Is it really "wrong" for grown men to be attracted to 13-14 year old g

I'm sure some of you are going to post just from reading the topic and not read this, just watch. Anyhow, I understand why any type of intimacy is illegal with the age difference, a person that young is not yet capable of making responsible decisions, and so yes, I do believe it would be wrong for a grown man to act on such impulse. But, why is it considered "wrong" or "unnatural"just to have the attraction? Males are instinctively programmed to be attracted to fertile females, and girls reach fertility age at around 13, some even a little younger. So illegal or not, does a man really need therapy just for having the attraction?

To have therapy no not really.

No but everything has a name and that called pedophillia. Its not socially accepted but its not wrong. Just the attraction.

Yes. Go seek help. It is not natural and trying to convince yourself otherwise only deepens the problem.

First lets determine what wrong is..mrmusicman247

You can't help what you are attracted to, but you can help how you act.

You can't help what you are attracted to, but you can help how you act.

sonicare

There aren't many arguments that can call 13-14 year old attraction by older people wrong w/o also infering that homosexuality is wrong. Though one argument is that homosexuals actually have meaningful relationships, it's not always about physical attraction or sex. Whenever a pedophile is attracted to a 13-14 year old, etc. It's mostly just physical... No grown man can relate to a 13 old girl in a meaningful loving way...

Yes, because if he has the attraction then he's likely to act on it. Therefore, we either need to therapize the attraction out of him or kill him. Since the latter is highly unethical, option A we go!Theokhoth

[QUOTE="mrmusicman247"]First lets determine what wrong is..Theokhoth

No but everything has a name and that called pedophillia. Its not socially accepted but its not wrong. Just the attraction.

warownslife

You can't help what you are attracted to, but you can help how you act.

sonicare

Well said attraction is alright but when you act by watching porn or any further that is wrong

[QUOTE="mrmusicman247"]First lets determine what wrong is..Theokhoth

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, because if he has the attraction then he's likely to act on it. Therefore, we either need to therapize the attraction out of him or kill him. Since the latter is highly unethical, option A we go!UT_Wrestler

[QUOTE="sonicare"]

You can't help what you are attracted to, but you can help how you act.

warownslife

Womens bodies arent finished puberty till their around 20. The finished products is what men are programed to be attracted to. So ya its wrong. EdenProxy

[QUOTE="EdenProxy"]Womens bodies arent finished puberty till their around 20. The finished products is what men are programed to be attracted to. So ya its wrong. UT_Wrestler

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, because if he has the attraction then he's likely to act on it. Therefore, we either need to therapize the attraction out of him or kill him. Since the latter is highly unethical, option A we go!UT_Wrestler

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[QUOTE="sonicare"]

You can't help what you are attracted to, but you can help how you act.

rawsavon

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, because if he has the attraction then he's likely to act on it. Therefore, we either need to therapize the attraction out of him or kill him. Since the latter is highly unethical, option A we go!UT_Wrestler

[QUOTE="EdenProxy"]Womens bodies arent finished puberty till their around 20. The finished products is what men are programed to be attracted to. So ya its wrong. UT_Wrestler

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="warownslife"]This. Personally i think therapy is a bunch of BS but if someone has strong attractions then it would be good to start going.

warownslife

[QUOTE="mrmusicman247"]First lets determine what wrong is..Theokhoth

[QUOTE="UT_Wrestler"][QUOTE="EdenProxy"]Womens bodies arent finished puberty till their around 20. The finished products is what men are programed to be attracted to. So ya its wrong. munu9

Yes, because if he has the attraction then he's likely to act on it. Theokhoth

[QUOTE="UT_Wrestler"][QUOTE="EdenProxy"]Womens bodies arent finished puberty till their around 20. The finished products is what men are programed to be attracted to. So ya its wrong. Theokhoth

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, because if he has the attraction then he's likely to act on it. sboyer2

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, because if he has the attraction then he's likely to act on it. sboyer2

[QUOTE="UT_Wrestler"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, because if he has the attraction then he's likely to act on it. Therefore, we either need to therapize the attraction out of him or kill him. Since the latter is highly unethical, option A we go!rawsavon

[QUOTE="sboyer2"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, because if he has the attraction then he's likely to act on it. Theokhoth

[QUOTE="munu9"][QUOTE="UT_Wrestler"] Not true, they are capable of reproducing at 13, i.e., fertile, what males are programmed by nature to be attracted to.UT_Wrestler

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"][QUOTE="UT_Wrestler"] Not true, they are capable of reproducing at 13, i.e., fertile, what males are programmed by nature to be attracted to.UT_Wrestler

[QUOTE="UT_Wrestler"][QUOTE="munu9"] I think going by what is right by nature is not preferable because it implies homosexuality is wrong....dk00111

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"][QUOTE="sboyer2"] You serious?warownslife

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="UT_Wrestler"] Then I guess the majority of the human race will need that therapy, since we are all naturally programmed to be attracted to fertile females. You act like every grown man is a potential sex offender.UT_Wrestler

[QUOTE="sboyer2"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Yes, because if he has the attraction then he's likely to act on it. Theokhoth

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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"] Yeah. How many celibate people do you know?Theokhoth

it's good to scout em young so you have the upper hand over others when they finally hit the age where it is ok ;)