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#1 Ugalde-
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I can barely talk to them. I've had one girlfriend in my life at 19 years old. I worked with her so it was easier for me to nab her. I tend to not be ableto get the courage to ask a girl out. When I finally do I normally suck at it and get rejected. The worst part is I started working out a year and 3 months because I was angry that a girl that I worked with was so out of my league and I have not gotten any better at this.

Drives me crazy.

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#2 lancea34
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How good I am? Yesterday I finally said to this girl what I felt for her. Thing is I had to get drunk to do it, otherwise I would never have found the courage to do so.

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That's a bummer.

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I can barely talk to them. I've had one girlfriend in my life at 19 years old. I worked with her so it was easier for me to nab her. I tend to not be ableto get the courage to ask a girl out. When I finally do I normally suck at it and get rejected. The worst part is I started working out a year and 3 months because I was angry that a girl that I worked with was so out of my league and I have not gotten any better at this.

Drives me crazy.

Ugalde-

The girlfriends I've had were either friends at school before being my girlfriend or someone I meet near where I live. Girls in the outside world tend to have something that makes you feel shy to not talk to them. I sometimes have that with girls. Sometimes it's easier than I thought it would be. It's weird.

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#5 ps3theJT
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Ok I'm not afraid to speak to girls although I do get rejected alot but it w/e to me.

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#6 DeadMan1290
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How good I am? Yesterday I finally said to this girl what I felt for her. Thing is I had to get drunk to do it, otherwise I would never have found the courage to do so.

lancea34

I think being drunk is the best way of doing it.:|

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#7 DeadMan1290
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Ok I'm not afraid to speak to girls although I do get rejected alot but it w/e to me.

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There's a phrase that was used alot at an old job I once had: ''Every ''no'' gets you closer to a ''Yes''.''

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#8 lancea34
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[QUOTE="lancea34"]

How good I am? Yesterday I finally said to this girl what I felt for her. Thing is I had to get drunk to do it, otherwise I would never have found the courage to do so.

DeadMan1290

I think being drunk is the best way of doing it.:|



That depends. Sometimes you might not get taken seriously and it's just overally embarassing.

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#9 Ugalde-
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Ok I'm not afraid to speak to girls although I do get rejected alot but it w/e to me.

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Thats awesome.
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#10 br0kenrabbit
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I don't have any problem talking to women. If I'm interested in them, I let them know. Even if I'm not, I can still easily strike up conversation with them just as easily as I can with a man.

I never understood what the big deal is. It's not like they're a different species or anything.

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#11 TwoFace-BS
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Im OK I guess:|. But I do have a tendency to get slapped though:P
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#12 m25105
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Good enough to know you should stay away from girls and focus on women.
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#13 Ugalde-
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I don't have any problem talking to women. If I'm interested in them, I let them know. Even if I'm not, I can still easily strike up conversation with them just as easily as I can with a man.

I never understood what the big deal is. It's not like they're a different species or anything.

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Lol I cant even talk to other guys. I'm very anti social.
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#14 CHOASXIII
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I can talk to girls as in just talking to them but I have never asked one out or had a girlfriend. I am foreveralone.jpg
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#15 br0kenrabbit
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[QUOTE="br0kenrabbit"]

I don't have any problem talking to women. If I'm interested in them, I let them know. Even if I'm not, I can still easily strike up conversation with them just as easily as I can with a man.

I never understood what the big deal is. It's not like they're a different species or anything.

Ugalde-

Lol I cant even talk to other guys. I'm very anti social.

Small talk is universal. Nothing complicated.

"What happened to winter? Feels like spring!"

"Hey, do you know so-and-so? I've seen you around a bit."

"So I noticed you like Radiohead. What's your fav song?"

"Where do you get your hair done? That looks good. I'm needing a haircut, mine's all unruly."

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#16 br0kenrabbit
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I can talk to girls as in just talking to them but I have never asked one out or had a girlfriend. I am foreveralone.jpgCHOASXIII

I've never asked a girl out. I'll get to talking to them for a bit, maybe asked if they've ate, if they say no I may just grab their hand and say something like "we'll have to take care of that, come on let's go get some pizza." And just start walking.

If they've ate, it's a movie. Grab their hand and say "Still room for popcorn, let's go see a movie."

Sure sometimes they pull away, but it works often enough.

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#17 Wolf-Man2006
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Well I have more experience with girls than blow-up dolls :cool:

In fact just go out with women than girls, at least women have a life of their own

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#18 metroidprime55
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I'm not afraid to talk to them but I'm afraid to ask them out.
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#19 DeadMan1290
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[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]I can talk to girls as in just talking to them but I have never asked one out or had a girlfriend. I am foreveralone.jpgbr0kenrabbit

I've never asked a girl out. I'll get to talking to them for a bit, maybe asked if they've ate, if they say no I may just grab their hand and say something like "we'll have to take care of that, come on let's go get some pizza." And just start walking.

If they've ate, it's a movie. Grab their hand and say "Still room for popcorn, let's go see a movie."

Sure sometimes they pull away, but it works often enough.

That's actually good. I always ask them if they ate too, it works most of the time. Girls like that.

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#20 almasdeathchild
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pretty smooth no fear,just look at them as a normal human being and just chat

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#21 DeadMan1290
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pretty smooth no fear,just look at them as a normal human being and just chat

almasdeathchild

But, women are not like us. They're more advanced and harder to deal with!:o

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#22 br0kenrabbit
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But, women are not like us. They're more advanced and harder to deal with!:o

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Lies and propaganda! :P

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#23 gamerguru100
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I can barely talk to them. I've had one girlfriend in my life at 19 years old. I worked with her so it was easier for me to nab her. I tend to not be ableto get the courage to ask a girl out. When I finally do I normally suck at it and get rejected. The worst part is I started working out a year and 3 months because I was angry that a girl that I worked with was so out of my league and I have not gotten any better at this.

Drives me crazy.

Ugalde-

I'm 19 and haven't had one girlfriend.

fff

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#24 Fightingfan
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I just speak to them like any other person, I get shy one in a while, but I can still go up to her and say 'hey, what's up'.
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#25 deactivated-5d1cb98d088e5
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How good I am? Yesterday I finally said to this girl what I felt for her. Thing is I had to get drunk to do it, otherwise I would never have found the courage to do so.

lancea34

Did it work?

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#26 themajormayor
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[QUOTE="Ugalde-"]

I can barely talk to them. I've had one girlfriend in my life at 19 years old. I worked with her so it was easier for me to nab her. I tend to not be ableto get the courage to ask a girl out. When I finally do I normally suck at it and get rejected. The worst part is I started working out a year and 3 months because I was angry that a girl that I worked with was so out of my league and I have not gotten any better at this.

Drives me crazy.

gamerguru100

I'm 19 and haven't had one girlfriend.

fff

I can explain why you're brain is such a troll

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#27 gamerguru100
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[QUOTE="gamerguru100"]

[QUOTE="Ugalde-"]

I can barely talk to them. I've had one girlfriend in my life at 19 years old. I worked with her so it was easier for me to nab her. I tend to not be ableto get the courage to ask a girl out. When I finally do I normally suck at it and get rejected. The worst part is I started working out a year and 3 months because I was angry that a girl that I worked with was so out of my league and I have not gotten any better at this.

Drives me crazy.

themajormayor

I'm 19 and haven't had one girlfriend.

I can explain why you're brain is such a troll

Do tell.

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#28 SaudiFury
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5 girlfriends. and i know for a fact i'll never master the 'art' of understanding women.

admittadely i got some initial awkwardness and some communication problems. but going up and talking to a girl and asking one out. not a problem.

the thing i keep in mind, which is easier for me then it is for others, is to simply remember this.

the worst that can happen is her saying "no".

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#29 themajormayor
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[QUOTE="themajormayor"]

[QUOTE="gamerguru100"] I'm 19 and haven't had one girlfriend.

gamerguru100

I can explain why you're brain is such a troll

Do tell.

It's biological. Back in the day humans lived in flocks of let's say 50 people. Let's say 10 of those are fertile healthy women. The thing is those 10 are pretty much owned by the alpha male. So by asking a girl you risk rejection (which was much worse since there's only 10 women that tell each other, so you pretty much only get one chance), but even worse you risk getting killed by the alpha male! So what you fear is not only rejection (and your genes dying out) but DEATH!! It's death fear!! It's like the same reaction as when something really scary happens.
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#30 IustitiaMaximus
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My greatest failing. Man, I could justkick myself really hard sometimes.

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Okay, but way better then I was 5 years ago.

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#32 CKYguy25
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Ok I'm not afraid to speak to girls although I do get rejected alot but it w/e to me.

ps3theJT

thats right, just shrug it to the side, and try again on someone else

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#33 almasdeathchild
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[QUOTE="almasdeathchild"]

pretty smooth no fear,just look at them as a normal human being and just chat

DeadMan1290

But, women are not like us. They're more advanced and harder to deal with!:o

nah :cool:

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#34 lancea34
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[QUOTE="lancea34"]

How good I am? Yesterday I finally said to this girl what I felt for her. Thing is I had to get drunk to do it, otherwise I would never have found the courage to do so.

BATTOSAI76

Did it work?



Did what work? :|

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#35 Ugalde-
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[QUOTE="BATTOSAI76"]

[QUOTE="lancea34"]

How good I am? Yesterday I finally said to this girl what I felt for her. Thing is I had to get drunk to do it, otherwise I would never have found the courage to do so.

lancea34

Did it work?



Did what work? :|

Really? What did she say when you told her how you felt?

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I'm slick. Like,http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_WmqVfgoeP4

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#37 lancea34
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[QUOTE="lancea34"]

[QUOTE="BATTOSAI76"]

Did it work?

Ugalde-



Did what work? :|

Really? What did she say when you told her how you felt?

That's the point, I can't remember exactly what she said. All I remember is talking about politics, religion and science but can't remember if it was before or after telling her how I felt for her.

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[QUOTE="Ugalde-"]

[QUOTE="lancea34"]

Did what work? :|

lancea34

Really? What did she say when you told her how you felt?

That's the point, I can't remember exactly what she said. All I remember is talking about politics, religion and science but can't remember if it was before or after telling her how I felt for her.

Oh. It would be even more awkward but maybe you should ask her what she said.

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#39 lancea34
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[QUOTE="lancea34"]

[QUOTE="Ugalde-"] Really? What did she say when you told her how you felt?

BATTOSAI76

That's the point, I can't remember exactly what she said. All I remember is talking about politics, religion and science but can't remember if it was before or after telling her how I felt for her.

Oh. It would be even more awkward but maybe you should ask her what she said.

Knowing myself, I would need to get drunk again to find the courage to ask her what she said. :lol:

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#40 deactivated-5d1cb98d088e5
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[QUOTE="BATTOSAI76"]

[QUOTE="lancea34"]

That's the point, I can't remember exactly what she said. All I remember is talking about politics, religion and science but can't remember if it was before or after telling her how I felt for her.

lancea34

Oh. It would be even more awkward but maybe you should ask her what she said.

Knowing myself, I would need to get drunk again to find the courage to ask her what she said. :lol:

But then you'd forget again.:o

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#41 lancea34
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[QUOTE="lancea34"]

[QUOTE="BATTOSAI76"]

Oh. It would be even more awkward but maybe you should ask her what she said.

BATTOSAI76

Knowing myself, I would need to get drunk again to find the courage to ask her what she said. :lol:

But then you'd forget again.:o



Oh yeah... :| I forgot about that. :lol: :lol: :lol:

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#42 tetrim
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I only get a long with certain girls.

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#43 deactivated-5d1cb98d088e5
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[QUOTE="BATTOSAI76"]

[QUOTE="lancea34"]

Knowing myself, I would need to get drunk again to find the courage to ask her what she said. :lol:

lancea34

But then you'd forget again.:o



Oh yeah... :| I forgot about that. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Well maybe you can judge where you stand based on her reaction next time you see her. If she's like "hey baby" then your in, if not then look for other ques. Of coures this is coming from a guy with no experiance.:P

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Wet on the spot. :cool:

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#45 deactivated-5a9b3f32ef4e9
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I'm terrible. My only experience with girls is looking at them.

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#47 themajormayor
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I'm terrible. My only experience with girls is looking at them.

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Well at least you've seen a girl!
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#48 deactivated-5a9b3f32ef4e9
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[QUOTE="Postmortem123"]

I'm terrible. My only experience with girls is looking at them.

themajormayor

Well at least you've seen a girl!

Yeah I guess I shouldn't complain :P

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#49 DeadMan1290
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[QUOTE="DeadMan1290"]They're more advancedcheese_game619
You're a f*ckwit.

Yeah, and it's hard for you to understand what I meant.

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#50 Fightingfan
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[QUOTE="cheese_game619"][QUOTE="DeadMan1290"]They're more advancedDeadMan1290

You're a f*ckwit.

Yeah, and it's hard for you to understand what I meant.

Women aren't more advance. How many women presidents have we had? Point exactly.