If murder is illegal, why isn't abortion?

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#551 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

[QUOTE="Teenaged"]And I told you that you are neglecting the psychological effects.

Teenaged

You posted that after my original post. THerefore it is null in this argument.

What are you on about?

I posted it in direct response to you telling me that the physical effects of an unwanted pregnancy are the same as a wanted pregnancy.

The argument is not null at all.

Also you were the one that later sneakingly added a restriction "other than psychological effects". ;)

Again you tried to avoid to admit your mistake.

Seriously I am done here.

Bed is calling me.

You still posted it after I posted my original comment. I never made a mistake so how can I "Admit" to it?

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#552 binpink
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What risk factors in childbirth? I thought modern technology remove those risk factors. WTF are you talking about?

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My mom almost died giving birth. It IS a big deal.

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#553 T_P_O
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[QUOTE="T_P_O"][QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

She has to go through with it because she's now has another life on her hands other than her own. IT's clear other people don't find the killing of an unborn child wrong.

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I'd disagree with you there, you seem to lack compassion for the mother. She is the one at the end of the day, who has been raped, and in this scenario, impregnated against her will. It's going to have a terrible impact on the life of the mother, she's now got to suffer through nine months of emotional torture, stuck with a pregnancy that is a terrible reminder of the crime, and I'm sure that's something that the strong majority of women would never want to have to go through. It won't end well. Some people may find it to be "wrong", but yet, still not call it a murder.

Murder: "to kill or slaughter inhumanly or barbarous"

I think burning someone alive or using a vacuum or any of the other afore mentioned procedures fits this. The Mother is now responsible for ANOTHER Human life, not just her own. IF she kills it she'll compound on the emotional scars already left by the other act.

Well, the legal definition of murder in my nation is different to that: "Murder is the unlawful killing of a human being, under the Queen's peace, with malice aforethought". It is also in statute that abortion is not killing a human being until the 24th week. How do you explain this conflict? Well, if she gets an abortion, she has time to move on and seek help, without the constant reminder of the act. This seems a better option to me. Also, why is she responsible for something she didn't consent to? That's highly unfair.
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#554 Snipes_2
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Snipes_2 wrote:

Teenaged wrote:On the inevitability of abortion in some cases. As you see this point is not affected on whether or not the fetus is considered to be alive or sentient. One can raise objections to it based on that argument or set limits in the validity of my argument but the argument itself is not swayed by it. My argument would be countered by other arguments, such as someone showing me that its not inevitable, since for instance the adoption system is 100% accessible by anyone who wishes to give their baby for adoption, or that its not inevitable since an unwanted pregnancy has too few negative effects on a mother.

Also the argument of whether or not the fetus is alive or not to me seems very arguable and no deffinite answer would come of it.

Reply: So Killing someone is better than giving them a slight chance to live? An Unwanted pregnancy has the same physical effects as a "Wanted" pregnancy.The Adoption centers are pretty Accessible to anyone.

Snipes_2 wrote:

Teenaged wrote:

Snipes_2 wrote:

So Killing someone is better than giving them a slight chance to live? An Unwanted pregnancy has the same physical effects as a "Wanted" pregnancy.The Adoption centers are pretty Accessible to anyone.

Again you are ignoring the effects of an unwanted pregnancy simply by stating that the physical effects are the same. What about the psychological effects? I saw you were quick to cite sources that include psychological effects when those effects "argue"foryour stance.

(RED) I have every reason to doubt that.

Please, post a site supporting your position. The Site I posted is accessible to anyone, it is neither Pro-Choice, nor is it Pro-Life.

Again, my reply.

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#555 alexside1
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[QUOTE="alexside1"] Is that a personal attack?Omni-Slash
no it's a fact with an opinion added on at the end......and since you like to edit my posts let me just re-write it... legally (when it comes to calling abortions Murder) Pro-Lifers have nothing to stand on except for their own Misguided Moral Convictions.....

I didn't edit your post at all, I just quote a sentence from your post.
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#556 Omni-Slash
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

I posted a site referencing to this. It stated it was VERY Rare.

13 deaths per 100,000 deliveries is the latest data....and that's just death......complications are fairly common.....again....do you value the female's life so little that you are happy to risk their well being for a rapist's child?...
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#557 T_P_O
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[QUOTE="T_P_O"][QUOTE="alexside1"]

What risk factors in childbirth? I thought modern technology remove those risk factors. WTF are you talking about?

Snipes_2

Death during childbirth still happens, unfortunately, the risk is always present, just minimized by modern medical practice.

I posted a site referencing to this. It stated it was VERY Rare.

Yet, according to that, it still happens, the risk is always present, with the child's head being as large as it is when childbirth occurs, a risk of death will always be present. But like I stated, modern medical practice and technology minimize this risk, not eradicate it.
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#558 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

[QUOTE="T_P_O"] Death during childbirth still happens, unfortunately, the risk is always present, just minimized by modern medical practice.T_P_O

I posted a site referencing to this. It stated it was VERY Rare.

Yet, according to that, it still happens, the risk is always present, with the child's head being as large as it is when childbirth occurs, a risk of death will always be present. But like I stated, modern medical practice and technology minimize this risk, not eradicate it.

Yeah, but it's also always present in abortion as well.

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#559 alexside1
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@Snipes_2 You do realize that arguing about it isn't going to change their mind about it.
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#560 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

I posted a site referencing to this. It stated it was VERY Rare.

Omni-Slash

13 deaths per 100,000 deliveries is the latest data....and that's just death......complications are fairly common.....again....do you value the female's life so little that you are happy to risk their well being for a rapist's child?...

13 Deaths was I believe Children. It is not just the "Rapist's" child. IT is her child now as well. Another thing, less than 4% of pregnancies are due to rape.

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#561 Omni-Slash
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This is, at the heart, a moral and ethical dilema. What makes pro-lifers, or pro-choicers for that matter, moral convictions misguided? They seem to both have valid points to me.mattbbpl
I'd have more sympathy for Pro_lifers if they ever gave a shred of thought to the woman giving birth....no-one with half a brain would argue for abortion as a form of birth control...and those that do are morally bankrupt...but those that argue for an accross the board ban are just as morally bankrupt as they believe that life starting out is someone more valuable than the woman giving birth....
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#562 Snipes_2
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@Snipes_2 You do realize that arguing about it isn't going to change their mind about it.alexside1

Yes. I was never actually trying to change anyones mind. I stated my opinion, then 6-7 posters started tweaking it and analyzing it.

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[QUOTE="T_P_O"][QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

I posted a site referencing to this. It stated it was VERY Rare.

Snipes_2

Yet, according to that, it still happens, the risk is always present, with the child's head being as large as it is when childbirth occurs, a risk of death will always be present. But like I stated, modern medical practice and technology minimize this risk, not eradicate it.

Yeah, but it's also always present in abortion as well.

Yeah, but medical and technologic advances cuts the risk, just like it does with childbirth. There's an element of risk both ways, but childbirth is the more painful option, I'm sure you'd agree (not talking about a c-section btw).
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

[QUOTE="T_P_O"] I'd disagree with you there, you seem to lack compassion for the mother. She is the one at the end of the day, who has been raped, and in this scenario, impregnated against her will. It's going to have a terrible impact on the life of the mother, she's now got to suffer through nine months of emotional torture, stuck with a pregnancy that is a terrible reminder of the crime, and I'm sure that's something that the strong majority of women would never want to have to go through. It won't end well. Some people may find it to be "wrong", but yet, still not call it a murder.T_P_O

Murder: "to kill or slaughter inhumanly or barbarous"

I think burning someone alive or using a vacuum or any of the other afore mentioned procedures fits this. The Mother is now responsible for ANOTHER Human life, not just her own. IF she kills it she'll compound on the emotional scars already left by the other act.

Well, the legal definition of murder in my nation is different to that: "Murder is the unlawful killing of a human being, under the Queen's peace, with malice aforethought". It is also in statute that abortion is not killing a human being until the 24th week. How do you explain this conflict? Well, if she gets an abortion, she has time to move on and seek help, without the constant reminder of the act. This seems a better option to me. Also, why is she responsible for something she didn't consent to? That's highly unfair.

But instead of dealing with the aftermath of an abortion. She can just give the child up for adoption and never see/hear from him/her again. She'll have to deal with the emotional effects of having killed another human being if she has an abortion.

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#565 Omni-Slash
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

13 Deaths was I believe Children. It is not just the "Rapist's" child. IT is her child now as well. Another thing, less than 4% of pregnancies are due to rape.

No...that's the woman's death rate.....not the child's.....no it's not her child......it's something that was put in her body....and I don't care if it's one percent.....when you're talking of 100s of thousands of birth..small percents are important....
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[QUOTE="Omni-Slash"][QUOTE="mattbbpl"]It can if everyone learns to mind their own business which it most certainly seems to be the problem these days...if society does not deam it to be murder it most definitely is not.....Murder is defined by the state.....Pro-Lifers have nothing to stand on except their misguided moral convictions...mattbbpl
This is, at the heart, a moral and ethical dilema. What makes pro-lifers, or pro-choicers for that matter, moral convictions misguided? They seem to both have valid points to me.

Looks like you clarified yourself with this:
legally (when it comes to calling abortions Murder) Pro-Lifers have nothing to stand on except for their own Misguided Moral Convictions.....Omni-Slash
and in that regard I agree. Using such alarmist language is only detrimental to the discussion and debate which they are crusading for. I think leaning only on the legal aspect of this argument is missing the point entirely though, considering it's etical/moral core.

Edit: Forgive my woeful HTML skills...

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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

[QUOTE="T_P_O"] Yet, according to that, it still happens, the risk is always present, with the child's head being as large as it is when childbirth occurs, a risk of death will always be present. But like I stated, modern medical practice and technology minimize this risk, not eradicate it.T_P_O

Yeah, but it's also always present in abortion as well.

Yeah, but medical and technologic advances cuts the risk, just like it does with childbirth. There's an element of risk both ways, but childbirth is the more painful option, I'm sure you'd agree (not talking about a c-section btw).

I don't know. I have never had an Abortion or given birth. MY Aunt gave birth Naturally and she was fine the next day. Abortion may be less painful because you get anesthesia, but you need to deal with bleeding and such afterwards. Even today you can get painkiller for a Natural Birth.

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I'd have more sympathy for Pro_lifers if they ever gave a shred of thought to the woman giving birth....no-one with half a brain would argue for abortion as a form of birth control...and those that do are morally bankrupt...but those that argue for an accross the board ban are just as morally bankrupt as they believe that life starting out is someone more valuable than the woman giving birth....Omni-Slash

Don't hold your breath. :( Women aren't valued as much as fetuses by pro-lifers, but they never want to address that. I agree with you though.

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As in the words or Eric Cartman "it;s my body and I do what I want" :P
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[QUOTE="T_P_O"][QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

Murder: "to kill or slaughter inhumanly or barbarous"

I think burning someone alive or using a vacuum or any of the other afore mentioned procedures fits this. The Mother is now responsible for ANOTHER Human life, not just her own. IF she kills it she'll compound on the emotional scars already left by the other act.

Snipes_2

Well, the legal definition of murder in my nation is different to that: "Murder is the unlawful killing of a human being, under the Queen's peace, with malice aforethought". It is also in statute that abortion is not killing a human being until the 24th week. How do you explain this conflict? Well, if she gets an abortion, she has time to move on and seek help, without the constant reminder of the act. This seems a better option to me. Also, why is she responsible for something she didn't consent to? That's highly unfair.

But instead of dealing with the aftermath of an abortion. She can just give the child up for adoption and never see/hear from him/her again. She'll have to deal with the emotional effects of having killed another human being if she has an abortion.

She'll have to deal with the aftermath of a painful and long childbirth, or physical scarring (yet again, a reminder) from invasive sugery to deliver the child. There's emotional effects of carrying around an unwanted pregnancy, and I'd rather that help and support can be given as early as possible without a hugely obvious reminder in the room causing distress.
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I don't know about you guys, but this issue never seems to be solved. Anyways, I'm going to bed. Cheers.

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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

[QUOTE="T_P_O"] Well, the legal definition of murder in my nation is different to that: "Murder is the unlawful killing of a human being, under the Queen's peace, with malice aforethought". It is also in statute that abortion is not killing a human being until the 24th week. How do you explain this conflict? Well, if she gets an abortion, she has time to move on and seek help, without the constant reminder of the act. This seems a better option to me. Also, why is she responsible for something she didn't consent to? That's highly unfair.T_P_O

But instead of dealing with the aftermath of an abortion. She can just give the child up for adoption and never see/hear from him/her again. She'll have to deal with the emotional effects of having killed another human being if she has an abortion.

She'll have to deal with the aftermath of a painful and long childbirth, or physical scarring (yet again, a reminder) from invasive sugery to deliver the child. There's emotional effects of carrying around an unwanted pregnancy, and I'd rather that help and support can be given as early as possible without a hugely obvious reminder in the room causing distress.

She may have a scar from the abortion too though. She doesn't need to see the child after birth. They can take it away and she'll never have to see it again.

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[QUOTE="Omni-Slash"] I'd have more sympathy for Pro_lifers if they ever gave a shred of thought to the woman giving birth....no-one with half a brain would argue for abortion as a form of birth control...and those that do are morally bankrupt...but those that argue for an accross the board ban are just as morally bankrupt as they believe that life starting out is someone more valuable than the woman giving birth....binpink

Don't hold your breath. :( Women aren't valued as much as fetuses by pro-lifers, but they never want to address that. I agree with you though.

Wow, That's pretty one sided.

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[QUOTE="Omni-Slash"] I'd have more sympathy for Pro_lifers if they ever gave a shred of thought to the woman giving birth....no-one with half a brain would argue for abortion as a form of birth control...and those that do are morally bankrupt...but those that argue for an accross the board ban are just as morally bankrupt as they believe that life starting out is someone more valuable than the woman giving birth....binpink

Don't hold your breath. :( Women aren't valued as much as fetuses by pro-lifers, but they never want to address that. I agree with you though.

Lol at Ignorant generalization.

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[QUOTE="mattbbpl"]This is, at the heart, a moral and ethical dilema. What makes pro-lifers, or pro-choicers for that matter, moral convictions misguided? They seem to both have valid points to me.Omni-Slash
I'd have more sympathy for Pro_lifers if they ever gave a shred of thought to the woman giving birth....no-one with half a brain would argue for abortion as a form of birth control...and those that do are morally bankrupt...but those that argue for an accross the board ban are just as morally bankrupt as they believe that life starting out is someone more valuable than the woman giving birth....

Most of the pro-lifers I know condone abortion under just those particular scenarios you mention. Most pro-lifers (in my experience, although I do live in a pretty liberal area) do condone exceptions for rape, complications, and incest.
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[QUOTE="mattbbpl"]This is, at the heart, a moral and ethical dilema. What makes pro-lifers, or pro-choicers for that matter, moral convictions misguided? They seem to both have valid points to me.Omni-Slash
I'd have more sympathy for Pro_lifers if they ever gave a shred of thought to the woman giving birth....no-one with half a brain would argue for abortion as a form of birth control...and those that do are morally bankrupt...but those that argue for an accross the board ban are just as morally bankrupt as they believe that life starting out is someone more valuable than the woman giving birth....

Well if it means anything, I am one of those Pro-lifers who does think about the woman giving birth so they are out there although that may be rare though.

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[QUOTE="Omni-Slash"] I'd have more sympathy for Pro_lifers if they ever gave a shred of thought to the woman giving birth....no-one with half a brain would argue for abortion as a form of birth control...and those that do are morally bankrupt...but those that argue for an accross the board ban are just as morally bankrupt as they believe that life starting out is someone more valuable than the woman giving birth....binpink

Don't hold your breath. :( Women aren't valued as much as fetuses by pro-lifers, but they never want to address that. I agree with you though.

Wait... WHAT?

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[QUOTE="T_P_O"][QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

Yeah, but it's also always present in abortion as well.

Snipes_2

Yeah, but medical and technologic advances cuts the risk, just like it does with childbirth. There's an element of risk both ways, but childbirth is the more painful option, I'm sure you'd agree (not talking about a c-section btw).

I don't know. I have never had an Abortion or given birth. MY Aunt gave birth Naturally and she was fine the next day. Abortion may be less painful because you get anesthesia, but you need to deal with bleeding and such afterwards. Even today you can get painkiller for a Natural Birth.

I doubt every woman has the same experience in childbirth, but with the width of the child's head, I'd imagine it's pretty bloody painful to give birth naturally. Painkillers may not always relieve pain that strong. And I feel the first bit of your post is hugely important, why should we decide what a woman should do with her pregnancy if we, as males, will never experience it? We're not in any position to make that decision for her.

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[QUOTE="T_P_O"][QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

But instead of dealing with the aftermath of an abortion. She can just give the child up for adoption and never see/hear from him/her again. She'll have to deal with the emotional effects of having killed another human being if she has an abortion.

Snipes_2

She'll have to deal with the aftermath of a painful and long childbirth, or physical scarring (yet again, a reminder) from invasive sugery to deliver the child. There's emotional effects of carrying around an unwanted pregnancy, and I'd rather that help and support can be given as early as possible without a hugely obvious reminder in the room causing distress.

She may have a scar from the abortion too though. She doesn't need to see the child after birth. They can take it away and she'll never have to see it again.

Don't know about where you live, but nearly all abortions here are induced by a drug, no real obvious physical scarring. She'll see the child during the nine months of her pregnancy, all the time, everyday, every second. They can't take it away then and relieve her of the obvious reminder (using this word an awful lot for some reason) of the act without an abortion.

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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

Lol at Ignorant generalization.

you've actually made her argument for her with your responses in this thread....
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I don't know. I have never had an Abortion or given birth. MY Aunt gave birth Naturally and she was fine the next day. Abortion may be less painful because you get anesthesia, but you need to deal with bleeding and such afterwards. Even today you can get painkiller for a Natural Birth.

Snipes_2

I'm not interested in posting a direct reply to Snipes_2 or arguing about it, but I would like to comment on what was said.

When my mom nearly died in childbirth, a painkiller did not save her life. Nor did a painkiller help put part of her back together in the following days. Some women handle childbirth well but it is in no way a completely safe process. Hence why it's usually done in a hospital under medical supervision. I don't think anyone should be forced to give birth based on the fact that it's "safer" than an abortion. Not a convincing pro-life argument for me.

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#583 binpink
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

Lol at Ignorant generalization.

Omni-Slash

you've actually made her argument for her with your responses in this thread....

Some people refuse to address the issue, as you might've seen.

The choice is between women's personal freedom/reproductive rights and a fetus. Pro-lifers choose the fetus. How that's a one sided generalization, I'll never know.

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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

[QUOTE="T_P_O"] She'll have to deal with the aftermath of a painful and long childbirth, or physical scarring (yet again, a reminder) from invasive sugery to deliver the child. There's emotional effects of carrying around an unwanted pregnancy, and I'd rather that help and support can be given as early as possible without a hugely obvious reminder in the room causing distress.T_P_O

She may have a scar from the abortion too though. She doesn't need to see the child after birth. They can take it away and she'll never have to see it again.

Don't know about where you live, but nearly all abortions here are induced by a drug, no real obvious physical scarring. She'll see the child during the nine months of her pregnancy, all the time, everyday, every second. They can't take it away then and relieve her of the obvious reminder (using this word an awful lot for some reason) of the act without an abortion.

After those Nine Months though she wont ever have to see it again. She'll have to deal with the fact that she killed an unborn child if she has an Abortion.

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#585 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

Lol at Ignorant generalization.

Omni-Slash

you've actually made her argument for her with your responses in this thread....

And He/She has made my argument as well.

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#586 Snipes_2
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I don't know. I have never had an Abortion or given birth. MY Aunt gave birth Naturally and she was fine the next day. Abortion may be less painful because you get anesthesia, but you need to deal with bleeding and such afterwards. Even today you can get painkiller for a Natural Birth.

binpink

I'm not interested in posting a direct reply to Snipes_2 or arguing about it, but I would like to comment on what was said.

When my mom nearly died in childbirth, a painkiller did not save her life. Nor did a painkiller help put part of her back together in the following days. Some women handle childbirth well but it is in no way a completely safe process. Hence why it's usually done in a hospital under medical supervision. I don't think anyone should be forced to give birth based on the fact that it's "safer" than an abortion. Not a convincing pro-life argument for me.

Again, She could have chosen to have a C-Section. YOur Abortion argument isn't exactly convincing either. At Least, in my opinion. How is killing an unborn child and possibly yourself safer than having a C-Section?

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#587 mattbbpl
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[QUOTE="binpink"]

[QUOTE="Omni-Slash"][QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

Lol at Ignorant generalization.

you've actually made her argument for her with your responses in this thread....

Some people refuse to address the issue, as you might've seen.

The choice is between women's personal freedom/reproductive rights and a fetus. Pro-lifers choose the fetus. How that's a one sided generalization, I'll never know.

Congratulations on your 1000 post :) (it's your next one)

I think the issue is more complex than that. Few things are ever that conventiently easy.
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#588 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="Omni-Slash"][QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

Lol at Ignorant generalization.

binpink

you've actually made her argument for her with your responses in this thread....

Some people refuse to address the issue, as you might've seen.

The choice is between women's personal freedom/reproductive rights and a fetus. Pro-lifers choose the fetus. How that's a one sided generalization, I'll never know.

Pro-Lifers choose the Fetus and you Choose the Woman. The way you put it someone's going to die either way.

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[QUOTE="T_P_O"]

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

She may have a scar from the abortion too though. She doesn't need to see the child after birth. They can take it away and she'll never have to see it again.

Snipes_2

Don't know about where you live, but nearly all abortions here are induced by a drug, no real obvious physical scarring. She'll see the child during the nine months of her pregnancy, all the time, everyday, every second. They can't take it away then and relieve her of the obvious reminder (using this word an awful lot for some reason) of the act without an abortion.

After those Nine Months though she wont ever have to see it again. She'll have to deal with the fact that she killed an unborn child if she has an Abortion.

How can you even compare the psychology behind carryign a child to 9 months due to a brutal rape and then giving it up for adoption so she feels both the psychological pain of the rape for the rest of her life as well as the psychological pain of the memory of her child due to the rape and the psychological pain due to giving that child up for adoption to having an abortion? I wouldn't feel any psychological pain due to having an abortion due to a rape. Why are you pastign what you believe onto what others would feel and state it as fact?

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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

Again, She could have chosen to have a C-Section. YOur Abortion argument isn't exactly convincing either. At Least, in my opinion. How is killing an unborn child and possibly yourself safer than having a C-Section?

you do realize that most abortions take place in the first trimester when your removing something the size of an apple-grapfruit right?....much easer the slicing your abdominal muscles open......my wife was in labor for 23 hours..then the gave her an emergency C-section.....it took 2 days for her even to be able to walk again....when your muscles are strained and then cut..bad things can happen....
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#591 binpink
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Congratulations on your 1000 post :) (it's your next one)

I think the issue is more complex than that. Few things are ever that conventiently easy.mattbbpl

AH NO WAY! Cool, thanks for pointing that out!

And I agree it's really complex. It just seems like pro-lifers focus on the fetus, pro-choicers on the woman. Makes it hard to come to much agreement when we aren't trying to protect the same thing.

~1000th post!~

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[QUOTE="Omni-Slash"][QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

Again, She could have chosen to have a C-Section. YOur Abortion argument isn't exactly convincing either. At Least, in my opinion. How is killing an unborn child and possibly yourself safer than having a C-Section?

you do realize that most abortions take place in the first trimester when your removing something the size of an apple-grapfruit right?....much easer the slicing your abdominal muscles open......my wife was in labor for 23 hours..then the gave her an emergency C-section.....it took 2 days for her even to be able to walk again....when your muscles are strained and then cut..bad things can happen....

Ooo... Sorry to hear that. My son was born rather uneventfully, fortunately. Are you planning on having another child? I heard once you have a C-section, it's nearly certain that future deliveries will be via C-section as well, although it's just precaution since the walls have already been weakened.
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Ooo... Sorry to hear that. My son was born rather uneventfully, fortunately. Are you planning on having another child? I heard once you have a C-section, it's nearly certain that future deliveries will be via C-section as well, although it's just precaution since the walls have already been weakened.mattbbpl
We've already had another.....she wanted to go natural with it but at the last minute the doctor advised against it....she was worried about the size of the baby.....either way..we are done having kids now...we wanted two and that's where we are at....:)
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#594 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

[QUOTE="T_P_O"] Don't know about where you live, but nearly all abortions here are induced by a drug, no real obvious physical scarring. She'll see the child during the nine months of her pregnancy, all the time, everyday, every second. They can't take it away then and relieve her of the obvious reminder (using this word an awful lot for some reason) of the act without an abortion.

BumFluff122

After those Nine Months though she wont ever have to see it again. She'll have to deal with the fact that she killed an unborn child if she has an Abortion.

How can you even compare the psychology behind carryign a child to 9 months due to a brutal rape and then giving it up for adoption so she feels both the psychological pain of the rape for the rest of her life as well as the psychological pain of the memory of her child due to the rape and the psychological pain due to giving that child up for adoption to having an abortion? I wouldn't feel any psychological pain due to having an abortion due to a rape. Why are you pastign what you believe onto what others would feel and state it as fact?

Did you read the Psychological effects of an Abortion, not to mention the Moral conflicts?

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#595 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="mattbbpl"] Congratulations on your 1000 post :) (it's your next one)

I think the issue is more complex than that. Few things are ever that conventiently easy.binpink

AH NO WAY! Cool, thanks for pointing that out!

And I agree it's really complex. It just seems like pro-lifers focus on the fetus, pro-choicers on the woman. Makes it hard to come to much agreement when we aren't trying to protect the same thing.

~1000th post!~

I have to agree with you there. IT's a lose-lose no matter which side you represent. Congratulations on your 1000th post by the way.

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Murder is nothing but a concept defined by society, and clearly, our society does not define abortion as murder.

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#597 warbmxjohn
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[QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"] So why does the child have to do die?

Snipes_2

Because it cannot exist outside of the womans womb and the woman should in no case what so ever be forced to suffer mental torture, physical pain, and 9 months of carrying a child she did not want and was essentially forced into. It is unfortunate that an abortion happens in this case but can you honest to God tell me it is wrong for the mother to not want to go through with the child of a man who took her against her will? Would you want to?

Why can't it exist outside the Mothers WOmb if it's a perfectly healthy child? It is wrong to have an Abortion, you are KILLING another human being. I would not want to have a Child under those Circumstances but I would. I can Honestly say I would have trouble with it, but I would not Abort the Child.

It seems you don't understand abortion laws. In a legal abortion the fetus must be aborted before the fetus reaches a certain point of viability, this basically means "before it can possibly live outside the womb". You use outright incorrect terminology that diminishes your credibility and integrity. One cannot "abort a child", a fetus is not a child. YET. Any late term abortions are only performed under circumstances where the mothers life could be in danger, then once again one should consider the life of the mother first, at least I know I would. Even people that have had abortions did not want to have one, but that is the burden they carry not anyone else. That is the essence of pro choice, to leave the choice up to the individual. I would love to see a world where there was no place for abortion, but that world does not currently exist. People have sex and take precautions but only abstinence is 100%, taking that into consideration one can easily see people will find a way to not have an unwanted pregnancy complete to term. If you think abortions are wrong then dont have sex and dont get pregnant unless you want a child, but the point of pro choice is to let the individual make the choice for themselves. Besides all the women whom ever have had an abortion were also once a fetus worth protecting themselves. Their predicament should not be the end of all sympathy and understanding for them.
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#598 BumFluff122
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[QUOTE="BumFluff122"]

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

After those Nine Months though she wont ever have to see it again. She'll have to deal with the fact that she killed an unborn child if she has an Abortion.

Snipes_2

How can you even compare the psychology behind carryign a child to 9 months due to a brutal rape and then giving it up for adoption so she feels both the psychological pain of the rape for the rest of her life as well as the psychological pain of the memory of her child due to the rape and the psychological pain due to giving that child up for adoption to having an abortion? I wouldn't feel any psychological pain due to having an abortion due to a rape. Why are you pastign what you believe onto what others would feel and state it as fact?

Did you read the Psychological effects of an Abortion, not to mention the Moral conflicts?

I know perfectly well what the psychological affects of an abortion not due to rape are. I studied it in college in one of my psychology courses as well as a number of other psychology courses. The point is, both the mother and child would have severe psychological effects due to the child being born. The child would knwoling be born due to rape and the mother woudl have to face what was mentioend before. All you are doing by carryign the child for 9 months is prolonging the pain of the original rape. People commit suicide because of rape. Do you really want to increase the chances that a parent may commit suicide because they can't face the thing that happened to them just because you think that they shouldn't have an abortion? You would be losing two lives. If they had an abortion the healing of the rape could start sooner. 9 months of prolonged agony and memory is just making it worse.

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#599 Pixel-Pirate
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A woman forced to carry the child of the man who raped her probably has a much much higher chance of dying due to suicide. The mental stress from being raped is enough but add on that a bunch of random people decided for her that she has to carry the baby even if she doesn't want to and I think for a decent percentage that would be the straw that broke the camels back.

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#600 Burnt_Star
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Ouch, touchy subject, actually a fetus is nothing more than a handful of cells till it exits the womb and takes that first breath, thus aborting a fetus isn't the same as killing a baby because its not a baby... yet. Don't agree with abortion but I don't like it when people force there own morals on someones elses decision, especially when it involves there body.