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#101 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="dave123321"]People who ridicule and belittle people's beliefs. rawsavon
I hate that crap too. Debate and discuss...YES, that is fine Belittle...NO, that is just rude

So I guess I can't pick on Texas.:P
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#102 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="dave123321"]People who ridicule and belittle people's beliefs. LJS9502_basic
I hate that crap too. Debate and discuss...YES, that is fine Belittle...NO, that is just rude

So I guess I can't pick on Texas.:P

*Rethinks policy on reporting users* No :x
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#103 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

When I'm arguing with someone and they put words in my mouth...which happens often.

When People are losing an argument and cannot make a counterpoint so they change the subject or claim "I win, You lose".

Stuff like that.

taj7575

It must be hard when almost everyone posting in the thread is arguing with you, and yet they're all wrong, right?

Sarcasm? I have noticed there is a small minority that agree with each other or just don't like specific users and they band together in debate threads against one person. Problem is they invariably aren't debating the subject. So they aren't really making any points. I'd hope lurkers pick up on that.
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#104 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] I hate that crap too. Debate and discuss...YES, that is fine Belittle...NO, that is just ruderawsavon
So I guess I can't pick on Texas.:P

*Rethinks policy on reporting users* No :x

:lol: i did live there for a few months.
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#105 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

When I'm arguing with someone and they put words in my mouth...which happens often.

When People are losing an argument and cannot make a counterpoint so they change the subject or claim "I win, You lose".

Stuff like that.

taj7575

It must be hard when almost everyone posting in the thread is arguing with you, and yet they're all wrong, right?

A fair amount of users "Assume" things from my posts. I find it annoying, when you claim "I win, You lose" you're essentially saying "I don't know how to counter that, but I don't want to say I'm wrong" so.. Where did I say they were wrong?
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#106 rawsavon
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:lol: i did live there for a few months.LJS9502_basic
...traitor
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#107 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="taj7575"]

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

When I'm arguing with someone and they put words in my mouth...which happens often.

When People are losing an argument and cannot make a counterpoint so they change the subject or claim "I win, You lose".

Stuff like that.

Snipes_2

It must be hard when almost everyone posting in the thread is arguing with you, and yet they're all wrong, right?

A fair amount of users "Assume" things from my posts. I find it annoying, when you claim "I win, You lose" you're essentially saying "I don't know how to counter that, but I don't want to say I'm wrong" so.. Where did I say they were wrong?

Here's how to tell if they have no counter...they argue semantics, they change the subject, or at least the original idea present in the argument, they repeat the same thing.
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#108 dave123321
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[QUOTE="dave123321"]People who ridicule and belittle people's beliefs. rawsavon
I hate that crap too. Debate and discuss...YES, that is fine Belittle...NO, that is just rude

Yup , criticism and discussion is perfectly fine.
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#109 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"][QUOTE="taj7575"]

It must be hard when almost everyone posting in the thread is arguing with you, and yet they're all wrong, right?

LJS9502_basic

A fair amount of users "Assume" things from my posts. I find it annoying, when you claim "I win, You lose" you're essentially saying "I don't know how to counter that, but I don't want to say I'm wrong" so.. Where did I say they were wrong?

Here's how to tell if they have no counter...they argue semantics, they change the subject, or at least the original idea present in the argument, they repeat the same thing.

Yeah, I know. Or they try to focus on the user instead of the argument.

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#110 testfactor888
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I never get annoyed on OT. I am utterly calm. Does that annoy anyone?
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#111 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]:lol: i did live there for a few months.rawsavon
...traitor

Got homesick when I saw the Heinz ketchup bottle on the restaurant table.:P
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#112 taj7575
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[QUOTE="taj7575"]

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

When I'm arguing with someone and they put words in my mouth...which happens often.

When People are losing an argument and cannot make a counterpoint so they change the subject or claim "I win, You lose".

Stuff like that.

LJS9502_basic

It must be hard when almost everyone posting in the thread is arguing with you, and yet they're all wrong, right?

Sarcasm? I have noticed there is a small minority that agree with each other or just don't like specific users and they band together in debate threads against one person. Problem is they invariably aren't debating the subject. So they aren't really making any points. I'd hope lurkers pick up on that.

It's not specific users. It's the most random posters I've never even seen on OT before.

And it normally starts with someone posting something that has nothing to do with the thread subject at all that leads to the debate anyway.

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#113 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="taj7575"]

It must be hard when almost everyone posting in the thread is arguing with you, and yet they're all wrong, right?

taj7575

Sarcasm? I have noticed there is a small minority that agree with each other or just don't like specific users and they band together in debate threads against one person. Problem is they invariably aren't debating the subject. So they aren't really making any points. I'd hope lurkers pick up on that.

It's not specific users. It's the most random poster I've never even seen on OT before.

And it normally starts with someone posting something that has nothing to do with the thread subject at all that leads to the debate anyway.

Not sure what you are talking about....
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#114 Dystopian-X
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I never get annoyed on OT. I am utterly calm. Does that annoy anyone?testfactor888
You are too calm >: [ I'll make a rant about "calms" like you!

;P

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#115 taj7575
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[QUOTE="taj7575"]

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

When I'm arguing with someone and they put words in my mouth...which happens often.

When People are losing an argument and cannot make a counterpoint so they change the subject or claim "I win, You lose".

Stuff like that.

Snipes_2

It must be hard when almost everyone posting in the thread is arguing with you, and yet they're all wrong, right?

A fair amount of users "Assume" things from my posts. I find it annoying, when you claim "I win, You lose" you're essentially saying "I don't know how to counter that, but I don't want to say I'm wrong" so.. Where did I say they were wrong?

I didn't see a "I win you loose" situation in the last thread you were in..It was a bunch of people saying your posts make no sence/what are you even talking about, especially when you get on about crusades and essentially defend it. And many good point are made. And then the thread ends with recycling of arguments..

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#116 testfactor888
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[QUOTE="testfactor888"]I never get annoyed on OT. I am utterly calm. Does that annoy anyone?Dystopian-X

You are too calm >: [ I'll make a rant about "calms" like you!

;P

I look forward to reading this riveting rant :P
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#117 taj7575
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[QUOTE="taj7575"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] Sarcasm? I have noticed there is a small minority that agree with each other or just don't like specific users and they band together in debate threads against one person. Problem is they invariably aren't debating the subject. So they aren't really making any points. I'd hope lurkers pick up on that.LJS9502_basic

It's not specific users. It's the most random poster I've never even seen on OT before.

And it normally starts with someone posting something that has nothing to do with the thread subject at all that leads to the debate anyway.

Not sure what you are talking about....

Random posters*/lurkers.

You said specific users. It's not specific users.

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#118 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="taj7575"]

It's not specific users. It's the most random poster I've never even seen on OT before.

And it normally starts with someone posting something that has nothing to do with the thread subject at all that leads to the debate anyway.

taj7575

Not sure what you are talking about....

Random posters*/lurkers.

You said specific users. It's not specific users.

Ah well in the threads I've been it's the same users over and over.
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#119 Wolls
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I think the best thing to do is never get your hopes up about any thread :)
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#120 killerkool07
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When I'm arguing with someone and they put words in my mouth...which happens often.

When People are losing an argument and cannot make a counterpoint so they change the subject or claim "I win, You lose".

Stuff like that.

Snipes_2

I'd like to put something in your mouth (barry white is playing in the background hand on shoulder action engaged)

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#121 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"][QUOTE="taj7575"]

It must be hard when almost everyone posting in the thread is arguing with you, and yet they're all wrong, right?

taj7575

A fair amount of users "Assume" things from my posts. I find it annoying, when you claim "I win, You lose" you're essentially saying "I don't know how to counter that, but I don't want to say I'm wrong" so.. Where did I say they were wrong?

I didn't see a "I win you loose" situation in the last thread you were in..It was a bunch of people saying your posts make no sence/what are you even talking about, especially when you get on about crusades and essentially defend it. And many good point are made. And then the thread ends with recycling of arguments..

I'm pretty sure at least one Person stated that at some point, maybe not in that thread though.
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#122 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

When I'm arguing with someone and they put words in my mouth...which happens often.

When People are losing an argument and cannot make a counterpoint so they change the subject or claim "I win, You lose".

Stuff like that.

killerkool07

I'd like to put something in your mouth (barry white is playing in the background hand on shoulder action engaged)

That's messed up.
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#123 killerkool07
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[QUOTE="killerkool07"]

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"]

When I'm arguing with someone and they put words in my mouth...which happens often.

When People are losing an argument and cannot make a counterpoint so they change the subject or claim "I win, You lose".

Stuff like that.

Snipes_2

I'd like to put something in your mouth (barry white is playing in the background hand on shoulder action engaged)

That's messed up.

Sorry just a stupid joke

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#124 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"][QUOTE="killerkool07"]

I'd like to put something in your mouth (barry white is playing in the background hand on shoulder action engaged)

killerkool07

That's messed up.

Sorry just a stupid joke

I know, It made me laugh :P
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#125 dave123321
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] I hate that crap too. Debate and discuss...YES, that is fine Belittle...NO, that is just ruderawsavon
So I guess I can't pick on Texas.:P

*Rethinks policy on reporting users* No :x

As a fellow Texan , I would have to agree 9502.
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#127 killerkool07
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[QUOTE="killerkool07"]

[QUOTE="Snipes_2"] That's messed up.Snipes_2

Sorry just a stupid joke

I know, It made me laugh :P

you could have put :) lol

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#128 Snipes_2
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[QUOTE="Snipes_2"][QUOTE="killerkool07"]

Sorry just a stupid joke

killerkool07

I know, It made me laugh :P

you could have put :)

I know, I forgot to put the emote :lol:
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#130 CBR600-RR
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Obsession with other users.....>__>LJS9502_basic

Oh I like this, this is a pet peeve of mine too!

Also when people turn everything into a damn roll call thread.

Anime sigs and avi's too.

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#131 DJ-Lafleur
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-People who constantly post ":P" or ":3".

-Threads derailing into roll calls.

-Sigs/avys with 10 year old anime girls. (oh sorry, "18" year old anime girls. >_>)

-When a news thread dealing with someone getting electrocuted ends up having people repeating the same electricity puns a million times.

-Justin Bieber threads.

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#132 Espada12
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The amount of liberalism, the strange love for animals and hate for humans, the hate for anything mainstream and fairy tale world mentality alot of people have.

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#133 LJS9502_basic
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-People who constantly post ":P" or ":3".

-Threads derailing into roll calls.

-Sigs/avys with 10 year old anime girls. (oh sorry, "18" year old anime girls. >_>)

-When a news thread dealing with someone getting electrocuted ends up having people repeating the same electricity puns a million times.

-Justin Bieber threads.

DJ-Lafleur
I have GOT to encapsulate the entirety of this into one thread....
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#134 Atmanix
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[QUOTE="DJ-Lafleur"]

-People who constantly post ":P" or ":3".

-Threads derailing into roll calls.

-Sigs/avys with 10 year old anime girls. (oh sorry, "18" year old anime girls. >_>)

-When a news thread dealing with someone getting electrocuted ends up having people repeating the same electricity puns a million times.

-Justin Bieber threads.

LJS9502_basic

I have GOT to encapsulate the entirety of this into one thread....

I'd like to see that.

"Anime fans, describe your attraction level to Justin Beiber being electrified using only emoticons and puns"

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#135 mitu123
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-People who constantly post ":P" or ":3".

DJ-Lafleur

You too!:x

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#136 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="Atmanix"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="DJ-Lafleur"]

-People who constantly post ":P" or ":3".

-Threads derailing into roll calls.

-Sigs/avys with 10 year old anime girls. (oh sorry, "18" year old anime girls. >_>)

-When a news thread dealing with someone getting electrocuted ends up having people repeating the same electricity puns a million times.

-Justin Bieber threads.

I have GOT to encapsulate the entirety of this into one thread....

I'd like to see that.

"Anime fans, describe your attraction level to Justin Beiber being electrified using only emoticons and puns"

Not bad. You are on fire today
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#137 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="DJ-Lafleur"]

-People who constantly post ":P" or ":3".

-Threads derailing into roll calls.

-Sigs/avys with 10 year old anime girls. (oh sorry, "18" year old anime girls. >_>)

-When a news thread dealing with someone getting electrocuted ends up having people repeating the same electricity puns a million times.

-Justin Bieber threads.

Atmanix

I have GOT to encapsulate the entirety of this into one thread....

I'd like to see that.

"Anime fans, describe your attraction level to Justin Beiber being electrified using only emoticons and puns"

Now that would be epic....:lol:

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#138 DJ-Lafleur
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[QUOTE="DJ-Lafleur"]

-People who constantly post ":P" or ":3".

-Threads derailing into roll calls.

-Sigs/avys with 10 year old anime girls. (oh sorry, "18" year old anime girls. >_>)

-When a news thread dealing with someone getting electrocuted ends up having people repeating the same electricity puns a million times.

-Justin Bieber threads.

LJS9502_basic

I have GOT to encapsulate the entirety of this into one thread....

:/...

Another pet peeve

-Cure fans

[spoiler] :P [/spoiler]

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#139 killerkool07
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People who lose their faith in humanity because of a random incidence, even though evil twisted sick people existed before 2000

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#140 metallica_fan42
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The crazy video signatures that slow my computer down, because it's an old piece of crap.
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#141 DJ-Lafleur
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People who lose their faith in humanity because of a random incidence, even though evil twisted sick people existed before 2000

killerkool07

Oh god, this. I really hate that phrase now.

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#142 Chris_Williams
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people that use the :oops: and those other faces very very frequently, people that make a big deal when their leaving the forums, i never knew you so why would i care, i mean some people do but your just reading words so don't understand how you could miss the person, people who make topics that ask a question in which the topic creator could easily go to google and find their answer. Racist topics, girl help topics and topics that says rock is better than rap or rap is better than rock, who cares

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#143 fidosim
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Haters and their hating. 8)
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#144 Dystopian-X
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Added poll! ; D
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#145 Bloodseeker23
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I'm annoyed by people who constantly post pics to describe things. I do it occasionally, but some people here seem to think it will make them seem cool or popular.

tocklestein2005
Your sig is pretty freaking awesoome man. :lol: I like using the :P face.
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#146 KiIIyou
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Anyone think i use too many smilies?
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#147 MajorSport
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.gif sigs. i hate trying to read something with a moving image in my peripheral vision.
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#148 Dystopian-X
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Anyone think i use too many smilies? KiIIyou
Nope. You are cool. : D

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#149 KiIIyou
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[QUOTE="KiIIyou"]Anyone think i use too many smilies? Dystopian-X

Nope. You are cool. : D

Hooray:!:

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#150 TroubleMaker411
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I love this place,

I love the "sport" of argument and debate.

But what i absolutely hate is the out and out hatred and racism that tends to show it's head whenever certain topics are brought up. Stubborness is fine, but don't get into a debate if you are not willing to listen to another persons side and youw ant to treat them like they are lesser individuals than yourselves.