If you had a son, and he turned out to be g**

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#1 Devour2Survive
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What would you do? What I would do is probably ignore it and ask for him not to discuss his sexuality in my home and I would probably boot him out of the house as soon as he turned 18.
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#2 Dark_Knight6
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I'd be proud of him for having the courage to tell me and love him regardless of his sexuality.
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#3 super_mario_128
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He'd be following in his papa's footsteps, so I guess I wouldn't care much...
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#4 tommat119944
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I'd be proud of him for having the courage to tell me and love him regardless of his sexuality. Dark_Knight6
Truly heartwarming ^.^. I wouldn't care, i'd treat him like he was like a straight son.
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#5 -eddy-
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Feed him to the pigs, then hunt the pig and put its head on my wall as a thropy! I wouldn't do nothing, he's my son. I love him in any case. l surely hope l will, anyway.
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#6 supa_badman
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that seems more like a situation i would first have to get it...
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#7 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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I wouldn't care at all. I don't have a problem with homosexuality...I never have. I have many gay friends and a gay relative, and it's never bothered me at all. I don't even think about it, honestly.
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I'm going to have a hard time explaining to my little cousin why he has two uncles and no aunts.
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#9 bugtrip
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If you're still lacking the maturity to embrace your own child, regardless, then you shouldn't be reproducing.
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#10 haziqonfire
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His choice. I'd support him fully.
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#11 clembo1990
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Thank goodness that out of 4 OT users nobody said "....rape him" I feel safer now. What would I do? I'd tell him to take up boxing and resent male femininity. i don't mind gay but men are men, camp people reinforce the stereotype.
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#12 clock_of_omens
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i wouldnt care
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#13 barcx17
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I wouldn't really care much cause it's his decision and I can't change him. I don't have the courage or the heart to kick my son out of the house because of his sexuality, it's just wrong to do that. Plus, its not like he'll be the only son i'll have, I'll have more cause i want grandkids dammit!!

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#14 Parandrus
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To be honest, I don't really know. I'd like to think I'd be accepting, but if he was extremely flamboyant, I couldn't help to feel a little disappointed.
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#15 Neon-Tiger
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It's a non-issue.Not something to kick him out of the house but not something to make him think he's a hero fo sorts.
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#16 Bourbons3
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I'd shout "Snap" and take all his cards.
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#17 Big_player
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It would have absolutely no bearing on how I treated or felt towards him.
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#18 Neon-Tiger
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I'd shout "Snap" and take all his cards.Bourbons3
His man cards? I'd take yours if you took his.
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#19 Neon-Tiger
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It would have absolutely no bearing on how I treated or felt towards him.Big_player
Exactly.
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#20 super_mario_128
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I'd shout "Snap" and take all his cards.Bourbons3
:o Thats downright mean!
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#21 Morphic
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If he told me id give him a high five for being the kind of person I am who isn't scared what people think. Its not my life he's living, it's his own. Gay or not whatever.
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#22 deactivated-605ba7fd6332a
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I probably wouldn't be too ecstatic about it (there goes the end of my lineage :() but he would be my son, and I would love and support him nevertheless. Additionally, I'd respect his decision to tell me because I'd rather be hurt by the truth than live blissfully ignorant.
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#23 MetaKnight50
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It takes alot of guts to say that to a parent. But i would treat him the way he wants to be treated. If he wants to be umm...homosexual, then he can. We just need to lay out some new ground rules first.
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#24 D3nnyCrane
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I'd buy him and his gay friend's Village People outfits for Hallowe'en.
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#25 bigfatcrap
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I'd be a little surprised at first so it would be an awkward 10 seconds. But I'd still accept him because he's my son.
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#26 DeathHeart95
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It's one of those situations that you would want to handle one way, but end up handling it a totally different way if it ever comes. I would hope I would be able to treat him normally. At worst I would simply hide the fact that he was a homosexual.
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#27 esbastica
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we'd have a nice french kiss
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#28 rockon1215
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I'm not gonna lie, I'be slightly dissapointed and I would see him differently, but I think I would learn to accept it.
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#29 buldog300
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I'd tell him, 'congrates, your no different than the rest of the 95% of humanity, a sinner'.
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#30 clembo1990
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I'd tell him, 'congrates, your no different than the rest of the 95% of humanity, a sinner'. buldog300
So you can be born a sinner? Whatever religion that is **** them!
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#31 CJL182
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I would do nothing; he's still my son and I would still love him.
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#32 Theokhoth
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I'd say, "So, you single?"

Yeah, that was horrible. :(

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#33 Parandrus
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[QUOTE="buldog300"]I'd tell him, 'congrates, your no different than the rest of the 95% of humanity, a sinner'. clembo1990
So you can be born a sinner? Whatever religion that is **** them!

According to Christianity, everybody is born a sinner.
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[QUOTE="buldog300"]I'd tell him, 'congrates, your no different than the rest of the 95% of humanity, a sinner'. clembo1990
So you can be born a sinner? Whatever religion that is **** them!

original sin. It's arguements like these that really test your 'tolerance'.

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So you can be born a sinner? Whatever religion that is **** them!clembo1990

That's like a huge part of Christianity. You're born a sinner because Eve ate the damn apple. :x

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#36 aaronmullan
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I wouldn't mind if he was :D
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#37 deactivated-5a79221380856
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I would disapprove of any sexual misconduct, regardless if he was straight or gay
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#38 clembo1990
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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"] First incest comment FTW.

[QUOTE="clembo1990"][QUOTE="buldog300"]I'd tell him, 'congrates, your no different than the rest of the 95% of humanity, a sinner'. buldog300

So you can be born a sinner? Whatever religion that is **** them!

original sin. It's arguements like these that really test your 'tolerance'.

Oh. I thought Christianity was cool with being gay considering Jesus was, he was always kind of happy. As for Homosexuals, yep its even in the ten commandments "You shall not bear false witness against your neighbour." can spell the words: "gays are sinners". You have to read between the lines when talking about the Bible.
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[QUOTE="clembo1990"]So you can be born a sinner? Whatever religion that is **** them!Dark_Knight6

That's like a huge part of Christianity. You're born a sinner because Eve ate the damn apple. :x

Yeah what a *****. And women wonder why we think we're superior. At least we didn't screw everything up for the rest of humanity.:evil:

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I'd be proud of him for having the courage to tell me and love him regardless of his sexuality. Dark_Knight6
This.
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#41 Parandrus
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I would disapprove of any sexual misconduct, whether he was straight or gay It matters not.Genetic_Code
Do you mean the act of gay sex is misconduct?
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#42 danjammer69
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It takes alot of guts to say that to a parent. But i would treat him the way he wants to be treated. If he wants to be umm...homosexual, then he can. We just need to lay out some new ground rules first.MetaKnight50
Like what? Keep your fingers where I can see them? No boys over after dark? No, you cannot join the wrestling team? Sausage is only allowed for breakfast under my roof?...elaborate.
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#43 clembo1990
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[QUOTE="Dark_Knight6"]

[QUOTE="clembo1990"]So you can be born a sinner? Whatever religion that is **** them!bigfatcrap

That's like a huge part of Christianity. You're born a sinner because Eve ate the damn apple. :x

Yeah what a *****. And women wonder why we think we're superior. At least we didn't screw everything up for the rest of humanity.:evil:

I thought women were a punnishment because Prometheus stole fire from the Gods and tricked Zeus into eat a hide of fat. :? Either way it makes me feel better about being a man when I can blame women who are weaker for everything :)
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Actually, I think I'd ask him how he cannot find boobs hotter than a dude...
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I'd send him on a important task that will lead to his demise.
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Yeah what a *****. And women wonder why we think we're superior. At least we didn't screw everything up for the rest of humanity.:evil:

bigfatcrap

Well, Adam ate it too but only because she gave him some. So, yeah, her fault!

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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"] First incest comment FTW. [QUOTE="buldog300"] So you can be born a sinner? Whatever religion that is **** them!clembo1990

original sin. It's arguements like these that really test your 'tolerance'.

Oh. I thought Christianity was cool with being gay considering Jesus was, he was always kind of happy. As for Homosexuals, yep its even in the ten commandments "You shall not bear false witness against your neighbour." can spell the words: "gays are sinners". You have to read between the lines when talking about the Bible.

Jesus was happy, when it was time to enjoy life. His first miracle was turning water into wine, but he also knew when to put away being happy and tell people when they are behaving inappropriately. that's what one can admire about jesus, he didn't hesitate to call sinners what they were.

Actually, you left out quite a few letters, but we're kinda steering away from the main question here. My son, however, should 'honor his mother and father' and if his father disagrees with sexual misconduct (what goes on in his house is entirely different than what goes on in mine), he should not bring any bfs home or behave permiscously, atleast not until he's off to college.

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#48 buldog300
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[QUOTE="bigfatcrap"][QUOTE="Dark_Knight6"]

That's like a huge part of Christianity. You're born a sinner because Eve ate the damn apple. :x

clembo1990

Yeah what a *****. And women wonder why we think we're superior. At least we didn't screw everything up for the rest of humanity.:evil:

I thought women were a punnishment because Prometheus stole fire from the Gods and tricked Zeus into eat a hide of fat. :? Either way it makes me feel better about being a man when I can blame women who are weaker for everything :)

actually you're thinking of pandora's box.

Women were tricked into eating the fruit, but men accepted it from women, so unfortunately we did worse than woman :(.

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well, i would not be happy about it but there's nothing i can really do. He's still my son and it's not like being gay suddenly makes him a terrible person. I cant really do anything about it. I cant stop him from being gay I could cut my connections with him but why? i spent 18 years of my life raising him and i obviously love him otherwise i wouldnt have spent 18 years of my life doing it. So kicking him out of my life would hurt me just as much as him. and he would be gay regardless. it's not like i can force him to marry a woman. and if he did, he wouldnt be happy and neither would his wife. or any potential children.

I'd support him and treat him as if he were my son cause he is and he will always be my son. Of course, i'd like to have grandchildren, but there's nothing i can really do.