My girl "friend" may be pregnant

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

Wait, so she's claiming to have been pregnant for 2-3 months yet just now she missed her period?

Chick's cheatin' on ya, bud.

EvilSteveo

Didn't tc say it was actual periods , not just vaginal bleeding. If so shes been cheating.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

Wait, so she's claiming to have been pregnant for 2-3 months yet just now she missed her period?

Chick's cheatin' on ya, bud.

EvilSteveo

Didn't tc say it was actual periods , not just vaginal bleeding. If so shes been cheating.

[QUOTE="battlefront23"][QUOTE="_en1gma_"] The problem is that you can never know 100% that the the parents will raise the kid well, but it is still a good option.

bobaban

Its probably just a good big lump of cells , that cant think for it self yet. Just its body doing things like growing , Passing waste materials into the umbilical chord etc.

[QUOTE="EvilSteveo"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"] Read through the rest of the thread... pregnant women still get vaginal bleeding.Sajedene

Didn't tc say it was actual periods , not just vaginal bleeding. If so shes been cheating.

http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/003264.htm

Up to 10% of women have vaginal bleeding at some time during their pregnancy, especially in the first 3 months (first trimester).

I said "common," not "normal." Up to ten percent of women is not what I'd call "common."

[QUOTE="EvilSteveo"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"] Read through the rest of the thread... pregnant women still get vaginal bleeding.MaddenBowler10

Didn't tc say it was actual periods , not just vaginal bleeding. If so shes been cheating.

[QUOTE="EvilSteveo"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"] Read through the rest of the thread... pregnant women still get vaginal bleeding.Sajedene

Didn't tc say it was actual periods , not just vaginal bleeding. If so shes been cheating.

Honestly? Dump her.

[QUOTE="EvilSteveo"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"] Read through the rest of the thread... pregnant women still get vaginal bleeding.MaddenBowler10

Didn't tc say it was actual periods , not just vaginal bleeding. If so shes been cheating.

She may have confused bleeding with her period, in which case it's fine. However, if her actual, real period only just stopped, then she has been cheating; it is impossible to have a period and be pregnant at the same time.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="EvilSteveo"]

Didn't tc say it was actual periods , not just vaginal bleeding. If so shes been cheating.

MaddenBowler10

[QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"][QUOTE="EvilSteveo"]

Didn't tc say it was actual periods , not just vaginal bleeding. If so shes been cheating.

Theokhoth

She may have confused bleeding with her period, in which case it's fine. However, if her actual, real period only just stopped, then she has been cheating; it is impossible to have a period and be pregnant at the same time.

I would say that TC should not be burdened with this situation. The girl and the previous guy need to work this out.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="EvilSteveo"]

Didn't tc say it was actual periods , not just vaginal bleeding. If so shes been cheating.

MaddenBowler10

[QUOTE="TheAbbeFaria"][QUOTE="_en1gma_"] Oh the irony... I am merely discussing this with him and trying to help him out. I never claimed I knew them. Why are you replying to me as if you know where I'm coming from? Back off. Done talking to you._en1gma_

[QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"][QUOTE="EvilSteveo"]

Didn't tc say it was actual periods , not just vaginal bleeding. If so shes been cheating.

Theokhoth

She may have confused bleeding with her period, in which case it's fine. However, if her actual, real period only just stopped, then she has been cheating; it is impossible to have a period and be pregnant at the same time.

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

[QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"] that's what she told me, but she never went into detail into how long they lasted or how she dealt with them, and no she hasn't been cheating..she's been acknowledging the whole time that it's her ex's whom she was with 3 months agoLJS9502_basic

She may have confused bleeding with her period, in which case it's fine. However, if her actual, real period only just stopped, then she has been cheating; it is impossible to have a period and be pregnant at the same time.

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

[QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"] that's what she told me, but she never went into detail into how long they lasted or how she dealt with them, and no she hasn't been cheating..she's been acknowledging the whole time that it's her ex's whom she was with 3 months agoLJS9502_basic

She may have confused bleeding with her period, in which case it's fine. However, if her actual, real period only just stopped, then she has been cheating; it is impossible to have a period and be pregnant at the same time.

No, you can not have a period while you are pregnant. It is not possible. A missed period is one of the biggest signs of pregnancy.

[QUOTE="_en1gma_"] A DESIRED career and financial stability DOES lead to happiness. If you disagree, I am just going to have to question your sanity. Such along with stable marriage is good for raising a prospective child.TheAbbeFaria

What makes you excited and proud of yourself doesn't mean that it "leads to happiness". Sure, if I had a lot of money I would be excited and proud of myself, but I'm very happy right now even though I'm broke...

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

She may have confused bleeding with her period, in which case it's fine. However, if her actual, real period only just stopped, then she has been cheating; it is impossible to have a period and be pregnant at the same time.

Sajedene

Did I ever say that? :| I said if her period just stopped then she's cheating. I also said that I am in no position to assume that it was anything other than her period because the TC explicitly said "period."

[QUOTE="harashawn"]

[QUOTE="_en1gma_"] I am actually laughing at you right now. Get off your high horse. I chunk of cells is not a child._en1gma_

[QUOTE="bobaban"][QUOTE="battlefront23"] That's true, but I definitely think the child should have the right to life.EvilSteveo

Its probably just a good big lump of cells , that cant think for it self yet like an animal. Just its body doing things like growing , Passing waste materials into the umbilical chord etc.

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No, you can not have a period while you are pregnant. It is not possible. A missed period is one of the biggest signs of pregnancy.

Theokhoth

FYI....

However, it is not uncommon to find that many women do report getting what seem like regular periods during early pregnancy. The bleeding that pregnant women complain about though is not truly a menstrual period. It can be called as early pregnancy bleeding. The perception of having a menstrual period (or more than one) in early pregnancy can confuse the due date and delay some pregnant women from seeking appropriate and timely medical care. In instances where a couple is unaware that they are expecting, it can be particularly emotionally challenging to find out about the pregnancy at the same time they are told that the bleeding might signal a problem.

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

She may have confused bleeding with her period, in which case it's fine. However, if her actual, real period only just stopped, then she has been cheating; it is impossible to have a period and be pregnant at the same time.

Theokhoth

No, you can not have a period while you are pregnant. It is not possible. A missed period is one of the biggest signs of pregnancy.

[QUOTE="harashawn"]

[QUOTE="_en1gma_"] I am actually laughing at you right now. Get off your high horse. I chunk of cells is not a child._en1gma_

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

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No, you can not have a period while you are pregnant. It is not possible. A missed period is one of the biggest signs of pregnancy.

LJS9502_basic

Since you obviously misread the post you quoted, here is what I said:

It is not possible to have a period when you are pregnant.

I did not say "bleeding." I said "period."

I'm just really depressed and stressed, If after 3-4 more week or so and she isn't wanting to see me and talk to me and stuff, I won't try to continue anything with her anymore..I'll just stop talking to her and let her come to me if she needs. But I'll just accept that she doesn't need me anymore and I'm not good enough for her.MaddenBowler10

[QUOTE="TheAbbeFaria"][QUOTE="_en1gma_"] A DESIRED career and financial stability DOES lead to happiness. If you disagree, I am just going to have to question your sanity. Such along with stable marriage is good for raising a prospective child.bloodling

What makes you excited and proud of yourself doesn't mean that it "leads to happiness". Sure, if I had a lot of money I would be excited and proud of myself, but I'm very happy right now even though I'm broke...

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]No it's not. She can have bleeding and be pregnant. She undoubtedly doesn't know the difference. I don't know how you can speak with authority that someone you don't know is cheating. It's not good to smear someone's character without facts.

Sajedene

No, you can not have a period while you are pregnant. It is not possible. A missed period is one of the biggest signs of pregnancy.

Obviously she mistook bleeding for a period. By definition, you can't possibly have a period while pregnant.

I'm just really depressed and stressed, If after 3-4 more week or so and she isn't wanting to see me and talk to me and stuff, I won't try to continue anything with her anymore..I'll just stop talking to her and let her come to me if she needs. But I'll just accept that she doesn't need me anymore and I'm not good enough for her.MaddenBowler10

You're not good enough for her?! That's the weirdest thing I've read all day...

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

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No, you can not have a period while you are pregnant. It is not possible. A missed period is one of the biggest signs of pregnancy.

Theokhoth

Since you obviously misread the post you quoted, here is what I said:

It is not possible to have a period when you are pregnant.

I did not say "bleeding." I said "period."

However, it is not uncommon to find that many women do report getting what seem like regular periods during early pregnancy. The bleeding that pregnant women complain about though is not truly a menstrual period. It can be called as early pregnancy bleeding. The perception of having a menstrual period (or more than one) in early pregnancy can confuse the due date and delay some pregnant women from seeking appropriate and timely medical care. In instances where a couple is unaware that they are expecting, it can be particularly emotionally challenging to find out about the pregnancy at the same time they are told that the bleeding might signal a problem.

[QUOTE="harashawn"]

[QUOTE="_en1gma_"] The difference is that we have experiences and the ability to perceive the universe. It is JUST a chunk of cells and that's it._en1gma_

[QUOTE="harashawn"]

[QUOTE="_en1gma_"] The difference is that we have experiences and the ability to perceive the universe. It is JUST a chunk of cells and that's it._en1gma_

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Bleeding is not a period.

LJS9502_basic

Since you obviously misread the post you quoted, here is what I said:

It is not possible to have a period when you are pregnant.

I did not say "bleeding." I said "period."

I did. :| It says bleeding is possible, period is not. You quoted me saying that I said "bleeding" when I clearly said "period." Want a screenshot? I'll take one for you.

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

No, you can not have a period while you are pregnant. It is not possible. A missed period is one of the biggest signs of pregnancy.

Theokhoth

Obviously she mistook bleeding for a period. By definition, you can't possibly have a period while pregnant.

See a doctor. Three positive tests means she's very likely pregnant. If she is - she needs to start prenatal care. FYI some women still get their period while pregnant.Sajedene

I did. :| It says bleeding is possible, period is not. You quoted me saying that I said "bleeding" when I clearly said "period." Want a screenshot? I'll take one for you.

Theokhoth

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"] :lol: read all the comments in the 2nd article you posted. Tell my friend who had her period consistently until she realized she was pregnant 8 months later. FYI her baby is fine and healthy k thanks. I suppose you will say that morning sickness is a standard in pregnancy as well. It is not. Some women never get them... some get them all day.Sajedene

Obviously she mistook bleeding for a period. By definition, you can't possibly have a period while pregnant.

Because menstrual bleeding (the period) and the conventional use of the term "period" are the exact same thing.

I fail to see how that is a proper decision. harashawn

[QUOTE="harashawn"][QUOTE="_en1gma_"] Who are we to do such? People with experiences and the ability to rationalize and make proper decisions._en1gma_

[QUOTE="TheAbbeFaria"][QUOTE="_en1gma_"] Who are we to do such? People with experiences and the ability to rationalize and make proper decisions._en1gma_