[QUOTE="comp_atkins"][QUOTE="whipassmt"] the conduct of the middle eastern countries doesn't make it okay for the U.S. to act the way, since it's wrong for the middle eastern countries to act that way. Both the U.S. and the Middle East must respect fundamental human rights such as religious liberty.doom3lv
agreed.. but you cannot use another nation's intolerance of religion as an excuse to be intolerant yourself when you nation is the one preaching tolerance.i agree with you. i was wrong. but i cant help it. when i read the news, and hear about how women are beaten, forced to wear the burka (dont listen to the they-do-it-by choice argument), and their noses cut off, stoned to death, i cant help but not want them in this country.being Muslim, 23 years old, and raised in the most conservative Arab country there currently is (Saudi Arabia) where not only the laws but socially it is very conservative....
I can vouch for the "They do it by choice" argument...
mind you my sister and mother don't wear the hijab regularly. in Saudi they have to wear it in public, in private they don't. we cross the border to more liberal Bahrain or Kuwait and the hijabs come off. No one. not me, not my father, not my brothers, not my uncles, not my grandfather, not my great uncles are forcing them..
Only time you'd ever see my mother and sister wear hijab in America would be at Friday prayers at the Mosque, because it's customary clothing for women. granted for men it's whatever is your formal clothes, but you'd be surprised by how many Pakistani, Indians come in their native clothes, or Somalis come wearing their thobes.
my aunt in law, wear the hijab, niqab, and even the gloves, goes all the way over board. you could say 'she got religious' but my female cousins don't think the same way about it. but she has always insisted on wearing it, even if she wants to go visit my family in the USA, she's insisted on it. and my dad has told her she'd be making a bigger scene for herself if she went walking around USA like that, but she won't listen to us.
I don't agree with making laws to make religious practices compulsory at all. As i often tell people (Muslims in the American community, or in the Middle East). "What is the value of ones faith, if the law is designed to force people to do it..."
and there being a no-choice option, has no real bearing on whether a woman has to wear it or not in the religious text (The only explicit thing mentioned in the Quran is for women to cover their bosums). It has a lot more to do with a deeply patriarchal paternalistic culture of the Arabs. That will change - and i see it changing - with the advent of globalization and rising living standards.
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