My girl "friend" may be pregnant

She went to the Doctor...she is NOT pregnant.MaddenBowler10

???Explain???:shock:

^Now there is the problem of her even wanting to be withyou.

[QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"]She went to the Doctor...she is NOT pregnant.darkmark91

???Explain???:shock:

[QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"]She went to the Doctor...she is NOT pregnant.darkmark91

???Explain???:shock:

^Now there is the problem of her even wanting to be withyou.

Solid_Link22

She went to the Doctor...she is NOT pregnant.MaddenBowler10

Pregnancy tests often give false positives.

[QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"]She went to the Doctor...she is NOT pregnant.BumFluff122

Pregnancy tests often give false positives.

Well isn't that great news buddy?! I'm sure she must've been very stress out by it as well...

I realize that all's probably been good and done with by now, but the OP is kind of a jerk. This girl is pregnant and all he can think about is himself. nevermind the girl must be terrified, no, no, it's OP's problem when some other girl gets pregnant. such selfishness.quiglythegreat

Well...yeah.

What, is the OP supposed to throw away his life taking care of another guy's child, just because some girl got pregnant?

Now, if the OP had actually been the one to get her pregnant and then tried to duck out of his responsibilities, then yeah he'd be a jerk. But that's not what happened. It isn't his fault that the girl is pregnant (speaking hypothetically; I know that it was a false positive), and it's not his kid. He doesn't owe her anything.

[QUOTE="quiglythegreat"]I realize that all's probably been good and done with by now, but the OP is kind of a jerk. This girl is pregnant and all he can think about is himself. nevermind the girl must be terrified, no, no, it's OP's problem when some other girl gets pregnant. such selfishness.MrGeezer

Well...yeah.

What, is the OP supposed to throw away his life taking care of another guy's child, just because some girl got pregnant?

Now, if the OP had actually been the one to get her pregnant and then tried to duck out of his responsibilities, then yeah he'd be a jerk. But that's not what happened. It isn't his fault that the girl is pregnant (speaking hypothetically; I know that it was a false positive), and it's not his kid. He doesn't owe her anything.

[QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

[QUOTE="quiglythegreat"]I realize that all's probably been good and done with by now, but the OP is kind of a jerk. This girl is pregnant and all he can think about is himself. nevermind the girl must be terrified, no, no, it's OP's problem when some other girl gets pregnant. such selfishness.quiglythegreat

Well...yeah.

What, is the OP supposed to throw away his life taking care of another guy's child, just because some girl got pregnant?

Now, if the OP had actually been the one to get her pregnant and then tried to duck out of his responsibilities, then yeah he'd be a jerk. But that's not what happened. It isn't his fault that the girl is pregnant (speaking hypothetically; I know that it was a false positive), and it's not his kid. He doesn't owe her anything.

You should be concerned about the people in a car accident AFTER you've avoided being involved in that accident.

If you see an imminent multi-car accident about to happen, you're not immediately going to think about the other people, you're going to be thinking "Oh no! How do I keep MYSELF from getting involved in this accident?"

See, being a 19 year old college freshman who finds out that his girlfriend is pregnant is like seeing an imminent traffic accident. Yes, his first priority is going to be getting HIMSELF out of that mess. Now that his girlfriend ISN'T pregnant and the disaster has been averted, he can stop thinking about himself since he's no longer in danger.

[QUOTE="quiglythegreat"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

Well...yeah.

What, is the OP supposed to throw away his life taking care of another guy's child, just because some girl got pregnant?

Now, if the OP had actually been the one to get her pregnant and then tried to duck out of his responsibilities, then yeah he'd be a jerk. But that's not what happened. It isn't his fault that the girl is pregnant (speaking hypothetically; I know that it was a false positive), and it's not his kid. He doesn't owe her anything.

MrGeezer

You should be concerned about the people in a car accident AFTER you've avoided being involved in that accident.

If you see an imminent multi-car accident about to happen, you're not immediately going to think about the other people, you're going to be thinking "Oh no! How do I keep MYSELF from getting involved in this accident?"

See, being a 19 year old college freshman who finds out that his girlfriend is pregnant is like seeing an imminent traffic accident. Yes, his first priority is going to be getting HIMSELF out of that mess. Now that his girlfriend ISN'T pregnant and the disaster has been averted, he can stop thinking about himself since he's no longer in danger.

it helps a person feel better to think of others first whenever they can. that's all.quiglythegreat

Maybe if you're talking about deciding who gets the last slice of pizza.

When it comes to finding out that your girlfriend of two months is pregnant and that the results you make will likely determine what the rest of your life is like, then that's a bit different than deciding over that last slice of pizza.

Dude, he's been going out with her for two months. He's about to go into college, and having a family attached to him at that point in his life could have serious consequences. He ought to be concerned about self-preservation. And if YOU'D throw away the rest of your life because your girlfriend of two months got pregnant by another man, then that would be pretty damn silly.

[QUOTE="quiglythegreat"]it helps a person feel better to think of others first whenever they can. that's all.MrGeezer

Maybe if you're talking about deciding who gets the last slice of pizza.

When it comes to finding out that your girlfriend of two months is pregnant and that the results you make will likely determine what the rest of your life is like, then that's a bit different than deciding over that last slice of pizza.

Dude, he's been going out with her for two months. He's about to go into college, and having a family attached to him at that point in his life could have serious consequences. He ought to be concerned about self-preservation. And if YOU'D throw away the rest of your life because your girlfriend of two months got pregnant by another man, then that would be pretty damn silly.

SHE IS PREGNANT! I took 6 pregnancy tests and yeah all of them were positive. I still didn't wanna believe it. Long story but,had a miscarriage anyway so it was hurtful but, was for the best.

Hey wait a minute she wouldn't be pregnant if she bled, right?

It scares me and baffles me that so many in this thread are so misguided on certain things. Congrats on her not being pregnant - but very interesting that she managed to get how many, three? positive results on her pregnancy tests? I'd go for a second opinion doctor or ask the doctor why she gave out that much positive results.

And for the last time - just because a woman "bleeds" then suddenly stops that DOES NOT mean she cheated. It is very common for pregnant women to have interval bleeding during pregnancy.