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#251 LJS9502_basic

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Because menstrual bleeding (the period) and the conventional use of the term "period" are the exact same thing.
Theokhoth

Bleeding each month is called a period. The menstual cycle is a specific period. But not the only one.

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#252 LJS9502_basic

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[QUOTE="battlefront23"]
[QUOTE="harashawn"] I fail to see how that is a proper decision. _en1gma_

Apparently being rational allows morality to be blown completely out of the picture.

We all get our morals from different societal constructs. I do not consider an embryo a person.

Fine. In your opinion. Different people have a different opinion and this is an argument you cannot win. Life is when the individual decides it's life for their opinion.

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#253 redstorm72

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[QUOTE="battlefront23"] Having a child while your future is "bright" does not negate ending the first baby's life FYI. In fact, what defines what's bright? Wealth? Look at the suicide rates of wealthy people. Wealth =/= happiness. If anything, having other kids down the road would ADD to the loss.

I never said bright = wealth. Bright is having a stable life, good home, friends, an education, a job you enjoy, etc. To me that is happiness. And your right, having children later does not negate the abortion. What it does do however, is allow her to raise the child properly, in a good home, stable income and give the child a chance at a bright future. Whats worse, having the child now and ruining your life and potentially the child's, or having the abortion and raising the child right and making sure that both you and your child can live well? Also, it's obvious you are anti abortion, no matter what the circumstance. I ask you this, why is abortion so wrong? At this early stage of development it is simply a jumble of cells and has non of the characteristics of a human being (thought, sense, emotions, etc). I've heard the argument that it has the potential to be intelligent life, so therefore it must always be treated as such. But lets put that to another example, any animal (even single celled organisms) giving enough time for evolution has the potential to become intelligent life. So should we treat them as such? Is it wrong to kill them? Anyways, just food for thought. Sorry for getting off topic.

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#254 TheAbbeFaria

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[QUOTE="battlefront23"]
[QUOTE="harashawn"] I fail to see how that is a proper decision. _en1gma_

Apparently being rational allows morality to be blown completely out of the picture.

We all get our morals from different societal constructs. I do not consider an embryo a person.

But she does, and that's all that really matters.

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See there's this show called Jerry Springer...
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wrong on the maruy show

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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]
Obviously she mistook bleeding for a period. By definition, you can't possibly have a period while pregnant.
Theokhoth

Period is called a period because of the interval of bleeding that occurs from month to month. When a woman bleeds in a specific interval every month while she is pregnant - guess what... it can be called a period. Just like how women who are on the pill still get a period. Both examples may not be menstrual period by your definition but they can be called periods and many many many many women will call it a period as you have posted and as I will and the OP's girl will call it and how my friend will call it or any other woman for that matter.

Because menstrual bleeding (the period) and the conventional use of the term "period" are the exact same thing.

The word period is a generic term for vaginal bleeding at a specific interval. The period one gets when they are on the pill is different than the normal menstrual period one gets when one is not on the pill. The periodic bleeding one can get while pregnant will still be different than that of someone who isn't. But come up to a girl at any of these circumstances and they will tell you - they are on their period. No one will say "oh I am having my simulated menstrual bleeding right now since I am on my reminder pills." :|

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#259 LJS9502_basic

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The word period is a generic term for vaginal bleeding at a specific interval. The period one gets when they are on the pill is different than the normal menstrual period one gets when one is not on the pill. The periodic bleeding one can get while pregnant will still be different than that of someone who isn't. But come up to a girl at any of these circumstances and they will tell you - they are on their period. No one will say "oh I am having my simulated menstrual bleeding right now since I am on my reminder pills." :|Sajedene

:lol: Never heard that one before.....

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#260 MaddenBowler10

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I know I haven't said anything about this, but my best friend whom I grew up with to this age, passed away back in the summer to leukemia. I lost my closest Aunt, and her son in the same week, 4 weeks ago(she was dying of cancer at the time, and he got in a car accident during her finals weeks) , and I got fired from my job recently because of my problems and not being able to handle myself at work or with the bosses. Now, I've never been happier than when I was with this girl out of all the girls I've been with and I just don't understand why life does this to you. She was immature and careless with her ex(and maybe another guy according to some of ya) and it hurts to know someone else got the best of her and that may also carry for the next year or so because she'll be having a baby in her life, and one that is not mine. Whether or not her ex decides to come back to her is a question, but she is so sure he won't want the baby that she won't tell him which is not something she should keep no matter who it is. I just want to be there for her, I still want to hangout with her and spend time with her and party and enjoy life despite what may happen..and if anything happens between us, then so be it, but I still am working on getting our relationship back on track and it hurts to feel somewhat forgotten and not cared for, especially with someone whom you know that liked you very much and enjoyed being with you. I just want my life to get back in order, and she's been a big part of it the past 3 months, so I don't feel I should just ditch her because I'm not that kind of guy. I hope you all understand this, just please support my decision and if you feel you have more advice to give me, just PM me and ask for my facebook or IM messengers and I'd be happy to let you help me through this. I am going to the doctors this week for depression and see what he can figure out, I just didn't think things would get worse...

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#261 DigitalExile

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Do you really have to go on and on arguing semantics about VAGINAL BLEEDING? Really, give it a rest already. You're going around in circles and getting nowhere, just agree to disagree.

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#262 LJS9502_basic

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TC....just take it slow and see what develops. Don't rush into anything. You seem to be going through something...she is going through something...and haste may lead to mistakes.

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Member since 2008 • 36799 Posts

m sorry

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]
I did. :| It says bleeding is possible, period is not. You quoted me saying that I said "bleeding" when I clearly said "period." Want a screenshot? I'll take one for you.
LJS9502_basic

And she confused the two. Since they appear similar to her. That is no reason to accuse her of cheating. In fact, you shouldn't have mentioned cheating AT ALL.

The circled pertains to you.

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#264 hiphopballer

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Why doesn't she go to the doctors and have an abortion if necessary? That is, if she wants to. She may not agree with your thoughts on this.giant_bowser

eh no dont get a abortion

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#265 TheAbbeFaria

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[QUOTE="_en1gma_"] You specifically claimed I have no experience without even knowing me or asking for me to provide such information (which I am not willing to). I don't have civilized discussions with people who attack me on their first reply and makes baseless claims.

I have not attacked you in any way. I have made an assumption of which I stand by wholeheartedly. Also, you're grossly misrepresenting me because I have not attacked you, and I have only made one baseless claim, an assumption on my part.

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#266 battlefront23

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[QUOTE="redstorm72"] I never said bright = wealth. Bright is having a stable life, good home, friends, an education, a job you enjoy, etc. To me that is happiness. And your right, having children later does not negate the abortion. What it does do however, is allow her to raise the child properly, in a good home, stable income and give the child a chance at a bright future. Whats worse, having the child now and ruining your life and potentially the child's, or having the abortion and raising the child right and making sure that both you and your child can live well? Also, it's obvious you are anti abortion, no matter what the circumstance. I ask you this, why is abortion so wrong? At this early stage of development it is simply a jumble of cells and has non of the characteristics of a human being (thought, sense, emotions, etc). I've heard the argument that it has the potential to be intelligent life, so therefore it must always be treated as such. But lets put that to another example, any animal (even single celled organisms) giving enough time for evolution has the potential to become intelligent life. So should we treat them as such? Is it wrong to kill them? Anyways, just food for thought. Sorry for getting off topic.

In your first paragraph you are describing two different babies. One is murdered, the other given a chance to live. So I don't know what your are getting at there. I am against it because my nephew would not exist if my sister's ex girlfriend would have aborted him. And he is, with the exception of God, the brightest piece of my life. He loves to go outside, loves animals, cars, etc. And he loves me. And I him. I know that is an emotional appeal but I just feel like any human baby, whether scientifically a baby or not, should have the chance to live. I have no logical ways to defeat your argument through science, only through morality. Animals are completely different. They can't reason or experience love like we can. And no need to be sorry. :P

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[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]
[QUOTE="Sajedene"] Period is called a period because of the interval of bleeding that occurs from month to month. When a woman bleeds in a specific interval every month while she is pregnant - guess what... it can be called a period. Just like how women who are on the pill still get a period. Both examples may not be menstrual period by your definition but they can be called periods and many many many many women will call it a period as you have posted and as I will and the OP's girl will call it and how my friend will call it or any other woman for that matter.Sajedene

Because menstrual bleeding (the period) and the conventional use of the term "period" are the exact same thing.

The word period is a generic term for vaginal bleeding at a specific interval. The period one gets when they are on the pill is different than the normal menstrual period one gets when one is not on the pill. The periodic bleeding one can get while pregnant will still be different than that of someone who isn't. But come up to a girl at any of these circumstances and they will tell you - they are on their period. No one will say "oh I am having my simulated menstrual bleeding right now since I am on my reminder pills." :|

And am I supposed to assume that over "menstrual cycle" when someone tells me they're on their period? :lol:

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Do you really have to go on and on arguing semantics about VAGINAL BLEEDING? Really, give it a rest already. You're going around in circles and getting nowhere, just agree to disagree.
DigitalExile

It's great to educate the boys. Clearly many here are unaware that its even possible.

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#270 battlefront23

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Do you really have to go on and on arguing semantics about VAGINAL BLEEDING? Really, give it a rest already. You're going around in circles and getting nowhere, just agree to disagree.
DigitalExile

I agree.

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#271 DigitalExile

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Lmao. I love the arguments going on in this thread. There three by my count.

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#272 MaddenBowler10

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TC....just take it slow and see what develops. Don't rush into anything. You seem to be going through something...she is going through something...and haste may lead to mistakes.LJS9502_basic

I am..I am just casually asking her to hangout and stuff and hoping something develops as time goes on. Whether or not she is pregnant is her own problem, but I'm willing to help. I'm not even gonna worry about it, im just gonna try to get things back on track for us, but at a cautious speed. It's all I can really do at this point..

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#273 LJS9502_basic

Member since 2003 • 180120 Posts

The circled pertains to you.
Theokhoth

And what perchance are you hoping to prove with the screen shot. You clearly accused someone you don't know, never met of cheating. And because she's thinks she's on a period which is medically possible to occur and be misconstrued by a young girl. I fail to see what that shot proves other than what I've reiterated to you. And you refuse to accept.

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#274 MaddenBowler10

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[QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"]I know I haven't said anything about this, but my best friend whom I grew up with to this age, passed away back in the summer to leukemia. I lost my closest Aunt, and her son in the same week, 4 weeks ago(she was dying of cancer at the time, and he got in a car accident during her finals weeks) , and I got fired from my job recently because of my problems and not being able to handle myself at work or with the bosses. Now, I've never been happier than when I was with this girl out of all the girls I've been with and I just don't understand why life does this to you. She was immature and careless with her ex(and maybe another guy according to some of ya) and it hurts to know someone else got the best of her and that may also carry for the next year or so because she'll be having a baby in her life, and one that is not mine. Whether or not her ex decides to come back to her is a question, but she is so sure he won't want the baby that she won't tell him which is not something she should keep no matter who it is. I just want to be there for her, I still want to hangout with her and spend time with her and party and enjoy life despite what may happen..and if anything happens between us, then so be it, but I still am working on getting our relationship back on track and it hurts to feel somewhat forgotten and not cared for, especially with someone whom you know that liked you very much and enjoyed being with you. I just want my life to get back in order, and she's been a big part of it the past 3 months, so I don't feel I should just ditch her because I'm not that kind of guy. I hope you all understand this, just please support my decision and if you feel you have more advice to give me, just PM me and ask for my facebook or IM messengers and I'd be happy to let you help me through this. I am going to the doctors this week for depression and see what he can figure out, I just didn't think things would get worse...

ill quote this so people don't miss this

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Do you really have to go on and on arguing semantics about VAGINAL BLEEDING? Really, give it a rest already. You're going around in circles and getting nowhere, just agree to disagree.
DigitalExile

Agreed... This isn't kindergarden, move on people.

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[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]
Because menstrual bleeding (the period) and the conventional use of the term "period" are the exact same thing.
Theokhoth

The word period is a generic term for vaginal bleeding at a specific interval. The period one gets when they are on the pill is different than the normal menstrual period one gets when one is not on the pill. The periodic bleeding one can get while pregnant will still be different than that of someone who isn't. But come up to a girl at any of these circumstances and they will tell you - they are on their period. No one will say "oh I am having my simulated menstrual bleeding right now since I am on my reminder pills." :|

And am I supposed to assume that over "menstrual cycle" when someone tells me they're on their period? :lol:

You seem to like to assume a lot of things... just like assuming that the girl was cheating because she said she had period and is possibly and likely pregnant.

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#278 LJS9502_basic

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[QUOTE="DigitalExile"]
Do you really have to go on and on arguing semantics about VAGINAL BLEEDING? Really, give it a rest already. You're going around in circles and getting nowhere, just agree to disagree.
bloodling

Agreed... This isn't kindergarden, move on people.

Some seem embarrassed by this discussion.:P

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#279 DigitalExile

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[QUOTE="DigitalExile"]
Do you really have to go on and on arguing semantics about VAGINAL BLEEDING? Really, give it a rest already. You're going around in circles and getting nowhere, just agree to disagree.
Sajedene

It's great to educate the boys. Clearly many here are unaware that its even possible.

Perhaps with the first few posts, but then the both of you, and Theo and LJS just started saying the same things voer and over, albiet with different words, sources and examples. Pretty pointless imo, almost as pointles as this post. o_O

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#280 battlefront23

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[QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"]I know I haven't said anything about this, but my best friend whom I grew up with to this age, passed away back in the summer to leukemia. I lost my closest Aunt, and her son in the same week, 4 weeks ago(she was dying of cancer at the time, and he got in a car accident during her finals weeks) , and I got fired from my job recently because of my problems and not being able to handle myself at work or with the bosses. Now, I've never been happier than when I was with this girl out of all the girls I've been with and I just don't understand why life does this to you. She was immature and careless with her ex(and maybe another guy according to some of ya) and it hurts to know someone else got the best of her and that may also carry for the next year or so because she'll be having a baby in her life, and one that is not mine. Whether or not her ex decides to come back to her is a question, but she is so sure he won't want the baby that she won't tell him which is not something she should keep no matter who it is. I just want to be there for her, I still want to hangout with her and spend time with her and party and enjoy life despite what may happen..and if anything happens between us, then so be it, but I still am working on getting our relationship back on track and it hurts to feel somewhat forgotten and not cared for, especially with someone whom you know that liked you very much and enjoyed being with you. I just want my life to get back in order, and she's been a big part of it the past 3 months, so I don't feel I should just ditch her because I'm not that kind of guy. I hope you all understand this, just please support my decision and if you feel you have more advice to give me, just PM me and ask for my facebook or IM messengers and I'd be happy to let you help me through this. I am going to the doctors this week for depression and see what he can figure out, I just didn't think things would get worse...

I messaged you. Good luck, my friend! :) Also, I have another thing for you to consider, but I'd rather discuss it on a chat. Check your inbox.

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#281 TheAbbeFaria

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[QUOTE="TheAbbeFaria"][QUOTE="_en1gma_"] You specifically claimed I have no experience without even knowing me or asking for me to provide such information (which I am not willing to). I don't have civilized discussions with people who attack me on their first reply and makes baseless claims._en1gma_

I have not attacked you in any way. I have made an assumption of which I stand by wholeheartedly. Also, you're grossly misrepresenting me because I have not attacked you, and I have only made one baseless claim, an assumption on my part.

Your first reply came across as extremely hostile.

Perhaps it was hostile, so what? It makes but very little difference to me.

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[QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"][QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"]I know I haven't said anything about this, but my best friend whom I grew up with to this age, passed away back in the summer to leukemia. I lost my closest Aunt, and her son in the same week, 4 weeks ago(she was dying of cancer at the time, and he got in a car accident during her finals weeks) , and I got fired from my job recently because of my problems and not being able to handle myself at work or with the bosses. Now, I've never been happier than when I was with this girl out of all the girls I've been with and I just don't understand why life does this to you. She was immature and careless with her ex(and maybe another guy according to some of ya) and it hurts to know someone else got the best of her and that may also carry for the next year or so because she'll be having a baby in her life, and one that is not mine. Whether or not her ex decides to come back to her is a question, but she is so sure he won't want the baby that she won't tell him which is not something she should keep no matter who it is. I just want to be there for her, I still want to hangout with her and spend time with her and party and enjoy life despite what may happen..and if anything happens between us, then so be it, but I still am working on getting our relationship back on track and it hurts to feel somewhat forgotten and not cared for, especially with someone whom you know that liked you very much and enjoyed being with you. I just want my life to get back in order, and she's been a big part of it the past 3 months, so I don't feel I should just ditch her because I'm not that kind of guy. I hope you all understand this, just please support my decision and if you feel you have more advice to give me, just PM me and ask for my facebook or IM messengers and I'd be happy to let you help me through this. I am going to the doctors this week for depression and see what he can figure out, I just didn't think things would get worse...

ill quote this so people don't miss this

quit posting things that are off-topic. As i understand it, this thread is about aborting a pregnant vaginal bleeding that may or not have cheated on someone who is pregnant.

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#283 LJS9502_basic

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[Perhaps with the first few posts, but then the both of you, and Theo and LJS just started saying the same things voer and over, albiet with different words, sources and examples. Pretty pointless imo, almost as pointles as this post. o_O
DigitalExile

I'm sorry. I hate misinformation though. Forgive me. Be divine.:(

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[QUOTE="DigitalExile"]
Do you really have to go on and on arguing semantics about VAGINAL BLEEDING? Really, give it a rest already. You're going around in circles and getting nowhere, just agree to disagree.
bloodling

Agreed... This isn't kindergarden, move on people.

When guys here are walking around thinking that the girl cheated on the guy because she was bleeding for three months before realizing she is pregnant isnt warrant for some education on the subject? I mean, by all means go on with the abortion argument - because that's just the adult topic to do. Or go on with the idea of just leaving the girl high and dry.

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[QUOTE="bloodling"]
[QUOTE="DigitalExile"]
Do you really have to go on and on arguing semantics about VAGINAL BLEEDING? Really, give it a rest already. You're going around in circles and getting nowhere, just agree to disagree.
LJS9502_basic

Agreed... This isn't kindergarden, move on people.

Some seem embarrassed by this discussion.:P

I am since there is "blood" in my nickname :P

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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="bloodling"]
Agreed... This isn't kindergarden, move on people.
bloodling

Some seem embarrassed by this discussion.:P

I am since there is "blood" in my nickname :P

Change it to periodling? ;)

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#287 MaddenBowler10

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[QUOTE="pis3rch"][QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"][QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"]I know I haven't said anything about this, but my best friend whom I grew up with to this age, passed away back in the summer to leukemia. I lost my closest Aunt, and her son in the same week, 4 weeks ago(she was dying of cancer at the time, and he got in a car accident during her finals weeks) , and I got fired from my job recently because of my problems and not being able to handle myself at work or with the bosses. Now, I've never been happier than when I was with this girl out of all the girls I've been with and I just don't understand why life does this to you. She was immature and careless with her ex(and maybe another guy according to some of ya) and it hurts to know someone else got the best of her and that may also carry for the next year or so because she'll be having a baby in her life, and one that is not mine. Whether or not her ex decides to come back to her is a question, but she is so sure he won't want the baby that she won't tell him which is not something she should keep no matter who it is. I just want to be there for her, I still want to hangout with her and spend time with her and party and enjoy life despite what may happen..and if anything happens between us, then so be it, but I still am working on getting our relationship back on track and it hurts to feel somewhat forgotten and not cared for, especially with someone whom you know that liked you very much and enjoyed being with you. I just want my life to get back in order, and she's been a big part of it the past 3 months, so I don't feel I should just ditch her because I'm not that kind of guy. I hope you all understand this, just please support my decision and if you feel you have more advice to give me, just PM me and ask for my facebook or IM messengers and I'd be happy to let you help me through this. I am going to the doctors this week for depression and see what he can figure out, I just didn't think things would get worse...

ill quote this so people don't miss this

quit posting things that are off-topic. As i understand it, this thread is about aborting a pregnant vaginal bleeding that may or not have cheated on someone who is pregnant.

this thread is about my friend..read the first post

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Member since 2006 • 1695 Posts

sarcasm man. I was just suggesting that this thread may have gotten a bit side tracked...I should've put a smiley or something at the end, my bad.

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[QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"][QUOTE="pis3rch"][QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"] ill quote this so people don't miss this

quit posting things that are off-topic. As i understand it, this thread is about aborting a pregnant vaginal bleeding that may or not have cheated on someone who is pregnant.

this thread is about my friend..read the first post

Just be there for her. I can only imagine all the confusion that is going on for her right now. She's scared, angry, lost, etc etc etc. Don't force the care but just be there for her and let her know you're there for her when she's ready for the help.

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#290 DigitalExile

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I'm sorry. I hate misinformation though. Forgive me. Be divine.:(
LJS9502_basic

When guys here are walking around thinking that the girl cheated on the guy because she was bleeding for three months before realizing she is pregnant isnt warrant for some education on the subject? I mean, by all means go on with the abortion argument - because that's just the adult topic to do. Or go on with the idea of just leaving the girl high and dry.Sajedene

You both make important points, but why not try adressing the TC more directly? I know he asked you specifically, Saje, but I think trying to comfort him is better than arguing with Theo over it.

Regardless, he doesn't seem too concerned over the matter anyway. He already believes the story he's been presented, and as far as any of us are concerned we should go with that.

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[QUOTE="bloodling"]
[QUOTE="DigitalExile"]
Do you really have to go on and on arguing semantics about VAGINAL BLEEDING? Really, give it a rest already. You're going around in circles and getting nowhere, just agree to disagree.
Sajedene

Agreed... This isn't kindergarden, move on people.

When guys here are walking around thinking that the girl cheated on the guy because she was bleeding for three months before realizing she is pregnant isnt warrant for some education on the subject? I mean, by all means go on with the abortion argument - because that's just the adult topic to do. Or go on with the idea of just leaving the girl high and dry.

I don't think that's what TC was asking for. I just think everything has been said about this, and there is no need to argue over semantics.

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#292 LJS9502_basic

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You both make important points, but why not try adressing the TC more directly? I know he asked you specifically, Saje, but I think trying to comfort him is better than arguing with Theo over it.
Regardless, he doesn't seem too concerned over the matter anyway. He already believes the story he's been repesented, and as far as any of us are concerned we should go with that.
DigitalExile

I gave him the best advice money could buy. Now it's up to him to accept or reject it.

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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]
I'm sorry. I hate misinformation though. Forgive me. Be divine.:(
DigitalExile

When guys here are walking around thinking that the girl cheated on the guy because she was bleeding for three months before realizing she is pregnant isnt warrant for some education on the subject? I mean, by all means go on with the abortion argument - because that's just the adult topic to do. Or go on with the idea of just leaving the girl high and dry.Sajedene

You both make important points, but why not try adressing the TC more directly? I know he asked you specifically, Saje, but I think trying to comfort him is better than arguing with Theo over it.

Regardless, he doesn't seem too concerned over the matter anyway. He already believes the story he's been repesented, and as far as any of us are concerned we should go with that.

I've already responded to the TC three times directly in this thread. There really isn't much to say anymore at this point. So I've moved on to addressing something else that also has been brought up in this thread? I doubt any of you here would like me to make a thread devoted solely to it.

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#294 DigitalExile

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[QUOTE="DigitalExile"]
You both make important points, but why not try adressing the TC more directly? I know he asked you specifically, Saje, but I think trying to comfort him is better than arguing with Theo over it.
Regardless, he doesn't seem too concerned over the matter anyway. He already believes the story he's been repesented, and as far as any of us are concerned we should go with that.
LJS9502_basic

I gave him the best advice money could buy. Now it's up to him to accept or reject it.

Also true. There's nothing much anyone else can do for him now. I suppose, though, this is a good outlet for him.

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#295 Ultrabeatdown55

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This thread is moving along quickly...

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#296 trust_nobody

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This thread is moving along quickly...
Ultrabeatdown55

Of course, it's got the words girlfriend and pregnant in the title. People eat that **** up, including me.

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#297 redstorm72

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[QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="redstorm72"] I never said bright = wealth. Bright is having a stable life, good home, friends, an education, a job you enjoy, etc. To me that is happiness. And your right, having children later does not negate the abortion. What it does do however, is allow her to raise the child properly, in a good home, stable income and give the child a chance at a bright future. Whats worse, having the child now and ruining your life and potentially the child's, or having the abortion and raising the child right and making sure that both you and your child can live well? Also, it's obvious you are anti abortion, no matter what the circumstance. I ask you this, why is abortion so wrong? At this early stage of development it is simply a jumble of cells and has non of the characteristics of a human being (thought, sense, emotions, etc). I've heard the argument that it has the potential to be intelligent life, so therefore it must always be treated as such. But lets put that to another example, any animal (even single celled organisms) giving enough time for evolution has the potential to become intelligent life. So should we treat them as such? Is it wrong to kill them? Anyways, just food for thought. Sorry for getting off topic.

In your first paragraph you are describing two different babies. One is murdered, the other given a chance to live. So I don't know what your are getting at there. I am against it because my nephew would not exist if my sister's ex girlfriend would have aborted him. And he is, with the exception of God, the brightest piece of my life. He loves to go outside, loves animals, cars, etc. And he loves me. And I him. I know that is an emotional appeal but I just feel like any human baby, whether scientifically a baby or not, should have the chance to live. I have no logical ways to defeat your argument through science, only through morality. Animals are completely different. They can't reason or experience love like we can. And no need to be sorry. :P

Yeah, my first paragraph was kind of confusing. Basically I was saying what is worse, aborting the first baby and then having another later in life and giving it a proper upbringing and a chance at a better future or not aborting the child and living a less than stellar life and potentially bringing down the child's future as well. I respect your reasons for being against abortion. Your nephew is a better reason for being pro life than alot of other peoples reasons. I too have a an emotional appeal for what I believe in. My best friend got a girl pregnant by accident in high school. He had to drop out of school and get a full time job. Now, 2 years later, he is still working at a fast food restaurant, his parents have basically abandon him, he is barley making ends meet living in a terrible apartment and he has no hope for a future. He used to be a very happy person, now he is just a shell of his former self. All this because his girlfriend wouldn't have an abortion. As for the animal thing, all I was saying was they to have the potential to become intelligent life, just over a much longer period of time (millions of years of evolution instead 9 months of pregnancy). This is a difficult issue, and will continue to bee one for a long time. But I still enjoy debating it. =)

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#298 LJS9502_basic

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My best friend got a girl pregnant by accident in high school. He had to drop out of school and get a full time job. Now, 2 years later, he is still working at a fast food restaurant, his parents have basically abandon him, he is barley making ends meet living in a terrible apartment and he has no hope for a future. He used to be a very happy person, now he is just a shell of his former self. All this because his girlfriend wouldn't have an abortion.redstorm72

No. All this because he didn't take proper precautions. It is his fault for how his life turned out. And FYI...it's still possible for him to achieve an education.

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I would say get out.

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#300 mayforcebeyou

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get out of the mess asap. It's probably her fault and it's going to be hard for you two relationship. You can't do that so young.

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