i cant get girflfriends

[QUOTE="Frame_Dragger"][QUOTE="Spam_Pics"] i said i can talk to girls and i do, been rejected 4 times, i dont have problems socializing.

I had my first girlfriend when I was well into 16 years of age, but I wanted one from about the moment I hit puberty... so what? You try, you strike out, or you're shy and don't.... etc....it's part of growing. I'm not saying that you should feel happy that you're single instead of sucking face, just that you shouldn't be "beating yourself up" over it either. RELAX.. .literally relax, and understand that 15 is YOUNG. If you're still coping with this in 1-3 years I'll be shocked.

What do you mean by that? He's obviously not coping with it now....

[QUOTE="guitarman89"]

Start hitting the gym. At least in my high school if you were in good shape and were decent socially getting a gf was a piece of cake. That'll def help you out a lot but it isn't everything. 2 years of hitting the gym and strict dieting is what it took for girls to finally start acknowledging my existence.

Ilovegames1992

Man it depresses me how shallow society is.

A female friend once told me that if you want to attract girls you need to be a "bad boy"... whatever that means. :|

lancea34

A female friend once told me that if you want to attract girls you need to be a "bad boy"... whatever that means. :|

lancea34

To attract some girls, not all. Sure some fall for what they perceive is the "bad boy" look or attitude, but not every girl looks for or is into that.

[QUOTE="Frame_Dragger"] You're feeling social pressure, hormonal pressure, and every other kind of pressure. In that scenario it's clear that you're going to feel unhappy at your lack of an attached status, but it doesn't change the objective fact that you're a young man and that being single at 15 is NOT unusual, bad, abnormal, etc. Your judgment is clouded, which is understandable, but consider the number of people here who have been where you are, and counsel patience and calm.

I had my first girlfriend when I was well into 16 years of age, but I wanted one from about the moment I hit puberty... so what? You try, you strike out, or you're shy and don't.... etc....it's part of growing. I'm not saying that you should feel happy that you're single instead of sucking face, just that you shouldn't be "beating yourself up" over it either. RELAX.. .literally relax, and understand that 15 is YOUNG. If you're still coping with this in 1-3 years I'll be shocked.

What do you mean by that? He's obviously not coping with it now....

[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

[QUOTE="guitarman89"]

Start hitting the gym. At least in my high school if you were in good shape and were decent socially getting a gf was a piece of cake. That'll def help you out a lot but it isn't everything. 2 years of hitting the gym and strict dieting is what it took for girls to finally start acknowledging my existence.

waitaseck

Man it depresses me how shallow society is.

that's not being shallow, that's having standards. Do you want to be with some 200lb girl who does not take care of herself?

[QUOTE="Frame_Dragger"][QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

What do you mean by that? He's obviously not coping with it now....

Spam_Pics

[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

[QUOTE="guitarman89"]

Start hitting the gym. At least in my high school if you were in good shape and were decent socially getting a gf was a piece of cake. That'll def help you out a lot but it isn't everything. 2 years of hitting the gym and strict dieting is what it took for girls to finally start acknowledging my existence.

waitaseck

Man it depresses me how shallow society is.

Nothing.

[QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"]"i just turned 15, im currently in10th grade" lol kids these days Chill out bro, Im in college and I dont have a girlfriend (but I have messed around with some), but its really not a an issue wether or not you get a girl friend. Especially at 15, what are you guys going to do? Do you even know about sex? You dont have a job, or a car. lancea34

Europe as a whole seems to be scarily liberated.

[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

[QUOTE="Frame_Dragger"] You're feeling social pressure, hormonal pressure, and every other kind of pressure. In that scenario it's clear that you're going to feel unhappy at your lack of an attached status, but it doesn't change the objective fact that you're a young man and that being single at 15 is NOT unusual, bad, abnormal, etc. Your judgment is clouded, which is understandable, but consider the number of people here who have been where you are, and counsel patience and calm.

I had my first girlfriend when I was well into 16 years of age, but I wanted one from about the moment I hit puberty... so what? You try, you strike out, or you're shy and don't.... etc....it's part of growing. I'm not saying that you should feel happy that you're single instead of sucking face, just that you shouldn't be "beating yourself up" over it either. RELAX.. .literally relax, and understand that 15 is YOUNG. If you're still coping with this in 1-3 years I'll be shocked.Frame_Dragger

What do you mean by that? He's obviously not coping with it now....

Right yeah. Well i'm in that situation. Little longer actually. Although i don't see it as a situation.

[QUOTE="waitaseck"][QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

Man it depresses me how shallow society is.

Ilovegames1992

Nothing.

Nothing wrong with being healthy, it's just depressing how much of peoples' lives are affected by looks.

[QUOTE="Frame_Dragger"][QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

What do you mean by that? He's obviously not coping with it now....

Right yeah. Well i'm in that situation. Little longer actually. Although i don't see it as a situation.

[QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"]"i just turned 15, im currently in10th grade" lol kids these days Chill out bro, Im in college and I dont have a girlfriend (but I have messed around with some), but its really not a an issue wether or not you get a girl friend. Especially at 15, what are you guys going to do? Do you even know about sex? You dont have a job, or a car. Spam_Pics

The car and job points are to reinforce the fact that there is more to a relationship than sex. You need a means to get back and forth to places where you'd go on dates or to hang out and you'd need money to afford those things.

[QUOTE="Spam_Pics"][QUOTE="Frame_Dragger"] I mean, if he's still in this situaiton... although I'd argue that he is coping with this... he's just coping poorly. :PFrame_Dragger

[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

[QUOTE="waitaseck"] What's wrong with being healthy? guitarman89

Nothing.

Nothing wrong with being healthy, it's just depressing how much of peoples' lives are affected by looks.

Thats what i was saying.... obviously its human nature for most to go with the better looker but i have very weird taste. I tend to think women are beautiful even when objectively speaking they're not.

well assume that i continue my streak of rejections how can i cope better with it? should i take those medsSpam_Pics

I lack the information needed to make a judgement.

Frame_Dragger

Take it easy and be patient. It will happen to you at some point. I was just like you not so long ago, and then I found someone who adored me right from the beginning, out of the blue. Didn't work out in the end for me, but my point is, YOUR TIME WILL COME.

[QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"]"i just turned 15, im currently in10th grade" lol kids these days Chill out bro, Im in college and I dont have a girlfriend (but I have messed around with some), but its really not a an issue wether or not you get a girl friend. Especially at 15, what are you guys going to do? Do you even know about sex? You dont have a job, or a car. Spam_Pics

I lack the information needed to make a judgement.

"i would trade my kingdom for 1 gf"

what

[QUOTE="Spam_Pics"][QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"]"i just turned 15, im currently in10th grade" lol kids these days Chill out bro, Im in college and I dont have a girlfriend (but I have messed around with some), but its really not a an issue wether or not you get a girl friend. Especially at 15, what are you guys going to do? Do you even know about sex? You dont have a job, or a car. Nengo_Flow

well sex would be nice but in the op i don't think im just asking for sex i just want a relationship, even a platonic one im not a fool how can you know if my dick isnt ready have you seen it? Spam_Pics

Ah man this thread was too funny to be true haha. I'll admit, I thought it was real.

[QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"][QUOTE="Spam_Pics"] please no more of this patronising attitude i know a few sex stuff from porn and sex ed, i can also afford a hooker if i want to know more and what's with the job and car? you mean i don't get to have secret sex in the office or in the back seat?Spam_Pics

I thought you had friends?

[QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"][QUOTE="Spam_Pics"] please no more of this patronising attitude i know a few sex stuff from porn and sex ed, i can also afford a hooker if i want to know more and what's with the job and car? you mean i don't get to have secret sex in the office or in the back seat?Spam_Pics

[QUOTE="Spam_Pics"][QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"] Well fine go ahead and get all depress. You're only making it harder on the long run, cuz then you are going to come off too strong and girls are going to stay away from you and you'll just chase after them cuz you feel so lonely. You are 15, dont worry about it. At that age its not even memorable. Just focus on you and do things to improve your personal self, girls will come later, and you will have more to offer them as well. *You just turned 15, your d*ck isnt even ready. Just have fun, mess around with a few, get the hang of it. You never even had any contact with a girl anyways, you cant just jump in to a relationship FoolNengo_Flow

i just turned 15, im currently in10th grade, and so far im the only one in my grade who hasn't had a gf or has ever been kissed. im clinically depressed but will not get meds treament because i dont think they'll be of help.... im so sure i want a gf, it's the only thing i want. now dont say i should not care about it or i must wait for it, i dont want to wait and i dont need to anyways, everyone has gf/bfs. to speak with facts, there are absolutely no girls either who havent been kissed or been in a relationship in my class. it's horrible watching someone else have someone to hold even though i just dont.. everyone deserves someone to hold. y can't i get a gf? im one of the kindes guys there, every gal or guy says that to me. ive asked out like 4 girls and all said no. i dont think im repulsive. i just really want a gf for me, it in all seriousness is the sole thing i want, i dont care about anything else. i would trade my kingdom for 1 gf.i get said that im very kind n nice, i love helping out other people. girls just honestly dont like me. y don't they? thats the sole reason why im clinically depressed its because i have to watch everybody have a relationship and kiss, but myself. if i had 1 kiss from a girl, i would shout and scream to the sky. please heeelp :'(i loathe being alone, it plain stinks, i just want somebody to hold :'( someone to tell me that they like me for being myself, and someone to love me. y wont that just happen to me ? i have friends, but thats not it, everyone has friends i just want a gf......

Spam_Pics

Actually,you should be happy to not have a girlfriend.Women are tiresome creatures,i can tell ya that.

[QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"][QUOTE="Spam_Pics"] well sex would be nice but in the op i don't think im just asking for sex i just want a relationship, even a platonic one im not a fool how can you know if my dick isnt ready have you seen it? lancea34

[QUOTE="lancea34"][QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"] pic?Nengo_Flow

Dude, I've had my fair share of GF's. I will tell you one thing and save you a lot of time.........GF's are a waste of time. Especially being 15. You will waste money, time, and a lot of self respect. A lot of girls your age are really immature anyways. It would be better if you just enjoyed your life until you get older then look for a GF. Seriously man. I didn't lose my verginity until I was 16-17 ish. At the time I thought it was cool and what not. But in reality, it was a waste of time because my GF and me at the time were really immature. I can say now after about 10 girls later, most girls aren't worth 2 squirts of sh*t.

Don't put the p*ssy on the pedestal.

Dude, I've had my fair share of GF's. I will tell you one thing and save you a lot of time.........GF's are a waste of time. Especially being 15. You will waste money, time, and a lot of self respect. A lot of girls your age are really immature anyways. It would be better if you just enjoyed your life until you get older then look for a GF. Seriously man. I didn't lose my verginity until I was 16-17 ish. At the time I thought it was cool and what not. But in reality, it was a waste of time because my GF and me at the time were really immature. I can say now after about 10 girls later, most girls aren't worth 2 squirts of sh*t.

Don't put the p*ssy on the pedestal.

ristactionjakso

hey wait a minute sir....

c'mon... you are going a little extreme here

[QUOTE="ristactionjakso"]

Dude, I've had my fair share of GF's. I will tell you one thing and save you a lot of time.........GF's are a waste of time. Especially being 15. You will waste money, time, and a lot of self respect. A lot of girls your age are really immature anyways. It would be better if you just enjoyed your life until you get older then look for a GF. Seriously man. I didn't lose my verginity until I was 16-17 ish. At the time I thought it was cool and what not. But in reality, it was a waste of time because my GF and me at the time were really immature. I can say now after about 10 girls later, most girls aren't worth 2 squirts of sh*t.

Don't put the p*ssy on the pedestal.

Nengo_Flow

hey wait a minute sir....

c'mon... you are going a little extreme here

He's right actually.

Dude, I've had my fair share of GF's. I will tell you one thing and save you a lot of time.........GF's are a waste of time. Especially being 15. You will waste money, time, and a lot of self respect. A lot of girls your age are really immature anyways. It would be better if you just enjoyed your life until you get older then look for a GF. Seriously man. I didn't lose my verginity until I was 16-17 ish. At the time I thought it was cool and what not. But in reality, it was a waste of time because my GF and me at the time were really immature. I can say now after about 10 girls later, most girls aren't worth 2 squirts of sh*t.

Don't put the p*ssy on the pedestal.

ristactionjakso

What about 1 squirt?

I can say now after about 10 girls later, most girls aren't worth 2 squirts of sh*t.

Don't put the p*ssy on the pedestal.

ristactionjakso

Ever stop to think it might be you?

[QUOTE="ristactionjakso"]

Dude, I've had my fair share of GF's. I will tell you one thing and save you a lot of time.........GF's are a waste of time. Especially being 15. You will waste money, time, and a lot of self respect. A lot of girls your age are really immature anyways. It would be better if you just enjoyed your life until you get older then look for a GF. Seriously man. I didn't lose my verginity until I was 16-17 ish. At the time I thought it was cool and what not. But in reality, it was a waste of time because my GF and me at the time were really immature. I can say now after about 10 girls later, most girls aren't worth 2 squirts of sh*t.

Don't put the p*ssy on the pedestal.

Nengo_Flow

hey wait a minute sir....

c'mon... you are going a little extreme here

one word: confidence.

and stop wanting and trying so hard. just have go out with your friends and have fun and it will happen.

you are still young, chill out.

[QUOTE="ristactionjakso"]

I can say now after about 10 girls later, most girls aren't worth 2 squirts of sh*t.

Don't put the p*ssy on the pedestal.

THE_DRUGGIE

Ever stop to think it might be you?

[QUOTE="THE_DRUGGIE"]

[QUOTE="ristactionjakso"] [QUOTE="ristactionjakso"]

[QUOTE="THE_DRUGGIE"]

[QUOTE="ristactionjakso"]

I can say now after about 10 girls later, most girls aren't worth 2 squirts of sh*t.

Don't put the p*ssy on the pedestal.

ristactionjakso

Ever stop to think it might be you?

[QUOTE="ristactionjakso"]

[QUOTE="THE_DRUGGIE"]

Ever stop to think it might be you?

chilly-chill

[QUOTE="Nengo_Flow"]

[QUOTE="ristactionjakso"]

Dude, I've had my fair share of GF's. I will tell you one thing and save you a lot of time.........GF's are a waste of time. Especially being 15. You will waste money, time, and a lot of self respect. A lot of girls your age are really immature anyways. It would be better if you just enjoyed your life until you get older then look for a GF. Seriously man. I didn't lose my verginity until I was 16-17 ish. At the time I thought it was cool and what not. But in reality, it was a waste of time because my GF and me at the time were really immature. I can say now after about 10 girls later, most girls aren't worth 2 squirts of sh*t.

Don't put the p*ssy on the pedestal.

ristactionjakso

hey wait a minute sir....

c'mon... you are going a little extreme here

then you had some crappy experiences. I agree that is not a big deal, nothing to worry about, and yes there are times were it isnt worth it, but................