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#151 XilePrincess
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Love him and whatever like I would any kid.
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#152 foxhound_fox
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Treat him the same if he were to be heterosexual. Same with my daughter(s). No human being should be discriminated against for something out of their control.
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#153 peppersfan2
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Easy do what any rational logical parent would do. Send him to a gay to straight camp where he will live in close contact with other homosexual boys where christian ministers will tell them that everything they feel is wrong and that they are going to hell because of what they are.

I mean it worked for me and I turned out fine!

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#154 DJ-Lafleur
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I'd be surprised, certainly. I might be a little disappointed at first, but I would eventually get over it, and I would treat him well, still.
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#155 Devour2Survive
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Why did you censor gay It's not a bad word....

I hope your post was satire OP.

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I censored it because gay gets automatically censored in titles. Anyway, so I would want him out of the house by 18? So what? So I'd be very disappointed and ashamed that I have a gay son...so what? It's my opinion, however I'd appreciate not to get abusive pm's by some of you who for some reason got very offended by my opinion and decided to 'let me have it'.
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#156 Robertoey
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I'd be a tad dissapointed but in the end it wouldn't change anything. I wouldn't force him out of my house for being who he is.
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#157 JERMINITIS
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To be honest, I don't really know. I'd like to think I'd be accepting, but if he was extremely flamboyant, I couldn't help to feel a little disappointed.Parandrus

with ya on this

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#158 Deihjan
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I wouldn't kick him out of my house or cut him off from the rest of the family, just because of his sexuality. I'm ok with gays, lesbians, bi-sexual people and straights. Personally, I'm more bi than straight, so I'd be a bit proud if he came in and said to me that he was gay. My kids, unborn as they might be, will always be my kids no matter what they choose to do in their life, what they choose to believe in and what they get turned on by.
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#159 chrisrooR
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His choice. I'd support him fully.Haziqonfire
this.
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#160 quadraleap
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I'd say "hey gurlfriend, what took you so long to come out of the closet!?"

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#161 alphamale1989
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When I have a child I will love him/her no matter what.
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#162 KrotchLord
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Homosexuality is not a vice, it is a genetic trait. The population of the world claustrophobic as it is, so gays are a blessing of sorts.
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#163 _rock_
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Take him to a strip club and try to convert him back:twisted:
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#165 Wasdie  Moderator
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I'd be pretty cool with it. I would hope to have another son to carry on the family name though :P.
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#166 nimatoad2000
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i would honestly be a little dissapointed that my son wouldnt turn out to have a family of his own, but think nothing less of him. people like the OP need to understand what tolerance is, and booting your own son out of your house just because of his sexual orientation is just horrible. its not a choice, its the way their born.
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#167 noswear
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i wouldnt careclock_of_omens
This.
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#168 123625
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To be honest when i read the title of this thread I thought it was asking me if my son were god, lol.

But seriously, if he were gey thats, its his sexuality, not mine, so I don't judge or change anything in particular.

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#169 Jekken6
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i'd laugh hysterically for a while
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#170 IrishMallard
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My son can do what he wants, I don't want my daughter to date certain people who have high rates of pimping though.
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#171 Funky_Llama
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What would you do? What I would do is probably ignore it and ask for him not to discuss his sexuality in my home and I would probably boot him out of the house as soon as he turned 18.Devour2Survive
Parenting fail. >_> Anyway, I wouldn't care less. At least, I don't think I would.
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#172 BiancaDK
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i would support him in any way i could think of, and let him know that i´ll be there for him, regardless.

And i would probably be quite proud of the fact that he had the courage and wisdom to share it with me.

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#173 xJordanatorx
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"Dad, Im gay *Awkward silence*
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#174 ithilgore2006
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There was an advert on TV a couple of years back, it was an advert for a phone company, for free international calls. There was a few different ones, all with a similar gag, thatpeople were trying to keep their international calls as short as oissible. But this one, had a man ringing his father, and saying "Dad, I'm gay The father on the other simply just dryly says "Excellent", and hangs up, to avoid a phone bill.

While it was a gag, I think it's a similar reaction I would have. I'd say "lovely", and get on with whatever I was doing. It wouldn't change anything, he's still the same person as before, I'd love him just the same.

And people saying they'd disown him for it, you don't deserve to have children.

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#175 foxhound_fox
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i would honestly be a little dissapointed that my son wouldnt turn out to have a family of his own, but think nothing less of him. people like the OP need to understand what tolerance is, and booting your own son out of your house just because of his sexual orientation is just horrible. its not a choice, its the way their born.nimatoad2000

Male homosexual couples can adopt children and female homosexual couples can adopt or be artificially inseminated. Being homosexual does not prevent you from having a family... unless of course, the religious fundies pass legislature preventing such things.
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#176 Hewkii
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minor reason I want a girl. I kid, but seriously I just don't want a son for some reason.
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#177 -Jiggles-
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I'd hate him and repeatedly whip his sorry hide because being a homosexual magically makes you a horrible son.

Oh, and I'd flick his nose.

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#178 DrSponge
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Nothing. Anyone that would abandon/neglect/do anything negative because their child is gay is absolutely disgusting. *points at OP* I hope you're kidding.
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#179 horgen  Moderator
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He will still be my son.. That's what matters...
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#180 kingdre
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I'd be disappointed. But it's not like there's anything I can do about it.
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#181 cousin_eddy
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I'd first wait and see if it is jsut a phase or not and if it wasn't and he really was I'd support him and be proud of him for having the courage to come out. It isn't right for parents to disown a child because they prefer their own sex rather then another.
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#183 Jillian11
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I really wouldn't mind because well, he's my child, he's a part of me, I'm a part of him, he came out of me. I don't see how you can hate something that is yours, it's their decision and their life, I'll support him no matter what because he's my son. Same thing if I had a daughter.
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#184 sunnystarz
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who knows? alot of these opinion are probably coming from people who doesn't have kids, i'm sure the TC opinion would be different if he had actually held his infant son when he was born. alot of things changes when u actually have kids (or so i been told) your feeling changes, your priority changes, your lifestyle changes.... and so on.. and so on...
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#185 Private_Adam
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His choice. I'd support him fully.Haziqonfire
I would do the same.
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#186 Protoford
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That's nice, are you still being a self reliant responsible citizen? Great, go join the log cabin republicans now... ;)
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#187 SirFrosty
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I wouldn't care. I might be shocked a bit, but it doesn't matter. Just because he's gay doesn't mean he's not the same guy, and it doesn't mean I shouldn't love him the same. The ones who are saying you'd kick him out, why? What purpose can homophobia possibly serve? There's no reason to be afraid of or hate gay people, there's nothing wrong with them, just because they're different from you.
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#188 josh494
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What would you do? What I would do is probably ignore it and ask for him not to discuss his sexuality in my home and I would probably boot him out of the house as soon as he turned 18.Devour2Survive
I would call it my daughter and refer to it as a her.
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#189 bungie93
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I'd kick him out of the house as soon as he was 18.
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#190 mexicangordo
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I'd kick him out of the house as soon as he was 18.bungie93
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#191 MasterKingMP
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That would be just fine with me.
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#192 MGSFan92
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[QUOTE="Dark_Knight6"]

[QUOTE="MGSFan92"]I would love him more for telling me. I have always wanted a gay son more than a straight one, so I hope my son is gay but that's just me. I would love him even if he was straight though. I would just prefer it if he was gay

:lol: That's a first.

Lol, w/e.
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#193 not_wanted
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I would beat the gay out of him. :P
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#194 N0han
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I would beat the gay out of him. :Pnot_wanted

Yess and to do so I would use this giant glowing dil... I mean... Light saber.

http://www.light-sabers.net/images/lightsaber-red.jpg

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#195 fmacraze
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Love him. Why SHOULD his sexual orientation matter to me (or anyone else for that matter)?
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#196 KOTORkicker
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Most gay people I've met are completely civil and are in no way promiscuous towards other men when around straight people. In fact, most gay people are easier to get along with, which is interesting. I have a gay uncle, and he's a nice guy, I don't think him to be any more feminine for it either. On topic: I would applaud him for having the courage to come out and say that to his father, and I would tell him that I was proud of him no matter what he did. (No pun intended) :)
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#197 TehBeast789
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Id try to change him back to being straight, sorry if i sound like an ass, but i not like to have a gay son and i probably wouldnt accept his desicion.
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#198 maheo30
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I'd be a little surprised at first so it would be an awkward 10 seconds. But I'd still accept him because he's my son.bigfatcrap
What they said!
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#199 Murj
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What would you do? What I would do is probably ignore it and ask for him not to discuss his sexuality in my home and I would probably boot him out of the house as soon as he turned 18.Devour2Survive

If he had the courage to tell me I'd be proud of him. If I found out by accident or something, I'd reassure him that I'd love him whether he was homosexual or heterosexual or whatever. Sexuality should have no factor over how much you love your kids.

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#200 N8A
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I'd be proud of him for having the courage to tell me and love him regardless of his sexuality. Dark_Knight6
Yeah that is what I would do. he is my son afterall.