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#201 deactivated-6016e81e8e30f
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Right.. as though our government knows what's right for us. What a joke.

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Exactly. Just look at how the Australian government banned all A-cup breasts in pornography because they deemed it too close to child pornography.[QUOTE="rawsavon"] I found that to be the case when I was younger as well. But more people branch out as they age...find others like them...become more assertive/adventurous, etc -usually this is perfectly acceptable (what happens b/w 2 [or more] consenting adults)

If they were lucky to find someone else with that interest and the relationship worked out, maybe. But we both know that isn't easy, especially based on the fetish. It's important people don't feel insecure about what turns them on. A caged animal snaps the hardest, even more so in an area as sensitive as sexuality. Sometimes the snap won't always be bad, but I'd rather have an open pedophiliac friend who is just depressed because of it (who I can help in whatever available way) rather than what I deem a normal friend who is becoming more frustrated every passing day.
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#202 hartsickdiscipl
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[QUOTE="hartsickdiscipl"]

[QUOTE="rawsavon"]

The primary role of the government is to protect its people
-13 year olds fall into this category

Society should strive to raise children as best they can so that they may stand on their own.
Most KIDS lack the ability to do what is best for themselves
How many KIDS would choose to get immunizations, eat right, etc?

WE must help them reach a stage to where they can make their own decisions that enable them to care for themselves
...this does not include letting a 13 year old fall victim to pedophile

Shottayouth13-

Right.. as though our government knows what's right for us. What a joke.

So I guess it's ok to kill people now?

Since when does sex equal murder?

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#203 ssc0n
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[QUOTE="warownslife"]

I thonk we can all agree that its not wrong but acting upon the urges are.

Pixel-Pirate

I think we can agree on that. I just disagree that if a person has an urge, they will fulfill it at all costs. I have an urge for a hamburger right now.

I'm probably not gonna go get that hamburger.

I agree with Pixel-Pirate. Assuming there are no mental disorders/illnesses (etc) involved, everyone has urges. But it is their responsibility to keep them in check, no exceptions.
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#204 Animatronic64
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From society's point of view, it's wrong, and that's all that matters. It will never become accepted. There's no sense in debating this.

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#205 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="warownslife"]

I thonk we can all agree that its not wrong but acting upon the urges are.

Pixel-Pirate

I think we can agree on that. I just disagree that if a person has an urge, they will fulfill it at all costs. I have an urge for a hamburger right now.

I'm probably not gonna go get that hamburger.

But if you thought about a hamburger all day everyday for your entire life (the rate at which people, especially men, have some sexual thought) you probably would eventually eat a hamburger
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#206 Solid_Snake325
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You guys do know that pedophiles are attracted only to prepubescents right? to spell it out for you, it's the ones who haven't hit puberty yet..
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#207 hartsickdiscipl
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You guys do know that pedophiles are attracted only to prepubescents right? to spell it out for you, it's the ones who haven't hit puberty yet..Solid_Snake325

I'm glad that somebody realizes this.

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#208 Ken_Masterz
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You guys do know that pedophiles are attracted only to prepubescents right? to spell it out for you, it's the ones who haven't hit puberty yet..Solid_Snake325
a rose by any other name is still a freakin pedo.
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#209 harashawn
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[QUOTE="jeremiah06"]

On another note: I believe that sexual thoughts about 13-14 year olds is wrong. I know I can't speak for everyone, however when I was that age my sexual urges were directed towards grown women. The fact that tons of kids would look at those nudey mags(which featured grown women) is proof that I wasn't alone.

When I was 14 I certainly found certain girls my age quite attractive. In fact, I admit I still find some girls of that age attractive, and some even younger. Attraction is not wrong, how we act on our attractions can be.
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So.. the government has the right to tell us how old we have to be to have sex? They have the right to tell us how old we have to be to do something with our own bodies, consensually, with another person? What's next? A legal age for arm-wrestling?

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#211 Shottayouth13-
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[QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"]

[QUOTE="hartsickdiscipl"]

Right.. as though our government knows what's right for us. What a joke.

Pixel-Pirate

So I guess it's ok to kill people now?

According to our government, it depends on the situation.

True. I was thinking of just randomly walking up to someone and killing them though(no war and all that jazz). "It depends on the situation" can't be applied to pedophilia though.
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#212 Solid_Snake325
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From society's point of view, it's wrong, and that's all that matters. It will never become accepted. There's no sense in debating this.

Animatronic64
Well i think we can all agree that it's wrong to ACT on it, according to society. but attraction? that's not so black and white.
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#213 disharmonized
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I do not think it is totally wrong, especially how people in that kind of age group wear such... revealing clothing these days :| I cannot answer for certain though, I am a teenager myself and i do not think it is wrong for me to be attracted to them but my opinion will most likely change once i get older.

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#214 warownslife
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Hartsick I'v been wondering what exactly is your oponion again? Can you please not make it a page long though?

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[QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"]You guys do know that pedophiles are attracted only to prepubescents right? to spell it out for you, it's the ones who haven't hit puberty yet..hartsickdiscipl

I'm glad that somebody realizes this.

Are we going to rehash the pedo versus epheb argument? We had managed to avoid it for 10 pages
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#216 Solid_Snake325
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[QUOTE="hartsickdiscipl"]

[QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"]You guys do know that pedophiles are attracted only to prepubescents right? to spell it out for you, it's the ones who haven't hit puberty yet..rawsavon

I'm glad that somebody realizes this.

Are we going to rehash the pedo versus epheb argument? We had managed to avoid it for 10 pages

haha i've been in that argument before. I only brought it up because people keep throwing the pedophile word, which isn't applicable to TC's argument.
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#217 jeremiah06
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[QUOTE="_BlueDuck_"]

[QUOTE="rawsavon"] First part...not that many girls around...also hard to have a relationship based on that -but it is a possibility if the stars align (though not a viable solution for the vast majority) Second part....I agreerawsavon

I'm just saying, if there's a girl that happens to be young but has features of that of an older women, being attracted to that isn't necessarily a cause for concern (obviously as long as you don't act on it). One time I saw a girl at work and was all like "dayummm" but then I was promptly informed she was 16. Of course this was still perfectly legal and I'm not that much older, but I still felt pretty bad about it. But the point is, I found her attractive because she looked like she was around the age of say..19 or 20, nothing about her extra youngness was appealing.

I believe that has happened to all of us older guys. -you were attracted to something you are are usually attracted to

That doesn't count as being attracted to younger girls to me. If one sees a 13 year old developed far enough to resemble a 18 year old, then you aren't mentally being drawn in to a girl, in your mind you see a woman. Its the same as being attracted to a very convincing transvestite. I think the real problem is being attracted to "little girl". If the underdeveloped body of a child turns you on then we can start classification.
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#218 dragon7x2k
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So.. the government has the right to tell us how old we have to be to have sex? They have the right to tell us how old we have to be to do something with our own bodies, consensually, with another person? What's next? A legal age for arm-wrestling?

hartsickdiscipl
The problem is that sex is not such a simple situation, it's not only about two persons in a concentaul situation, is about responsability.
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#219 Shottayouth13-
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[QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"]

[QUOTE="hartsickdiscipl"]

Right.. as though our government knows what's right for us. What a joke.

hartsickdiscipl

So I guess it's ok to kill people now?

Since when does sex equal murder?

Sex, murder etc. are things the government have the ability to regulate. Since you say the" government doesn't know what's right for us", surely it can be applied to other areas no?
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#220 Ken_Masterz
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anyway it's been a hootnanny gents. I hope all you pro-grown men having sex with 13 year olds remember this when it's your daughter having a romp with a 30 year old. Goodnight all ;)
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#221 hartsickdiscipl
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Hartsick I'v been wondering what exactly is your oponion again? Can you please not make it a page long though?

warownslife

My opinion is simple. That governments don't have the right to set a hard legal age limit for sex. I think nature does this for us. I consider sex to be a morality issue only, as long as it's consensual and between people who are physically mature enough for it. Men have always, and will always be attracted to very young women who are in puberty.

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#222 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="hartsickdiscipl"]

I'm glad that somebody realizes this.

Solid_Snake325

Are we going to rehash the pedo versus epheb argument? We had managed to avoid it for 10 pages

haha i've been in that argument before. I only brought it up because people keep throwing the pedophile word, which isn't applicable to TC's argument.

I know, I was avoiding it on purpose :X
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Exactly. Just look at how the Australian government banned all A-cup breasts in pornography because they deemed it too close to child pornography.SeraphimGoddess

Lol wat? :lol: I know we have a moronic government.......but that's just going a bit far...

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[QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

[QUOTE="warownslife"]

I thonk we can all agree that its not wrong but acting upon the urges are.

rawsavon

I think we can agree on that. I just disagree that if a person has an urge, they will fulfill it at all costs. I have an urge for a hamburger right now.

I'm probably not gonna go get that hamburger.

But if you thought about a hamburger all day everyday for your entire life (the rate at which people, especially men, have some sexual thought) you probably would eventually eat a hamburger

You're describing a pedophile. Most men don't think about young girls EVERYDAY.
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#225 Solid_Snake325
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anyway it's been a hootnanny gents. I hope all you pro-grown men having sex with 13 year olds remember this when it's your daughter having a romp with a 30 year old. Goodnight all ;)Ken_Masterz
yea no one's talking about having sex with 13 year olds. thanks for the ignorant post and goodnight.
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#226 dragon7x2k
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anyway it's been a hootnanny gents. I hope all you pro-grown men having sex with 13 year olds remember this when it's your daughter having a romp with a 30 year old. Goodnight all ;)Ken_Masterz
Nobody here has suported the idea, just the fact that there's pedophiles that don't go around raping kids.
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#227 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="_BlueDuck_"]

I'm just saying, if there's a girl that happens to be young but has features of that of an older women, being attracted to that isn't necessarily a cause for concern (obviously as long as you don't act on it). One time I saw a girl at work and was all like "dayummm" but then I was promptly informed she was 16. Of course this was still perfectly legal and I'm not that much older, but I still felt pretty bad about it. But the point is, I found her attractive because she looked like she was around the age of say..19 or 20, nothing about her extra youngness was appealing.

jeremiah06

I believe that has happened to all of us older guys. -you were attracted to something you are are usually attracted to

That doesn't count as being attracted to younger girls to me. If one sees a 13 year old developed far enough to resemble a 18 year old, then you aren't mentally being drawn in to a girl, in your mind you see a woman. Its the same as being attracted to a very convincing transvestite. I think the real problem is being attracted to "little girl". If the underdeveloped body of a child turns you on then we can start classification.

I agree, and I was agreeing with blueduck
-but if you knew she was 13 and acted upon, that is where the problem comes in

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My old roomate had a picture of his fourteen year old cousin pinned up on the wall, a girl that looked more like 20. Every time someone came in and saw the picture of them they'd go on about how lucky he is to have her (Before he explained that not only was she his cousin, but that she was also fourteen). Every one of those guys' first response to her picture was attraction. So no, I wouldn't say the attraction is in itself bad, some girls develope early, as long as you don't act on it I wouldn't say it's sick. Unless it's something about their age that attracts you that is.

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[QUOTE="warownslife"]

Hartsick I'v been wondering what exactly is your oponion again? Can you please not make it a page long though?

hartsickdiscipl

My opinion is simple. That governments don't have the right to set a hard legal age limit for sex. I think nature does this for us. I consider sex to be a morality issue only, as long as it's consensual and between people who are physically mature enough for it. Men have always, and will always be attracted to very young women who are in puberty.

Can't completly agree. Sorry. I think the age limit in the U.S. is pretty god.

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#230 hartsickdiscipl
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[QUOTE="hartsickdiscipl"]

So.. the government has the right to tell us how old we have to be to have sex? They have the right to tell us how old we have to be to do something with our own bodies, consensually, with another person? What's next? A legal age for arm-wrestling?

dragon7x2k

The problem is that sex is not such a simple situation, it's not only about two persons in a concentaul situation, is about responsability.

That's right, it is. And that's why at least one of the 2 people needs to have a job in case she gets pregnant :P

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#231 dragon7x2k
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[QUOTE="warownslife"]

Hartsick I'v been wondering what exactly is your oponion again? Can you please not make it a page long though?

hartsickdiscipl

My opinion is simple. That governments don't have the right to set a hard legal age limit for sex. I think nature does this for us. I consider sex to be a morality issue only, as long as it's consensual and between people who are physically mature enough for it. Men have always, and will always be attracted to very young women who are in puberty.

No, there has to be more than concensus and physical maturity, there has to be psychological maturity too and responsability.
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#232 hartsickdiscipl
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[QUOTE="hartsickdiscipl"]

[QUOTE="warownslife"]

Hartsick I'v been wondering what exactly is your oponion again? Can you please not make it a page long though?

warownslife

My opinion is simple. That governments don't have the right to set a hard legal age limit for sex. I think nature does this for us. I consider sex to be a morality issue only, as long as it's consensual and between people who are physically mature enough for it. Men have always, and will always be attracted to very young women who are in puberty.

Can't completly agree. Sorry. I think the age limit in the U.S. is pretty god.

You're entitled to your opinion. I feel that the very idea of an age limit for something as personal as sex is wrong.

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#233 deactivated-6016e81e8e30f
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[QUOTE="SeraphimGoddess"]Exactly. Just look at how the Australian government banned all A-cup breasts in pornography because they deemed it too close to child pornography.Celldrax

Lol wat? :lol: I know we have a moronic government.......but that's just going a bit far...

No offense to any Australians, but I personally can't see why a country formed of convicts and peasants thrown away by political tyrants would become so ban happy lately. I mean they essentially called all small breasted women children. :lol:
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#234 ssc0n
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anyway it's been a hootnanny gents. I hope all you pro-grown men having sex with 13 year olds remember this when it's your daughter having a romp with a 30 year old. Goodnight all ;)Ken_Masterz
Why are you assuming that, just because we're having this discussion, we have done any of this? Good night
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#235 Ken_Masterz
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yea no one's talking about having sex with 13 year olds. thanks for the ignorant post and goodnight.Solid_Snake325
you may want to reread some of hartsick's posts. Grass on the field and all that. And you're very welcome for my post. Goodnight.

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#236 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

I think we can agree on that. I just disagree that if a person has an urge, they will fulfill it at all costs. I have an urge for a hamburger right now.

I'm probably not gonna go get that hamburger.

ssc0n

But if you thought about a hamburger all day everyday for your entire life (the rate at which people, especially men, have some sexual thought) you probably would eventually eat a hamburger

You're describing a pedophile. Most men don't think about young girls EVERYDAY.

That is what we are discussing atm (pedo and epheb)

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#237 Shottayouth13-
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[QUOTE="Ken_Masterz"]anyway it's been a hootnanny gents. I hope all you pro-grown men having sex with 13 year olds remember this when it's your daughter having a romp with a 30 year old. Goodnight all ;)dragon7x2k
Nobody here has suported the idea, just the fact that there's pedophiles that don't go around raping kids.

He (hartsickdiscipl) apparently supports it.
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#238 hartsickdiscipl
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[QUOTE="hartsickdiscipl"]

[QUOTE="warownslife"]

Hartsick I'v been wondering what exactly is your oponion again? Can you please not make it a page long though?

dragon7x2k

My opinion is simple. That governments don't have the right to set a hard legal age limit for sex. I think nature does this for us. I consider sex to be a morality issue only, as long as it's consensual and between people who are physically mature enough for it. Men have always, and will always be attracted to very young women who are in puberty.

No, there has to be more than concensus and physical maturity, there has to be psychological maturity too and responsability.

And you think we're smart enough to figure that out for everybody? That we have that right? I certainly don't.

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#239 Solid_Snake325
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I agree to the above posters that classification is important. I believe TC is referring to teens who have hit puberty, and he probably should have stated that as the criteria, not as the age (13-14).
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#240 harashawn
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If the underdeveloped body of a child turns you on then we can start classification.jeremiah06
So what if it does? If the person chooses not to act on their attraction why should it matter?
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#241 Pixel-Pirate
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[QUOTE="Pixel-Pirate"]

[QUOTE="warownslife"]

I thonk we can all agree that its not wrong but acting upon the urges are.

rawsavon

I think we can agree on that. I just disagree that if a person has an urge, they will fulfill it at all costs. I have an urge for a hamburger right now.

I'm probably not gonna go get that hamburger.

But if you thought about a hamburger all day everyday for your entire life (the rate at which people, especially men, have some sexual thought) you probably would eventually eat a hamburger

That would assume that that was their only sexual fetish and the predominent one at all time.

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#242 hartsickdiscipl
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[QUOTE="dragon7x2k"][QUOTE="Ken_Masterz"]anyway it's been a hootnanny gents. I hope all you pro-grown men having sex with 13 year olds remember this when it's your daughter having a romp with a 30 year old. Goodnight all ;)Shottayouth13-
Nobody here has suported the idea, just the fact that there's pedophiles that don't go around raping kids.

He (hartsickdiscipl) apparently supports it.

I know the law in the US considers it rape, but I don't. They need to get their paws out of people's personal affairs. Nobody has the right to tell someone who is physically mature enough for sex that their mind isn't ready for it. That's for each person to find out.

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#243 Shottayouth13-
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[QUOTE="warownslife"]

[QUOTE="hartsickdiscipl"]

My opinion is simple. That governments don't have the right to set a hard legal age limit for sex. I think nature does this for us. I consider sex to be a morality issue only, as long as it's consensual and between people who are physically mature enough for it. Men have always, and will always be attracted to very young women who are in puberty.

hartsickdiscipl

Can't completly agree. Sorry. I think the age limit in the U.S. is pretty god.

You're entitled to your opinion. I feel that the very idea of an age limit for something as personal as sex is wrong.

So what happens when a 13 year old gets pregnant?
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#244 Solid_Snake325
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[QUOTE="dragon7x2k"][QUOTE="hartsickdiscipl"]

My opinion is simple. That governments don't have the right to set a hard legal age limit for sex. I think nature does this for us. I consider sex to be a morality issue only, as long as it's consensual and between people who are physically mature enough for it. Men have always, and will always be attracted to very young women who are in puberty.

hartsickdiscipl

No, there has to be more than concensus and physical maturity, there has to be psychological maturity too and responsability.

And you think we're smart enough to figure that out for everybody? That we have that right? I certainly don't.

Agreed, how do we determine pyschological maturity and responsibility?
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#245 Animatronic64
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[QUOTE="Animatronic64"]

From society's point of view, it's wrong, and that's all that matters. It will never become accepted. There's no sense in debating this.

Solid_Snake325

Well i think we can all agree that it's wrong to ACT on it, according to society. but attraction? that's not so black and white.

Attraction can never be considered wrong if it's a part of what you are. That's like saying being a homosexual is wrong. It's not "wrong" to be homosexual, or even a serial killer, it's simply what you are. There's a HUGE difference between someone who decides to kill someone over money, and someone who kills someone due to a mental disease such as paranoid schizophrenia. And while pedophiles are mentally alert of society, and it's rules, they still suffer from an imbalance. They can choose not to act up on it, but the fact that they are attracted in the first place isn't wrong, it's just what and who they are, it is their reality. They are about as "wrong" as someone who was born with two heads or something.

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#246 warownslife
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[QUOTE="warownslife"]

[QUOTE="hartsickdiscipl"]

My opinion is simple. That governments don't have the right to set a hard legal age limit for sex. I think nature does this for us. I consider sex to be a morality issue only, as long as it's consensual and between people who are physically mature enough for it. Men have always, and will always be attracted to very young women who are in puberty.

hartsickdiscipl

Can't completly agree. Sorry. I think the age limit in the U.S. is pretty god.

You're entitled to your opinion. I feel that the very idea of an age limit for something as personal as sex is wrong.

So lets say a 14 year old is very mature and is attracted too a 21 year old man with a good job. Would you feel thatit would beacceptable if they wanted to do sometthing?

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#247 Solid_Snake325
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[QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"][QUOTE="Animatronic64"]

From society's point of view, it's wrong, and that's all that matters. It will never become accepted. There's no sense in debating this.

Animatronic64

Well i think we can all agree that it's wrong to ACT on it, according to society. but attraction? that's not so black and white.

Attraction can never be considered wrong if it's a part of what you are. That's like saying being a homosexual is wrong. It's not "wrong" to be homosexual, or even a serial killer, it's simply what you are. There's a HUGE difference between someone who decides to kill someone over money, and someone who kills someone due to a mental disease such as paranoid schizophrenia. And while pedophiles are mentally alert of society, and it's rules, they still suffer from an imbalance. They can choose not to act up on it, but the fact that they are attracted in the first place isn't wrong, it's just what and who they are, it is their reality.

right but be careful, in this case we aren't talking about pedophiles. We are referring not to prepubescent teens.
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#248 Shottayouth13-
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[QUOTE="Shottayouth13-"][QUOTE="dragon7x2k"] Nobody here has suported the idea, just the fact that there's pedophiles that don't go around raping kids.hartsickdiscipl

He (hartsickdiscipl) apparently supports it.

I know the law in the US considers it rape, but I don't. They need to get their paws out of people's personal affairs. Nobody has the right to tell someone who is physically mature enough for sex that their mind isn't ready for it. That's for each person to find out.

Question: Would you want some old dude having sexual relations with your just developing daughter?
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[QUOTE="jeremiah06"] If the underdeveloped body of a child turns you on then we can start classification.harashawn
So what if it does? If the person chooses not to act on their attraction why should it matter?

People assume that if you have the loaded cannon ready, you're always going to fire it.
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#250 hartsickdiscipl
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[QUOTE="hartsickdiscipl"]

[QUOTE="warownslife"]Can't completly agree. Sorry. I think the age limit in the U.S. is pretty god.

Shottayouth13-

You're entitled to your opinion. I feel that the very idea of an age limit for something as personal as sex is wrong.

So what happens when a 13 year old gets pregnant?

Sounds like her parents didn't teach her much, did they? They need to take care of the kid until she can. If the person who impregnated her is old enough to support the child, then he needs to contribute as well.