to bring the check.

that's appropriate. though my bad tip is 10% i don't eat out enough to have had an experience that was 5%... except maybe once, but it was at a sandwich place, not quite the same

I rarely go below 10-15%.
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[QUOTE="cybrcatter"]

[QUOTE="BluRayHiDef"]

C'mon, man. I can't even make a thread without you turning it into a personal issue about me. That really wasn't necessary. I officially do not like you and will not respond to any of your posts. I ask politely that you never post in any of my threads ever again.

BluRayHiDef

:lol: Fantastic. This is going in my sig right now.

No it's not. It's forbidden in the TOU to put quotes into your signature with the attributer's consent. Guess what? I don't give you consent to put my quote into your signature. So, forget about it. Don't you just love the TOU?

Bwahahahahaaaaaaa! :lol: oh man, this made my day.
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="BluRayHiDef"]

[QUOTE="cybrcatter"] :lol: Fantastic. This is going in my sig right now.

No it's not. It's forbidden in the TOU to put quotes into your signature with the attributer's consent. Guess what? I don't give you consent to put my quote into your signature. So, forget about it. Don't you just love the TOU?

Cybr did not say he was going to use it on THIS site

Well I was, but I'll just use it over there instead.
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[QUOTE="FragStains"][QUOTE="Travo_basic"]I don't know why, but it bothers me when people leave no tip or a measly tip. If I cannot afford to tip, then I don't go out to eat. If I can't afford to pay the delivery man for my pizza, thern I go pick it up myslf.Jandurin
If I get terrible service I give 5%. Normal service gets 15% and great service can get up to 25%. The current system forces waitstaff to perform their duties in order to be rewarded, therefore I will give a measly tip if their service is horrible. Unfortunately, some waitstaff forget about how the system is intended to work and assume they are entitled to 20% gratuity even they didn't come get our drink order for 10 minutes, got the food order wrong, gave an attitude when asked (politely) to please have the meal corrected or amended, and took forever to bring the check.

that's appropriate. though my bad tip is 10% i don't eat out enough to have had an experience that was 5%... except maybe once, but it was at a sandwich place, not quite the same

TBH I have NEVER had BAD service. I have had 'meh' service and really slow cooks (like an hour wait post order)...then it was about 10% tip
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[QUOTE="sonicare"][QUOTE="Travo_basic"]I don't know why, but it bothers me when people leave no tip or a measly tip. If I cannot afford to tip, then I don't go out to eat. If I can't afford to pay the delivery man for my pizza, thern I go pick it up myslf.FragStains
That's my thoughts. If I don't want to pay the delivery tip, I pick it up. If I want the convenience of having it delivered to me, then I will have to pay more for that. Simple concept.

Here's a question: Some places charge a 'delivery fee'...does that not cover the convenience of being delivered to? Am I obligated to subsidize the delivery person specifically? I pay for the food. I pay for the delivery (as the restaurant has established). What further responsibility do I have?

If they charge a delivery fee, I will usually deduct that from the total tip depending on the size of the delivery charge. That's part of the reason I don't get delivery, because of weird things like that.
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[QUOTE="Travo_basic"] This is a smart man...and one that I respect. Proper allocation of personal resources is something many people choose not to do these days...our grandparents would be sad :(rawsavon
My mom has gotten weird like that. If a server doesn't refill her tea within minutes, no tip. :? I hope I never get that cranky.
[QUOTE="Travo_basic"]I don't know why, but it bothers me when people leave no tip or a measly tip. If I cannot afford to tip, then I don't go out to eat. If I can't afford to pay the delivery man for my pizza, thern I go pick it up myslf.sonicare
That's my thoughts. If I don't want to pay the delivery tip, I pick it up. If I want the convenience of having it delivered to me, then I will have to pay more for that. Simple concept.

Guess it depends on what is important to people, time or money. Sure, you could save money driving to pick it up, but what about time lost, gas used? Personaly, I like the convenience of staying at home, being able to clean up, relax, etc., while waiting on my food.
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="FragStains"]If I get terrible service I give 5%. Normal service gets 15% and great service can get up to 25%. The current system forces waitstaff to perform their duties in order to be rewarded, therefore I will give a measly tip if their service is horrible. Unfortunately, some waitstaff forget about how the system is intended to work and assume they are entitled to 20% gratuity even they didn't come get our drink order for 10 minutes, got the food order wrong, gave an attitude when asked (politely) to please have the meal corrected or amended, and took forever to bring the check. rawsavon
that's appropriate. though my bad tip is 10% i don't eat out enough to have had an experience that was 5%... except maybe once, but it was at a sandwich place, not quite the same

TBH I have NEVER had BAD service. I have had 'meh' service and really slow cooks (like an hour wait post order)...then it was about 10% tip

The trick is to ascertain what is under the control of the server and what is not. Obviously, a long wait for the food to come out is most likely not the server's fault.
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Jandurin"] that's appropriate. though my bad tip is 10% i don't eat out enough to have had an experience that was 5%... except maybe once, but it was at a sandwich place, not quite the sameFragStains
TBH I have NEVER had BAD service. I have had 'meh' service and really slow cooks (like an hour wait post order)...then it was about 10% tip

The trick is to ascertain what is under the control of the server and what is not. Obviously, a long wait for the food to come out is most likely not the server's fault.

No...of course not. But they usually spilt tips. So it was a decrease for both people (same as cooks benefits from great service). That is also why I have never gone under 10%
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[QUOTE="sonicare"][QUOTE="Travo_basic"]I don't know why, but it bothers me when people leave no tip or a measly tip. If I cannot afford to tip, then I don't go out to eat. If I can't afford to pay the delivery man for my pizza, thern I go pick it up myslf.FragStains
That's my thoughts. If I don't want to pay the delivery tip, I pick it up. If I want the convenience of having it delivered to me, then I will have to pay more for that. Simple concept.

Here's a question: Some places charge a 'delivery fee'...does that not cover the convenience of being delivered to? Am I obligated to subsidize the delivery person specifically? I pay for the food. I pay for the delivery (as the restaurant has established). What further responsibility do I have?

I've had that as well. If they charge a delivery fee, then usually you don't need to tip.
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I've given nothing several times, but it was deserved. I generally tip 15%, but some days I'm better with math than others.

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I've given nothing several times, but it was deserved. I generally tip 15%, but some days I'm better with math than others.

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I was with someone who gave nothing, but I totally agreed at that time. I think we had to get the bill from the manager lol (that of course being on top of everything else).